I'm not diagnosed with adhd,so thismight not be the reply you're looking for. But my bf has been telling me I probably have adhd for years and never took it seriously, thinking he was just being dismissive of me.
But looking up the symptoms in women, I think I really might have it.
*cleaning is this huge daunting task, I'm super unorganized and very messy/dirty.
*Even when I'm enjoying myself, social situations with lots of people is really tiring for me.put way too much thought into looking/coming off as "normal.
*Can't hold friendships because I don't understand people.
*Seriously, my purse is full of papers, clothes/stuff is all over the place, forgotten dishes, I'm a mess.
*I forget conversations, what people said, what I said to people etc.
*my mind often wanders during conversations. (which is probably why I forget things. Dur)
…and a laundry list of other things. Basically 80% of this page: https://www.verywellmind.com/add-symptoms-in-women-20394
I also do a lot of walking like someone else mentioned earlier in the thread. I hate not doing anything/wasting my days off but I don't have a bike or S car so I'll just walk miles looking at stuff, thinking, and taking pictures.
Maybe I should talk to someone about this.