Stalkers and creeps: Greentext version Anonymous 01/04/18 (Thu) 12:08:42 AM 546
I'll start>join my country's anime/weeb platform >basically facebook for weeb, everyone's on it >within a week, get a message from a random user inviting me to a group for our local area >start to hang out with them at meetups >ice cream parlors, chinese restaurants, karaoke nights, craft meets for convention prep, typical 2005 weeaboo circle >one guy hovers around me a lot >after one karaoke night, my mom picks me up in the small town the hangout was at to take me home (8 miles) >i rush outside, guy runs after me, everyone hugs me goodnight, he goes to say something but I'm already in the car >message me afterwards saying he wanted to give me his number in case I ever want to talk >think he's a pretty nice guy >he's a mutual friend of the friend circle who formed this local meetup, so they are all close to him and he seems trustworthy >asks me if I want to go to the christmas market with him, i say yes >we walk around for a few hours, he keeps insisting to pay for things I buy, I'm ultra shy and reject it every time >he keeps being kind of wistful and gives me ton of compliments, calls my shyness and fidgeting cute, interested in me, but keeps it respectful >I'm uncomfortable because nobody ever hit on me in real life so I have no idea if I'm reading too much into it but I still feel weird about giving him too much leeway >I say it's time for me to leave, he takes me to the bus stop and brings up new year's eve and if I have any plans >I don't >Invites me over, I decline, he keeps urging me, I say maybe >Bus arrives, hugs me goodbye >As soon as I'm on the bus, I text him saying I don't think we should spend new year's eve together >He asks why, tries to convince me to change my mind >Later sends me a long message on the weeb platform >He found my deviantART profile and read a blog post where I vented about knowing a cool guy but he seems to be into me and I just can't read the situation and feel weird about all the plans we made (at his behest, but I was socially isolated and not used to ANYONE giving me attention and actually initiating hangouts) >Makes some tongue-in-cheek comments about how he can't believe how blind I am to his feelings and that he would walk around town holding an "I LOVE ANON YMOUS" sign if it opened my eyes, and compares his former hints to signal flares >I shut him down nicely but definitely >My weeb friends voice their disappointment because they think we would have been cute together, but accept it >He accepts but makes a ton of whiny blog posts >Comes over to a sleepover with my weeb friends >We're one bed short, it's mostly girls, one of them is there with her boyfriend, so only me and two other guys remain >I have to choose between sharing my bed with the dude who's been flirting with me, or a stranger who's been chill >Pick the stranger >We all go to bed, laugh a little in our rooms >3 am, dude knocks on my door and announces he's walking him (again, 8 miles) because he can't take being in the next room >ok.jpg >We don't talk for a few months until he chats me up again, insisting he's over it >A few months late, I have a crush on a mutual friend and vent about it >He comments a passive-aggressive throwback >More months later, I start dating my first very serious boyfriend >Dude congratulates me, we stay in touch every now and then >Many years later, bf and I break up and I move into the city where my weeb friends live >He messages me out of the blue and asks how I've been adjusting >Weeb friends and I plan to meet up >He ends up joining somehow >Picks me up from my place a few hours earlier and we end up walking through the downtown talking and catching up >He asks about my love life >I say I have a flirt going on with a dude we both knew but it it's taking its while >Dude starts to neg me >Obviously jealous >rest of the night goes well >next day, texts me to ask if I want to go see a movie with him, platonically >I say no thanks >Pleasepleaseplease >Tell him I'll consider it but since I just moved I don't know if I can reach him (truth) >"Anon do you still have the same phone number?" >"Y-Yes" (damn why did I say that) >receive text message that he topped me up with more credit >at this point I'm so over this guy and weirded out by him overstepping that I'm lowkey bantzing and insulting him >ignoring didn't work either >constantly asks me if i'm free >"no" >"what are you up to" >"going out with friends" (total lie) >"where" >"[bar]" >later the same night: >"I went to [bar] and didn't see you and checked some other places I know you like but I couldn't find you anywhere" >he is not deterred >gets a new girlfriend >brags extensively >a few months later, it's