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Anonymous 65009

What do you do when you crush on someone? Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?

Anonymous 65011

Why would you ignore the person you're interested in?
Real question, not trying to be an asshole

Anonymous 65012

>>65009
>What do you do when you crush on someone?
I get nervous when around him and feel like crying when I think I do something stupid while he's watching. I'm too much of a coward to take the first step.

>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?

Not if you don't see yourself in a relationship with him in the future.

Anonymous 65118

>>65009
I also ignore my crush because im nervous and feel like i might say the wrong thing and i care too much about what he thinks of me. I stalk his social medias and every girl he follows. and i become interested in his interests and copy things about him.

Anonymous 65271

>>65009
>What do you do when you crush on someone?
I usually try to suppress it and avoid the person I like. I am getting better though in learning to "sit in it" rather than running away.

>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?

it sounds like you have self esteem/attachment issues anon. I really reccomend you do more research on the topic if you are open to it! Doing so has personally helped me get less nervous around people in general, and I believe that if I keep going, I could eventually try to approach someone I like :)

Anonymous 65279

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I no longer crush, i avoid making eye contact with potential lovers as much as possible, another heartbreak would kill.

Anonymous 65307

>What do you do when you crush on someone?
Me, I become a nervous wreck. I feel like everything I say or do is cringe, and want to curl up in my own shell.
>Is it bad that I sometimes ignore or ghost him?
In my case it’s her (am lesbian), and yeah I’d say it’s pretty bad… since she blocked me recently. Can’t blame her, I guess. Idk what I expected. I think I just took too long to reply this time. Maybe I was waiting for her to ask me if everything’s okay, which was stupid of me, but yeah.



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