>>77148you can try to use tinder to get a bf but the chances on that are slim
most just use it to hook up and if they really like their hook up they pursue them.
if there are a million options on tinder with the slim chance that you can get someone 'out of your league' or higher, it's a chance ppl take which then creates a dissatisfaction game between both parties. they have the mentality that there is something better out there so they don't settle with someone who is in their league when they really should be doing that and be happy with that person.
anyway once someone settles they feel unhappy because they know there is someone out there who is "richer/more beautiful/better personality/better family/
insert any good characteristic here and are addicted to dating apps and try looking again.