The strength of men scares me Anonymous 31526
I am a caddy for my part time job (best job for an unskilled highschooler or university student btw). There is this cute guy there I have a crush on, but he seems quite shy and just likes to read his book while waiting for a golfer. The few times we’ve talked he seems quite pleasant.
I’ve always known men were stronger than us, but it’s another thing to see it in person. I’ve noticed that when he caddies, he carries the entire golf bag with one arm by the handle up and out to his side, kind of like the pose when flexing your bicep, and he fucking SPRINTS with it. He runs ahead on each hole to see where the ball lands, and he runs significantly faster than the golf carts.
He doesn’t even look like some sort of muscle beast from /fit/. He’s just a tall, thin, toned guy who might lift a few times a week. He could probably kill me with a single punch, and then follow up with 80 more without running out of breath. I would probably have a panic attack if we got in an argument and he got angry and started shouting. I don’t even know how you could have an equal relationship with someone when the difference in power is so immense. They say it’s borderline rape when a CEO fucks an intern due to the difference in power, but what about physical power?
I was already a little afraid of men’s predatory instincts and behavior, but to see it reinforced that whenever I’m around men I’m only alive because they permit it freaks me out. How do you cope with this?
Therapy, you're being paranoid.
>>31526>tall, thin, toned guy who might lift a few times a week
Lift more than him and get some self-defense lessons. Befriend him at the same time and ask for arm wrestling matches to test your strength.
Once you're sure you can overpower him, make him your boy toy.
1 out of every 5 women is raped. Countless others are stuck in abusive relationships or are victims of domestic violence. I do not want to be a victim.
In the past men would slap broads on tv for laughs. Many men have an intense urge to hurt and torture women, think of all the bdsm porn. This isn’t paranoia, it’s reality.
>>31529>This isn’t paranoia. Wait, no, it’s paranoia.
>>31529>1 out of every 5 women is raped
Sexual harassment is definitely an issue but this would be worse than most african countries. If you were to take into account all the ACCUSATIONS and not confirmed cases, then maybe this would be relevant. That being said, crackheads and trashy dramawhores accuse each other of shit all the time, so it's a moot point.
As far as romance goes, get a weak partner, duh.
My "crush" at the moment is shorter and weaker than me. Sauce: He couldn't open a jammed door that I opened with ease.
I'm a relatively big gal though, I imagine it would be more difficult for a 5'1" woman or something.
As for society as a whole, just take precautions and accept it. Take up a martial art if it bothers you so.
I mean, people without working legs are even more vulnerable than women and they're out there living. Think of them. Or dwarfs.
Considering that men are socialised to be afraid of touching women out of hand and even more so when it comes to hurting women, I wouldn't worry about it. In addition, they are biologically driven to be emotionally directed by women's emotional expressions (even if insincere), especially their partner and family and friends. Why do you think men side with women on everything, even if they internally disagree? Women are the centre of social consensus and norms, men know this subconsciously and act accordingly. So a man has to be mentally ill to ignore the extreme aversion that would come with a woman expressing pain or distraught emotions at his hand.>>31529
Completely delusional. I'd even go so far as to say men are abused by women more than the other way around, just that physically and emotionally they are designed, if not meant to take it (and may not even recognise it as such). Both socially and biologically. Of course any data on this is useless because no one would report it nor recognise a report as legitimate to begin with. Whereas it's currently trendy for shitty types of women to give generous self-victimising accounts of their supposed abuse for social points, often obscuring real abuse as the whole thing becomes entirely based on the social and media side than the actual issue. This is men's fate and completely fine in my opinion, but certain women blowing their side out of proportion to justify and reinforce their mental illnesses as well as incelish hatred of men, is not good for anyone but the insidious actors who control social media and the flow of these memes. For starters, it leaves you irrationally scared and hateful of half the population. Once again the internet feeds self-destructive behaviour to make you as impotent and disordered as possible.
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>>31526>shy>just likes to read his book>he carries the entire golf bag with one arm by the handle up and out to his side, kind of like the pose when flexing your bicep, and he fucking SPRINTS with it.>he runs significantly faster than the golf carts.>tall, thin, toned guy>He could probably kill me with a single punch
He sounds fucking hot
You really triggered the moids, lmaO.
