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Men make me feel so lonely Anonymous 125423[Reply]

I can’t handle how lonely men make me feel. No matter how kind, patient, or understanding they seem, they always end up disappointing me. They’re all lustful. They all watch porn. All of them struggle to see women as actual human beings, some just get better at hiding it. They all want you to perform for them in some way shape or form.

I ache for this so called true love. I want romance, tenderness, respect. I want someone who sees me, who values me, who cherishes me. But instead, day by day, I grow more bitter and resentful. It feels like I was sold a lie about what men and relationships are supposed to be. It makes me angry and doubt romantic love is even real at all. It all just feels like a cruel lie. I even feel like the women who claim their men are so great are experiencing some sort of cognitive dissonance.

I keep telling myself I just won’t ever get this from a man, but accepting that is so hard. The loneliness eats at me. Sometimes, it feels like being a straight woman is nothing but a curse. Being alone sucks but being with them makes the loneliness even worse.
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Anonymous 126574

>>126568
Why are you so obsessed with cocksucking, BJ-chan? Is that the only thing on your mind, even when someone is talking about yearning for romance and respect? Genuinely, what is wrong with you?

Anonymous 126582

>>125767
i thought nikolas parent was different and he raped me within a week of dating.

Anonymous 126583

>>125768
they want a virgin because being the one who degrades her makes them excited. it’s not romantic. they want to be the one to defile you. they want someone who said no to everyone else. they don’t actually care if you say yes to THEM. they will rape you and just lie and say you said yes.

Anonymous 126584

>>125602
had a man tell me he literally saw me in his dream for half a decade before he met me, rape me the second we were alone, bragged about me to this incel friends who were jealous he “stole me” from a friend i didn’t have feelings for and had told no i didn’t want to date you 500 times. there was no stealing. and then he timed the rape so he could escape out of the country, left me because he couldn’t rape me anymore and i was showing signs of trauma and crying in public at six flags with his friends there about what did to me. then spent all his time abroad having sex with prostitutes around his base until he was dishonorably discharged and ended up dating the minor he had been online grooming for months before and after me.

Anonymous 126629

>>126564
Nah, at least women don't bond over abusing men.



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Jealousy thread Anonymous 126198[Reply]

I'm a very jealous person, so much that seeing prettier women than me can affect my mood. I wondered if this was a common thing here, what and who makes you jealous?
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Anonymous 126296

I'm jealous of girls with clear skin, especially really fat girls who eat like shit. I cut out so much of my diet (white carbs, dairy, I eat minimal sugar and fats), bought so many skincare products but my face is still acne riddled.

I'm jealous specifically of fat girls with a ton of potential because even though I've basically done all I could to improve my appearance esp. with diet and fitness my highest potential is ugly while all they have to do is literally put in like half the work I do to be a 10/10.

Anonymous 126384

i’ve never felt jealous of another woman.

Anonymous 126388

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Damn imagine wasting your time thinking about how pretty you are in relation to other women.

You know what's so much more interesting than that, look at this awesome bowl of oyster dipping noodles.

Anonymous 126477

>>126198
My philosophy prevents me from caring about people's husk and start critically analysing the way they speak and think instead.

Anonymous 126628

I'm jealous of girls who look similar to my type but prettier. So a rounder jaw, more upturned nose, puffier lips, clear skin, or curvier body, all make me jealous. And thick, long hair too.

The only thing making me feel better is knowing i pass as slightly above average\cute which is good enough to not be treated like a troglodyte I guess. Besides, even the most beautiful women in the world get treated like trash and cheated on, so what is even the point of looking beautiful then.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 126607

>>126606
Based.
What's even better is that the scrote who told me about having this fetish would actively get mad at me whenever I gave him a single instruction in a video game.
Even flexed to me how he punched a desk and got his knuckles bloody cause I always won against him in a shooter game.
He would never do this around men btw.
But yes!!! He's such a feminist king for wanting to fuck a "busty goth mommy"!!! (aka e-girl wearing all-black).

