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Friendmaking thread Anonymous 31657

Currently have no friends and have been experiencing panic attacks all day. What are you guys up to and how are you coping with life?
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Anonymous 31661

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I've currently been trying to make friends with someone online and we've been speaking a few days. But I find it so difficult to make friends when I'm the instigator. All the other friends I've had have been people that spoke to me first and made the effort because I've always found it so difficult to talk to people naturally and approach them first after years of bullying and rejection throughout school. I'm also on the AS too so it's probably my aspergers also.
It gets to the point where if they don't message me for hours I get sick to my stomach and feel like they hate me and I've been bothering them too much. It sometimes borders on panic attack like symptoms. Even though I know I'm being irrational probably and they're just busy. God I feel so pathetic being like this but my fears of abandonment are strong.

Anonymous 31662

>>31661
I know the feeling anon I have horrible abandonment issues too. Hope you find the friend youre looking for though

Anonymous 31663

>>31661
Same. Honestly, there's nothing wrong with people like you. It's just that everyone gets instantly satisfied from the media, so why care about people? People are a lot less talkative nowadays.

Anonymous 31674

>>31657
get dabbed on LMAO!!

Anonymous 31675

>>31662
>>31663
Thanks, I have been messaging them and its going okay, but I never really know if i'm over messaging them, we tend to talk most days but it takes each of us like a few hours to respond to the other. I feel like if we stop messaging the contact will die off because I'm scared of bothering them again.

Anonymous 31676

I've been dealing with bad social anxiety recently. Makes me feel so horrible because it's really irrational yet I can't control it, and then I spend the whole day thinking about how I messed up.. Impossible to make friends this way :(

Anonymous 31677

>>31675
Yeah. Like I said it's normal to feel like this. Everyone else is pretty desensitised to social contact, so they expect everyone to be isolated from each other. You're just "green" to it. Chances are they really are gonna ghost you, but it's still good to remain faithful.

Anonymous 31704

Everyone gets sick/annoyed of me really fast and then just stops talking to me. :(



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