1 in 5 is a meme. The number came from a college survey and was about assaults that occurred throughout all their college years, not yearly rapes, and not actual reported rape numbers. If you count the total number of reported rapes in the US in 2018, only 0.03% of the total population was raped. 101,500 rapes in a country with +167,000,000 women.
How many people do you know that have been victims of domestic violence? In my 24 years of life I've only heard about it once, and it was between a drug addict and his alcoholic gf. >In the past men would slap broads on tv for laughs
That was what, over 20, 30 years ago? Nobody does this or thinks it's funny nowadays. Irrelevant in today's society where boys are told to never hit girls and men can have their lives rightfully ruined if they ever hit a women. If anything women hitting men is actually used as comedy.
In 2018 Pornhub did a survey of the most searched terms by men. Out of 20 categories, bondage was in the very last place. Even if you check by the number of videos, bondage is at the one of the lowest points on the list. Actually something interesting that I found while looking this up was that on the survey "hentai" and "japanese" were listed at the top, but they actually have lower amounts of videos. That says a lot about what kind of men constitute the porn audience (weebs and yellow fever incels that would never interact with you irl).
Instead of thinking all men want to rape you, look up where and who commits the most crimes against women. Ask yourself, where do most domestic violence calls come from? The majority of men who commit crimes against women come from low income households, poor and high crime areas, are minorities, etc. For example, there are whole years where not a single white male/black female rape was reported, so black women should mostly worry about black men living near them. Decent men born and raised by normal people as normal men aren't going to rape you. You should be afraid if you live in a shitty city filled with crime, drug addicts, alcoholics, and minorities. You should take precautions and be safe, but not have an irrational fear where men's physical strength alone causes you to question your life.
Damn 1st world problems.
Tall, cute, muscular, athletic, shy, and reads books? OP, if you're afraid of him then I'll be happy to take him instead.
My shithole country doesn't let you carry a gun, or even a knife in self-defense. All I get is pepper spray, and I fear that a mugging or sexual assault would turn to murder as the pain makes the moid go berserk and snap my neck. Conventional wisdom says to get a big strong boyfriend to protect you, but you are more likely to get attacked by your man than some random guy. Maybe I should become a pitbull mommy or something.
Just train Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu. Women with a higher belt will routinely beat a man, even a big buff one.
I've only started training recently and it's pretty fun. It's the perfect martial art in bed as it's all about ground game, and no one gets badly hurt like in a striking art.https://www.youtube.com/watch?time_continue=44&v=CUtKJ7tBvWQ&feature=emb_title
>when she playfully plays the bongo on his ass after winning
So fucking hot. I've masturbated to this video and now routinely masturbate by imagining similar scenarios. I can't wait to get a guy in bed just to twist him into a pretzel and completely dominate him, coiling around him and leaving him no escape as I suck him dry and turn him into my own personal fucktoy.
After gaining a few belts, invite the guy on a date where you teach him some Jiu-Jitsu and spar with him. It'll be glorious when you facesit him and choke him out between your thighs. Maybe he can then teach you about lifting.
You're not getting anyone if you just keep masturbating like that. You should try training instead, and don't hold onto that fantasy so weirdly. You're just gonna creep people out.
Imagine being a prude square in this day and age.
What if he's strong enough to pick you up and not put you down?
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Depends how he grabs you, but probably some variation of an airborne triangle choke.
I'm trying to help you not be a sweaty recluse seen at porn conventions.
>>31580>if a woman has an actual libido and likes to masturbate sometimes along with a few kinks she must be a full blown degenerate coomer who religiously visits porn conventions
Don't tell me you're some sort of """traditional""" r/redpillwoman PickMe that is against sex before marriage and will inevitably deadbedroom your miserable husband due to being a frigid bitch with no sex drive.
I like the cut of your jib, anon.
If you only date men shorter than you, then you probably won't have to worry about this.>>31577
I also fantasise about grappling guys with my own two hands…
What if you meet someone who isn't into getting manhandled? It's an extremely niche fetish. What're you going to do when it comes to, and he's not into it? Just do it anyway because that's how your fantasies play out?
I don't find physical strength scary, but it disgusts me a little bit.
Sounds like by the time the poor lad is in bed with her and finds out, it will already be too late lol.
You do know the real world doesn't work like porn. Right? She'll get a lot of "based" replies to the thread with her mugshot in it. That's about it.