To top it all off, the guy would whine about how no girl loved him, but would also send me pics of random women and call them ugly. Oh, and he would randomly derail conversations into about how he wanted to fuck his anime waifu. He would NEVER shut about her.

Why did I tolerate him?
Well, I was in a really bad point in life and was honestly desperate for any attention. He also had like 20 diagnosed mental illnesses so I pitied him and had a stupid mindset of "I could fix him".
I would try to call out his bad behaviour, but in the end he never learnt, so I just cut him off.
Turned out to be a massive poser too and never liked the video games he claimed to be a fan of.

Anonymous 126608

>>126605
No games or books you're looking forward to?

Anonymous 126609

>>126608
I've been playing a lot of MMORPGs like ff14 and getting into elder scrolls online recently. Action games too.
But the loneliness keeps seeping back in.
I just wanna feel happy in someone's company.
Video games aren't gonna be enough for me my entire life. I need an actual connection with someone.

Anonymous 126625

>>126609
No guildies or anything? Well, I understand if not, I was the type to run away and log out if I got interacted with in an MMO

Anonymous 126627

I am never dating an avoidant ever again.

Fuck feeling this way over someone who runs away from you any time you're not acting like the perfect version they created of you in their head.

The worst part is as if they can feel when you try to detach yourselffrom them and they pull you back in.

Fuck avoidants, fuck their breadcrumbs, fuck hoping they will change. Fuck them for promising they'll always love you (they won't).

Maybe you loved me at some point. But now I'm just feeding your ego by keeping in contact with you.

I'm blocking you tomorrow and deleting your number. I value my peace. And I hope you'll never get to hurt someone like you hurt me again.



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Lesbians are the most oppressed, idc Anonymous 126590[Reply]

>Discord will ban you if you don't like trannies
>Reddit will ban you of you don't like trannies
>/r9k/ supports prison gay men and attention seeking fakeecel ethots but will shit on you and exclude you for being a lesbian
>/lgbt/ will shit on you for not being a Goldstar
>radfems will shit on you for not finding fat hairy ugly bitches attractive or for liking anything that isn't holding hands and kissing bc anything else is "male gaze-y"
>right wing twitter shits on you for being homosexual
>left wing twitter shits on you for being transphobic, aka for being an actual homosexual
>Bluesky…. Why are you on Bluesky?
>I don't know any secret tags on Tumblr for lesbians, but the fact if there were any it would be annoying to have to walk on eggshells else-wise the tag gets raided for not liking trannies
>third world countries… You don't even have any rights.
>Most of the western world will arrest you if you publicly say you don't like trannies
>Even in America, trannies are allowed in female only spaces even if its prison or a domestic abuse shelter
>Growing up having to learn in school that you were treated as inferior in every way all throughout history up until very recently

Not to mention having to deal with the rhetoric against lesbians being so mind-numbingly dumb and illogical.
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Anonymous 126594

>>126593
what upgrade
you sound insane

Anonymous 126595

>>126594
To add: look, don't take this as a judgment on your personal self, but you're clearly under affect and other people can tell you're not okay. This is probably the reason why these women avoid you. This is basically THE incel mentality. I don't think you're doomed to be this way forever but you clearly need help first.

Anonymous 126596

>>126594
Some greasy unkempt freak << a woman who takes care of herself and isn't an asshole.
I get that he's a man but he's not even human at that point. Some disgusting blob of filth, like the average tranny or neckbeard? If they aren't gonna chase after a normal man, they might as well get with a butch or something because there is no way in hell the unkempt moid is more desirable.
I'm not talking about women seeking normal men, I am talking about the sheer amount of women who get with these unhygienic ugly failures of society. That is a paraphilia.
>>126595
It's not that women avoid me, I don't reach out to women because I do not know how to find women who are into other women. Dating apps are inherently unhealthy and the area I live in is full of woke slop because it's meant for people in their 30s/families, not people in their 20s. Every "lgbt" space here is trans-centric too and weirdly focused on "trans youth" in particular, which is creepy. The gay bar got shut down during Covid, I never got the chance to go there.
I am going to a concert for the first time next month and I plan on actually going outside places in general instead of being a recluse, but the blackpill has a grip on me regardless. I feel like no matter what I'll do, it will all be pointless. I hate the thought of going outside where I am forced to play nice toward trannies in order to have access to communities they should be kicked out of. I hate having my sexuality be some type of secret where I'm forced to be paranoid about in case something bad happens to me. I don't like being resentful like this, though. I just kinda hope theres women out there as resentful as I am, and maybe we can meet together, we can have each other instead of being lonely incels.

