[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]

/feels/ - Advice & Venting

Talk about relationships of all kinds, ask for advice, or just vent
Name
Email
Email will be public
Subject
Message

*Text* => Text

**Text** => Text

***Text*** => Text

[spoiler]Text[/spoiler] => Text

Image
Direct Link
Options NSFW image
[1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10]
| Catalog


Check the Catalog before making a new thread.
Do not respond to maleposters. See Rule 7.
Please read the rules! Last update: 04/27/2021

check-list-4609829…

Anonymous Admin 49939[Reply]

Do not make threads about the following topics or you will be banned:


- Race/Ethnicity/Nationality (including stereotypes & preferences)
- Religion
- (Why) do guys…
- (Why) do you like guys who [insert preference here]
- (Why) do guys like [insert preference here]
- how to get a bf/gf (who does xyz)
- Any fetish/kink talk

If you want to talk about Radfem/TERF/Gendercritical themes, do not make a new thread. Post in the existing threads on /b/ and keep discussion civil.

Use the catalog.



720d30635d4ed55b60…

Lonliness Anonymous 7090[Reply]

Do you guys ever struggle with loneliness? Is the feeling almost constant and intense, or is it more buried and hidden until you think about how alone you are?

Share you thoughts, feelings, vents, insecurities, fears etc about loneliness, maybe we can all help each other out to not feel so alone for a second <3
41 posts and 11 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 132189

>>132129
Why? Feeling lonely?

Anonymous 132190

>>132129
This is the laziest necro I've ever seen

Anonymous 132203

FPD3dOmVgAAIC10.jp…

>>132190
Necro'ed the thread so people started using it instead of making uwu i'm so lonely be nice this is my first post here btw
>>132189
Well, kinda.

Anonymous 132210

>>132203
Then post about your loneliness

Anonymous 132222

>lonely since childhood
>want to be in relationship
>realize moids are scum
>continue being lonely



IMG_2290.jpeg

Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
324 posts and 31 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 132187

>>132186
>Surely if I send an incredibly obvious omen, nona will change her shameful ways…
>Never mind…

Anonymous 132188

IMG_2402.jpeg

getting falsely accused of being shit you're not and then walking away instead of becoming argumentative because you're fucking sick of arguing

Anonymous 132204

If I don't live chained to my desk for the next 2 months I am not getting this shit done. I had all the time in the world to do this shit and of course this is how things end up. I brought this upon myself. FUCK

Anonymous 132209

>>132204
really feel you nona. hang in there, get your work finished.

Anonymous 132221

I hate scrotelets so much and the doormat boymoms that enable them.
>>132209
Thanks, your encouragement is much appreciated.



you.JPG

Cool facts about women! Anonymous 132063[Reply]

1. During pregnancy, cells pass back and forth between a mother and her baby. What is truly amazing is that these baby's cells can stay active in the mother's body for decades after birth—a phenomenon known as fetal microchimerism.
If a mother’s heart, liver, or other organs suffer an injury later in life, these lingering fetal cells will actually migrate straight to the site of the damage. Once there, they can transform into the specific types of cells needed to help repair and heal her body.

2. A surprising number of life-saving and everyday inventions were born purely out of women looking out for others. In 1902, a woman named Mary Anderson was riding a streetcar during a freezing sleet storm in New York City. She noticed that the driver had to keep opening the front window to manually wipe away the ice, leaving him shivering and delaying the passengers.
Feeling bad for the freezing driver, she went home and sketched out a lever-operated rubber blade that could clear the window from inside the cabin. She patented the very first windshield wipers a year later, entirely because she wanted a stranger to stay warm and dry.

3. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, a brilliant group of women known as the "Harvard Computers" completely revolutionized astronomy. At a time when women weren't allowed to operate the university's telescopes, they were hired to analyze thousands of photographic glass plates of the night sky by hand.
Despite being barred from the actual observatory equipment, their mathematical precision unlocked the universe. Annie Jump Cannon created the star classification system still used by scientists today, and Henrietta Swan Leavitt discovered how to measure distances in deep space—the exact "cosmic yardstick" Edwin Hubble later used to prove the universe is expanding.