I can tell you from experience having eaten a lot of tear gas to the face (basically the same stuff as pepper spray) that it's not the kind of pain that makes you go berserk, but rather the kind of pain and discomfort that incapacitates you.
>>31576>maybe I should become a pitbull mommy or something
Those are 10x more likely to attack you than a male partner
The fights are separated by gender…
My reconnaissance of male forums and reddit indicates that most men enjoy a women who is eager, active in bed, and initiates often vs a starfish. Many women are submissive and want to be thrown around, slapped, and choked by big strong men in bed, but the number of natural male doms who get off on hurting women is actually pretty small. Many men play along because that’s what their girlfriend wants, but they grow tired of having to do everything in bed and having all their actions be resisted as if she doesn’t want it. A lot of them also start to look down on their girlfriends in secret.
The number of female doms is also far outnumbered by the number of males subs, so I’m sure she could find a sub but that may not be what she actually wants. Many male subs (and women subs too I suppose) have psychological issues and want a mommy girlfriend to take care of them, and tend not to be alpha and exciting out of bed. They tend to be manchildren, and taking care of them can be exhausting for the dom. I honestly think vanilla sex or occasional switch bdsm, but only in bed, is the ideal relationship. Most men probably don’t want to be literally choked out in bed, but I’m sure they’d be ecstatic if their girlfriend occasionally climbed on top and fucked him senseless. Some play wrestling in bed honestly sounds like pretty fun and sexy foreplay, whether he wins, mounts me, and gives me a good fuck from behind, or I win and get some hot forced oral. I think far more men than you think would be up for it.
>>31574>implying most rapes are reported>disregarding a college survey then using one from pornhub>claiming women hit men for comedy>claiming women should not fear men unless they're black>complaining about "1st world problems"
mods pls ban this moid
Be careful anon, I wouldn't use males on reddit and and forums as a good representation of the male population as a whole
>>31577>Women with a higher belt will routinely beat a man, even a big buff one.
Correction: they will beat them by BJJ rules, not by real world rules (aka no rules).
i mean the SCCAL championship, the south california coast atletic federation hampionship, not the state championship
some girl win state championships tho
wait that's not even a state championship, that's just pro wrestling
That's also what guys in the comment section of this video say.
Plus, it proves that OP isn't paranoid at all. A lot of men secretly look down on women for being weak and physically inferior to them. Nobody respects weak humans. It's just like school bullying: The weak get hurt and picked on because it's easy to do so.
technically, yes tehre's a lot of things you can do outside of the bjj ruleset that could give you an advantage over someone who weight less than you
but the hard truth is that if you're not a grappler yourself, you don't know how to use those advantages or even that those advantages exist, a woman with a higher belt will beat a guy and also a guy in the street who doesn't know how to grapple
Why are moids so obsessed with being physically superior to women and making sure everyone knows they're better at sports? It's pathetic
>>31623>implying most rapes are reported
Not the point. I'm talking about OP misinterpreting the 1 in 5 meme. >disregarding a college survey then using one from pornhub
That's why I checked the actual number of available videos. It matches with the survey results so no problem there. >claiming women hit men for comedy
Literally a staple of Japanese comedy. But what I meant to say is that you can use women gently hurting men to be funny, but you can't do that with men. >claiming women should not fear men unless they're black
Missing the point. The point was that your fears should be based on the dangers in your environment. >complaining about "1st world problems"
Well yes, that's what it is. I wish worrying about the strength of a cute boy was the worst part of my day. If you want proof that I'm a girl, ask for whatever you want.
Plot twist: OP takes place in the American Northeast and this tall shyboi will only see a woman romantically if she could physically overwhelm him
Men are scary anon, I agree. Scary ≠ evil though, in fact I would say most of them are good people fundamentally, if you ignore their foibles. Anyway, I look at it like this - I need to find a big strong man who I know is good and I can trust, so I can turn that fear and anxiety into a sense of safety and protection. I am intimidated by men, but I also want one, you know?
>I’m alive because they permit it
That’s life. Anytime you’re walking on the sidewalk, any car could run you over. Whenever you’re buying/being given food, it could be poisoned. Any person you let approach, could stab you. And yet we do all these things because life is easier if we trust people to a reasonable extent.
it's called trust lol
>>31529>1 out of every 5 women is raped
I cannot believe people still believe this. I blame cuckboy "feminists" for spreading this around in a desperate attempt to get pussy and glorified whore Stacies for screaming rape whenever they get caught by Chad with Brad. Non-monogamy was a mistake.