Anonymous 126622

>>126590
Lesbians are the most whiny pieces of shit ever, lesbians are the most annoying sjw someone can think of, you supported trannies blindly before they started coming after you. It's not our problem, fuck off.

Anonymous 126626

being a lesbian doesn’t make you more oppressed than the average woman. call me lesbophobic or whatever idc. being an actual lesbian is very rare anyways. you guys are a very small group in general. also many lesbians act just as entitled and misogynistic as the average man. and even talk like borderline incels often. i mean you’re doing that rn. like just look at the way you talk about women you aren’t attracted to. quit your whining. you’re not more oppressed than the average woman and most of your experiences are the same as any other woman on earth.



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frustrated Anonymous 126270[Reply]

maybe i'm in the wrong here but my female friends who have boyfriends just make me so incredibly angry.
they just make me so frustrated because they'll say things like 'oh i hate men' and then turn around and tolerate their useless male partners because somehow they are the exception. (???) i dont understand it.
every heterosexual relationship i've ever witnessed in my life is a genuine fucking horror story!!!!
i dont know. i just hate that my friends willingly give their lives to retarded insecure men who genuinely dont care about them at all. like wake up!
sorry i just had to get that off my chest hahaha
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Anonymous 126456

>>126445
You aren't supposed to drink your own kool-aid.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drinking_the_Kool-Aid
See this post >>126453 she could be having a bf right now.

Anonymous 126462

>>126456
> she could be having a bf right now.
Idk what u think u know about me but I do not have one and would never wish to have one lol

Anonymous 126463

>>126462
Cool, now stop making everything about yourself, i was only using you as example.

Anonymous 126464

>>126463
> i was only using you as example.
Which is exactly why I said something abt it dumbass lmfao so sorry I'm apparently making everything about myself

Besides there was literally nothing wrong w/ what the other anon said so idk what ur issue is

Anonymous 126624

>>126623
imagine being this new



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Anonymous 126610[Reply]

I've never had a single friend in my entire life and I fully intend to keep it that way for the rest of my life. There are no friends in this world. All relationships form the way that they do based on power dynamics. All relationships are purely transactional. Anyone who you think is your friend will turn on you in a heartbeat once you are no longer of use to them. Love doesn't exist and never has.

There is no such thing as good people. All human beings are profoundly rotten to the core.

The sooner you learn this, the better.
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Anonymous 126613

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The more you have, the more that people want from you. The more you burn away, the more that people earn from you. The more you pull away, the more that they depend on you.

Anonymous 126617

You are what you eat or sometihng

Anonymous 126619

>>126610
>Anyone who you think is your friend will turn on you in a heartbeat once you are no longer of use to them. Love doesn't exist
Who hurt you?

Anonymous 126620

Love is real. That's why it hurts so much when you're not loved.
One of my parents loves me, but I found that the other doesn't. Hurts.

Anonymous 126621

>>126620
Real.
I've been loved by complete strangers, little acts of kindness and gentle compassion none of my family has ever given me. Love is gentle, it is soft but it is disciplined, and I think the worst part about love aside for not being loved is when you have to purposely part ways with something you love for both your sake and theirs, knowing they will never understand why you did so until they get better, something that may never happen.