4. Biologically, some women possess an actual superpower when it comes to perceiving the world. While the average person has three types of color-sensing cone cells in their eyes, a genetic variation allows some women to possess four distinct types of cones.
This condition, called tetrachromacy, allows them to see up to 100 million different colors—roughly 100 times more than the rest of us. Where a standard eye sees a basic green leaf or a gray concrete wall, a tetrachromat can perceive an incredibly rich, shifting gradient of entirely distinct shades and tones that most people simply cannot detect.

Women are amazing!

Anonymous 132064

5. You can thank a woman for the secure wireless connections we use every day. In 1942, Hollywood actress and inventor Hedy Lamarr co-developed a "frequency-hopping spread spectrum" technology.
Originally designed to prevent radio-controlled Allied torpedoes from being jammed by the Axis powers during World War II, her concept of constantly switching radio frequencies became the foundational blueprint for modern Wi-Fi, Bluetooth, and GPS.

6. From a purely biological standpoint, women are built with a remarkably resilient immune system. The X chromosome contains a massive concentration of genes responsible for immune function and microRNAs that regulate the body's defenses.
Because women have two X chromosomes, their immune systems have a built-in redundancy system. If a pathogen mutates to bypass one genetic defense mechanism, the second X chromosome frequently provides a secondary line of code to recognize and fight off the infection. This is a primary reason why women generally exhibit higher survival rates during severe global pandemics and respiratory epidemics.

7. In short-to-mid-distance athletic performance, men hold general advantages in raw speed and explosive power due to higher muscle mass and larger lung capacities. However, as race distances extend into extreme ultra-endurance territory (such as 200-plus mile ultramarathons) the gender performance gap closes dramatically, and women frequently win these grueling events outright.
This is driven by an evolutionary metabolic difference regulated by estrogen. During prolonged, sub-maximal physical exertion, the female body is significantly more efficient at lipid oxidation (breaking down stored fat for fuel) while sparing limited glycogen (carbohydrate) reserves.
Because the human body holds tens of thousands of calories in fat stores but only a few thousand in glycogen, women possess a built-in efficiency advantage for multi-day pacing, allowing them to maintain structural stamina long after carbohydrate-dependent pacing strategies break down.

Anonymous 132065

8. When the Electronic Numerical Integrator and Computer, “ENIAC” (the world’s first programmable, digital computer) was unveiled in 1946, the engineers who built the hardware were hailed as pioneers. But the machine itself was just a massive, silent room of vacuum tubes, wires, and switches. To make it do something useful, a team of six mathematicians was hired: Jean Bartik, Frances "Betty" Holberton, Kathleen Antonelli, Marlyn Meltzer, Frances Spence, and Ruth Teitelbaum.
At the time, "software" didn't exist as a concept or a career. These women were handed raw electronic schematics of the machine and told to figure out how to make it calculate complex calculus equations. Without programming languages, manuals, or operating systems, they manually mapped out logical data flows, invented the concepts of subroutines and nested loops, and physically programmed the computer by configuring thousands of switches and cables. They literally drafted the blueprint for modern software engineering.

9. The global lifespan gap, where women systematically outlive men by an average of 5 years, isn't just a result of lifestyle choices. It is tied to basic cellular preservation.
Every time a human cell divides, the protective caps at the ends of its chromosomes, called telomeres, shorten. When telomeres get too short, the cell stops functioning and dies. However, the female hormone estrogen directly stimulates the production of telomerase, an enzyme that repairs and maintains these chromosomal caps. This molecular defense slows down the rate of cellular aging, giving women a systemic biological advantage against the structural degradation of tissues and blood vessels over a lifetime.

10. From a genetic standpoint, women do not possess a uniform genetic expression across their entire body. Because a double dose of X-chromosome genes would cause a toxic overproduction of proteins, female embryos undergo a process called Lyonization (discovered by geneticist Mary Lyon) during early development.
In every single embryonic cell, one of the two X chromosomes is randomly selected, crumpled up into a dense, silent ball called a Barr body, and permanently turned off.
Because this selection happens independently in each cell, a woman's body develops as a literal patchwork quilt of genetic expression. Some patches of tissue exclusively use the X chromosome inherited from her mother, while neighboring patches use the X chromosome from her father.
Post too long. Click here to view the full text.

