Stalkers and creeps: Greentext version Anonymous 546
I'll start
>be me, 16 years old, grew up very isolated being disabled in a rural hick village, ugly, no social skills, shy to the point of retardation
>join my country's anime/weeb platform
>basically facebook for weeb, everyone's on it
>within a week, get a message from a random user inviting me to a group for our local area
>start to hang out with them at meetups
>ice cream parlors, chinese restaurants, karaoke nights, craft meets for convention prep, typical 2005 weeaboo circle
>one guy hovers around me a lot
>after one karaoke night, my mom picks me up in the small town the hangout was at to take me home (8 miles)
>i rush outside, guy runs after me, everyone hugs me goodnight, he goes to say something but I'm already in the car
>message me afterwards saying he wanted to give me his number in case I ever want to talk
>think he's a pretty nice guy
>he's a mutual friend of the friend circle who formed this local meetup, so they are all close to him and he seems trustworthy
>asks me if I want to go to the christmas market with him, i say yes
>we walk around for a few hours, he keeps insisting to pay for things I buy, I'm ultra shy and reject it every time
>he keeps being kind of wistful and gives me ton of compliments, calls my shyness and fidgeting cute, interested in me, but keeps it respectful
>I'm uncomfortable because nobody ever hit on me in real life so I have no idea if I'm reading too much into it but I still feel weird about giving him too much leeway
>I say it's time for me to leave, he takes me to the bus stop and brings up new year's eve and if I have any plans
>I don't
>Invites me over, I decline, he keeps urging me, I say maybe
>Bus arrives, hugs me goodbye
>As soon as I'm on the bus, I text him saying I don't think we should spend new year's eve together
>He asks why, tries to convince me to change my mind
>Later sends me a long message on the weeb platform
>He found my deviantART profile and read a blog post where I vented about knowing a cool guy but he seems to be into me and I just can't read the situation and feel weird about all the plans we made (at his behest, but I was socially isolated and not used to ANYONE giving me attention and actually initiating hangouts)
>Makes some tongue-in-cheek comments about how he can't believe how blind I am to his feelings and that he would walk around town holding an "I LOVE ANON YMOUS" sign if it opened my eyes, and compares his former hints to signal flares
>I shut him down nicely but definitely
>My weeb friends voice their disappointment because they think we would have been cute together, but accept it
>He accepts but makes a ton of whiny blog posts
>Comes over to a sleepover with my weeb friends
>We're one bed short, it's mostly girls, one of them is there with her boyfriend, so only me and two other guys remain
>I have to choose between sharing my bed with the dude who's been flirting with me, or a stranger who's been chill
>Pick the stranger
>We all go to bed, laugh a little in our rooms
>3 am, dude knocks on my door and announces he's walking him (again, 8 miles) because he can't take being in the next room
>ok.jpg
>We don't talk for a few months until he chats me up again, insisting he's over it
>A few months late, I have a crush on a mutual friend and vent about it
>He comments a passive-aggressive throwback
>More months later, I start dating my first very serious boyfriend
>Dude congratulates me, we stay in touch every now and then
>Many years later, bf and I break up and I move into the city where my weeb friends live
>He messages me out of the blue and asks how I've been adjusting
>Weeb friends and I plan to meet up
>He ends up joining somehow
>Picks me up from my place a few hours earlier and we end up walking through the downtown talking and catching up
>He asks about my love life
>I say I have a flirt going on with a dude we both knew but it it's taking its while
>Dude starts to neg me
>Obviously jealous
>rest of the night goes well
>next day, texts me to ask if I want to go see a movie with him, platonically
>I say no thanks
>Pleasepleaseplease
>Tell him I'll consider it but since I just moved I don't know if I can reach him (truth)
>"Anon do you still have the same phone number?"
