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Tips on how to be more feminine? Anonymous 15486

I feel like I'm not feminine enough. I swear I try hard AF by dressing well and wearing pretty makeup and perfume and taking care of myself but I always look like a solb :(
I also wish I were more delicate in my moves and behaviours, but it doesn't matter how hard I try, I always end up benig tomboyish

Does anyone else have this problem?
How did you solve it?
Any general tips on how to be more feminine?

Anonymous 15492

I only had that problem when I was 12/13. Cliche but you can start wearing dresses and skirts more often, I think it helps with feeling more feminine and acting more girly as a consequence.

Anonymous 15494

Always have great posture, it helps a lot I think, and I agree with the above, wearing more skirts and dresses. Also try styling your hair, but like in retro/romantic/childish styles like pigtail braids or large curls instead of modern hairstyles like a high bun or ponytail, they look more cold somehow (but that's just my opinion)

Anonymous 15608

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Don't worry anon I went through this problem while trying to change my life before going to college. In HS I was a slob and a tomboy, but decided to change that for college due to personal reasons…

One tip that would help would be to casually mimic how princesses and ladylike figures in movies & media act. Look at how they sit, stand, where they place their hands, etc. I can trust you to not go overboard with it since you would look like a fool doing it. Also imagining that you are princess or as delicate as a feather can help, which is what I do.

>sit up with your knees & thighs touching or learn the duchess slant, and keep your hands on your lap

>keep elbows off the table no matter what
>try not to lean on things so much
>cover your mouth with a napkin when you eat, cover mouth when yawning
>have good posture when standing up
>you can use a backpack for school and trips, but when going out try to stick to using purses
>lean towards more feminine styles, girly is not only feminine, try out romantic and sophisticated fashion

It may take work to do, but I believe in you anon! Also if you feel the need to lean back into your tomboy habits you can choose to do it in the privacy of your own home/room. (I do it all the time!)

Anonymous 15651

Should I cover my mouth when I laugh, or is that something that only weebs do?

Anonymous 15652

>>15651
It does look a bit weird, so better not to do that

Anonymous 15663

>>15651
>>15652
Agreed. Only weebs do it, besides laughing should be a natural reaction. You may have a nice smile while you laugh, why hide it?

Anonymous 15665

The smell of men larping as women in here is strong.

Anonymous 15668

>>15651
In the West this is more of a sign of being ashamed of your teeth, please avoid.

>>15665
Moderately. Remember to report.

Anonymous 15670

>>15651
no unless you have really ugly teeth

Anonymous 15684

>>15663
Fuck, is that seriously what people think?

>mfw when I cover up my mouth when laughing but idk where I learned it from

Anonymous 15694

>>15684
Me, too, anon… Sometimes even when I'm just nervous I'll do that.

Anonymous 15785

>>15665
men are not welcome on /feels/

Anonymous 15825

>>15486
Cut your penis off

Anonymous 15860

Look at celebrities you like and try to imitate them. Or people from real life but try to be subtle obviously.

Anonymous 15891

>>15860
I hope OP doesnt like Miley Cyrus, because if so she's fucked



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