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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

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Anonymous 126707

i think my favorite part is that for two people supposedly interested in art you could not have chosen an uglier year to do this.

Anonymous 126708

like let’s keep it all straight you didn’t even have an engagement party. her dads birthday party was an actual party. nothing to celebrate and no one to celebrate with. but at least she had a support system that um. even if you don’t do a wedding and a registry is going to all find this stuff with your full names. like her entire extended family is going to read all of this?

Anonymous 126709

genuinely get the zoomies when i realize this is forever for you and you’ve locked yourself into a multiple year pattern ending in a horrible divorce where you have to coparent and share custody after and it’s deadass written in your chart. i cannot wait for the aftermath.

Anonymous 126710

please please please get pregnant out of wedlock. for me. to laugh. just to be that little bit trashier. i already negged you into an engagement during an ugly dead leaf year and it couldn’t have been more rushed or desperate or so obviously with me in mind if you had tagged me. like that one picture where you try to look badass thinking of hurting me and all the ones where you look miserable and scared and socially awkward. please just have a crazy band aid baby situation that ends with you killing yourself because you have a responsibility now. i want death and darkness for you. i want misery.

Anonymous 126724

it fucking creeps me out you never gave me my michael kors ballet flats back. fuck you for stealing my necklace but it genuinely makes me cry you probably like smell my expensive flats and i’ve literally never found a pair narrow enough for my feet in my size since. i hate you so fucking much why did you have to keep my stuff too? we had a cordial fucking breakup until you came to my fucking work. why the fuck couldn’t you even give me back my sentimental and valuable possessions? why are you so fucking weird and cruel? you bother me so much. i seriously hope the rest of your life since me continues to be hell and i’m glad you got a dishonorable discharge the second you hurt me. i hope every time you think of that part of your life you see abusing and raping me as a fatal fucking error that ruined the rest of your life. like when you choose an outcome in a game that makes the rest of the game impossible to win. fuck you.



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Anonymous 126713[Reply]

i fucking hate performative males. i hate them i hate males who pretend to like music and fashion and sanrio and plushies and whatever else they think girls would find them interesting for i literally cannot fucking stand it. none of them have real personalities or interests and they know they will never be fucking interesting so they do this shitty job of copying women. all they're interested in is pretending to be book reading feminists to fuck girls and then immediately going back to being as shitty as they always were.
males are so fucking stupid because none of them can even think for themselves. the only people who are impressed by their perfomative lana del rey listening are their faggot friends lmao
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Anonymous 126719

guyzzz : ( but the "male loniness epidemic" guyzzz… feelz bad for the males, guyz…. Mainstream media has been calling them shitty for the past decade, guyzzz!

Lol, fucking christ. It's amazing how these moids talk about how strong they are and shit but they can't handle mainstream media lightly ragging on them for 10 years while women had to endure being dehumanized all of humanity up until very recently, then having to learn all that at a young age when going to school, then with the internet being told at a young age you are worthless as a female, not to mention every major religion has men as the authority, with every single country in the entire world giving men all their rights + more rights than women. With nowadays, the concept of "lgb" communities has been dominated by straight and gay men thanks to tranny nonsense, where the only acceptable "queer" being either someone who likes men, crossdressing men, or wants to be a man.
Not to mention on a fucking biological level, men are stronger than women physically, so again, another privilege they have.

Anonymous 126720

>>126718
so he's still a moid and a performative male except now hes a Buffalo Bill.

Anonymous 126721

>>126720
i can’t even make this up he transitioned after he saw his best friends dick and tried to come on to him

Anonymous 126722

>>126721
Did he think he was straight beforehand? Lol wut.

Anonymous 126723

>>126722
no idea but i dated my ex right after he saw it and i could sense there was maybe something more there and then he came out as bi first and then last i heard he was exploring his gender identity and just like. jesus. i’m pretty sure that was the catalyst for the feelings developing but idk if it was all of it.



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How has Lana del Rey influenced you? Anonymous 126670[Reply]

I have a personal theory that listening to Lana turns women into pickmes.
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Anonymous 126702

Fell in love with a guy in LDR who made me feel like video related.
He turned out to be a really problematic and gaslighting creep.

still with him

Anonymous 126712

>>126702
You might be who OP is talking about.
You don't have to be.
Do you really believe that you don't deserve better than that?