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 126567

I dated the first guy who said he loved me online even if he ended up being a bad person because I just wanted to feel desired and now I’m back to feeling ugly ever since it ended and I should be “healing”

Anonymous 126614

>>126567
i know how you feel. i think it really fucked me up being told i was loved for the first time and then having him turn around and say he had been lying the entire time. including that i hadn’t deserved what other men had put me through and that he cared. basically being told everything that happened before had been deserved and also i deserved what he did too. i don’t think i will ever be the same.

Anonymous 126615

>>126614
I think that may be a cope on his part he's telling himself to distance from you. Like he's lying to himself to justify actions or feelings. I don't know your relationship ofc but this happens often enough for it to be likely nona! You were probably desirable enough for him to date you, he cared enough to uplift you etc. He's more likely ambivalent about it and thinks you didn't deserve it at least a bit.

Anonymous 126616

>>126615
that made me feel a little better. thank you sweet nona.

Anonymous 126618

I’ve lost weight but I still feel so fucking disgusting.
I know I should be proud of myself, but I can’t bring myself to be because in my mind I’ve made virtually no progress.
I started at 225 lbs and I now weigh 165. I’m not done losing yet, but I’m starting to feel really fucking discouraged.
I still look so fucking awful, if not just a little less wide than I used to be. I still have rolls and I can already feel the fact that I’ll have loose skin on my thighs and arms and stomach. The worst part is my legs, because I carry all my weight in my thighs so they’re still fucking gigantic.
Like even though I’ve lost weight and I’ll eventually get to my goal number, I won’t ever fucking feel pretty because I let myself get that big in the first place. It’s not even going to mean anything.
I struggled with binge eating all through out high school. I couldn’t take the feeling anymore so I decided I would finally try to stop binging and lose the weight, and I’ve been doing pretty consistently well as far as the scale goes, but I just feel like i barely have any visible progress to show for it.
I know I’m still overweight but even as I get closer to my goal I’m worried I’ll still look awful.
I feel so sick to my stomach because even after all I’ve put myself through I still can’t be beautiful and it’s all I’ve ever wanted but I guess it just isn’t attainable for someone like me. I hate living in my body, I hate looking the way I do.



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meeting internet boyfriend Anonymous 125231[Reply]

hi nonas,

have any of you met a moid from the internet before? i have been talking to a guy for a few months now and we are considering meeting. i have never had a relationship before so i'm nervous about what things will be like in person.. i don't know what to expect.

i have a tendency to self-sabotage and i worry that i am going to cut off this one chance i have at a relationship because i'm scared of what's unknown to me.. can anyone share advice?

thank you anyone who leaves a comment, i wish i had some friends i could talk to about this..
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Anonymous 125235

> hi nonas,
Kek, the surviving 1/3 of genuine posts ever posted in this site are trannies, aren’t they?

Anonymous 125265

Yes, when I was 13 I met a moid from discord. I got my virginity stolen from me that day.
met another last year, we got high, and again, in my weakened state, had sex.
met one last week and yet again, it was a hookup.

it made my self esteem plummet and reminder that I am a whore. I don't want to be a whore, I just crave physical intimacy, not even sex, just cuddles or kisses. don't meet up with moids from the internet. but if you do, make sure you trust him and its in a public place.

Anonymous 125266

>>125233
I really want to meet up with an anon moid, hes from Norway and is really sweet. I'm pretty against e dating, but my city is shit and I hate all the guys here. I've met up with 3 different guys from the internet and it all lead to us having sex.
I'm fine with sex, I just don't want it to be dominantly that. hopefully a true relationship.

Anonymous 126423

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>>125231

i met my bf when we were 15 on a Discord server. i was very socially inept and depressed and i hated talking to most moids but he was always very kind to me and never made me uncomfortable, always comforted me, never expected anything. one time i got fucked up and really drunk and confessed that i liked him in call, and eventually we started dating.

we were kind of on and off dating when we were younger because we were dumb and stupid. now i'm 22 and graduating nursing school and we're getting married next year and i'm moving in with him. i'm still bad with social stuff and i don't have any friends but he has always been there for me and i'm thankful.

keep looking nona God has a plan for you and he will bring you a wonderful man soon. he will make your life easier and shelter you from all the evilness in the world.

