How do I cope knowing most men are incapable of love without sex?
all creatures desire sex in some way, to say that animals cant love without sex is partially correct. All animals express their own version of love through sex, humans are no different.
Why do you have a problem with it? Are you asexual?
Would you want a romantic relationship whithout sex? I mean it's a pretty defining thing in how a relationship is labeled. The difference between friend and friend with benefits or a marker for how far you are in a romantic relationship. If someone told me he loves me but wouldn't want sex with me, without explanation, I would assume that there is something wrong.
You can't separate romantic love and sex, they're two ingredients of the same recipe.
Is your problem with sex? Or is it that men don't wait to get to know you before wanting sex? Some even expecting it right away.
You mean the importance that they place on it? eg. will leave if it stops happening due to sickness, partner gets "unattractive," etc.
If so, I have no advice. If you're bisexual in any way, date women.
It’s time to give up on men, and learn to love yourself and God.
By giving up all desire of romantic love
Source of this pic? I think it looks neat.
I'd like to know too. I don't want to have sex with a man but I want to be in love. Sex disgusts me and it seems that all relationships require sex and if that's the case then I'd rather die.
Men have needs, that’s just the simple fact of the matter. They think love is shown through sex, so if you don’t have sex with them you don’t love them. There is no way to convince them that this is not the case. Believe me, I’ve tried.
Romantic love can exist without sex.
I really don’t get how you could differentiate between your best friends and your lovers without sex. Maybe if you were planning on adopting some kids??
The feelings of love and friendship are way different. Plus, there are other forms of intimacy besides sex. There’s kissing, cuddling, carressing, spooning, etc. I don’t tell my friends that I’m in love with them either. There are plenty of older couples who no longer have sex or have significantly reduced the amount they have, and that doesn’t mean they stopped loving each other. The loving, trusting, and devoted bond is still there.
It's less common today but I think there are "passionate friendships" had by people where they do engage in a lot more intimacy between same sex friends, without them necessarily having same sex sexual desire or still desiring sex from the opposite sex. It seems more cultural or individual how people define these things.
This. I had a bf who thought I didn't want to have sex with him because I was disgusted by him.
Guess, I'll start dating girls then. Men are a lost cause.
Just stay single and have friends, its ultimately the better choice.
Yeah maybe I should start there. I don't have any friends that I go out with or talk about interests with so maybe making some would help me feel less useless.
I have a crush on a guy in my yoga class, but I also have never had sex. I just want to hug him for the next thirty years, is that too much to ask for? I just want an asexual romatnic bf? Is that too much to ask for?
>>44799>can't be moody or dissociative without troons coming up
Loving or accepting yourself is anti-christian
Depersonalization syndrome is completely separate from being a tranny and is a well-documented phenomena.
Yes, those men are almost non existent and they may not even like you. Accept being by yourself, settle for a normal sexual relationship or get into some asexual comunity online. Everything else is imposible
Become a nun and devote yourself to Catholic mysticism?
Or perhaps date someone who no longer has a dick, but is also not a tranny?
Just FYI, don't listen to the lesbo groomers if you do not have an honest attraction to women; they keep posting the same shit everywhere and remind of how tranners convince tomboys and fujoshi online into "transitioning.">>44799
It surely looks like one IMO.
You could always be right…
The desire for sex is just natural. If you absolutely have no desire for it, you need to talk about it with your partner and compromise.
By opting for open relationships. If sex doesn't matter if it's him doing it with you why does it matter if it's him doing it with someone else?
No it isn't you illiterate dummies.
But the idea is surely anti-Jewish, and most likely anti-Islamic, as this idea of loving oneself is exclusively Christian.
This idea also implies that your ego shouldn't be super high, and you must still be humble about such self-love and self-acceptance and never forget that God made you perfect and related Christian ideas.
Oh and FYI I'm not that Anon, and I know all of this because I am a religious studies
If we go how will we be able to set you up with a gentle & dutiful church-going man of God? We've got all types of good boys…
Sex is part of romance, and it's how a lot of men feel close to women. Sex is more than just fucking it's being naked and vulnerable with someone. It matters to a lot of people, even more so to men. Men love each other without sex, and their mothers, so it's not impossible but probably unreasonable to demand from them.