I searched it and the figure got popular after Obama used it in a speech.>a ProQuest search of newspaper and magazine articles in English whose titles included the terms campus, college, or universit and the term rape, raping, sexually assault, sexual assault, sex assault*, or sexual violence revealed 3,630 articles in 2014–2015 compared with only 638 in 2012–2013. Of these popular press articles in 2014–2015, the phrase “1in5” or “one in five” appeared in 709 of them.
My bf accidentally hit me 'lightly' once because he spun around too fast and it left me dazed for two days and bruised for nearly a week. It's scary if he hits me fore sure yeah, but he cried about it for like three hours and that kinda put me off of him and not really ever worry about that possibility again. :\
Yeah in both cases the men aren't even trying they're basically just standing there. The 1st was trying to disengage as she was attacking him, the 2nd didn't try to do anything not even hold her to stop the takedown. If the 1st just stood in a stable stance she wouldn't be able to take him down despite having all that fat and good technique, because she wouldn't be able to pull him into the throw to get the needed force to make him go down.
And this is just onesided playfighting really. Even a weak enraged man is very dangerous and unbeatable largely due to ferocity alone. They're designed to turn into killing machines when faced with serious adversary, much like fighting dogs. These videos just mean the men didn't consider the women to be real threats or retrained themselves for social reasons (they'd probably get beaten up by other men if they seriously defended themselves).
>>31714>They're designed to turn into killing machines
Yeah, which is why men are horrible and should die out.
All they want to do is rape and murder women, children, and each other.
>>31718[King Crimson starts playing]
you're right the human race should just end all together
Hell yeah, you know what's up.
I don't think men should die out but women should be less trusting of and stay away from them. Without exceptions.
It just doesn't make any sense to trust someone who's not only physically stronger than you and could beat you to a pulp if he wanted to but also doesn't have an ounce of respect for you due to your lack of physical strength. (Yes, even your wonderful husbands and loving boyfriends consider you less as them unless they're in the initial state of being pussywhipped.)
said, the men who were being attacked by the women in the videos didn't even respect them enough to fight with their full strength. That's the sole reason the women "won", it wasn't even a fair win. Men don't and will never consider us their equals due to our different natures. Trusting and giving your love to someone like that is pure foolishness.
What terrible paranoia. Millions of women live happy peaceful lives with their husbands, brothers, and fathers. Being assaulted isn't the norm. I don't know what you experienced that made you think like this, but it clearly left a mark on you and you should seek professional help.
True, I think men place too much importance on physical strength in others as well as lose theory of mind the less a living being has in common with them. Hence men generally are loud bullies of manlets/weak men (since it's socially acceptable, those who reject social norms openly hate women as well) and abuse animals at a far higher rate than women. Along with the testosterone aggression, of course. They respect men who look like them the most, but even then the test makes them fight each other.
Men also, generally, don't keep pets for company. Men prefer dogs since it's a "useful" animal but very few will enjoy animals like cats just to cuddle and spend time with.
Not that "pure" animal love is indicative of a man who will care for and respect human beings. Ian Brady allegedly loved animals. It's just a trend I've noticed.
Men simply have piss poor empathy lmao. I almost feel bad for them…you know, because I'm a woman.>>31727
Sure, it is possible to live in peace with them but they can never love us like we love them. It's sad to think about.
And they are a very real threat, just as living with a Pit Bull is.
Men frustrate me so much. It comes out as hate at times, but it's not exactly. Fear and frustration since we both have our weaknesses and strengths but they don't want us to think we have any, or our strengths are inherently "lesser."
>>31726>unless they're in the initial state of being pussywhipped
You're twofaced. Seriously. Go see a shrink. You're having some kind of schism.
This isn't just about being assaulted. Of course it's not the norm. It's more about the fact that men can't respect people who are inferior to them in certain ways (which also includes other men, by the way). Since women are generally physically weaker than them, they will never be able to take us seriously and see us as being on the same level as them, so how can you trust someone who thinks you're beneath him?
If you don't believe personal anecdotes, you can find millions of men on the internet whose opinions led me to this belief.
I've never experienced male violence against myself. Don't make baseless assumptions.
