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Anonymous 38251

What is your opinion of polyamory

Anonymous 38252

Dammit wrong board. Sorry, meant for /b/

Anonymous 38253

Not desirable for me, but I'm glad it's accepted so I can weed poly people out of my dating pool.

Anonymous 38255

I fell for the meme for a bit in my 20s but quickly realized that it's just an excuse mainly for noncommittal people or deeply insecure ones who swallowed the woke pill and feel like they have to perform it in order to open their minds and have healthy relationships. Most people can't even handle one relationship, not to mention several.

Anonymous 38256

>>38251
It's shit. Maybe once in a blue moon poli relationships can happen due to all involved parts lovig eachother. But beside that it is usually: One partner not wanting to commit fully to the relationship so s(he) make it poli to secure some sort with stability and act promiscuous with a free pass. A otherwise monogamous couple that take the woke pill or decide to invite someone into the relationship but it ends in a dumpster fire. Degenerates.People who want it poli so they can date other people but when the partner do the same they get mad.

Anonymous 38257

I assume poly amorous people have some kind of deep rooted psychological issue they're not addressing. The thought repulses me. Sex is too intimate to be shared with more than one person IMO. And with feelings, it's hard enough opening up truly and deeply to one person, let alone three. Blerughhgfghhghgh.

Anonymous 38258

>>38256
How often can you misspell "poly" when it's right in the post lmao
Other than that I agree with you. It's usually a cop-out when people either don't want to commit to each other or the relationship is broken and they don't want to break up. It's almost like a bandaid baby for some in the sense that they think bringing in a cute extra person will make them closer, but really it'll just exacerbate all their issues.

I've actually been a third and I had my own open relationship (not at the same time). Inb4 "you deserved it you foolish promiscuous cunt" but I was young and insecure and at least I know from experience what I'm talking about instead of just shitting on something I never lived through.
As a third, I had a good time being spoiled by a gorgeous couple a few years older than me who had a really great relationship, to this day they're the only poly couple I know who really made it work and is still together and super happy. But I knew that my emotional needs weren't met because they were each other's priority and I would always be secondary to that, so eventually I ended it and we stayed friends. I did witness them having more relationships and they worked out nicely mostly because those people also had other primary partners, which I didn't at the time.
I wouldn't do it again because while I was happy to be shared between two people (I went on dates with either the woman, the guy, or both at the same time, and slept over at their shared apartment a lot of times while both were there) and I didn't have a direct rival, I would be insecure if I was put in the position where a new, shiny, exciting person was brought into my relationship that I had to compete with.

I tried it, it was fun, but it's not for me in the long run. I'm happily monogamous.

Anonymous 38259

>>38258
Sorry for potato grammar. In my mother tongue Poly ends with "i" instead of "y". Thank you for pointing it out

Anonymous 38260

99% of all the poly people i've ever seen are extremely unattractive and seem to use poly relationships to make themselves feel desired. big fucking yikes.

Anonymous 38261

I don't really care. I also don't care about cuck or cuckqueen and feel like that gets way more hate than it deserves. I'm the first to kickshame all sorts of shit but those ones don't really bother me.

Anonymous 38263

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>>38259
Not being a native speaker shouldn't be an excuse

Anonymous 38268

>>38263
I agree, as a quick aside from this thread, people should still point out spelling and grammatical errors as long as it's not OTT rude or they try to use it to undermine someone's argument (it doesn't). It should be a learning opportunity so people can look it up and learn things!

Anonymous 38336

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>>38251
"Because of anxiety I need to bring my husband with me on first dates."
Holy fuck, the epitome of cuckoldry. I had a good laugh.
>s-sweetie, can you come with me to my date with my new potential boyfriend?
>of course babe, when is it?
I imagine this exchange between a married fucking couple.
I'm in tears, holy shit.

Anonymous 38357

As someone who fell for the "open relationship" meme in my youth (and found out how shit it was first hand), it's a big yikes from me chief.

The only way I could see it working would be with older, more experienced people who are extremely secure in themselves and don't give a fuck about seeming "woke" or "cucked" or whatever people think of poly relationships. 9 times out of 10 tho it's immature people who want to fuck around so it's shit and ends in either a break up or a return to monogamy.

Anonymous 38358

This jobless "pagan" housewife who apparently suffers from multiple psychological disorders is not only capable of balancing three men but is actively recruiting more on top of that.

>all the anonettes on here who claim they can't get a man

Granted, we can't see what her body looks like.

Anonymous 38386

>>38358
we can't see what her obvious hambeasts of partners look like either tbh

Anonymous 38403

>>38358
The worst thing for an ugly woman is seeing other ugly women being in normal relationships and wondering what she's doing wrong.

Anonymous 38453


Anonymous 38472

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>>38471
Patricianesque

Anonymous 38505

If pederasty worked for the ancients, I think polyamory can work in extremely rare cases.

Anonymous 38507

>>38505
If pederasty worked so well, where are the romans now, huh ? Bet you didnt see that one coming

Anonymous 38510

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>>38507
>where are the romans now, huh ?

Anonymous 38511

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>>38510
>mfw the moon hits my eye like a big pizza pie

Anonymous 38562

Spoiler

>>38511
then you know, its amore

Anonymous 39165

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>>39157
>refers to women as females

Don’t think we didn’t catch that m*le

Anonymous 39297

>>38253
This. Anyone that would even consider it is unappealing to me

Anonymous 39330

if people wanna be polyamory thats fine, however i think that alot of polyamory relationships are just people with a flawed relationship that think adding more people will make it better. other than that i can understand it though

Anonymous 39331

>>39330
also its kinda cuckish

Anonymous 39332

>>39165
imagine being this paranoid analyzing every word choice someone uses

Anonymous 39335

>>39332
Words like 'female' are pretty much a dead giveaway, people who use it like that are either men or from reddit.

