>>129212
he’s made it very clear he wants to get married! says he doesn’t want to date much longer than 4 years without my hand..

>>128940
I quit my job in June 2025 but other than that it's pretty much same to same. I'm trying to start applying for jobs but even seeing negative reviews online like glassdoor about unethical company behavior is triggering to me. Nobody around me understands and some even tell me I am entitled and privileged to be choosy about not wanting to get into a toxic job again.

>>129216
AYRT, and yes, I feel this. I had an interview with a company that had horrible glassdoor reviews, they ended up ghosting me before the final interview and I am relieved lol. I also withdrew my application for another job where I had a meeting with the VP. The other VP interview a week before went well, she was chill and warned me about the next interview stating that the engineer sill has ptsd from how intense it was and it just confirmed my bad gut feeling. Interview happens and the lady and I bickered a bit and since I am used to that leadership style I handled it well. She insinuated that I was going to move onto the final round but I emailed the hr lady after the interview and withdrew my application. I knew exactly what that job would be like and I noped out quick. I also live in Toronto and the job market here is absolute garbage. I know that I would rather be unemployed than work a toxic job ever again.

>>125646
Didn't enter the thread expecting to find something uplifting but this fills me with hope. It feels so good knowing at least some people can show kindness, although I'm sorry it makes you feel bad.

>>125681
I see where you're coming from, but I'd much prefer cutting a bloodline short over giving a poor child a father that fits your brother's description.

i want to get married and have children but i’m a subhuman retard who would be a terrible partner and mother. but i’m terrified of being alone. i should just rope

I love advocating for moids opening up about mental healths, because it shifts power dynamics and control back to me

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

>>129217
I find that most of the time when people complain about issues in their life, they want validation or a "rubber ducky" to bounce off ideas and to get things out of their head, aka venting.

So usually I just say "damn that sucks" or the like and listen to them.

>>129225
It might be the case, but it might just be what I stated before, and not thinking about her view or how she thinks. Kinda shitty to make a post online about this and not talk to her in a mature manner but that isn't really uncommon in most current relationships.

>>129224
Ding ding ding. More women need to figure this one out.

if they are my chums i will listen to a moid be sad chungus but if the moid whinges about how women won't shag him or he blames women for his problems I simply chortle and go on with my merry day
also it's rather gay how most if not all deep revelations and deep sadnesses expressed by y chromies is shit that i and my female peers have clocked when we were like 8

>>129239
This isn't just not liking casual sex it's obviously something psychological. Cause eventually Nona is gonna find someone she really loves and stays with for a while and she just won't be able to do anything. If she were truly asexual/not want to sleep with people she doesn't know well or something it would be fine.

>>129237
Yes, especially since you were exposed to it so young. Consuming that stuff can alter the way you experience and act on attraction which is probably why you struggle despite wanting it. Imo as you are, don't worry about trying to have sex. You aren't in the right headspace, and your perception of it is probably screwed by watching it from childhood to your twenties.

>>129239
yeah, but i've only had with men in committed relationships, i still disliked it.

although, the first time i had sex with a girl it was casual. it felt like less of a chore than sex with moids. i disliked how i felt afterwards; i felt used, despite it being consensual. also i was the pillow princess.

i dont dislike intimacy, sex just scares me. i love masturbating, though.



>>129238
how do i get in contact with such a person, through my doctor? all therapy i've had has been rubbish, but i may have some underlaying trauma.




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>>129205
Honestly real. Sex is scary

>>129237
>do you think porn could be the issue?
It definitely is an issue, especially starting at an early age. And masturbation can re wire the brain to only like masturbation and not enjoy normal sex, masturbating to porn got many people into voyeur/cuckshit

>>129239
This

Don’t capitulate

keep going! you'll not only look better, but feel better too. :3

>im not gonna lie im pretty ugly, fat, and retarded LOL
Same ;_; ive thought this exact same thing lmao.
But I mean just stay consistent with working out and I would say just try to make content you never know, your profile /might actually blow up so shit y not try. And people that make fun of people and lolcows on the internet are sad as fuck, so just ignore

I'd get all kinds of bloodwork done honestly just to see if there really is something you can do about it all and if it doesnt have to do with your health then I'd take a good look at whether your surroundings are not too much for you, like work or living situation

I just crash out and let it burn me until there's nothing left to burn. It happens inevitably, then I heal, I find the light again, and it happens all over again. Just take it slow, pray, wtv. And what nona above said: check your health, both physical and mental as well as ur situation. Not much you can usually do about your situation, but pinpointing issues can help reduce the burden or in ruling out key issues. Feel better nona

Some posters have been using this thread to vaguely communicate with others and to spam dozens of one-liners one after the other. Don't use this thread as a chat thread. Your posts will be removed.

>>128961
thank you.

>>128239
Mom,
The older I get the more I understand you and realize the things you tried to tell me all along.
I see myself slowly become all the things I used to hate about you.
I was not a good daughter.
I sit and think about all the times you have asked me to come home. They play through my head and it hurts. I'm sorry I hurt you and I know you're right.
I'm too prideful to admit I was wrong.
I love you.

https://www.tiktok.com/@etherealsyd/video/7606845906981309727?_r=1&_t=ZT-94CgREpsT4Y

No, I'll never give the hunt up, and I won't muck it up
Somehow this is it, I knew, maybe fate wants you dead too
We've come together in the very same room, and I'm coming for you
Do you think I'd ever let you get away with it, huh?
He swooned in warm maroon
There's gas in your barrel, and I'm flooded with Doom
You've made a wake of our honeymoon, and I'm coming for you

You barely sound like a native speaker of your only language, how could you possibly think you're qualified to decide what counts as proper english?

>>129250
I know it always makes me sad when he gets teased, he doesn't deserve it even though I admit he is rude sometimes (unintentionally mostly but still). And same, I only watch bbt for Sheldon too. I can watch it over and over for him kek even thou the show gets on my nerves a lot

>>129232
You could but you told them to fuck off and refuse to give the sheldons of the world the time of day.

Personal Accountability is a dirty term indeed.

>>129260
I've never met a man like him in person before. I wish I had nerdy stuff around me so I could have more of a chance doe. But tbh I don't think men like him exist irl. He is so perfect real men could never compare. I mean he is quirky and cute, like and manic pixie dream boy. Too perfect to be real

You don't actually like emotionally unavailable men, you just think you do

nophono

>>128302
Youre hating on ugly women in an industry that commodifies them what

I get the hideous moid part but please name me some celebrity women that are ugly

This looks like more of the same basic primal bimbo shit

>>128304
I never said any celebrity women were ugly what I said the men were ugly

>>128302
Real as fuck. Male comedians piss me the fuck off

realizing how many of my bad social traits and petty/spiteful impulses stem from being around actual retarded white trash faggots from discord who punished any form of sincerity and transparency in other people. i'm free now, i don't have to play by their rules