>>70748>you should do X hairstyle tho, it looks better on you>im maybe attracted maybe not
You dodged a bullet OP, he is NOT a catch. You don’t want someone who is going to play games and leave you waiting, you want someone who knows they like you. You want someone who likes you as you are and will only give appearance suggests when you ask for it.
I think the real problem is that you are trying to find a nice guy online. Usually men are online because they can’t find someone irl and there is a good reason for that. I did a bunch of online dating and the men were always terrible. I thought I was the problem until I read other women’s experiences.