Hi, I just wanted to say I completely relate to you. I'm bisexual but I'm much more attracted to women as opposed to men. The thing is, I've only dated men and even that's been frustrating because they never want sex as much as I do no matter how attractive they claim I am (and no matter how much attention I get from strangers for my appearance, etc.) and I have often felt like if even my boyfriends don't want me sexually as much as I want them, how will I go with a woman when usually, it seems women don't want sex as much as men? I know it's terrible to stereotype, but I feel so alone in that I would love to have sex a lot with a woman, but most women don't seem as interested in the sexual aspect of a relationship beyond the new relationship energy phase (1-2 years before the sexual passion tends to die down, for others).
I, too, sexualize women (not on purpose) all the time in public and such and I feel guilt about it. They wouldn't even want that from me.