Anonymous 126715

>>126702
u can do better nona u dont deserve to stay with a horrible male

Anonymous 126716

It's crazy how I never listened to Lana Del Ray even though I knew about the coquette scene back when it was niche. I just thought all the women were attractive lol
Maria and The Diamonds though… She was the goat. Better than Lana and Melanie hands down.
>>126693
Ethal Cain is irrelevant, that's a fucking moid. God I hate that stupid fuck so much. Men literally can't leave women the fuck alone even when it comes to aesthetics/music that is exclusively about womanhood. TTD.

Anonymous 126717

>>126699
if she just masked more she would be so much more successful but she is authentic in a way that i think frightens a lot of people and they struggle to just take her at face value and believe what she says about herself and try to categorize someone who is intentionally having an authentic experience and therefore isn’t trying to flatten herself into one dimensionality and fitting in one neat little box like people want women to be



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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>>126151
Try your best not to end up like me really, try your hardest. The older you get the harder everything becomes, especially if you don’t have a base to support yourself.
Get a degree, bf, gf, a presence whatever. Just don’t spend your 20s rubbing your pussy and browsing the web without learning any skills like I did.

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>>126680
Resonant post, but can still claw your way out of the muck at 27, right? Right?

Anonymous 126696

Nobody gives a shit if you have autism stop using it as a crutch every time you feel slightly bad about something

Anonymous 126701

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A couple of days ago my mum had a long phone call with her brother. This is good. We're a distant, borderline anti-social, family of weirdos who only see one another at tragic occasions, so I'm in favour of anything that shifts the dial on that.

Last night my mum speaks to me and says I should get in touch with my cousin (uncle's daughter). She's right, I should. I've only seen her once in over a decade, which was earlier this year, and I really need to stop being lazy and insecure about keeping in touch. However, my mother then procedes to tell me that I should do this because of a whole mountain of very sad, very personal information that was told to my uncle in confidence, by my cousin. So not only has he blabbed, my mum then tells me, meaning if I do spend time with my cousin, I'm now going to have to lie by omission and pretend I don't know anything. And then my mum is confused when I tell her she shouldn't have told me! This is personal information that I don't feel comfortable disclosing on a niche imageboard it's so specific and grievous. I'm still baffled by how casually it was volunteered.

You know, for most of my life I've felt insecure. Sometimes alienated to the point of feeling almost like an actual alien amongst another species. But not now. Now I've developed and in doing so I've realised that everyone else is a lunatic. I hear stories about people cutting contact with their adult children for minor disagreements, I get advice about using generative AI to write a speech for a wedding, and now this? No, no, no. I should be running classes called "Being Normal 101". Compared to where most people are at I'm practically a full PhD in normal behavior.

Anonymous 126711

>>126685
Perhaps, but I can’t see what to do in the coming years. I’ll probably try to go back to college and start a social media account to talk to people again.



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 126663

>>126638
People are grossed out from gay men doing that because of all the aids and poo.
AND the butthole isn't made for all of that stuff and it either literally falls apart or you get ass cancer.

Anonymous 126665

>>126659
>Masculine/feminine thing
I believe that femininity and masculinity is biological therefore female position in sex is always feminine aka servile, submissive, about surrendering etc..this is the problem.

Anonymous 126666

>>126661
Dick riding ain't femdom..dick riding is dick riding and femdom ain't real cuz of biology..harsh truth. In the raw reality we experience as humans women submit In sex. Its hard being a woman if to accept womanhood one must accept sexual submission. It makes me think that male troons who see womanhood as sexual submission and make up and femininity and dresses and heals are right.

Anonymous 126679

>>126666
Never said that dick riding is femdom.
Also, you're just repeating the same dumb shit over and over instead of actually taking a minute to engage with any point of view that's not already yours.
I'm starting to think that you're just a moid obsessed with reinforcing some imagined natural order where you're a crowned king for having a penis and every woman must be so envious and distressed because they have a hole where you have a rod. A very sensitive meaty joystick that begs to be squeezed and flattened by the way.

Anonymous 126698

>>126666
how is it submission



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Anonymous 126353[Reply]

I'm so tired of those girls on Tiktok who are self labelled 'femcels' . They all are conventionally attractive with boyfriends and most of them self diagnose mental disorders they don't have. It drives me insane
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Anonymous 126631

>>126353
the worst part is that they're unavoidable. you can make a brand new account from scratch, and if the algorithm detects you're a woman who displays chances of depression, they'll start feeding you "femcel" content. this is why so many normal people think that they're femcels or whatever. just because it's popular to pretend to be alone.

Anonymous 126656

femcels are not real.

Anonymous 126657

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>tiktok
eww

Anonymous 126667

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

Anonymous 126694

>>126667

/r/femcelgrippysockjail is mostly troons.



