>best friend is 25
>she is excited and telling me about her new moid
>attractive, tall, good job, yes, yes, yes
>red flag for me
>try to drop subtle hints this may not be a good idea
>now I have a crush on him and I'm seething and jealous
Fucking kill me
>>64789>he's 35>red flag for me
How's this a red flag?
Don't see the problem, 25 is the bar minimum for the "creepiness of dating" rule applied to a 35 year old. Maybe if she was 24 I would question it more, but this is just on the edge of typical social expectations for age gaps in dating partners.
They're deathly affraid of age difference, for some reasons
It’s only in their thirties where men actually get their shit together and are serious about you.
Because they're desperate for a girl to knock up and take care of their kids.
I don't mind age gaps but 10 years is pushing it. My mom and sister married with 10 and 12 year gaps, and their husbands were not too great. My sister's is shit no idea why he's still with him. My dad turned into an old fat man with severe anger issues and my mom was relieved when he died.
Everyone is looking for something. What are you looking for in a dude?