>"Y-Yes" (damn why did I say that)
>receive text message that he topped me up with more credit
>at this point I'm so over this guy and weirded out by him overstepping that I'm lowkey bantzing and insulting him
>ignoring didn't work either
>constantly asks me if i'm free
>"no"
>"what are you up to"
>"going out with friends" (total lie)
>"where"
>"[bar]"
>later the same night:
>"I went to [bar] and didn't see you and checked some other places I know you like but I couldn't find you anywhere"
>he is not deterred
>gets a new girlfriend
>brags extensively
>a few months later, it's her birthday
>his gift is a salon treatment
>encourages her to change her haircut and color
>she comes out looking like she's wearing my scalp (I was the only person with this certain hair color in my town during these years and it's not a normal popular alt color like red, pink, purple or blue and I had the exact same haircut for 10 years)
>She even has the same first name (not his or her fault, just an extra creepy detail)
>Still messages me occasionally
>Dropping things like "You and I both know I would dump her the second you gave me the sign"
>"I am at your feet, you are judge, jury and executioner"
>Reject it and make fun of him for not getting it every time
>messages me all the time, leading with a normal topic until he slides into begging me to give him a chance, pulling a full fedora move with displays of power and intellect
>realizes the guy I'm into is one of his friends too
>tries to neg me into thinking i'm not attractive enough etc
>at the same time telling me he doesnt deserve me
>ignore him for years
>get into abusive relationship and i have to flee as i'm in physical danger and completely isolated
>make an update on my very old social media profile with only close friends
>someone tells him because he lives very close to the town i had relocated to
>he messages me and offers to take me in for a while because his roommate moved out
>I'm desperate and everyone who's offering their place has hit on me in even worse ways before
>I accept and move in for a few weeks
>he randomly turns off the hot water when i'm in the shower and my towels are gone
>has loud sex with his gf in the room next to mine, she leaves, he takes a shower, then leans into my doorway in just a towel around his hips, asking if i want to come to his room and toke
>comes up with random house rules to display power
>has a spare key but i can't have it
>move out after 2 months
>he keeps messaging me for bullshit reasons to force a conversation (claimed I left a top, I told him to throw itaway, he insists on sending it etc)
>tried to date my best friend from back home for a while
>to this day he sends me fb requests
>tfw you're so ugly 99% of the people attracted to you are repulsive creeps
I missed a bunch of sub-stories but this is already TL;DR.
Anonymous 547
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Holy shit op. That was a good start.
Mine is suuuuuper long but I'll try a TLDR version for the sake of my own sanity and come back someday maybe if I feel better hopefully
>Meets guy on a suicide forum
>Comes from a broken household, sex abuse history, feels ugly
>Guy is charming
>Obviously suicidal
>We become friends easily
>Bond instantly
>Start e-dating
>Introduce guy to another online friend
>Guy has Skype sex with her
>Girl was so close to me I called her sister
>(Never find out until maybe 1.5 years later)
>Guy says he's gonna kill himself
>Says he's a piece of shit
>"I don't deserve you, anon"
>I forgive him because my self esteem is low
>Time passes
>Guy leaves me because "I will kill myself"
>Guy comes back because "ILY"
>Leave/come back again over and over
>That happens several times in the course of years while he repeatedly cheats on me with many women
>Always asks for forgiveness
>Guy gets gifts and tats for me
>Tells guy not to get tattoo
>Guy does it anyway to prove he loves me
>Just feel very depressed
>Love the guy as a person but hate what the relationship has become
>Guy says he's leaving again
>1000th time
>Say I won't be around if he really leaves again
>Warn him this will be the end if he leaves once more
>too depressed, too hurt he has left so many times
>Becoming numb
>Guy leaves again
>I cut all contact
>Never respond again
>Guy goes crazy, start spamming me
>Guy sends online threats
>Tells my online friends he will kill me
>Says he's gonna show up here
>Says he knows I'm pregnant from another guy even though I'm a virgin
>Says he hacked me
>Says I'm a monster
>Says I'm probably X, Y, and Z (other members of the dead forum) at the same time which I'm not
>Says I know what I did even tho I never cheated on him
>Says he is sure I cheated on him with some random online buddy I barely talked with
>Threatens this random dude
>says he will never give up on his dream of murdering me
>Does that for over 1 year
>Badmouths me, defames and bullies me wherever he can
>Contact the police/complicated story
>Guy never gives up…..
>Still ongoing
This was the TLDR version. There's a lot more like the parts of him finding out he was a girl inside and e-begging to cross the country, finding out he was an "indigo child", etc. I still love him as a person and as an individual, but I stay away because yeah you know why.
Anonymous 590
>>547Came here from /feels/. Jesus anon, if you haven't already, change your accounts, phone number, and move across the country.
Anonymous 596
>>590Thank you, anon. We're in different countries but he knows (part of) my address. I think I'm relatively safe because he's broke ASF and can't travel here anyway.
Anonymous 614
Some of this sounds like how I used to act in college. I learned better (college was in the 90s) but damn I just feel bad for basically everybody who had to interact with me back then.
