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Anonymous 44662

How do I cope knowing most men are incapable of love without sex?

Anonymous 44663

>>44662
all creatures desire sex in some way, to say that animals cant love without sex is partially correct. All animals express their own version of love through sex, humans are no different.

Anonymous 44671

>>44662
Why do you have a problem with it? Are you asexual?

Anonymous 44673

>>44662
Would you want a romantic relationship whithout sex? I mean it's a pretty defining thing in how a relationship is labeled. The difference between friend and friend with benefits or a marker for how far you are in a romantic relationship. If someone told me he loves me but wouldn't want sex with me, without explanation, I would assume that there is something wrong.

Anonymous 44675

>>44662
You can't separate romantic love and sex, they're two ingredients of the same recipe.

Anonymous 44676

>>44662
Is your problem with sex? Or is it that men don't wait to get to know you before wanting sex? Some even expecting it right away.

Anonymous 44679

>>44671
leave moid

Anonymous 44680

You mean the importance that they place on it? eg. will leave if it stops happening due to sickness, partner gets "unattractive," etc.
If so, I have no advice. If you're bisexual in any way, date women.

Anonymous 44699

It’s time to give up on men, and learn to love yourself and God.

Anonymous 44705

By giving up all desire of romantic love

Anonymous 44707

>>44662
Source of this pic? I think it looks neat.

Anonymous 44713

>>44699
gross

Anonymous 44714

>>44662
I'd like to know too. I don't want to have sex with a man but I want to be in love. Sex disgusts me and it seems that all relationships require sex and if that's the case then I'd rather die.

Anonymous 44716

>>44714
Men have needs, that’s just the simple fact of the matter. They think love is shown through sex, so if you don’t have sex with them you don’t love them. There is no way to convince them that this is not the case. Believe me, I’ve tried.

Anonymous 44720

>>44675
Romantic love can exist without sex.

Anonymous 44722

>>44720

I really don’t get how you could differentiate between your best friends and your lovers without sex. Maybe if you were planning on adopting some kids??

Anonymous 44723

>>44722
The feelings of love and friendship are way different. Plus, there are other forms of intimacy besides sex. There’s kissing, cuddling, carressing, spooning, etc. I don’t tell my friends that I’m in love with them either. There are plenty of older couples who no longer have sex or have significantly reduced the amount they have, and that doesn’t mean they stopped loving each other. The loving, trusting, and devoted bond is still there.

Anonymous 44725

>>44723
It's less common today but I think there are "passionate friendships" had by people where they do engage in a lot more intimacy between same sex friends, without them necessarily having same sex sexual desire or still desiring sex from the opposite sex. It seems more cultural or individual how people define these things.

Anonymous 44751

>>44716
This. I had a bf who thought I didn't want to have sex with him because I was disgusted by him.

Anonymous 44793

>>44716
Guess, I'll start dating girls then. Men are a lost cause.

Anonymous 44794

>>44793
Just stay single and have friends, its ultimately the better choice.

Anonymous 44799

>>44662
stupid tranny image OP

Anonymous 44800

>>44794
Yeah maybe I should start there. I don't have any friends that I go out with or talk about interests with so maybe making some would help me feel less useless.

Anonymous 44807

I have a crush on a guy in my yoga class, but I also have never had sex. I just want to hug him for the next thirty years, is that too much to ask for? I just want an asexual romatnic bf? Is that too much to ask for?

Anonymous 44808

>>44799
>can't be moody or dissociative without troons coming up

Anonymous 44820

>>44699
Loving or accepting yourself is anti-christian

Anonymous 44822

>>44799
Depersonalization syndrome is completely separate from being a tranny and is a well-documented phenomena.

Anonymous 44828

>>44807
Yes, those men are almost non existent and they may not even like you. Accept being by yourself, settle for a normal sexual relationship or get into some asexual comunity online. Everything else is imposible

Anonymous 44890

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>>44662
Become a nun and devote yourself to Catholic mysticism?
Or perhaps date someone who no longer has a dick, but is also not a tranny?

Just FYI, don't listen to the lesbo groomers if you do not have an honest attraction to women; they keep posting the same shit everywhere and remind of how tranners convince tomboys and fujoshi online into "transitioning."
>>44799
It surely looks like one IMO.
You could always be right…

Anonymous 45200

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>>44662
if you figure it out, let me know

Anonymous 45217

>>44662
The desire for sex is just natural. If you absolutely have no desire for it, you need to talk about it with your partner and compromise.

Anonymous 45220

>>44662
By opting for open relationships. If sex doesn't matter if it's him doing it with you why does it matter if it's him doing it with someone else?

Anonymous 45250

>>44820
so fucking redpilled

Anonymous 45251

>>44662
Do you not want sex?

Anonymous 45276

__jesus_and_jesus_…

>>45250
>>44820
No it isn't you illiterate dummies.
But the idea is surely anti-Jewish, and most likely anti-Islamic, as this idea of loving oneself is exclusively Christian.
This idea also implies that your ego shouldn't be super high, and you must still be humble about such self-love and self-acceptance and never forget that God made you perfect and related Christian ideas.

Anonymous 45278

__hijiri_byakuren_…

>>45276
Oh and FYI I'm not that Anon, and I know all of this because I am a religious studies major.

Anonymous 45328

>>45276
>>45278
death cultist pls go

Anonymous 45416

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>>45328
If we go how will we be able to set you up with a gentle & dutiful church-going man of God? We've got all types of good boys…

Anonymous 45469

>>44662
Sex is part of romance, and it's how a lot of men feel close to women. Sex is more than just fucking it's being naked and vulnerable with someone. It matters to a lot of people, even more so to men. Men love each other without sex, and their mothers, so it's not impossible but probably unreasonable to demand from them.



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