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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 132209

>>132204
really feel you nona. hang in there, get your work finished.

Anonymous 132221

I hate scrotelets so much and the doormat boymoms that enable them.
>>132209
Thanks, your encouragement is much appreciated.

Anonymous 132225

I wish I was high

Anonymous 132237

Why are brown moids so obsessed with watching other brown moids kick a ball?

Anonymous 132242

>>132237
Why are you so cranky about football? It's the world's largest sport so obviously people will care. They'd act this way about literally any sport if it were as big. It just so happens for football you don't need expensive equipment like most other sports. You just need a ball and an open field so of course it spread as much as it did.



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Cool facts about women! Anonymous 132063[Reply]

1. During pregnancy, cells pass back and forth between a mother and her baby. What is truly amazing is that these baby's cells can stay active in the mother's body for decades after birth—a phenomenon known as fetal microchimerism.
If a mother’s heart, liver, or other organs suffer an injury later in life, these lingering fetal cells will actually migrate straight to the site of the damage. Once there, they can transform into the specific types of cells needed to help repair and heal her body.

2. A surprising number of life-saving and everyday inventions were born purely out of women looking out for others. In 1902, a woman named Mary Anderson was riding a streetcar during a freezing sleet storm in New York City. She noticed that the driver had to keep opening the front window to manually wipe away the ice, leaving him shivering and delaying the passengers.
Feeling bad for the freezing driver, she went home and sketched out a lever-operated rubber blade that could clear the window from inside the cabin. She patented the very first windshield wipers a year later, entirely because she wanted a stranger to stay warm and dry.

3. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, a brilliant group of women known as the "Harvard Computers" completely revolutionized astronomy. At a time when women weren't allowed to operate the university's telescopes, they were hired to analyze thousands of photographic glass plates of the night sky by hand.
Despite being barred from the actual observatory equipment, their mathematical precision unlocked the universe. Annie Jump Cannon created the star classification system still used by scientists today, and Henrietta Swan Leavitt discovered how to measure distances in deep space—the exact "cosmic yardstick" Edwin Hubble later used to prove the universe is expanding.

4. Biologically, some women possess an actual superpower when it comes to perceiving the world. While the average person has three types of color-sensing cone cells in their eyes, a genetic variation allows some women to possess four distinct types of cones.
This condition, called tetrachromacy, allows them to see up to 100 million different colors—roughly 100 times more than the rest of us. Where a standard eye sees a basic green leaf or a gray concrete wall, a tetrachromat can perceive an incredibly rich, shifting gradient of entirely distinct shades and tones that most people simply cannot detect.

Women are amazing!
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8. When the Electronic Numerical Integrator and Computer, “ENIAC” (the world’s first programmable, digital computer) was unveiled in 1946, the engineers who built the hardware were hailed as pioneers. But the machine itself was just a massive, silent room of vacuum tubes, wires, and switches. To make it do something useful, a team of six mathematicians was hired: Jean Bartik, Frances "Betty" Holberton, Kathleen Antonelli, Marlyn Meltzer, Frances Spence, and Ruth Teitelbaum.
At the time, "software" didn't exist as a concept or a career. These women were handed raw electronic schematics of the machine and told to figure out how to make it calculate complex calculus equations. Without programming languages, manuals, or operating systems, they manually mapped out logical data flows, invented the concepts of subroutines and nested loops, and physically programmed the computer by configuring thousands of switches and cables. They literally drafted the blueprint for modern software engineering.

9. The global lifespan gap, where women systematically outlive men by an average of 5 years, isn't just a result of lifestyle choices. It is tied to basic cellular preservation.
Every time a human cell divides, the protective caps at the ends of its chromosomes, called telomeres, shorten. When telomeres get too short, the cell stops functioning and dies. However, the female hormone estrogen directly stimulates the production of telomerase, an enzyme that repairs and maintains these chromosomal caps. This molecular defense slows down the rate of cellular aging, giving women a systemic biological advantage against the structural degradation of tissues and blood vessels over a lifetime.

10. From a genetic standpoint, women do not possess a uniform genetic expression across their entire body. Because a double dose of X-chromosome genes would cause a toxic overproduction of proteins, female embryos undergo a process called Lyonization (discovered by geneticist Mary Lyon) during early development.
In every single embryonic cell, one of the two X chromosomes is randomly selected, crumpled up into a dense, silent ball called a Barr body, and permanently turned off.
Because this selection happens independently in each cell, a woman's body develops as a literal patchwork quilt of genetic expression. Some patches of tissue exclusively use the X chromosome inherited from her mother, while neighboring patches use the X chromosome from her father.
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Anonymous 132066

Thank you anon. Have a nice day.

Anonymous 132218

Period blood contains potent antibacterial peptides and stem cells that offer significant medical and therapeutic benefits. MenSCs are being investigated for treating infertility, endometriosis, liver failure, spinal cord injuries, and heart attacks ♥

Anonymous 132240

Hocky pocky, "wifi" is the "black men invented peanut butter" for women.
No, we don't have to thank females for it, because women didn't invent it, or the internet, or computers, or radio, or anything really.