Anonymous 132066

Thank you anon. Have a nice day.

Anonymous 132218

Period blood contains potent antibacterial peptides and stem cells that offer significant medical and therapeutic benefits. MenSCs are being investigated for treating infertility, endometriosis, liver failure, spinal cord injuries, and heart attacks ♥



128972[Reply]

Anonymous 132144

>56 years
Ancient nona vent

Anonymous 132166

wiggles n squirms

Anonymous 132215

What is this broken post? Am I the only one who can't see a thread OP?

Anonymous 132217

>>132215
You're not the only one. There are a bunch of these posts at the bottom of the catalog, so they're presumably tests of some kind



IMG_0075.jpeg

Wishing to be a normie Anonymous 132208[Reply]

My cousin is so “normal” and I envy her sometimes, not really her life but how easily she seems to make decisions and stay kind of oblivious and content.

She has the career in corporate hell (based on her personality she’s the type to believe if you work hard you’ll get promoted even though this is rarely true), the husband (who is literally just a TikTok rage bait video at this point), the kid (who will likely grow up repeating the same cycle or check out of society), the house (poorly made in America, basically cardboard and always needs repairs), the car (expensive, pretty sure it’s like 80k), the vacations (they just go to hotels and say they visited that country).

All these things are good if it’s with the right people don’t get me wrong.

It seems like in the West, people either naturally fit into this kind of life and enjoy it, or they’re pressured into it and eventually learn to be fine. Then there’s everyone else, who they call losers, who are either too unstable health-wise or financially to deal with life, can’t give a shit because it’s all going to crap anyway, or stuck in the “should I or shouldn’t I” limbo.

I think I’m stuck in that limbo. This might sound crazy, but I think about just trying to fit the normal life to pass time because life is too long. Like my cousin will likely wake up one day divorced, doing gig work, fired from her job for daring to be older than 50, etc., but at least she’ll be 50-something and have spent those 20-something years doing something, unlike me who is essentially doing nothing.

I’ve chatted to some people online anonymously who’ve said they regretted doing the normie life. The grass is greener on the other side. I don’t think these people actually picture what they would be doing if they weren’t doing what they’re doing now.

Maybe I’ll marry an “incel”, adopt a kid, and hope my shitty mindset won’t be passed on.

But who am I kidding. I think you really need to be a bit oblivious and used to making “dumb” decisions to live life like this. I don’t think you can fake it, even though people say they are every day. I don’t really believe it, or maybe I’m just so lazy that I can’t even imagine faking it.

Anonymous 132211

>>132208
Keep redditspacing and you'll be a normie in no time.

Anonymous 132212

>I don’t think you can fake it, even though people say they are every day
They don't want to accept that their life is who, and what, they actually are: that they put themselves there. People can't fake their way into this position: it has to be who they are. People aren't anything other than their own lives, they're not separate from it, and pretending they were sleepwalking all along is nothing but a coping mechanism.
If you think a normie lifestyle requires an obliviousness and contentment that you simply don't have on instinct, then wouldn't you go crazy trying to force this life? Don't bother thinking about it, it's not for you. You don't need to show anything for the amount of time you've lived, unless you're scared of being judged or pitied. That alone is a normie reason to bother having a family and mortgage. You would've done it by now, surely.

