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Anonymous 72412

>be in a 4 people gc
>the other 3 people write about meeting up together specifically without me
>assume it's for a group project for uni
>someone sends a sc of another gc with three people in it and 2.0 in name and with people's names blurred out
>be the 4th person added to the original gc
>connect the dots
am I a schizo? we've only known each other for a few months because we met at uni and they're all introverted and it makes me wonder if my personality is too loud and everyone just puts up with me because it would otherwise be awkward irl? it doesn't make a lot of sense because they're nice to me but I keep thinking of small things that could be proof that everyone is sick of me I'm sensing betrayal everywhere am I just going insane?

Anonymous 72415

You're not insane, I think it's not uncommon to worry about things like this. Unfortunately the worries do end up being true on occasion, too. But I don't know if there's any way to know for sure with just the information you have right now, it's possible you're taking it personally when it doesn't actually have anything to do with you and your brain is cherry-picking events from the past to confirm your theory. Perhaps you could try waiting a bit and asking them if they're bothered at all by your loud personality to test the waters. Just say that you've been worried about it but don't mention anything about the other group chat or them meeting without you, that way you're not being accusatory, so hopefully they feel more at ease to tell you how they actually feel.

Anonymous 72418

I thought about it but I don't want to come across as insecure although I guess I am, but you're right, it'll be safer to wait a bit first I hope I won't have to update this thread with bad new, thank you nona

Anonymous 72422

Yeah, I'm insecure too so I know how you feel. Hopefully it turns out fine!

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