Have you ever asked a guy this? How would you react to the answer?
Nah, but I have masturbated to 73% of my male friends at least once so it would likely be mutual. Not that I'd want to pursue something with any of them ha.
I have never asked, but I have been notified of it anyway.
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I've asked a few times. The answer is always yes.
Someone told me that if you have a male friend guaranteed they've masturbated to the thought of you at least once.
I can't imagine that's true, but then I'm not attractive. I assume most men don't jerk off to the thought of women anyhow. Don't they all use porn or pictures instead?
you underestimate the male sex drive. Guys can't just wank to the same girl and fantasy over and over. They have to constantly push the boundaries. It's an evolutionary drive. So even if you look weird, it's extremely likely that a dude has jerked off to you least once.
I asked my boyfriend when we first started dating if he had. I was kinda suprised he said yes because he hadn't even saw me naked yet at that point. I kinda felt flattered in a way though.
Lol people can make good guesses about how bodies look underneath clothes, haven't you done it before?
Especially if he's into some hobby/livelihood that involves spatial awareness (engineering, visual arts, etc.).
yes but only to a boy i was interested in. He said he often used me as wank material and i was flattered that he thought i was that attractive
Would feel flattered. If i am causing a hard-on, means i am winning.
I remember once a few guy friends admitting to masturbating to most of their female friends' Facebook photos and it freaked me out so badly. Fucking gross and desperate.
I did, he said no and it turned out it's because I featured in his sex dreams as a killjoy cockblock who'd always get in the way and ruin the dreams at pivotal moments.
Finding out I was just a complete non-entity for him sexually or romantically was surface-level reassuring, but pretty hurtful too.
I did, he said yes, I felt disgusted but deep in me liked it.