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Men make me feel so lonely Anonymous 125423[Reply]

I can’t handle how lonely men make me feel. No matter how kind, patient, or understanding they seem, they always end up disappointing me. They’re all lustful. They all watch porn. All of them struggle to see women as actual human beings, some just get better at hiding it. They all want you to perform for them in some way shape or form.

I ache for this so called true love. I want romance, tenderness, respect. I want someone who sees me, who values me, who cherishes me. But instead, day by day, I grow more bitter and resentful. It feels like I was sold a lie about what men and relationships are supposed to be. It makes me angry and doubt romantic love is even real at all. It all just feels like a cruel lie. I even feel like the women who claim their men are so great are experiencing some sort of cognitive dissonance.

I keep telling myself I just won’t ever get this from a man, but accepting that is so hard. The loneliness eats at me. Sometimes, it feels like being a straight woman is nothing but a curse. Being alone sucks but being with them makes the loneliness even worse.

Anonymous 125424

lock in nona

Anonymous 125428

men are a waste of time. focus on your friend circle and nuture those relationships

Anonymous 125430

>>125428
> men are a waste of time
Did you always feel that way nona?

Anonymous 125441

>>125430
Since middle school, all men have only been interested in sex. They are basically useless after that, and will become abusive if you don’t give them what they want.



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Outraged that I'm supposed to find most scrotes attractive Anonymous 125434[Reply]

It is more like 2% and I think they're all abominations. How am I expected to give a shit about anything when the world is a cesspit full of disgusting, backwards ugly scrotes and their shitty crumbling domain built on financial parasitism and environmental rape??? Theyre mostly a disease and indifferent to the big picture

So I should be attractive why? I don't want the ugly filth looking at me. How is that so hard for other women to understand though? Of course I don't want the monstrosities looking at me. Of course I don't want to be attractive. How is it possible you still have to explain this to other women in 2025?

Anonymous 125436

How are you gonna get the 2% if you dont doll up for them?

Anonymous 125438

>>12543
That's why I joined 4b

Anonymous 125439

>>125436
Nta but what is the point ?

Anonymous 125440

>>125439
sex and affection from tall handsome men



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i am the worst person in the world Anonymous 124716[Reply]

most women are deluded when they think they meet a good man. all my life i've never met a good man. until i met this one. his behavior was akin to Jesus Christ. it seemed as if it was physically impossible for him to do anything which even mildly inconviences anyone, let alone hurting anyone. as for me, it seems like i am physically incapable of doing anything but hurting people. to cut it short, he absolutely did not deserve what i did to him. i met him online and within less than a month of dating i got blackout drunk and cheated on him. like an idiot i talked to my friends about it because i cant keep my mouth shut about anything. i talked to my best friend about it and what we decided was since it was so early on and i genuinely saw a future with him i should just move on from it. forget about it. so i didn't tell him. we kept talking.

we decided we wanted to see eachother in person. he spent $5000 on a plane ticket and an airbnb for 25 days. i started birth control- the Opill, 3 days before he came. the first 2 days were heavenly. then on the 3rd night we shared a bottle of vodka together. i was doing okay until i put on his boxers. i was reminded of what i had done to him. i grabbed a kitchen knife and started to cut myself in front of him. i cut my neck. then we went to sleep. the dream was over. over the course of the next couple weeks i just wanted to stay in bed all day. i kept arguing with him over the tiniest things. it was like i was constantly on edge. he said it felt like i was never actually there, never "lucid enough to have an actual conversation with." we only had sex a few times because he said he could only have sex with someone who he felt loved him and he didnt feel like i loved him. we didn't go out a lot, not a lot of "cute dates…" we went out to fast food joints a few times. then he broke up with me. he said we could still stay friends and he could keep "taking care of me" but we couldn't have a romantic relationship anymore. he said i should leave the airbnb for a few days. my best friend, who lives nearby where we were staying, asked for his discord tag because "he's a foreigner trapped in an airbnb alone and we (her and her roommate, an acquaintance of mine who also knew what i had done to him,) want to be there for him incase anything goes wrong." then i left to go home.

then it gets worse. basically to cut it short they told him i have something to tell him and i threatened suicide over it. i video cPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 125260

>>125199
it’ll be okay
just accept it happened & the more you push the more you make yourself look crazy & no one wants a desperate partner…
maybe in a few years you can go back to him, if that’s even what you want. i know that i’ve been in a similar boat and no amount of begging or pleading made him come back to me.. i just took time. and then when he finally reached out i didn’t want him anymore lol :p
young love, you’ll get thru it

Anonymous 125385

>>124720
She is textbook Borderline. You need to see a professional. Any other advice is wrong.