Anonymous 39337

I'm seeing someone who very strongly identifies as poly, and whilst I'm fine with it while we are not officially together, I don't think I would be okay with it if we were in a relationship. He's already said that he's thinking about asking me to properly be his partner but I think I would have to say no. I don't think I'd be able to commit to caring for and loving a person long-term if I know that they are always on the lookout for other people. /blog

Anonymous 39338

>>39337
You talk like a homosexual

Anonymous 39409

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>>39338
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Slightly unrelated but can we talk about how (most) womyn who identify as pagan are similar to OPs pic? Emotionally unstable, cant hold a job, etc etc. Feel like poly is just a gift in the grab bag here.

Anonymous 39411

>>38251
>poly amours pagan

As a "pagan" (real one, not a fucking wiccain blue hair freak). I find these types totally repugnant and only practice european polytheism as a collective with other freaks in their rebellion against the 'ebil huwite male patriarchy and have no real understanding of native european religion.

They are sick, perverse freaks that fuck anything with a dick between its legs and are riddled with both spiritual and physical STDs from the amount of cock theyve fucked. Their 'goddess' religion is wholly centered on their permissiveness toward their whoredom.

Fuck wiccans, you arent real pagans youre just degenerates.

Anonymous 39414

>>39411
preach

Anonymous 39416

>>39411
Anyone who claims to have "knowledge of le old gods" is a fucking idiot. When it comes to the Germanic gods, all we have is the lore and stories, no knowledge of religious practices or ceremonies. The few things we do know are basic principles like hospitality and to respect ties of kinship. I feel the same way about "neo-pagans" as you and I do about wiccans.

Anonymous 39431

>>39411
>pagan (real one)
laughed
why on earth would one become pagan?

Anonymous 39454

>>39431
>Why would one worship their ancestral gods, their ancestral mores, their ancestral customs, instead of a jewish death cult, jewish mores, jewish customs, jewish saints?

Beats me.

Anonymous 39457

>>39454
lol'd
why would you worship something just because you were born in a specific place?
>ancestral
kek, all humans came from africa, go back there.
Or wait, I have a better idea, develop your own god/s, customs etc and pass them on whoever you can and in hundreds of years their descendants will start spouting some bullshit about "ancestry" and your religion.
It just doesn't make any sense, why would you worship at all?

Anonymous 39461

>>39457
>all humans came from africa

no they didnt

Anonymous 39463

>>39461
As far as I'm concerned that's the official story, maybe they didn't, still specific place doesn't matter regarding my argument.

Anonymous 39464

>>39411
"real" peganism is also for freaks. if you worship anything or care about your "ancestors" youre retarded

Anonymous 39465

>>39461
>Im going to deny basic facts because Im a dumb racist

Anonymous 39510

>>39509
>a telegraph article
lol

Anonymous 39562

poly people are either manipulators or dumb hippies who think they're exempt from basic human relationship dynamics simply because they declare it to be so.
furthermore, they're like communists in that they defend the failures of their system by treating the system as having positive outcomes by definition, e.g. "if the relationship was abusive and exploitative, then it can't have been a polyamorous relationship"
no true polyamory etc.

Anonymous 40112

I'm a monogamist myself and I believe polyamory is really ok. It's amazing that people talk about their feelings and nurture relationships that cater to their needs.

Anonymous 40159

>>40112
Agree.

My bf and I always liked the concept but I don't think it will ever happen in rl. I totally envy couples who got on this lvl.

Anonymous 41303

>>39465
>basic fact
>missing link still not found
>oldest cradles of civilization are the Nile, Mesopotamia and the Indus River valley
>no cradles of civilization found in sub-saharan africa where humans allegedly evolved from and thus would have spent most of there time in

Anonymous 41306

Tried it, it was awful. Third wheel to an established couple, the girl fucked me once but the guy never even bothered. I lived with them for a few months while they slowly realized they didn't want a three way, the guy just wanted a secure relationship and permission to be promiscuous. They got married before I moved out.
>>41303
Just because niggers in subsaharan Africa never built "civilization" doesn't imply there weren't humans there. Just that they weren't the first humans to build lasting civilization.

What's your opinion on all the sub-humanoids that aren't homo sapien? Homo erectus or Neanderthals never became homo sapien but they existed as well.

Anonymous Moderator 41350

Stay on topic.

Anonymous 41506

Staying single with FWBs > polyshittery

The former is socially acceptable, the latter is a living-fucking-nightmare to deal with and just not worth it. I've been invited to poly circles more than once, and while I'll gladly fuck people and still call them friends I'm a diehard romantic and I could only have 1 bf or gf at a time, staying steady to him or her. I've been right every time not to join because eventually polys have nasty uneven break-ups. Someone ALWAYS gets the short end of the stick.

Also, poly just seems like a lame way to trick beta people into becoming cucks under the impression they can also fuck around when they're not really attractive enough to do so. lol

>>38257
>>38260
These. Something about someone saying they're "poly" raises a red flag in my mind that says "this is a manipulative person" or "this person has an unhealthy level of low self-esteem".

>>38261
Cucking is a meme fetish, losers get off to it in fantasy but then IRL they either realize it's total shit or they use the idea that their situation is a "fetish" to cope when they're actually just in an abusive relationship.

Anonymous 41592

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Lol

Anonymous 41596


Anonymous 41662

>>41592
This got a sensible chuckle out of me

Anonymous 41663

>>41483
>a space by women for women where we can openly express ourselves
>oh, a woman proudly has an active, enjoyable sex life? she's a slut!

Anonymous 41668

>>41592
Damn, those evil podcasts, we should ban them.



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