You trust them just like millions of other women around the world do. You tell people not to make assumptions yet you make your own assumptions about all men. I'm sorry that you're clearly in denial about whatever issue you have, hopefully you accept it one day and seek help. I'm done having irrational conversations with you, good luck in life.
>>31734>make your own assumptions about all men
Based on evidence. There are thousands of videos, blogs and whathaveyou out there where you can easily see that men have no respect but only disdain for us. Look up "Woman: The Most Responsible Teenager In The House" and go from there or start with videos like this one. Skip to the comments and tell me what you see.
>I'm done having irrational conversations with you
It's not irrational if proof exists. You're only "done" with this because you can't argue against my point.
The funny thing is that you have all this hatred in your mind, but probably castrate yourself over racism. Go figure.
>>31735>These couple of comments on the internet are proof that all 3,500,000,000(give or take) men on earth are this exact way
Did you reply to the wrong post?
>>31629>and also a guy in the street who doesn't know how to grapple
Yes, as long as she attacks first and manages to take him to the ground at once.
Otherwise it's punches in the face for her.
>>31726>If they beat the crap out of them they're violent savages>If they don't they're assholes with no respect for the weaker (?)
You know that "damned if you do, damned if you don't" logic is typical of manipulative people, right?
Don't worry. I've already called the men in white on her. To the funny farm!
I don't see any hatred. More like distrust and pessimism.
It sounds like the female version of a man from the MGTOW movement or TheRedPill community.
>>31729>Sure, it is possible to live in peace with them but they can never love us like we love them
Those self-indulgent mommy-issue-having fucks feel the same way about us. They feel entitled to have a gf, yet don't have one because they're shitty people, and so they feel anger or self-pity of not having what they feel entitled to. This is only magnified in the white knights who see themselves as "not like the other bois :^)", because they don't understand that being nice to a girl does not equal free coochie.
oh wow look a man-hating virgin, yikes
those are girls wining tournaments, that means guys who aren¿t holding back, guys who can beat average joes in seconds, are getting beat by women>>31751
i'll give you another example: https://www.bjjee.com/articles/teen-girl-uses-bjj-submit-male-amateur-mma-22-seconds/
take a look at this, the guy who's from a kickboxing gym in mexico throw a jab at the girl who just dodge it and submit the guy, again thi is a guy who punch faster than 90% of the population and the girl just duck and ends the fight in 20 seconds, there's no male magic power, if a guy don't know how to fight he will lose against a trained woman
t. LARPing male weakling searching for validation here
you are probably below 5'8 too lol
Male weaklings get bullied by strong males, too. I would have sympathy for them if they didn't bully even weaker beings like babies or children.
Why can't manlets just accept being small and cute? The world would be so much better.
Ever wondered why weight classes exist or how many rules apply outside of professional sports and training grounds? While training for self-defence is actually a great idea and BJJ is a great idea as well, do not get all hyped and overconfident and if you see a very big scary guy coming for you, run immediately. Fight should be the last resort and at any rate objects work better than bare hands against someone who is way larger.
I have seen many such cases happen, just a couple weeks ago some young cocky dude who boasted having trained in muay thai for 9+ years (and later his friends confirmed it was true and he was also quite good at it) got into a brawl with a bigger fat dude who is a tube of lard that does nothing but smoke joints all day. Fat dude knocked him out so hard one of the muay thai dude's teeth was left imbedded in his hand.
Moral, do not be cocky and do not overestimate your capabilities even against someone of equal size.
Running>weapons>fighting training>being helpless
The strength of strong women scares them.
You can not interview every one of these 3.5 billion, but you CAN look at samples, which basically confirm what she said
You are citing half a dozen examples and we are like 7 billion on this planet, do you know based on that logic I could also cite a few fitfat people running faster than many skinnies and use that flimsy evidence to make my case? All of that is basically anecdotal evidence, not a guarantee. It's really good that you wanna push anons to pursue self-defence classes and martial arts and try to motivate them, but PLEASE do not dupe them into thinking they can take on a larger person even with that baggage of experience behind them. There is a biological difference in muscle composition, tendons and levers in males and females already, moreso with hormones, cultural-induced aggression and general tendency to violence kicking in, moreso with size difference which alone tends to HUGE already. Please do not dupe people into thinking that because they have taken a few classes they are now Trinity from Matrix.
