I'd prefer a daughter, simply because I am a woman, so raising her would be a more familiar ground. I would, however, deny "gender" bullshit to her. I would accept my gay child, I would accept my trans child, it's not her (or his) fault for having an innate disorder, but the second she comes to me with "Mom, I am they/them/xie/xir enby agender uwu" she gets the boot and a ticket to the nearest orphange. I can only hope that this faux trans fetishism will cease to be by the time I will actually have a child.
Other than that, if she wants pink and glitter, no problem. Digs army aesthetic and camo, sure thing. Wants to mix, okay. Careers - well, given the modern climate I can only hope that my child will have any options other than McDonald's employee. Basic skills are a must, because they are basic skills. That would include not only cooking and cleaning, but also fixing and managing things. Maybe homeschooling, but that's not a given.>>68858
You can't do that. Google John Money and his experiment on Reimer brothers.