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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
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Anonymous 133221

>>133217
you trying to shame anyone for being an “internet addicted femcel” while browsing crystal cafe is quite funny. read the room.” oh nooo thisloser femcel on cc thinks i’m a man”. literally grow up. women are allowed to empathize with lindsay. femcel or not. stop crying about it.

Anonymous 133223

>>133217
They're just white demented karens, ignore it, nobody acknowledges them irl so this is the only way they can make themselves relevant to the world they live in

Anonymous 133227

>>133221
browsing crystal cafe while also acknowledging killing children is not something deserving of sympathy is the difference.
Women can be allowed to also feel horny for serial killers, I don't give a shit.It's still gross.

Anonymous 133232

>>133221
Psychosis is just the new BPD. You have it and you can do no wrong and if you disagree you're an ableist

Anonymous 133234

Cab you guys take this to another thread? People come here to vent about their feelings not debate politics and morality



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what is wrong with me am i normal Anonymous 132022[Reply]

ive been with this guy for 6 months now and i’ve never felt so fucking horrible in my entire life because of him. we were dating but then he ghosted me for 5 days because i hung up a call to talk to my friend real quick. i was literally gonna call him back and that call only last 10 minutes. after that everything went to shit. he was saying he didn’t love me anymore out of no where. i felt like i got stabbed in my heart 5000 times. i begged him not to leave, bawling my fucking eyes out on call. and he did. so now we’ve been talking and flirting but to him we’re not official, to him we’re “just friends” despite how fucking much he flirts with me. the love he gives me doesn’t even feel real now. also i don’t know how to time all of this, its a lot, i’m sorry. but also i think i may have bpd or something i don’t know. it’s like all the littlest things he does makes me feel like shit and then i bawl my eyes out and start cutting myself. whenever he doesn’t wanna call i do that. or when he slightly sounds like he thinks another girl is attractive or something even though he’s not directly saying that. but also he views women in a very object way. because of that i cant really see men the same either. he’s told me whenever he saw a girl that he thought that was hot, talked about the porn he watched. i felt horrible. i loved him so much i didnt even think of any other guys i just thought, “wow this guy is so fucking ugly and boring my boyfriend is so much better” whenever i saw other guys. and he doesn’t even feel that way back. and when i told him about how i felt about it he just brushed it off saying it wasnt a big deal saying all men do that. but anyway, me and him just got into an argument because he promised me to call but he said he didn’t want to and i started crying and cutting myself. he didn’t even comfort me. he never comforts me. i feel like if he did i wouldnt even care that he didn’t wanna call. but its the fact that it’s like wow he just doesn’t give a shit about me. i just blocked him. please tell me am i fucking crazy? am i overreacting? i’m also partially asking this because he thinks i’m crazy.
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Anonymous 132031

>>132028
>he used to treat me so good
This is exactly how it starts. It is also a pattern with moids from conservative culture that I’ve noticed. They treat women like queens but then also like shit because of how they objectify us or something. So he really doesn’t love you even though he fills some sort of unfulfilled emotional need.

Anonymous 132323

>>132028
This is a common tactic used by narcissists. The "old him" didn't exist, it's a facade.

Anonymous 132360

>>132323
If she is in love with the facade of a narcisist and is ready to pay the price, let her be in love with what that man pretend to be. The choice belong to her.
I somehow find it beautiful.

Anonymous 132431

you deserve better and you will definitely find better. leave this relationship before it messes you up long term. being alone is hard at first but it's a kind thing to do to yourself over facing abusive bs like this

Anonymous 133233

>>132022
can you give me a tldr version?



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.

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I wish we could keep talking, but i understand why you hate me, nothing really changed but i get that you don't want to keep being second in my heart. if only the distance was not an entire ocean, i'd help you grow and show you real love. i wish we could still talk, I miss you, M

Anonymous 133080

I miss you.

I wish other people hadn't broken and ruined me. You had more patience for me than anyone else despite all the years of trauma have have piled up on me mentally.

No one else will ever love me the way you did and I wish I was in better condition to receive that love instead of running away. I'm sorry.

Even if I come out of therapy renewed and whole again I'll still feel like killing myself up because I fucked up so badly.

Anonymous 133219

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R,

I like to think that my life's improved since then. I still get depressed sometimes but I'm doing way better now. I've been diagnosed with autism and I've been going to therapy. I'm doing fine career-wise. I feel like I luckily won't ever reach that low, ever again.
Although everything's changed, I do sometimes still think about you. I wonder what you've been up to. Sometimes I'd just like to have a chat with you, as friends. I hope you're ok.

H

Anonymous 133230

"lets make out"



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Sanity Anonymous 133222[Reply]

Please be more cognizant of your own sanity. Please do more to protect it. It's not a joke. Block whoever you need to block, don't interact with anything that gives you excessive, undue feelings. Maintain a balance.
I'm thinking about the fact that there's nothing really stopping me from committing an act of horror besides my own sanity, and I am shocked at how poorly I've treated it over the years. The things I've seen, the information I had no business learning, who and what I've heard out, the time spent on frankly thankless tasks. What was it all for? To get a rise out of myself? Did I think I was making myself stronger? Was it a test? One thing more important than knowledge is knowing what you actually plan to do with it!
I'm a little scared of what might be to come, but it'll probably be okay in the end.

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Insightful.

Anonymous 133229

I'm the joker baby



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I haven't had friends for ten years Anonymous 131946[Reply]

I'm a NEET. I live with my mother and she's the only one I talk with. Give me life advice.
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Anonymous 133135

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Anon I love Winx club let's be friends but put Aisha in the next thread pic

Anonymous 133144

>>133087
It's going to be alright, . Don't let the past keep haunting you.

