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bf withholds money Fiona 77801

i’ve given my bf large amounts of money in the past and the one time i ask for some money he flips out on me. he says i need to pay him back and snapped at me when i brought it up. i’m never demanding and i never make him pay for anything unless he offers. is he just a broke loser?? or should i just not ask for money.

Anonymous 77804

>or should i just not ask for money.
If you give him money when he asks, why can't he do the same? Of course you can ask? Tell him that, say, "I always give you money and pay for everything unless you offer. Why can't you do me this favor?" and see what he says.
Maybe he is broke, maybe he's just a greedy little bitch, find out by asking him why he can't give you money.
Either way stop spoiling him if he won't spoil you back or at least politely say no instead of snapping (if he is voluntarily being greedy, not broke).

Anonymous 77808

Break up with him right now. Add up how much he owes you and tell him to give you or you will take him to the small claims court (gather evidence for this).

Don't waste your time on men that take your money or treat you like trash.

Anonymous 77809

I think you should dump him and stop giving men money

Anonymous 77811

>>77801
>i’ve given my bf large amounts of money in the past
given as in gifted, as in he will never pay it back?

>the one time i ask for some money he flips out

how much money?

the most obvious question here is the total balance of money that has gone back and forth. who has invested more? you make it sound like you've spent a lot of money on him and he none on you, but you don't directly say anything on the matter and that's concerning. are you fooling yourself and pretending like you're being fair when you're not? inb4 it turns out he paid those "large amounts" back each time so they mean nothing.

Anonymous 77819

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>>77801
where did you find this god awful moid? why are you dating him?

Anonymous 77930

leave him lol literally he's stealing from you if you do the math

Anonymous 78258

>i’ve given my bf large amounts of money in the past
>i’m never demanding and i never make him pay for anything
>he flips out on me
>snapped at me
Why is there so many pickmes on this board?
He doesn't owe you anything, leave him and step your game up.



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