her birthday >his gift is a salon treatment >encourages her to change her haircut and color >she comes out looking like she's wearing my scalp (I was the only person with this certain hair color in my town during these years and it's not a normal popular alt color like red, pink, purple or blue and I had the exact same haircut for 10 years) >She even has the same first name (not his or her fault, just an extra creepy detail) >Still messages me occasionally >Dropping things like "You and I both know I would dump her the second you gave me the sign" >"I am at your feet, you are judge, jury and executioner" >Reject it and make fun of him for not getting it every time >messages me all the time, leading with a normal topic until he slides into begging me to give him a chance, pulling a full fedora move with displays of power and intellect >realizes the guy I'm into is one of his friends too >tries to neg me into thinking i'm not attractive enough etc >at the same time telling me he doesnt deserve me >ignore him for years >get into abusive relationship and i have to flee as i'm in physical danger and completely isolated >make an update on my very old social media profile with only close friends >someone tells him because he lives very close to the town i had relocated to >he messages me and offers to take me in for a while because his roommate moved out >I'm desperate and everyone who's offering their place has hit on me in even worse ways before >I accept and move in for a few weeks >he randomly turns off the hot water when i'm in the shower and my towels are gone >has loud sex with his gf in the room next to mine, she leaves, he takes a shower, then leans into my doorway in just a towel around his hips, asking if i want to come to his room and toke >comes up with random house rules to display power >has a spare key but i can't have it >move out after 2 months >he keeps messaging me for bullshit reasons to force a conversation (claimed I left a top, I told him to throw itaway, he insists on sending it etc) >tried to date my best friend from back home for a while >to this day he sends me fb requests
Anonymous 01/04/18 (Thu) 01:35:51 AM 547
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Holy shit op. That was a good start. >Comes from a broken household, sex abuse history, feels ugly >Guy is charming >Obviously suicidal >We become friends easily >Bond instantly >Start e-dating >Introduce guy to another online friend >Guy has Skype sex with her >Girl was so close to me I called her sister >(Never find out until maybe 1.5 years later) >Guy says he's gonna kill himself >Says he's a piece of shit >"I don't deserve you, anon" >I forgive him because my self esteem is low >Time passes >Guy leaves me because "I will kill myself" >Guy comes back because "ILY" >Leave/come back again over and over >That happens several times in the course of years while he repeatedly cheats on me with many women >Always asks for forgiveness >Guy gets gifts and tats for me >Tells guy not to get tattoo >Guy does it anyway to prove he loves me >Just feel very depressed >Love the guy as a person but hate what the relationship has become >Guy says he's leaving again >1000th time >Say I won't be around if he really leaves again >Warn him this will be the end if he leaves once more >too depressed, too hurt he has left so many times >Becoming numb >Guy leaves again >I cut all contact >Never respond again >Guy goes crazy, start spamming me >Guy sends online threats >Tells my online friends he will kill me >Says he's gonna show up here >Says he knows I'm pregnant from another guy even though I'm a virgin >Says he hacked me >Says I'm a monster >Says I'm probably X, Y, and Z (other members of the dead forum) at the same time which I'm not >Says I know what I did even tho I never cheated on him >Says he is sure I cheated on him with some random online buddy I barely talked with >Threatens this random dude >says he will never give up on his dream of murdering me >Does that for over 1 year >Badmouths me, defames and bullies me wherever he can >Contact the police/complicated story >Guy never gives up….. >Still ongoing
Anonymous 01/16/18 (Tue) 12:14:30 PM 590
>>547 Came here from /feels/. Jesus anon, if you haven't already, change your accounts, phone number, and move across the country.
Anonymous 01/17/18 (Wed) 08:58:42 AM 596
>>590 Thank you, anon. We're in different countries but he knows (part of) my address. I think I'm relatively safe because he's broke ASF and can't travel here anyway.
Anonymous 01/23/18 (Tue) 07:02:30 PM 614
Some of this sounds like how I used to act in college. I learned better (college was in the 90s) but damn I just feel bad for basically everybody who had to interact with me back then.