Anonymous 133146

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>>133144
Thank you nona

Anonymous 133183

get a job maybe idk

Anonymous 133224

>>133087

What did you do about the stalking?



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anyone else avoiding going to a psychiatrist or a psychologist? Anonymous 133187[Reply]

i want to or more so i feel like i need to go, but i hate the idea of having to pay for someone to listen to me and understand me. nobody in my life wants to hear out my problems and it sickens me because thats the first thing i would do for them. i know therapy is more than that, but ultimately i would only go just to be heard for a little and be understood without anyone judging me. but it feels so not worth it. i dont even have a job why should i spend so much money just to talk to someone for an hour. isnt that what friends are for…
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Anonymous 133189

>>133187
Right. My sentiments exactly. But psychiatrists don't deal with that, their business is drugging you with pills.

Anonymous 133190

I dont trust psychiatrists/therapists at all. Unless someone has schizophrenia or something I feel therapy is largely unnecessary and self indulgent

Anonymous 133191

I have been going for a year but I think I need a break. It feels like another task now and I feel like I say things to get kudos and praise even if it’s not true. I hate being a people pleaser.

Anonymous 133193

I'm going there as a part of "working on myself" to work on my avoidant attachment but I'm not sure I expect progress. anyone have a good experience with it?

Anonymous 133215

therapy is only helpful if you need coaching on how to make healthier decisions, but ultimately you need to get to a place where you can do things independently and don't have to pay for a support system.

i feel like people who are in therapy for 30+ years a re being scammed, unless they're like severely ill and have no one.

i only work with psychiatrists that are very, very conservative in their prescribing and take what i need help with into consideration, and do not have some sort of weird narrative about me.

it takes time to find the right provider unfortunately, but i am grateful for my current shrink because he actually listens to me about my PMDD and mental afflictions.

he doesn't view me as broken, just someone who could benefit from some medical interventions so i'm not suffering all the time.

i hate ssris tho. those are kinda scammy if you take them longterm. good habits and sobriety will get u there imo after ur baseline is sorted with learning how to be disciplined. discipline is a skill rooted in compassion and takes time like any other. you can't really force the process.

lamictal has helped me a lot, as well as gabapentin and a minipill for my pmdd. i feel lowkey halfway cured and i just started everything like 2 weeks ago. i just need to build better habits.

i'm 1.5 abstinent from drugs too and it helped to not complicate my brain as much.
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College/Uni feels Anonymous 10[Reply]

Share the good, the bad, and hell of pursuing a degree. Whether it be living in a dorm with a horrible roommate, classes kicking your ass, or something happening relating to school that has filled you with joy.
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Anonymous 132150

>>132143
I HATE READING ARTICLES

Anonymous 133060

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I miss smoking weed and kissing my uni bestie, I hope she is alright

Anonymous 133063

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>>132150
I love reading articles. You should try The Atlantic and Nature Mag they are great :)

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>>132143
I will contribute this

I hope you all get a good education and kill it in life like these homos r doin here

Anonymous 133207

>>10
Its almost September and I haven't packed one damn thing



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Being an ND, black woman is a curse Anonymous 132518[Reply]

I've come to terms with the fact that I will forever be alone. Being forced to move as an expat and sheltered ruined all social skills (that I never even had) and detached me from my birthplace, breaking all connections I had. I'm not a likeable person, even online, and I don't even know why. In a group full of people, I always have a notion that I am hated and nobody likes me. I swing from being very proud to ashamed in interactions. My family doesn't like me either. I've been made a lolcow on several occasions. I haven't had a real friendship since I was 13. I'm about to go to university and I genuinely feel like ending it to save myself from the suffering ahead of me.
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Anonymous 132585

>>132584
Isn't LC enough for you?

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Anonymous 132587

>>132586
Why do you have to announce you're black wherever you go? Even on an anonymous website? I just don't get why you can't stay in your dedicated spaces for blackcels if you want to talk about racism or whatever. The only reason this post is here is because OP wants attention and knows libfems here will give her that.

Anonymous 132590

>>132587
>>132583
This is so mentally ill and weird, kek. No one's "announcing they're black wherever they go", you just have a hateful fixation on black people like the other incels who sperg about and project on other races. You can hide the thread, no one here has ever (or will ever) reach out to talk to you personally. Also, you have no place to call anyone a "libfem", because feminism isn't for you, and you know exactly why.

Anonymous 133173

>>132584
Probably it being a site for women to talk even though men have been raiding us for years. Is there any website that's like Lipstick Alley for women of all races?



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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
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Anonymous 133140

>>133132
That's for the bast, humanity has become too dysgenic anyway.

Anonymous 133142

>>133131
Sounds like an excuse a ghoster would tell.

Anonymous 133150

>>133142
The problem is that people seek out to make "real" connections with others only just with the extremely fucking tedious, fake, mutable, most often superficial, larp-ass stuff that means nothing so it just doesn't sustain at the long-term. Everybody eats, play games, movies, and whatever the shit. These stuff are subproducts our modern little lifes. What does that tell about somebody, truly? Nothing. So yeah, I'd ghost the shit out of someone that lame.

Anonymous 133151

>>133150
You're complaining about your own inability to advance your relations into deeper connections. It's natural for friends to start out as people you share interests with.

Anonymous 133168

>>133151
That's why I said in the long term, only mutual interests are not sustainable.


>You're complaining about your own inability to advance your relations into deeper connections.


I have friends that got to know me through shared interests, but now are a larger part of my life. But it does indeed require some effort.



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