>>129687
You are not selling a dream. Just slave your way into a small studio and give up all your dreams, live alone and die alone.
What if I don't want to?

mmm, schadenfreude

get a nursery job and learn some plants and basic customer service they are very busy this time of year the greenhouses are hot but you adapt

>If I don't find a husbando by the time I'm 23
Dayum I'm 23 next year so it's over for me?

>>129537
If you like sex, casual sex isnt for you. You need to get to know each others bodies first, likes and dislikes etc.

I have personal circumstances that prevent me from being able to have a long term relationship but I still want affection. Its not the healthiest but I can squash my feelings easily because I remind myself of the circumstances I’m in and other things that make me unworthy of a relationship. I also don’t have friends and only really interact with people for sex yet I’ve met interesting people this way.

>>128629
I've genuinely never met anyone who enjoys casual sex other than straight men, gay men and some butches who just covet masculinity to hide their own pain. This whole thing that everyone loves casual sex is a LARP.

>>128629
You think I'd be interested in casual sex because I'm a bippie but I've been assaulted, stalked and borderline raped that almost nothing excites me about men anymore and I haven't tried casual sex with women either so… it's not worth it. I have a surprisingly low sex drive I just blame my trauma for it

I'm a 99% straight woman. I sleep peacefully knowing I will never have ONS with moids. Its one of the most demonic shit sold to women.
But I want to try it with a woman so bad.. Just like how it should be anyways.

The thing with making friends is that most people already have friends, so you'll come across a lot of people who already have as many friends as they are satisfied with. Look for fellow loners. Although lonely x lonely does come with its own troubles.

>>129699
I never thought of it that way, specially because I'm quite insecure even though I have always been told I'm attractive.

I'm not perfect just like everyone but I like to think that I'm good at understanding people and getting along with them, I'm kind and entertaining, I am pretty sensitive though so maybe I value friendship more than what the average people do.

>>129705
Yes, I struggle with this big time. I have tried this as well, I was hanging out with a girl who I thought was in the same situation as me. It was extremely one-sided, I tried to give her the benefit of the doubt (maybe she's shy/maybe she needs some time to feel comfortable with me). There weren't any signs of her not being interested besides never taking initiative. Turns out she had a bunch of friends that I never knew about.

I feel you anon. All friends I had in school I fell out of contact with after a while (mainly because of us being put in different classes) and now I don't have any friends left from school. My only current friends are online friends but I know even those friendships are very shaky and could collapse at any time

I'm 22 and I have no friends.

My personal tinfoil but I genuinely believe that his channel was an incel psy-op astroturfed by YouTube to get more sympathy for incels in the world. Even when he uploaded his stupid wedding video the official YouTube headquarters channel commented saying "Congratulations!
Oh and let's not forget he even managed to get another girlfriend, a blonde American girl named Luna, before he met the current 7/10 wife that he's with. He uploaded some videos of Luna before he deleted them all and I guess the current wife came into the picture.

>>129315
No it would've been rip her dms you hate incels but keep gender reversing their talking points

>>129315
I'm not mad because I'm not bitter.

>>129655
>rip her dms
yeah her dms would be full of ugly faggots with horrible personalities with zero redeeming qualities. she would not magically score a cutie like this guy did.

You're not alone. Ugly man psyop is fucking real. Men love seeing women suffer.

>>129690
I’m aware I’m a degen, that’s why I wanna stop. I wasn’t really like this until recently and it makes me feel terrible

"He’s been a great partner and has been treating me amazingly" does not fit a porn addict profile, and you're not any better. Leave him and become a nun, you might be able to redeem yourself.

holy fuck you're a mess lmao

>>129708
yeah this is what shitty boyfriends and having BDD/former anachan does to u lol

>>129689
advice to you or anybody that has problems with their bf that they feel they couldn't resolve.
Break up.
Simple.
Never ever ever cheat, you immediately lose your argument if you do. Why cheat and stay in a relationship anyway if you don't like him anymore? Break up and finish it.

Porn has ruined moid brains to where they seek younger women and even children to a degree never before seen in history. Every moid is tainted so it becomes a question of staying single or dealing with their degeneracy to some varying degree

>>129710
I think it was the same before porn. In any case, as years passes men get less interested by your body.