Anonymous 125386

I have no patience for bpd bitches especially as its very treatable with dbt. See a therapist nona you're a retard, till then literally everyone is better off avoiding you

Anonymous 125435

>>125386
Ah, yes, the extremely affordable DBT (let alone opinions from family).

Anonymous 125437

>>125435
I was assuming you are employed and aren't 12 lol why does your family need to know you're in dbt



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 115657[Reply]

Previous Thread >>2119
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Anonymous 125422

Lol you’re balding now

Anonymous 125427

n
i want to speak to you so badly. please just reach out.

Anonymous 125431

Dear J

I love doing nothing with you. I hope my future is full of you

Anonymous 125432

please tell me i’m crazy and that wasn’t you i don’t think i can handle us being neighbors

Anonymous 125433

JW -
i shouldn’t have shot first and asked questions later. i owe you an apology. i hit back way too hard way too fast because at that point i was ready to fight anyone to protect myself. this is not the apology i owe you but i hope one day ill be able to give you one properly. i understand if you aren’t able to understand where i’m coming from and don’t want to give me that chance.



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bf attracted to other girls Anonymous 123128[Reply]

am i supposed to just accept that every guy is going to be attracted to other girls, even while he’s in a relationship with me? people say it’s normal, but honestly, it really hurts. i wish it didn’t get to me, but it does. my boyfriend always follows hot egirls on social media and sometimes even talks about how hot he finds them, celebs or not. it hurts. and yeah, even when it’s a celebrity, it still stings. i don’t really see a difference between him saying that about a famous girl or some everyday girl. it still makes me feel like shit. i’m struggling to come to terms with this ‘norm’, but it feels like i have to. seems like every guy is like this, and there’s no escaping it. it honestly makes me feel sick. what am i supposed to do?
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Anonymous 125388

>>125384
I find it really funny when ppl truly believe men like that don’t exist. Men can be absolutely pathetic for you when they’re dating or interested in you. It’s actually not hard to encounter men like this at all

Anonymous 125407

I fear the feelings here are normal on both sides. not cool of him to talk about it in front of you if it hurts you though. You should tell him how it makes you feel to hear him talk about it

Anonymous 125408

>>125388
True, but your story's still made up

Anonymous 125421

>>125318
>>124946
While completely nonsensical, some men feel they have to remind their gfs or wifes that they could hypothetically have other women too (and should not be taken for granted etc.) and so they throw these comments about finding other women hot.
It is very disrespectful, but (not sure if it applies in OP's case) many otherwise ok guys mistakenly learn that from peers or male forums, so in many cases it is possible to sit down to talk about how it hurts and have them stop that behavior.
Of course if there are other behavior issues (which is not rare unfortunately) things might not be easy at all to deal with and the couple's future together might not be guaranteed.
Like many femanons pointed out, there are indeed redflags in this case.

Anonymous 125429

idk what makes moid partners think we wanna hear about how hot they think some woman is. it even bothers me when my moid friends do this cause it’s just like what are you even supposed to say to that lol?? especially since they use such gross and creepy language when doing it. idk im just not the kind of person who wants to hear about how hot anyone thinks another person is in general.



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i am getting more autistic as i age Anonymous 121894[Reply]

22yo autistic girl diagnosed at 16. up until last year i never thought anything of it. that it was just some stupid label given by the doctors to label me as difficult and stuck up.
but now it seems my autism diagnosis wasn't actually a lie. i never had friends that i could get along with like other kids since i was 5 until now. people talking hurts my ears. i didn't really like any of my peers, they were always too outgoing and bright for me. they always did unsoliticed physical contact that made me so uncomfortable i ended up not leaving the house for the next few days. for some reason i cannot handle theatre audio systems anymore. i have to wear ear plugs just so i can watch movies on a big screen in film quality. everything sounds too sharp, like nails on a chalkboard. i cannot maintain eye contact with my psychiatrist and my therapist while talking. i talk staring at my hands while i fold and unfold the paper with my queue number on it (i bought a fidget cube so i can stare at my hands doing useless shit for as long as i need, paper degrades too easy). making exaggerated facial expressions like other people has gotten impossible. (people have gotten worried because my face is unmoving while i interact with them)
i feel like myself in high school where i hated everyone because i couldnt understand them for being so excited and so loud. now im in college and i can understand them more due to reading more philosophical/psychological topics on the human mind. but no matter how much i fucking "nerd out" i can never be truly human and day by day i feel more and more detached with humanity.

