>>60464>generally I never develop a crush on anyone just from appearance alone
generally most people don't but there's always those few who manage to somehow sink their proverbial claws into you. Of course, what makes it even trickier is that we often mistake love for a love dynamic we experienced during childhood. We tend to mistake learned behaviour as love. Some people are simply such an exact childhood replica that they trigger something irrational in yourself. >I’m more into slow burn type shit, so basically it takes me months to develop a crush on someone
but are you necessarily intensely engaging with the person during that time? >and also months to get over it too.>months
as if that's somehow an achievement. To some people it takes years, and many of them. 'Slow burner', kek.