I honestly agree that it's lame and cringe that he was looking at those accounts. I have no way of actually knowing for sure that he has stopped either since he can still be looking at them without following them. I actually still do have quite a lot of resentment towards him over this, especially since I have pretty bad body dysmorphia (which I've dealt with for essentially my entire life). I just really don't want to have resentment or paranoia about this anymore. He claims he doesn't look at them anymore but I can't be sure so I guess I have to trust him?>>71861
Soo.. some of the accounts he said he had followed a long time before we started dating, but he said he followed like two of them while we were dating. He was following about 3-5 actually really bad ones that were like onlyfans tier. One of them has a free onlyfans…this is making me sick to type actually
The other ones I found more recently were just sus ass random girls (the list I made counted 13 of those) who actually weren't really half naked or onlyfans but who were either just random asians or posted a bunch of sanrio core shit.
I don't know, maybe this is bad :) I mean he did unfollow them all at least. What trips me up is that he still could be looking at them or have some kind of mental attachment to them.
When this problem was discovered, I asked if he had a mental attachment to them, and if the answer was yes I was gonna probably break up, and he promised the answer was no. Does anyone think that's cap