>>75038It is true.
My friend is one of those very sweet, outgoing, cute people that used to just be defaultly kind and go out of the way to humanize anyone around her.
Without fail she attracted hordes of creeps and friendless guys.
Sometimes if a guy was around her age, she'd give him the benefit of the doubt, etc., but then many went insane when she rejected them as if she wasn't completely transparent about just wanting friends. Like clockwork, the men ended up letting something slip incredibly creepy things that even she couldn't ignore.
She's been significantly better off ever since she stopped caring about random men and much less paranoid, with the people she talks to being kinder without being fake/degenerates like the creeps.
Always keep in mind the majority of these men wouldn't get hung up on their actual match (almost always an obese, middle-aged woman…not that I think such a woman should date such men, she's better off alone) as well.