It's also implied in the original post ('start with videos like this one') that it's just ONE of many other videos with such comments.
Wow this post is so original
Most posters here are incel men, followed by incel women, then real men and women
>>31828>Most posters here are incel men
I doubt it.
The similarity between this thread and threads on male-dominated imageboards shows that loser men and loser women are not that different from each other. Just because you see something in other places first, it doesn't mean seeing it here means this is just some imitation.
Fite me irl about it.
What about "pornsick," "cumbrain," and "troon?"
I heard the first two often, especially from radfems, before coomer became a big thing.
Would you count ED terms (like ana-chan)? I see them used less here, but on lc they're used quite often from migrants from my proana and such communities. As well as /cgl/ memes ig although I'm less familiar with those since I was too ugly to wear J-fashion in its heyday.
Perhaps women are just less likely to make memes for mass communication. Distinctly feminine (and less mainstream) subcultures certainly exist, like feminism, lolita, and doll collecting, yet I can't seem to think of many memes. Just those shitting on trans people and about eating disorders. Coping memes, I guess?
This could probably either read as "women aren't funny" or "women don't need constant humour to feel socially fulfilled."
well im not doing any of that really, i'm just showing that a person with better technique male or female will won a fight against a less technical opponent, tendons, muscle and bones can be overcome (pretty easily) when the person with said advantage doesn't know how to capitalize it
>>31840>won a fight against a less technical opponent
As long as the opponent does not have over 20kg or 20cm over you, then you should just make a run for it, call for help or use objects. Because IRL in 99% of cases you are fukk'd. Picture shitty MMA fighter Struve against technically excellent fighter Demetrious Johnson, being far better pound for pound does not help here either
Again, it is a good idea, but should be kept as a last resource for your safety and you should not be overconfident or over-relying on it, for all anons
i get what you're saying and i agree with you,it's not just some casual training that will give you the upper hand against guys, you have to train really hard, probably every day, i agree with you on that but i think we're moving away from the main point a little, my examples goes to show that a woman with training can defeat easely a guy with no training
yes a better technique can overcome help you overcome some handicaps
yes if the guy is way bigger and stronger AND has enough knowdledge of the techniques to know how to capitalise those factors then it's pretty hard to win
but the original discussison>>31714 >>31751
was that a man with no martial arts background can beat a wrestling champion just with pushing her or throwing a punch
my point is that will not happen, if you rigorously train martial arts you'll have the upper hand against most men, because they don't know shit about how to fight, they don't know how to throw a punch, how to avoid a takedown, how to take advantage of their weight and muscular strenght
f you find a huge, heavy,strong and tall guy who was some martial arts background, yeah you're fuck, but most guys are fuck too, everyone except a pro is fucked at that point
If the boys didnt have that strength humanity would die off in its early stages.
If men equalled women in strength they would have extremely harder time protecting their tribes from the wild, hunt animals and build shelters later on.
This strength is used to protect, not to attack your own species. Men who physically abuse women are looked down upon even by other men.
Op is being paranoid
What about women who side with the abuser?
What about women being abusers?
We can keep asking questions irrelevant to the thread
I honestly understand this feel.
I'm a lifelong "big girl" so I always thought that any unarmed person couldn't seriously hurt me due to my weight alone (a small comfort that fatties on here may relate to). However, I ended up hooking up with a skinny (played sports for fun but had sort of a skinny fat pear-shaped body with small man boobs) university student and we were play fighting one day and he pinned me and I actually couldn't get away. I had maybe 20kilos on this kid and he could seriously hurt me if he actually wanted to with zero fight experience on his part.
While I'm not one of those dumb fucks who honestly think this dude as is could beat a trained female fighter at peak physical condition, it is scary as someone who always thought that lardassery could protect me from an average young and healthy man. It's humbling and encouraged me to start lifting.
He had technique over you. Use your weight to your advantage to avoid getting pinned in the first place.
No, he had muscle mass over her, which along with leverage is the deciding factor.
Testosterone lets boys have retain muscle mass at a higher rate then women can, so Even if you set a man and a woman who are the same weight next to one another, the boy will likely have more musculature than the girl.
She said she was a fatty and her bf was a skinny guy, with proper stance and law of physics on her side she should stand a chance. This is just my observation in retrospect, and what I'm trying to say is her loss wasn't due to the fact it was male vs female but instead skill difference.