Rain, rain, go away. Anonymous 138542
Hi miners, a girl called Isa that I considered a close friend just unfriended me.
I know she was a miner and came here sometimes, so this is my goodbye to her.
Thank you, I appreciate the kind words..
I'll keep this thread open until it expires. A captain goes down with the ship.
No way, I also used to talk to her. Yesterday I logged in the discord account I was using back when we met and I saw she had deleted hers. She stopped replying to me before New Year's and I kept routinely checking to see if she had reached out back so it made me sad when I noticed.
Ah… I expected she had deleted it.
She wasn't responding, so I would close the conversation and open it from the friends menu every so often, so I wouldn't have to feel bad seeing it dead on the sidebar.
One day she disappeared from the friend list.
Unreal, after all this time.
If you want to talk, here's my discord.
God all of you sound so stupid and desperate. Stop being doormats and pickmes and grow a spine
No they don't, you aggressive weirdo.
I think this thread is a bit weird. Don't you this might just scare Isa off more? Keep it to yourself
We talked for almost two years. It already happened, I'm not looking for anything.
Tbh it's weirder you're getting so hung up on girls who did nothing but post a goodbye to their friend on a public forum. You're acting like theyre stalking this girl lol. I've ghosted annoying people before and if i was in her place at most id just get a bit of an ego boost from being missed, there's nothing creepy about it and she can just ignore it. Not to mention none of them asked for an explanation and considering she ghosted multiple people and deleted her discord she's probably going through something and not probably not even angry at either anon.
Of course not, why would I ever spend my time reading some retarded moid's incel and white supremacist manifestos? Even when theyre not sharing cp or zoophilic porn their "normal" convos and thoughts are still the most autistic shit you will ever read and I'd rather shit on my hands and clap than spend 30 mins browsing 4chan. You're also delusional for even comparing a forum full of women to a forum full of the most degenerate men ever.
You're making it sound like we're all well adjusted kek
In comparison to 4chan, everyone here is a model citizen to me. It's so fucking weird to pretend nerdy/shutin women are anywhere near similar to violent alt right moids addicted to kiddie porn. Women log off cc and probably idk journal or cry or watch anime, men logg off 4chan and go do shit even Jeffrey Dahmer would probably find sick.
this my bf got mad at me for liking guro but then he literally used to kill frogs with his dad. and he was a "normal" moid. total hypocrites
This. NTA but I’d honestly trust the most batshit insane shotacon gurohound woman over some average moid.
i wish i could be a friend to some of you miners, but i'm so shy that i think it'd be impossible for me to hold a conversation…>>139053
even out of those here who are not 'well adjusted', i can't remember seeing a poster on CC who seemed like she would harm anyone other than herself, while i get murderer vibes from 4chan posters all the time. the least normal women are still saner than the most normal moids…
I think anonymous forums are a good way to practice socializing if you're really shy. And it's basically practicing in hard mode because people irl are most likely not gonna be as rude as some people online can be, so if you can handle it here you can handle it irl no problem O_<b
>>139086>the least normal women are still saner than the most normal moids…
this. every moid ive dated had a daddy kink. fucking disgusting
You sound annoying
I'm already understanding Isa
If I was Isa this would just creep me out, this is an anonymous forum so I think calling out random people's names is weird
Why would she be creeped out by a random comment that's not even OP?
Not trying to be aggressive, just think she wouldn't be.
By 'this' I meant the thread overall
Oh, my bad.
Well, OP wrote 2 lines saying goodbye, nothing wrong with that.
It's the other replies which are a bit creepy.
It's way worse when someone yells at you in real life then someone on an imageboard telling you to kill yourself. There's eye contact, the fact that the person can see your reaction and you don't have the luxury of not having to respond in immediately, etc.
your post has the same vibe as that episode from daria where the teacher is angry about the divorce with her husband and daria says to her friend "huh i see why he divorced her"
you expect people to just feel okay with anything that happens? is having any kind of emotion about it "wrong" to you?
I don't like this thread because I remember when I was like this, I'd get ghosted by people I met on forums and make "muh come back ;(" or sad goodbye threads.
Grow thicker skin. Like leather.
for having empathy? you sound like you have issues tbh
These kinds of posts are cute. It shows people still see the value of friendships, and don't just huff their SOs dick or pussy.
I like that this site keeps even inactive threads up.
Makes it so I can come and see this one when I miss her.
It been a month bro, get over it.
I say this from a place of concern, caring about efriends who ghosted you for this long ALWAYS ends bad. Its not healthy and they aren't good friends if they abandoned you.
Move on. Please.
t. was once just like you
Isa made the right call running for it.
Leave OP alone, it's not her fault you're a apathetic sociopath.
You disappeared one day on discord out of nowhere…
I don't know if you saw my message there or what happened, but I'm leaving my new discord tag just in case you see this…
I guess I should mention I have news of Isa
I feel it depends how the friend leaves: not having a sense of closure is the worse.
Like I had a friend of several years calling me all sorts of names over perceived insults and whatever but a friend of a couple of months that just disappeared and her leaving really hurt.
At least let me say goodbye.
absolutely, closure is parmount
just leaving without even saying goodbye is evil
my avpd ex did this after we dated for 6 years. it's been 1.5 years. still radio silence
6 years, jesus
How did you take it when it happened?
There's a difference between ghosting a friends and cutting ties with a toxic boyfriend.
It absolutely crushed me (I'm still not completely over it and have nightmares about it). The worst part was, although I did have some very supportive friends who came out of the woodwork during that time, my family would constantly tell me to meditate and let go of anger whenever I'd be pissed about it. These are the same people who were furious when some guy stole my brother's iPhone. My ex never faced any consequences (afaik - I never heard from or about him ever since). That's the one thing left I'm having a lot of trouble getting over - someone can fuck me over that hard and face literally 0 consequences.
Aren't Japanese people notorious for having low birth rates and fucked up relationships?