You are not a terrible friend for feelings, you can't control feelings.
You can contain emotions.
The only immoral thing is acting on it, sensible ethics imho but everyone has to decide for themselves.
Being able to sleep at night is fine tho.>>42974
You need to stop that shit.
The worst thing we do to each other is give each other shit dating advice, tear each other down over it and steer each other to failure.
And most of us can't even own up to it.
Not saying you aren't right, hell if I know.
You need to realize how fucking massive this problem is and how rarely there will be support and with what ease they'd pick ten times worse moids.
Relationships also grow organically and most people will not survive threesomes, it'll be a cathartic experience confronting them with a lot of issues that shouldn't come up in such a vulnerable situation.
More people than not are timid and shy, opt out of all dating because it's just too much, only crazy people dating who can't give a fuck about who they hurt.
Anyone who is a skilled dater is a horrible person in almost any case.
They might seem nice, they can be the best friends you ever meet.
They will not be able to lead long lasting relationships that work on cooperation.
These people cause a lot of collateral damage.
Let your friends have their shitty relationships with who they chose and try not to meddle if possible.