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Rejection Anonymous 57313

I just got rejected from an aspie I've been crushing on for 2 years because he's "too busy with university to date". I've never confessed to anyone before and he was the first one I felt attracted to enough to make the leap. I am also autistic and this is hitting me real hard. I lost my last will to live and I feel as though I am dropping into a deep depression. He and I are both KHHV so I don't understand why he wouldn't want to date me. He even said I was attractive to him. It feels like god is playing with me. Every time I build my hopes up it comes crashing down. I am trying to hard to find happiness in things other than romance but my mind is set to the thought that starting a family is the point of living so nothing is working. I can't be happy for myself. I need love

Anonymous 57320

What do you mean you don’t understand why? He told you himself. He is focused on his studies and considers it a priority over dating at present. Most men with autism are emotionally distant anyway and make terrible fathers. I don’t see why you would want to start a family with one.

Anonymous 57323

>>57313
>He and I are both KHHV so I don't understand why he wouldn't want to date me.
He literally told you.
>too busy with university to date
Unless you think he was lying? As someone married to an overachieving autistic college student they really don't have the fucking time.



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