>>126661
Imagine the smell

>>126638
People are grossed out from gay men doing that because of all the aids and poo.
AND the butthole isn't made for all of that stuff and it either literally falls apart or you get ass cancer.

>>126659
>Masculine/feminine thing
I believe that femininity and masculinity is biological therefore female position in sex is always feminine aka servile, submissive, about surrendering etc..this is the problem.

>>126661
Dick riding ain't femdom..dick riding is dick riding and femdom ain't real cuz of biology..harsh truth. In the raw reality we experience as humans women submit In sex. Its hard being a woman if to accept womanhood one must accept sexual submission. It makes me think that male troons who see womanhood as sexual submission and make up and femininity and dresses and heals are right.

>>126666
Never said that dick riding is femdom.
Also, you're just repeating the same dumb shit over and over instead of actually taking a minute to engage with any point of view that's not already yours.
I'm starting to think that you're just a moid obsessed with reinforcing some imagined natural order where you're a crowned king for having a penis and every woman must be so envious and distressed because they have a hole where you have a rod. A very sensitive meaty joystick that begs to be squeezed and flattened by the way.

You're probably just scaring them.

>>126671
How?

you gotta mirror and love bomb nona

It sounds like you're picking from a stable of similarly guarded people and they're sensing you come on too strong. First question, obsession in a friendship?

>>126668
Maybe you're acting too desperate?
That's relatable. You can't force it though, just try to feel comfortable with someone, that may work better than trying too hard to appeal to them.
>And my closest current friend already had a best friend with whom she probably is close so with me she won't become close.
>had
So they're not as close anymore?
I used to have three best friends I was super close with, but we drifted apart and they stopped talking to me completely. I'm now closest with someone I barely ever talked to and barely share interests with. We feel really comfortable with each other, she's just really chill. Sometimes, that's all you need.
You can still try being closer to that current closest friend. And make more friends while you're at it, you never know when someone could turn out to be someone you really want in your life.

>>126670
A boy I used to hang out with was a big fan of Lana del Rey and insisted on buying me an album of hers. I listened to every song on it and I hated it. Very basic compositions, not many interesting musical elements, weird love lyrics… Just not my taste at all.
I probably would've liked her songs more if I at least didn't understand the lyrics.

being a lesbian doesn’t make you more oppressed than the average woman. call me lesbophobic or whatever idc. being an actual lesbian is very rare anyways. you guys are a very small group in general. also many lesbians act just as entitled and misogynistic as the average man. and even talk like borderline incels often. i mean you’re doing that rn. like just look at the way you talk about women you aren’t attracted to. quit your whining. you’re not more oppressed than the average woman and most of your experiences are the same as any other woman on earth.

>>126626
Hey man, it must be hard being a straight woman who has access to 50% of the population, with online communities literally everywhere meant for you, and then be stuck posting on some image board comparing women who only have access to <1% of the human population with zero online spaces of their own, shamed (and sometimes killed) for having the audacity to think about the same sex to yourself.

Like the fact there are communities where straight women can causally talk about wanting werewolf cock and fucking elderly ugly men pretending to be a child, being celebrated for it, yet a woman can't fucking talk about finding another woman sexy without it involving a man? Your dismissal proves my point. A straight woman can get into a healthy relationship with a man easily as long as she can recognize red flags, her options are seemingly limitless, this whole "all men are bad" shit and yet you call act holier than thou towards lesbian incels? LOL. Can't even say "sorry men don't wanna fuck your hairy fat self" because the irony is, a lot of men- including men with good personalities- would want to. Every type of man out there exists because you make up the majority, the only person stopping you from finding "true love" is literally yourself. Sorry daddy didn't like you growing up so you purposely exclude yourself from a privileged dating pool out of spite. Do women have less rights? Yeah, but you have an outlet where you can be yourself anywhere you want without being banned or shamed for a sexuality you can't even change, able to talk about whatever topic you want no matter how messed up as long as men are involved in some way. You have limitless distractions when it comes to TV, movies, games, etc. Every fantasy you can think of if you don't wanna reach out to someone, knowing that another woman created it too- making it less awkward to consume. We don't get that, but we do get to see the other side of the coin- gay men- get celebrated with every possible space you can think of meant exclusively for them, all the while we can't even have own lesbian bars because straight women insist on bringing their male friends into it and then acting like you're a horrid monster for daring to kick him out.

>>126635
yup it's inceldom forever for you, but mostly because you're highly insufferable, not because you're lesbian. not a lot of people on your wavelength so to speak

>>126635
oh yes another lesbian spewing some more misogynistic incel talk. jfc dude you are deranged.

Tolerance to sexual deviancy has no place in a healthy society.

I’m wondering the same thing. I’ve found some success with befriending older people (I’m 24, I’m talking 30+). it does feel quite hopeless, though.