Anonymous 132241

>>132240
And don't forget to thank men for all these things, and for every building, and for allowing you to pretend to be equal beings for the past 100 years.



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Lonliness Anonymous 7090[Reply]

Do you guys ever struggle with loneliness? Is the feeling almost constant and intense, or is it more buried and hidden until you think about how alone you are?

Share you thoughts, feelings, vents, insecurities, fears etc about loneliness, maybe we can all help each other out to not feel so alone for a second <3
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Anonymous 132222

>lonely since childhood
>want to be in relationship
>realize moids are scum
>continue being lonely

Anonymous 132227

>>132222
What made you realize that?

Anonymous 132235

>>132227
Back when I was trying to date, I met a lot of garbage-tier scrotes, including one that tried to rape me.

Anonymous 132236

>>132235
I'm sorry to hear you went through such a bad experience. You've sworn off dating entirely I take it? Well I suppose I can't blame you. I do hope things are better for you these days

Anonymous 132239

>>132236
There’s a part of me that still has a sliver of hope in moids. Finding a single good non-abusive man is like finding a unicorn. I think it’s more an issue of nurture than nature. I feel like no one has really called moids on their bullshit until the last few centuries, yet they are still allowed to be domineering shitbags in our society.



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132231

>>132230
i adore concentrated juice ;; really bad. this time i only had maybe 2-3servings total? but i’m still supposed to have only ONE cup. why is it so delicious if it’s not good for me. i hate it, and i want more

Anonymous 132232

>>132231
Lol I don't mean to laugh at your troubles but this is the most adorable post I've seen on this site. You could try diluting the juice with water before drinking so it's less concentrated. Maybe that'll stop your desire to drink so much.

Anonymous 132233

>>132232
by god, i could dilute it…
and that would discourage me…
in theory…
ill put the theory to the test tmr

Anonymous 132234

>>132233
If that doesn't work then you go for the nuclear option which is only drinking water for the rest of your life. Honestly 80% of what I drink these days is just water. It's not so bad once you get used to it

Anonymous 132238

Kinda just randomly had this idea for a book.

You know how everyone says "if you were sent in time, it's not like you'd be able to transfer any useful scientific knowledge".

So I thought, what if there was a book on exactly that, documenting a bunch of useful concepts, laws, etc, that would give anyone an overview of science overall?
Most importantly it would have something like a contents page so you would be able to skim through everything.



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Wishing to be a normie Anonymous 132208[Reply]

My cousin is so “normal” and I envy her sometimes, not really her life but how easily she seems to make decisions and stay kind of oblivious and content.

She has the career in corporate hell (based on her personality she’s the type to believe if you work hard you’ll get promoted even though this is rarely true), the husband (who is literally just a TikTok rage bait video at this point), the kid (who will likely grow up repeating the same cycle or check out of society), the house (poorly made in America, basically cardboard and always needs repairs), the car (expensive, pretty sure it’s like 80k), the vacations (they just go to hotels and say they visited that country).

All these things are good if it’s with the right people don’t get me wrong.

It seems like in the West, people either naturally fit into this kind of life and enjoy it, or they’re pressured into it and eventually learn to be fine. Then there’s everyone else, who they call losers, who are either too unstable health-wise or financially to deal with life, can’t give a shit because it’s all going to crap anyway, or stuck in the “should I or shouldn’t I” limbo.

I think I’m stuck in that limbo. This might sound crazy, but I think about just trying to fit the normal life to pass time because life is too long. Like my cousin will likely wake up one day divorced, doing gig work, fired from her job for daring to be older than 50, etc., but at least she’ll be 50-something and have spent those 20-something years doing something, unlike me who is essentially doing nothing.

I’ve chatted to some people online anonymously who’ve said they regretted doing the normie life. The grass is greener on the other side. I don’t think these people actually picture what they would be doing if they weren’t doing what they’re doing now.

Maybe I’ll marry an “incel”, adopt a kid, and hope my shitty mindset won’t be passed on.

But who am I kidding. I think you really need to be a bit oblivious and used to making “dumb” decisions to live life like this. I don’t think you can fake it, even though people say they are every day. I don’t really believe it, or maybe I’m just so lazy that I can’t even imagine faking it.

Anonymous 132211

>>132208
Keep redditspacing and you'll be a normie in no time.

Anonymous 132212

>I don’t think you can fake it, even though people say they are every day
They don't want to accept that their life is who, and what, they actually are: that they put themselves there. People can't fake their way into this position: it has to be who they are. People aren't anything other than their own lives, they're not separate from it, and pretending they were sleepwalking all along is nothing but a coping mechanism.
If you think a normie lifestyle requires an obliviousness and contentment that you simply don't have on instinct, then wouldn't you go crazy trying to force this life? Don't bother thinking about it, it's not for you. You don't need to show anything for the amount of time you've lived, unless you're scared of being judged or pitied. That alone is a normie reason to bother having a family and mortgage. You would've done it by now, surely.

