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Anonymous 53605

>bf left me because I wont lose weight
Im 150 pounds

He's dating an asian now

Anonymous 53606

And how tall are you?

Anonymous 53607

Anonymous 53608

you are fat omg

Anonymous 53609

Sounds bait-y but if not…why on earth would he date you in the first place if he found you fat? The absolute state of some people.
Perhaps you are not taking perfect care of your health, but he's dumb and will date people he hates as he is unable to be alone. Being unable to be single is weak as fuck.

Anonymous 53610

I recently gained more weight during the lockdown

Anonymous 53611

>thinks 150 is light
>dates an asian
Chances are high he's a closet pedo

Anonymous 53612

Don't be racist. I like asian boys too because they look younger and smarter. And yes I mean almost exclusively koreans or japanese.

Anonymous 53613

Still kind of weak since you didn't become obese, just slightly overweight. And anyone leaving someone they should love over something superficial like this is bizarre. Must suck to have a narrow range of what turns you on and not be aroused by love alone.

Anonymous 53614

lose weight fatty it ain't that hard beggars can't be choosers

Anonymous 53615

imagine altering your body and diet for some scrote
fuck that

Anonymous 53616

Imagine thinking you deserve anything or anybody if you can't even take care of yourself at a basic level

Anonymous 53617

afaik, that's called being a moid

Anonymous 53618

Well that’s life. I’m not trying to be an ass or anything but fatties are not the most attractive people for both sexes, so you should better start losing weight now. I’m naturally thin so I never needed to, but there are some exercises you can do at home. How efficient they are, I can’t say for the aforementioned reason but it shouldn’t hurt to try. Also, try to ignore the bucket crabs ITT trying to make you think the state you’re in is perfectly fine. Think of it as keeping yourself healthy, if you will.

Anonymous 53619

>dating an asian
unless he is asian too you dodged a bullet. all guys with yellow fever are ugly manchildren, it is the law.

Anonymous 53620

It's not a sin to speak frankly, or even to be rude

Anonymous 53621

Lose some weight you fat fuck.

Anonymous 53622

Why do you feel bad because he's a dumb weirdo? Was he otherwise so great you were going to be with him forever? I find that highly unlikely.

Anonymous 53623


I don't get this post. Is it a parody of something?
First of all, 150 pounds on 5'4 doesn't sound fat to me. Pic-related (right side) is about the same height and weight as OP and looks good. How is this considered fat? Secondly, what's with mentioning that his new gf is Asian? Stereotyping much? They're not the only people on earth who can be thin and they have fat people too. Yes, as fat as the girl in this pic before she lost weight.

Anonymous 53624

>150 pounds on 5'4 doesn't sound fat to me

American detected.

Anonymous 53625

mfw literally can't tell the difference between these two images

Anonymous 53626

Are you even looking at her arms, her face, or how the dress fits? It's very easy to see the difference.

Anonymous 53627

Her bag was really heavy.

Anonymous 53628


Cunt detected. Just face it, not all women are going to want to be pro-ana thots that live off of nothing but air and sunlight. Some of us enjoy EATING AND LIVING and that's fucking okay. I swear. It's so toxic seeing how people on here idealize anorexia like it's the cure to all body image suffering.
Newsflash: It's not.
If you become an ED thot and starve yourself to double digits, here's what will happen:
Your organs are going to fail you. Your hormones will be out of balance. Your testosterone levels will rise and you'll lose hair on top of your head, meanwhile hair will start to grow in all the delightfully wrong places like your upper lip, chin, and arms.
You'll have heart palpitations, yellowed skin from jaundice, and you'll feel like your heart is going to give out if you simply get up and walk 5 steps.
There is nothing alluring about being an anorexic stick girl, and everyone that deludes you into believing it's anything idyllic and worth dreaming about can go walk 5 steps off a cliff.

Anonymous 53629

images - 2019-05-0…

>Pic-related (right side) is about the same height and weight as OP and looks good
>looks good

Anonymous 53630


That is definitely fat. That image depicts the same woman, overweight both times, but closer to obesity on the left. Don't act like you don't know.
Agree with you on the racial thing, though.

Anonymous 53631


You can definitely enjoy eating and living without becoming a lard-ass.
It's not difficult, and you will also live longer. Being overweight destroys your hormones and organs, makes it hard to breathe, makes just walking up stairs a chore, increases your risk of cardiovascular disease, etc. Just as bad as anorexia.
154lbs at 5'4 is simply not healthy for any woman, except perhaps bodybuilders or other athletes.

Anonymous 53632


Anonymous 53633

My ex cheated on me after dating for 4 years because I gained some weight and was 160 lbs 5'9''. I'm on a diet now but man it feels bad.

Anonymous 53634


Being fat is what actually makes your face ugly, though.
If anything, insisting on being fat is a way to distract from your dissatisfaction with your face. Anything negative that happens to you becomes "It's because I'm fat", and anyone calling you unattractive must be referring to your weight. The ultimate cope.


If you believe that >>53623 is normal, I guess I understand how that might be underweight to you, but I disagree.

Anonymous 53635

This one >>53623 looks overweight but the one you posted looks underweight. My bmi is 19.5 so I'm definitely not a fatty but I also don't resemble the skeletor you posted. Why is retarded pro-ana scum allowed on this site btw?

Anonymous 53636

Imagine the stretch marks.

Anonymous 53637


The silver lining of being this deep in denial is that when you lose your feet to the 'beetus, you will neither notice nor miss them.


Anonymous 53638

If this girl had a smaller chest (not uncommon for other women with her body type), most people would call her an anorexic stick and men would find her too bony to be attractive.

Anonymous 53639

She looks too bony, like a supermodel. Most guys don't actually prefer the skinny model body.

Anonymous 53640

That's what a normal human looks like. That's what humans are supposed to look like. It's not healthy, physically or mentally, to be fat. You shouldn't be so accepting or encouraging of people taking such poor care of their bodies.

Anonymous 53641

Nta but there's a middle ground between being ana and a fatty.
I'll likely never be diabetic since I never consume refined sugar in even minuscule amounts and partake in moderate exercise daily, but I also don't and will never look like >>53631

OP is overweight, but also…BMI 21-23 women exist.
And it's worth noting that women who are BMI 25-27-ish are a different league than 30+. The former group can reasonably get to a healthy weight in the short term, but obese people have created quite a challenge for themselves.
That may be why anons are saying OP isn't "that bad" since she can reverse the problem pretty easily, even just by cutting the liquid calories and extra snacking. At least that was my thought pattern.

But if you think anything above BMI 20 is fat then I suppose we just believe different things and that's that. If so, have a nice day.

Anonymous 53642


Supermodels aren't bony.

Anonymous 53643

Nothing wrong with having them.

Anonymous 53644

There's something in between skeletors and fatties, ana-chan.

Anonymous 53645


That's actually pretty bony, you could have used a better example.

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