i'm turning into a sociopath. the more i have to make myself acceptable to society the more i feel like i am disappearing. this sucks. what if i really disappear and when i do have a chance to be a mother to a daughter, my rhetorical daughter will hate me for being so emotionally flat/empty/dead inside?

say that my dreams of raising a daughter better than my parents raised me will never come to anything. it'll hurt and i'll cope with that but, there are some days i feel so detached and not myself i have this slight unease if i murder family. i already hate my parents so i feel like they'll be the victims foremost if i do lose myself. but what i'm scared of is being so far gone. i commit murder in catatonia and get assessed in court in a catatonic state. no longer human, no different than an animal.

chat im going insane and i dont thinPost too long. Click here to view the full text.
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Anonymous 125230

>>125219
I think this is put accurately

Anonymous 125267

never seen a more relatable thread. I've been sperged since I was 5, I just remember intense hyperfixations. I'm sorry

Anonymous 125303

>>125209
People like you want to exclude and outcast people lower than you on the social ladder, but eventually you'll outcast all the people lower than you and you'll be at the bottom.

Anonymous 125400

Literally kill yourself so nobody else inherits your autism. At least have a hysterectomy and burn your uterus.

Anonymous 125426

is that james spader



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

>>>/feels/34633
Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 125398

>>125397
just kill him or something

Anonymous 125399

>>125397
This is the first time I'm reading your threads and I can't believe you've been dealing with such a hopeless cause for 5 years. You are wasting your life.

Anonymous 125405

Someone else mentioned it in the first thread but to be clear, this man does not have OCD. He has OCPD which is a personality disorder that makes you insist others follow your rigid and pathological standards of quality, cleanliness, etc. And unlike OCD, people with this personality disorder think their way of living is best. He'll never want to move on from these cleaning rituals, his goal is to make others follow them. You can't look at possible outcomes here through an OCD lens.

People with OCPD often raise OCD children. My guess is OP's brain damage has made her fall into dependency and exacerbated her own susceptibility to developing OCD symptoms herself hence her normalizing the cleaning rituals.

All of this however is beside the point now, the violence is worsening – as it always does in abusive relationships – and she needs to use her last 2 brain cells to get out before she gets killed.

It's dangerous to flirt with leaving by randomly staying overnight elsewhere and so on. Showing you're comfortable with these steps and potentially planning an escape seriously risks you getting killed. When he thinks you're leaving for good he will have nothing left to lose.

Anonymous 125418

>>125397
you see any good movies lately?

Anonymous 125425

what the fuck am i reading rn



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Positivity. Anonymous 116556[Reply]

Share any positive feelings or positive things.

Garden your soul garden.
Every focus is infinite multiverses.
Keep watering the ideas/plants that make you feel the loveliest love


Here’s a thing that has made me feel so good and is important to me:
Thousands of Polska girls and Belarus girls are covering my NorthAmerican city with graffiti. They’ve somehow clearly gotten the idea to all become collectively like a splatoon. It has changed the energy immensely and really improved the omnipresent feminism quality~level vibe. These girls have religions about ancient euro queens and it really shows, lots of ethereal stuff.. I see so many soulful girls are more comfortable loitering around and making anywhere a party! That’s SO important! Sovl
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Anonymous 125295

I don't platform

Anonymous 125296

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>>116556
So.eone horrible was shot today

Anonymous 125297

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Dating someone who loves and appreciates me after getting out of an abusive relationship of 2 years

Anonymous 125300

>>125297
I'm happy for you, nona.

Anonymous 125417

I cleaned out my bookmarks!



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confessions thread 2 Anonymous 63992[Reply]

>>51270 previous bread

I never brush my teeth for the full 2 minutes
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Anonymous 124643

I always heard my Mom calling out "Bonnie" (my recently deceased dog) during the beginning of the 2nd verse of this song.
Idk why, it might be due to a chemical deficiency in my brain, as that same verse puts it, but it has disturbed me for the past 9 years, ngl…

Anonymous 124644

>>107666
So what if you can see
The darkest side of me

Anonymous 125137

>>63992
If this is the worst you have done, you're a saint in disguise.

Anonymous 125141

I wanted to like Ziwe Fumudoh because she's such a boss as far as showbiz goes, well educated and not a nepo baby etc. But holy fk her satire is ass. I've never liked the format of "intentionally uncomfortable interview" because it mirrors regular mundane bullying too closely. Whenever I see her shorts all I can think about are the dumb mean girls who think this is a legitimate interviewer. I just can't wrap my head around publicly embarrassing someone unless you hate them.

Anonymous 125416

Recently I stole like 20 dollars from my dad because I wanted more cash to buy some shit and didn't wanna wait to get more even though I have over a hundred dollars



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