Other than the your wedding band, the rest of your jewelry is so small that it'd be difficult for anyone to notice let alone care. No matter what though, you won't be able to tie gold and silver together. At best, you could get two equally large gold rings to wear on the fingers adjacent to the wedding band to create a band pattern, which isn't the same thing, but is the closest you're going to get.>>9557
That's not an autistic trait. That's obsessive if anything. The fact your agonizing over your image coordination is actual the exact opposite of what an autistic person would do.