>>123014

Damn, I'm in my 30s and having no luck. I feel like when I was younger I was more open minded or maybe this kind of thing has made it worse. Or perhaps my standards have changed…

>>123013
my guess is they'd be just as interested in meeting you as you are in meeting them but they will be hard to find.

the mainstream internet is a battlefield, completely corrupted by various non-consensual interests so my guess would be it'd be easier in real life. probably not in big cities.

Good question.

>>126399
BASED

>>126353
the worst part is that they're unavoidable. you can make a brand new account from scratch, and if the algorithm detects you're a woman who displays chances of depression, they'll start feeding you "femcel" content. this is why so many normal people think that they're femcels or whatever. just because it's popular to pretend to be alone.

femcels are not real.

>tiktok
eww

There's subreddit on reddit called femcelgrippysockjail and average woman in there dates men.

>>126614
I think that may be a cope on his part he's telling himself to distance from you. Like he's lying to himself to justify actions or feelings. I don't know your relationship ofc but this happens often enough for it to be likely nona! You were probably desirable enough for him to date you, he cared enough to uplift you etc. He's more likely ambivalent about it and thinks you didn't deserve it at least a bit.

>>126615
that made me feel a little better. thank you sweet nona.

I’ve lost weight but I still feel so fucking disgusting.
I know I should be proud of myself, but I can’t bring myself to be because in my mind I’ve made virtually no progress.
I started at 225 lbs and I now weigh 165. I’m not done losing yet, but I’m starting to feel really fucking discouraged.
I still look so fucking awful, if not just a little less wide than I used to be. I still have rolls and I can already feel the fact that I’ll have loose skin on my thighs and arms and stomach. The worst part is my legs, because I carry all my weight in my thighs so they’re still fucking gigantic.
Like even though I’ve lost weight and I’ll eventually get to my goal number, I won’t ever fucking feel pretty because I let myself get that big in the first place. It’s not even going to mean anything.
I struggled with binge eating all through out high school. I couldn’t take the feeling anymore so I decided I would finally try to stop binging and lose the weight, and I’ve been doing pretty consistently well as far as the scale goes, but I just feel like i barely have any visible progress to show for it.
I know I’m still overweight but even as I get closer to my goal I’m worried I’ll still look awful.
I feel so sick to my stomach because even after all I’ve put myself through I still can’t be beautiful and it’s all I’ve ever wanted but I guess it just isn’t attainable for someone like me. I hate living in my body, I hate looking the way I do.

>>126618
>>126618
hi, just know that the closer you are to your goal weight the better you'll look. youve made so much amazing progress already, and ive been in your place before. i also struggled to lose weight on my thighs but what helped the most is incline walking and power pilates. it doesn't matter how much you've used to weigh; what matters now is that you're changing and you're becoming healthier! keep going!

>>126630
thank you for the advice and kind words i really appreciate it nona :)

>>125768
they want a virgin because being the one who degrades her makes them excited. it’s not romantic. they want to be the one to defile you. they want someone who said no to everyone else. they don’t actually care if you say yes to THEM. they will rape you and just lie and say you said yes.

>>125602
had a man tell me he literally saw me in his dream for half a decade before he met me, rape me the second we were alone, bragged about me to this incel friends who were jealous he “stole me” from a friend i didn’t have feelings for and had told no i didn’t want to date you 500 times. there was no stealing. and then he timed the rape so he could escape out of the country, left me because he couldn’t rape me anymore and i was showing signs of trauma and crying in public at six flags with his friends there about what did to me. then spent all his time abroad having sex with prostitutes around his base until he was dishonorably discharged and ended up dating the minor he had been online grooming for months before and after me.

>>126564
Nah, at least women don't bond over abusing men.

>>126629
women will bond to men over abusing other women though. come forward about rape. it won’t be the male friends that bother you publicly. it will be some woman who is either dating him or wants to and thinks because you are both women, somehow she’s allowed to scream at you follow you around drive by your house and send you threats. the day i spoke up i got told there were people in my yard standing under my window that were going to jump me for being disrespectful. it was all one woman who wasn’t even dating my abuser at first. your abuser will also go on to forge bonds with new women with this almost “us against the worldl” level shit against his “crazy ex.” there is honestly nothing borderlines like better than being told by their favorite person (who is always a man) that they are better/different from some other woman. they’ll get the same treatment being called the crazy ex but that brief window where they are on a pedestal is like crack to them. the man will then go on to use all of this behavior against them in the discard phase mind you. but that’s the real narcissistic high cluster b’s are after. the “i’m better than her” feeling.

>>126629
the male abuser is obviously still the worst but there’s a type of almost covert abuser woman that attaches itself to men and assists them. it’s why you never see women do this stuff alone. it’s his fault. but there are some women out there who hate and seek to harm other women too.