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Anonymous 64517

so there is this dude I met through 4chan… kinda.

I joined a 4chan server in 2019, wasn't super active, people were talking about the Bianca murder the hour it happened since it was everywhere and I was confused and this cat pfp person that I assumed was a lady from the pfp and speaking manners DMed and told me all the details and shared links to the threads, I talk about how men suck and s(he) agrees, we talk about how sex work, kink and all these things are promoted by liberal feminism that are dangerous we keep talking and I later discover that it's a guy who is younger than me [ 17 years old ] but we quickly become friends.

We get closer and closer and we wind up exchanging nudes a few shameful times, he even asks for cam sex but I refuse, we get over it but it was obvious that we both liked each other sexually at least, he even grew his hair out for me and changed a few other things I talked about.

Gets more troubling as I start feeling guilty even though he's no much younger than me but also because I had a boyfriend at the time I'd vent to him about.
It becomes obvious that we're too different, he's an immature 4chan user with yellow fever and a misogynist.

I block him.
I keep thinking about him.

six months later I add him back and he accepts me, welcoming me back, he didn't care and was just happy that I added him back, same cycle minus the yellow fever.

rinse and repeat 4-5 times.

it's 2021, he knows me more than most and I know a lot about him too, we get close, I feel that he genuinely changed from that misogynist Asian fetishist I met two years ago, maybe we can be good friends.

he talks about how it's normal for women in Afghanistan to wear the burka because ""it's their culture"" and they're accustomed to it like how people are used to the sky being blue… I'm upset for a week. I try to cool down so I send him a meme with a Japanese woman and he starts talking about how he will go for a Japanese [virgin]] woman because they've ""evolved to have tight vaginas"", and keeps trying to make it sound logical, I was really angry not only because he went back to point zero but also because I felt slight jealousy, I thought that he was changing and becoming a better person, I really thought we can be friends, I really thought he was willing to change for me as he did before and how he promised.

I feel mad about it, mostly mad at myself for falling for this, I feel like pure shit and it's too embarrassing to talk to anyone about it.

I also miss him a bit despite hating him and him being a gross ugly manlet creep, I keep on thinking about him when I encounter things that we talked about before.

I hate myself.

Anonymous 64518

>>64517
watch one of those cringe compilations on youtube and realize you’re pining after a manchild.

Anonymous 64519

> he starts talking about how he will go for a Japanese [virgin]] woman because they've ""evolved to have tight vaginas""
lol put your big girl trousers on, logically think about the fact that you choose to spend your time with a man who has thoughts like this running through his mind unironically. thank me later babe

Anonymous 64521

>>64518
Sorry what kind? Can you share one?

Anonymous 64522

>>64521
just any one. “tik tok cringe” or other relevant terms. i find that it helps me better identify when someone is being cringy/incel-y and the ick helps me get over them better.

Anonymous 64526

You cheated on your bf with some underage faggot and you want us to feel pity for you? You deserve whatever shitty relationship you get LOL

Anonymous 64528

>>64517
Sounds like you can’t handle people having viewpoints from you, and that he’s a troll who enjoys winding you up. Perfect match. Also, you’re scum for cheating.

Anonymous 64532

>>64528
First of all, learn grammar before posting your deep thoughts - noone will ever take you seriously if you can't even form a sentence properly. And secondly being friends/partners with someone who has a worldview that's antithetical to yours is simply illogical - you are supposed to be on the same wavelength and be similar in your core principles with your close ones. What exactly makes you and >>64526 generate such an amount of salt about op post is frankly unclear

Anonymous 64533

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>>64517
>We get closer and closer and we wind up exchanging nudes a few shameful times, he even asks for cam sex but I refuse, we get over it but it was obvious that we both liked each other sexually at least, he even grew his hair out for me and changed a few other things I talked about.
>Gets more troubling as I start feeling guilty even though he's no much younger than me but also because I had a boyfriend at the time I'd vent to him about.
>but also because I had a boyfriend at the time
Why OP? I don't want to straight up go onto shaming you but why would you even do this if you have a boyfriend? You don't love your boyfriend anymore? Why didn't you break up with him before doing any of that so that it doesnt become cheating? I just want to understand the mindset you were in which made you do these things.

Anonymous 64534

>>64533
I felt guilty because in my head I was in a relationship, I only wrote my side of things.

in reality, it wasn't a real relationship, my ex was a narcissist who used me sexually and said we were just good friends whenever I tried to ask him what we were, he also had other girls that I later learned about.

I felt guilty for cheating even though it wasn't really cheating and I wanted out of that relationship, you see I have trouble letting go of people who hurt me.



>>64532
thank you, it's really troublesome and mentally draining to be friends with someone who has core principles that are directly opposing to everything you believe in.


>>64528
I'm not sure whether he's a troll or just a weirdo who didn't want to change but also wanted my company, he promised me that he was going to try and change and listen so we can keep being friends but turned around and revealed the real him underneath all thee lies to keep me around.

Anonymous 64536

>>64532
Yeah, attack grammar, that makes you really persuasive.
She still cheated

Anonymous 64542

>>64517
>so there is this dude I met through 4chan
Block him. Problem solved.

Anonymous 64686

Damn OP can do all this but CallMeCarson gets cancelled? Fucked up

Anonymous 64701

Pedo.

Anonymous 64750

>>64517
lmao how did you get suckered into this?

Typicall retard incel behaviour, if he is genuinly saying the things you wrote without being ironic there is almost no hope.

Anonymous 64751

>>64750
sounds like she deserves him tbh for being so retarded lmao.

>omg i have a boyfriend but i keep repeatedly crawling back to this manchild



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