Anonymous 132214

I'd like to know what you consider to be abnormie (and what aspects of yourself you count as such) because it seems to me like you've set a pretty narrow definition. You could very reasonably expand your understanding of normie quite a bit, and perhaps that would include you.
I think you are not noticing, for example, the fact that you're a fluent typer who is reasonably articulate and doesn't type in an autism accent. Intelligent neurotypicals can recognise autism by typing style and discriminate thusly, and you either don't have it or are able to disguise that fact well, so congratulations either way.

Anonymous 132226

>>132208
Is your definition of normie being a stark raving loser with no aspirations



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Mean Girl Predators Anonymous 131854[Reply]

I went to the hair salon and got my hair done. Afterward, the hairstylist started taking pictures of me to advertise her work on Instagram without asking for my permission. It made me feel really insecure, and then she did the typical, “Oh no, sweetheart, you’re so gorgeous.”

I really hate that kind of “baby girl” manipulation some women use with other women, acting overly nice and showering you with compliments while taking advantage of you or dismissing how you actually feel.

I call it the “baby girl” act because it reminds me of a certain YouTuber who has that exact performative personality (rhymes with Yasmin Fan)
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Anonymous 131879

compliments are levied to shut down insecure people when a person can't be bothered to deal with them, but still wants to seem like they're giving a thoughtful reply. or wants to just get on with something, like this lady needing your photos for her social media. if you kept rejecting her then she'd be inconvenienced; so of course she defaults to petty babyish soothing. it's so utterly self centred and irritating. people will always opt to save face at the cost of outright neglecting people's dignity. sure, it's uncomfortable to acknowledge self image issues, but why rely on a cheap dismissal like "you're so gorgeous" as if that fixes anything

Anonymous 131881

>>131879
Okay but you're literally gorgeous

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>>131881
take me seriously!

Anonymous 131886

>>131885
Sorry sorry I'm a prankster at heart you see. It's in my nature to tease a bit. I do think your complaints are reasonable which is why it's important to stand up for yourself in the moment.

Anonymous 132223

u are so pretty i wish u saw your beauty, im sure she was genuinely complementing you!! but i do agree if you didnt consent she shouldve never posted it!!!



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Anonymous 132144

>56 years
Ancient nona vent

Anonymous 132166

wiggles n squirms

Anonymous 132215

What is this broken post? Am I the only one who can't see a thread OP?

Anonymous 132217

>>132215
You're not the only one. There are a bunch of these posts at the bottom of the catalog, so they're presumably tests of some kind



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I am the most disgusting woman alive Anonymous 128747[Reply]

Everything about me is wrong and it's making me seriously consider suicide. For context, I was born disabled, mentally and physically. And it shows on my face especially, I look 40 years old at only 19, my back is crooked, my teeth are disgusting and I have deep eye bags to the point where people think I am on meth. I am a 6th grade drop out due to my intellectual disability and I might be homeless soon. I might be kicked out since I am unable to work and I have piles of trash in my room that I am too tired to clean and I piss myself since my bladder is fucked up. I really want to fix my life but I am ashamed to even leave the house because of my condition and I am scared of how people might react to me. I am confused on where to even start.
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Anonymous 128750

Consider reading or listening Dhammapada. It has never failed to ease my mental pain.

Anonymous 128753

i’d say ghislaine maxwell and what’s-her-name (the wife of the guy who kidnapped the girl in the box) are worse though

Anonymous 128754

at least take solace that you are a person of moral character.

Anonymous 128779

>>128749
>>128751
Thank you for the advice. I am definitely trying to get my HS diploma so I can have a better chance at getting a job so I can finally have some type of independence. I live in an area with a lot of resources for that so I just have to gain the courage to actually go out which I am working on. Reading this made me feel really seen so thanks for taking the time to write this, I appreciate it.
>>128750
I've actually been wanting to read more so I will look into this. Thanks for the recommendation

Anonymous 132213

Have you made any progress?



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Friendship Anonymous 132205[Reply]

I feel lonely, but I also want to be left alone. I miss familiarity, intimate conversations, and the kind of easy banter that comes naturally with people who know you well. But when it comes to the reality of maintaining friendships: texting regularly, making plans, calling, showing up consistently, and all the emotional labor that goes into sustaining those relationships… I just can’t bring myself to do it.

I don’t know if it’s because I’m lazy, emotionally drained, or because I’ve learned how fragile friendships can be. People move away, get caught up in work, partners, kids, and family. Life changes, and relationships fade. After seeing that happen enough times, it’s hard to convince myself that it’s worth investing so much effort, especially when it often feels like I’m the one doing the chasing while the other person doesn’t seem to bother.

I envy people who seem to fit into life like a glove. People who belong wherever they go, who can find familiarity almost anywhere. I knew someone like that once. I hope they’re still enjoying that wrinkle in the fabric of life, where belonging comes so effortlessly.

Anonymous 132206

>spiting the backseat janny
based as fuck

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>>132205
You are indeed lazy because checking the catalog before making a new thread takes 2 seconds specially when you made this thread when the top 2 threads were general threads where your post could've fitted perfectly.



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