>i feel like im losing my youth and guys won’t want me anymore.
they find women in their early 20s (18-25) to be the most physically attractive. desirability peaks at age 21, then declines 'significantly' after 31. you're not missing out on their concentrated attention by turning into a new adult, so you can safely shove off that anxiety for now.
besides, the ones you're talking about that hit on you during your younger years are hebephiles. predators. so there's no need to miss their interest, because it was always going to expire. they are not the kind of men you can rely on for proper relationships/family-rearing (if there are any at all.)

pedophilia feels everywhere because epstein bomb residue is all over the place. the normalisation of teen-fetishisation was far worse years ago, believe me. songs fully included predatory lines, and 'jokes' flew by without serious scrutiny. we're at a loss now since we're finally taking it seriously, and are disgusted to know that it's ALWAYS been this bad. we're noticing more - same phenomenon is happening with disease & sickness. detection is better. but of course the internet is making it easier for people to accept the commodification and fetishism of youth, and to abuse images and icons of desirability, aka to slip into fetishes/mentalities they'd otherwise avoid. all people after-all, regardless of sex, show a preference for youthful features.

but you'd be unlucky to marry and have children with an actual pedophile or minor-focused predator. unfortunately, they're charming and deceptive; not exactly easy to filter out. the best you can do is pick someone from a country that doesn't normalise child abuse, and learn how to quietly check his devices for cp before you have kids together.
if you can't cope with the risks, nor the idea of him losing attraction to you as you age, then don't bother at all. it's inevitable. and mutual. he'll get flabbier, balder, smellier, droopier. you need to think about losing interest in him as he gets older.

easy. have like a dozen children, collect child care, actually raise ur children and after they reach certain ages theyll be easy to look after if not basically looking after themselves and ur gucci

>>129702
Read yaoi and mock how ugly they are as a group in return. Its the only solution to their trash existence. They are hideous compared to women and have insufferable personalities and honestly deserve to be in the basement. We are supposed to give a shit about their hideous masculinity why? Can someone seriously explain why we don't turn them all into goon material since thats all they deserve to be? Thats what they do to us. Porn has obliterated gender relations. Use it against them and goon to young bishies only. <3

>>129700
Two different strains of feminism that despise each other to the death, anon. You haven't picked that up yet?

>>129715
In that case, I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism. A movement need a general direction.

>>129727
>I can be an activist for any cause and says that it's feminism
That's pretty much what happens

>>129700
Men need to have their sexuality controlled, women don't. Men should not have easy access to women's bodies through porn, prostitutes, social norms, etc. etc. but it's fine if people have easy access to men's body. These things need to be regulated for men, not women. The ONLY time a man should see a woman naked is if she decided to let him.

The amount of fandom spaces I've been in that got infested with child groomers and other sexpests is insane so I feel your pain nona. Seems like almost every online group is full of these types of insane people

>>129722
Me too, I've only been with a woman once online and I'm terrified of men at this point. I find it hard to click which women are bi / gay that I'm embarrassed to ask and pursue irl. If anyone who's dated girls has tips please send them

you're not

There’s nothing wrong about your decision and embracing the single life.

You're not being too stubborn at all, I think you are noble, and I'm sorry about your miscarriage nona

>My ex says I'll grow out of it but,

Babe, that's not true. He either has no empathy or doesn't understand. You don't just grow out of something like that. It's your child. Even if it was a miscarriage, it is still your child.

It's always okay to feel how you feel, and your feelings don't suddenly go away or change, it's still you despite everything. You don't magically grow out of yourself.

If you've already broken up once, then he's an ex, and exes are exes for a reason. Clearly not compatible and not on the same wave length. It has nothing to do with age either. The cycle of breaking up and getting back together happens with teenagers, those in their 20s, those in their 30s, those in their 40s, etc. It's just a clear sign that they aren't the right person for you.

Sex isn't love either. Love is genuinely caring, being compassionate, having empathy, supporting, and being able to relate to how you feel without dismissing it as "Bro just grow out of it"

>sex genuinely hasn't brought me much good in my life

Sex isn't for everyone. For many people (both men and women) it's just entertainment. Men use women to entertain themselves. Women use men to entertain themselves.

Some women like to cater to those men and talk dirty ("my pussy is sooooo wet", "And I would really look forward to you fucking my boobs fast and hard with your dick until you explode all over them", "Which position do you want to try anal in first?" or "I’d also really enjoy if you lick both of my holes from behind while I’m on all fours mmm" etc), talk about various sex acts such as blowjobs, different positions, anal sex. It's all about catering to him and validation or they want to feel 'desired' and 'wanted' as if they are only useful for entertaining him sexually. The "PICK ME" women. The women who feel like they're not attractive enough so they have to go far and harder to appeal to men sexually.
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