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Anonymous 117499

i need some advice, i started dating recently (never thought it would happen) but he is very cute and shy i took the initiative many times and well… i like BDSM or any other situation where i am submissive and i can't reconcile him as a dominant.

I have no problem taking the lead, but he's the sentimental, romantic type.

=>I like the romantic, but around him I feel like a degenerate/pervert in my thoughts, I don't want him to think I'm a bitch.

I'm trying to go little by little and I know it's going to take a while, I'm not desperate

Anonymous 117519

Not sure if this is the board to make this post, but well.
As someone who has tried BDSM and as I see that you're both inexperienced, the best advice I can give you is to just start vanilla. Trying BDSM with both persons having little or no sexual experience can be pretty awkward, not to say that it can be dangerous (emotionally, physically, etc).

Start vanilla. If you want to be on the same page about what you want to try, make tests like bdsmtest.org and then start to read a lot about how to do everything in a safe way.
Also, you're submissive, so make sure that you can actually trust him and that he cares about you, because being submissive to someone you don't trust can be even more dangerous. You don't want to be tied or in any position like that with someone who doesn't care about your well being.

And being romantic and sentimental doesn't make it impossible to be a dom/domme. Gentle or affectionate domination is a thing for people who aren't into humillation or degradation, but still has a D/s dynamic

Anonymous 117523


Thank you so much, I've read about BDSM and I'm still reading, I'm inexperienced and I know I'd better start slowly.

He is someone I trust and he cares a lot about me, thanks again for your help! :)

Anonymous ## Cleanup crew 117525

Moved to >>>/nsfw/6662.

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