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Anonymous 62862

>Don't feel jealous of people's lives you see on social media! That isn't real! They have problems too!
Bitch I can see enough from those photos to know they have a better life than me. Unless you're telling me those pictures are photoshopped they have things I don't have and can never have. At least they have those things to comfort them. And it's not like I'm without hidden baggage either.

Anonymous 62863

>>62862
So what? Why should you give a fuck about it? Quit social media if you use it like that. Honestly, it is worthless shit, use it to make your life better or don't bother with it. I don't use most of it anymore, because people are so full of shit that it makes me fucking sick. And even through I'm going through one of the worst times of my life, I don't think I've felt better than this in the last 10 years or something.

Honestly, if you feel like it, I'm just saying, you don't have to do it. But 20 minutes of yoga per day, are infinitely more worth it than an hour of social media. It will make everything better. Forget that shit and find something that you enjoy doing it, instead of looking after things that will make you bitter, get better. :D

Anonymous 62895

I know what you mean. People say don't compare your life to someone's "highlight reels", but at least those people have SOME "highlight reels" to post while I have literally nothing good to post. I actually find stalking people's social media to be motivating though.

Anonymous 62898

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>>62862
>>62895
Stop being materialistic over mindless and pointless shit.
Most people who actively use social media all the time have absolutely nothing going on in their lives. And the only thing they base their worth upon is literally how much socially stimulated they are and not enjoying the things they post about in their insta per se - like bragging about their new consumerist shit they own like those colorful mass-market paperbacks that they will never read, or their new bf who will cheat on her either way if he also happens to use insta.

Mind you, the healthiest minded people never use any social media; and if they do, it is only for the purposes of strategically advertising their clinic or makeup shop or whatever; for they know the best way to appeal to consumerists is to use what they happen to use currently. (Not to mention knowing what to sell to them, but that's for another thread.)

Also to >>62895
>I actually find stalking people's social media to be motivating though.
>People say don't compare your life to someone's "highlight reels", but at least those people have SOME "highlight reels" to post while I have literally nothing good to post.
These two statements do not fit in with each other. What you call "motivating" is just an increase of feelings of envy.
If you were truly motivated, you wouldn't be posting about how they "have SOME 'highlight reels'" and, instead, you would have minded your own business and do something better in your life than mindlessly stare at the screen for many hours in the day.

Anonymous 62912

>>62862
>>62895
They are definitely highlight reels and it's definitely true that some people have more highlights. But many things look exciting and fun at a glance but aren't anything special when you stop and think about it.

What are the things that you "don't have and can never have"? A group of friends? A dish at a fancy restaurant? Looking pretty and serene in the woods? Getting to pose in front of tourist attractions?



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