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How to slowly ghost an old friend Anonymous 80572

I have this friend who sees me as the absolute pinnacle of truth and honesty but i just get more annoyed with her by the day. i stayed at her house last week because i thought maybe it would remind me that i like her. nope. she just got more annoying and now i feel bad because i mooched off of her by staying at her place.

this girl is a hardcore protestant but is also obsessed with sex. honestly considers herself a virgin after taking it everywhere EXCEPT the cooch. likes to talk about her masturbation stories??? i hate it because although i want sex i'm kind of traumatised by it. i told her this. she spergs out and gets angry when she hears anything about catholicism, meditation, or yoga. (i'm not even kidding about meditation. she thinks being still and quiet is satanic) all of this has caused her to be completely insufferable and i can't talk about anything around her.

she's always saying stuff like "you're such a great friend and i know you'll never lie to me" and i just… wanna leave. i cant tell her she makes me uncomfortable, or that i'm not a christian.

what do i do?

Anonymous 80578

>>80572
>considers herself a virgin after taking it everywhere EXCEPT the cooch
>obsessed with sex
>likes to talk about her masturbation stories
>doesn't care about your trauma about sex and insists on talking about it
What an awful woman.

Anonymous 80585

>>80572
>this girl is a hardcore protestant but is also obsessed with sex. honestly considers herself a virgin after taking it everywhere EXCEPT the cooch. likes to talk about her masturbation stories???
anyone with this amount of cognitive dissonance should be avoided. don't even bother doing it slowly, just rip-off the band-aid and ghost her immediately.

Anonymous 80589

>>80572
Tell her sodomy is more sinful than regular sex outside marriage lol

Anonymous 80591

Leave then, lol. She’ll cry about it for a few months then move on, Like they always do. Trust me i’m a serial ghoster, you don’t even have to do it slowly because any shift in attitude will cause confrontation and she will ask you. Especially clingy ones like this

Anonymous 80594

>>80591
i was considering doing it slowly. she owes me some money so i'll wait till i get it lmao. my idea was to never text first and to give short replies to any of her messages. then say i'm busy whenever she wants to hang out.

Anonymous 80613

>>80572
I'd say just piss her off by telling her how you feel. If you offend her enough she will leave you alone.

Anonymous 82785

LOL this thread is super old. finally just blocked her on snapchat. i feel really bad because she started frantically texting me and getting panicked because we used to be best friends. i couldn't stand her anymore and trying to politely distance myself slowly simply wasn't working.
blocked and deleted her contact too. god bless.

Anonymous 82795

>>80613

This. The worst friends I've ever had were the ones to stop talking to ME, after I called them out on their BS. Horrible people will often do YOU the favor of removing themselves from your life.

Anonymous 82910

>>82785
Tbh if you're were going to ghost her anyway, you might as well have told her everything about her you find annoying. It might've forcd her to become a bit introspective.



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