Anonymous 132214

I'd like to know what you consider to be abnormie (and what aspects of yourself you count as such) because it seems to me like you've set a pretty narrow definition. You could very reasonably expand your understanding of normie quite a bit, and perhaps that would include you.
I think you are not noticing, for example, the fact that you're a fluent typer who is reasonably articulate and doesn't type in an autism accent. Intelligent neurotypicals can recognise autism by typing style and discriminate thusly, and you either don't have it or are able to disguise that fact well, so congratulations either way.



ems.cHJkLWVtcy1hc3…

I am the most disgusting woman alive Anonymous 128747[Reply]

Everything about me is wrong and it's making me seriously consider suicide. For context, I was born disabled, mentally and physically. And it shows on my face especially, I look 40 years old at only 19, my back is crooked, my teeth are disgusting and I have deep eye bags to the point where people think I am on meth. I am a 6th grade drop out due to my intellectual disability and I might be homeless soon. I might be kicked out since I am unable to work and I have piles of trash in my room that I am too tired to clean and I piss myself since my bladder is fucked up. I really want to fix my life but I am ashamed to even leave the house because of my condition and I am scared of how people might react to me. I am confused on where to even start.
1 post omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 128750

Consider reading or listening Dhammapada. It has never failed to ease my mental pain.

Anonymous 128753

i’d say ghislaine maxwell and what’s-her-name (the wife of the guy who kidnapped the girl in the box) are worse though

Anonymous 128754

at least take solace that you are a person of moral character.

Anonymous 128779

>>128749
>>128751
Thank you for the advice. I am definitely trying to get my HS diploma so I can have a better chance at getting a job so I can finally have some type of independence. I live in an area with a lot of resources for that so I just have to gain the courage to actually go out which I am working on. Reading this made me feel really seen so thanks for taking the time to write this, I appreciate it.
>>128750
I've actually been wanting to read more so I will look into this. Thanks for the recommendation

Anonymous 132213

Have you made any progress?



IMG_0074.jpeg

Friendship Anonymous 132205[Reply]

I feel lonely, but I also want to be left alone. I miss familiarity, intimate conversations, and the kind of easy banter that comes naturally with people who know you well. But when it comes to the reality of maintaining friendships: texting regularly, making plans, calling, showing up consistently, and all the emotional labor that goes into sustaining those relationships… I just can’t bring myself to do it.

I don’t know if it’s because I’m lazy, emotionally drained, or because I’ve learned how fragile friendships can be. People move away, get caught up in work, partners, kids, and family. Life changes, and relationships fade. After seeing that happen enough times, it’s hard to convince myself that it’s worth investing so much effort, especially when it often feels like I’m the one doing the chasing while the other person doesn’t seem to bother.

I envy people who seem to fit into life like a glove. People who belong wherever they go, who can find familiarity almost anywhere. I knew someone like that once. I hope they’re still enjoying that wrinkle in the fabric of life, where belonging comes so effortlessly.

Anonymous 132206

>spiting the backseat janny
based as fuck

Anonymous 132207

Screenshot.png

>>132205
You are indeed lazy because checking the catalog before making a new thread takes 2 seconds specially when you made this thread when the top 2 threads were general threads where your post could've fitted perfectly.



095B9CA6-9F3C-4C9A…

(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
359 posts and 86 image replies omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 132154

>>132153
I have the knowledge you seek

Anonymous 132191

i drank an entire carton of apple juice.
i made eyes at the orange juice.
i sipped a bit.
i held onto my composure

the orange juice is still there

i defeated myself today

Anonymous 132192

>>132191
Congrats but how big is the carton?

Anonymous 132195

ee7ffea7316fd065ac…

>>132192
1 litre, so six servings… it was delicious and i couldn't stop…

Anonymous 132197

>>132195
One liter isn't so bad but I am glad you exercised some self restraint with the orange juice



9012.png

Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?
13 posts omitted. Click reply to view.

Anonymous 132159

>>132158
Nope. There's always hope.

Anonymous 132160

>>132159
greenhouse emissions won't stop themselves

Anonymous 132162

>>132160
We'll fix it

Anonymous 132183

>>132162
Whats the plan

Anonymous 132185

>>132183
Nuclear fusion. The demands of AI will make it impossible to ignore, as much as the powers that be love oil, there are companies even bigger than oil companies now that want to make their AI singularity a reality and its not possible with simple fossil fuel.

Once fossil fuels are done with the planet will slowly recover.



Previous [1] [2] [3] [4] [5] [6] [7] [8] [9] [10]
| Catalog
[ Rules / FAQ ] [ meta / b / media / img / feels / hb / x ]