Anonymous 126604

>>126423
im genuinely tearing up reading this. that sounds so sweet i hope your life gets better with him :)



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Just one more year. What should I do? Anonymous 126476[Reply]

I'm stuck in a weird position.
When I newly turned 17, I met with a 30 year old guy from 4chan because I was lonely and wanted a friend. We had some common interests in games. We hung out at the arcade and in the same year, I went to his house to play co-op. However, the friendship was short lived as he asked me to be his girlfriend right after. I was young and stupid, I saw no issue with him. He was unfit and never had a girlfriend before, I never had a boyfriend before. So I thought I should give him a chance.
It's been 1 and a 1/2 years now. Due to feeling unsafe at home, as soon as I turned 18, I moved out to this dude's house. He said he'd support me. So I moved and enrolled to a highschool near his house.
Over time, living with him, I began to pick up on things that do not sit right with me.
Firstly, he has figurines of some anime girls that troubled me from the very first time I came over, but I thought I should just overlook it. Figurines of miku, vtubers and Fate characters. He has plushes of vtubers, his profile picture is a vtuber. He admits that he likes vtubers but doesn't watch them anymore. Yet when I criticise them for milking money from men he opposed me.
Things that disgust me include him loving the anime 'yuru yuri' a show common among lolicons, loving the soundtrack of 'yuru yuri', he downloaded all of them and calling the government 'woke' because the age for marriage is 18. Other than this, I told him I do not use twitter, but everyday, I check what he has posted and who he recently follows. When I checked his following for the first time, I burst into tears. It was anime porn artist after anime porn artists. Most of his following was that. Yet checking his recently followed, he still actively interacts with these anime porn artists. When he shows me something on twitter, he's very wary and cautious of ever scrolling too much, and when he accidently does - it's all vtubers and ecchi drawings of anime girls. Last night, I checked his following again, and I cried again discovering he followed 20 more disgusting anime artists.
The worst thing is, these anime porn artists also draw porn of underage characters… in other words loli. It's a trend I've noticed across the artists he indulges in.
I feel so stupid, I was too young and dumb to notice this before I lived with him. And now I'm stuck with this borderline pedophile. I should've picked it up when I told him my real age and he said "15 is legal anPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 126560

>>126555
Honestly, I'm inclined to take that back.
Like the part about making weird implications, I'm sure you'll make a great doctor, using a moment of weakness against you was really mean of me, I'm sorry about that. I still think you shouldn't kill him ofc, you're right to think about your future.
But you're basically still a child with your whole life ahead of you and being with a pedo is definitely dangerous for you, get out of there

Anonymous 126563

leave him, listen to your intuition. he’s a pedo gooner. take photos and screenshots of all of his degeneracy and send it to his family. does him mom know about this or does she just enable it? also, see if there are any women’s shelters near you. can you get him to give you money, like lie and say it’s for like cosplay lingerie or something?

Anonymous 126586

>>126560
>>126560
i was going to yell at you but i was too tired. i’m not her but thank you for apologizing to her.

Anonymous 126600

>>126586
Yeah, I tried to delete the post but I can't since 30 minutes have passed.
Thank you for being someone who yells at people when they say stupid things.
>>126476
Once again, I'm really sorry, don't even read that shitty post at >>126555
I get into a both-sides mentality too easily when abuse is usually from one aggressor to someone whose aggression is usually just self-defense.
You clearly have many reasons to defend yourself, especially after what you've experienced and the overall person that moid appears to be.

Anonymous 126603

>>126486
you have the same mentality of a moid. stop slutshaming depressed women.
>>126600
thanks for owning up to your mistake instead of just running away from responsibility like a lot of people do.
>>126525
im not qualified to give any advice, but i just wanted to say i hope things get better for you. i know how it feels, thinking that the only love you'll get is from the lowest of the low. that pedofag doesn't deserve you.



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