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How do you all cope? Anonymous 124938[Reply]

I struggle daily with finding meaning in anything, and feel so alone in all things. I recognize that so many people are just doing things to cope with that same dread and loneliness. It seems like no one knows what they are doing or why. It all seems so pointless to me. Why does anyone keep going? What is the point? How does someone even find real purpose? How do you all do it, nonas?
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Anonymous 125371

I feel the same nona :(
Right now I tried playing new games after feeling an awful depression. I started exercising, as well as enjoying hobbies and indulging into some of my interests.

Being yourself is being alive, everything you do is yourself. We are our actions.

You cannot just "be yourself" you are yourself already.

Real purpose is to find a goal, something you like, small perhaps.

Plunging something, pumping or doing a flip

you train hard
you fail you do it again
until you do it you process it
you move on
you do something else

Anonymous 125374

>>124938
Art is the only thing worth thinking about for me. It beings me joy that compares to nothing else.

Anonymous 126687

smoke so much weed and play stardew valley for forty straight hours or read an entire series in a week

Anonymous 126691

>>126687
Inspiring!

Anonymous 126692

>>126691
the memories can’t hurt me if i am number and i occupy every brain cell. or sleep



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every person I meet turns out to be cold while I want closeness Anonymous 126668[Reply]

So my first friend ghosted me without a word saying that she's not made for close bonds with anyone. My other friend said she doesn't feel the need to become close with someone. My yet another friend says the same. And my new friend said she doesn't get attached to friends and never feels deeply for them. Why am I so unlucky? And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close. I just want a deep connection and mutual attachment and obsession.
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Anonymous 126673

you gotta mirror and love bomb nona

Anonymous 126676

It sounds like you're picking from a stable of similarly guarded people and they're sensing you come on too strong. First question, obsession in a friendship?

Anonymous 126678

>>126668
Maybe you're acting too desperate?
That's relatable. You can't force it though, just try to feel comfortable with someone, that may work better than trying too hard to appeal to them.
>And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close.
>had
So they're not as close anymore?
I used to have three best friends I was super close with, but we drifted apart and they stopped talking to me completely. I'm now closest with someone I barely ever talked to and barely share interests with. We feel really comfortable with each other, she's just really chill. Sometimes, that's all you need.
You can still try being closer to that current closest friend. And make more friends while you're at it, you never know when someone could turn out to be someone you really want in your life.

Anonymous 126684

>>126668
Are these IRL friends or online “friends”?



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Lesbians are the most oppressed, idc Anonymous 126590[Reply]

>Discord will ban you if you don't like trannies
>Reddit will ban you of you don't like trannies
>/r9k/ supports prison gay men and attention seeking fakeecel ethots but will shit on you and exclude you for being a lesbian
>/lgbt/ will shit on you for not being a Goldstar
>radfems will shit on you for not finding fat hairy ugly bitches attractive or for liking anything that isn't holding hands and kissing bc anything else is "male gaze-y"
>right wing twitter shits on you for being homosexual
>left wing twitter shits on you for being transphobic, aka for being an actual homosexual
>Bluesky…. Why are you on Bluesky?
>I don't know any secret tags on Tumblr for lesbians, but the fact if there were any it would be annoying to have to walk on eggshells else-wise the tag gets raided for not liking trannies
>third world countries… You don't even have any rights.
>Most of the western world will arrest you if you publicly say you don't like trannies
>Even in America, trannies are allowed in female only spaces even if its prison or a domestic abuse shelter
>Growing up having to learn in school that you were treated as inferior in every way all throughout history up until very recently

Not to mention having to deal with the rhetoric against lesbians being so mind-numbingly dumb and illogical.
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Anonymous 126674

>>126635
oh yes another lesbian spewing some more misogynistic incel talk. jfc dude you are deranged.

Anonymous 126675

Tolerance to sexual deviancy has no place in a healthy society.

Anonymous 126681

>>126590
I used to get frozen pizza only on birthdays..

Anonymous 126682

>>126675
the way i started nodding before i realized what you weirdos were on about. how is a woman loving another woman DEVIANCY? go ask the men in your life hard questions and leave wlw alone? go bother a fucking coquette age player? literally there are entire reddit communities of pedos and people who molested children to harass. you could get this energy out any other way and instead you’re being homophobic because a girl will hold another girls hand. you sound crazy. literally there are men in your life who have harmed women and have crazy internet footprints. where is this energy for them?

Anonymous 126683

>>126681
i will make you a frozen pizza daily my princess. i would make you REAL pizza.



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