if I had a partner who didn't trust me not to cheat on them (with someone living 1,000 miles away, no less) then I would honestly feel like that relationship was doomed. it's not a good sign to have so little faith in the person you're about to marry.
and aside from the reasons I've listed and >>24078
…I know I can't do long-distance relationships. his job at the time caused him to travel a lot, for weeks at a time, so I thought that dating him wouldn't work out–I would get too lonely, and I would have been tempted to find someone closer who I could see more frequently. I didn't want to ruin our friendship by dating and then breaking up, so I thought, 'it's better to just maintain a good thing than to ruin it by overreaching.'