[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]

/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Talk about relationships of all kinds, ask for advice, or just vent
Name
Email
Message

*Text* => Text

**Text** => Text

***Text*** => Text

[spoiler]Text[/spoiler] => Text

Verification
Image
Direct Link
Options NSFW image
Sage (thread won't be bumped)

Use REPORTS. Posting 'Mods pls' achieves nothing.
Check the Catalog before making a new thread.
Do not respond to maleposters. See Rule 7.
Please read the rules! Last update: 04/27/2021

jT61AVC.png

Misunderstood Him Asking Me Out Anonymous 52542

There is this guy I've been talking to casually at work (very recent) and out of the blue, he asked me if I wanted to hang out with him. I dodged the question. We chatted for a while and I forgot to reply to him and apparently he was waiting for me and he's like so how are you going to make it up to me? He would also constantly reply to every single status of mine.

I felt like he was being flirtaous and I thought he was asking me out for a date or something earlier and I said "I barely know you. It's too fast. Maybe somewhen in the future?". He then was visibly confused and asked me back "wtf, what? You must be mistaken. I didn't mean it in that way,".

It's something small but I feel really embarrassed. It kinda reinforce the idea that no one really wants me as I do have a history of toxic dating and very few confessions from guys.

Any advice or words of comfort would be appreciated.

Anonymous 52543

he prob just got embarrassed that you rejected him and tried to spin it to make you look bad lol

Anonymous 52545

>>52543
Some people just wanna make friends with co-workers. If he said he didn’t mean it that way he probably didn’t. Cause she gave an open ended response of “maybe in the future.” I think if he actually was asking for a date he would take this as a positive sign rather than backtracking.

Anonymous 52844

>>52542
>get showered with attention by a guy irl and on social media
>OUT OF THE BLUE he asks to spend time with you outside the work place
somewhat funny but it gets better.

>I felt like he was being flirtaous and I thought he was asking me out for a date or something earlier and I said "I barely know you. It's too fast. Maybe somewhen in the future?"

you…
wanted to get to know him better before you agree to get to know him better? just say no.

>>52545
>I think if he actually was asking for a date he would take this as a positive sign rather than backtracking.
no guarantees but yeah, if you tell him "maybe later" that means "try again". you don't get rid of guys by telling them to keep trying.



[Return] [Catalog]
[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]