>>126614
I think that may be a cope on his part he's telling himself to distance from you. Like he's lying to himself to justify actions or feelings. I don't know your relationship ofc but this happens often enough for it to be likely nona! You were probably desirable enough for him to date you, he cared enough to uplift you etc. He's more likely ambivalent about it and thinks you didn't deserve it at least a bit.

>>126615
that made me feel a little better. thank you sweet nona.

I’ve lost weight but I still feel so fucking disgusting.
I know I should be proud of myself, but I can’t bring myself to be because in my mind I’ve made virtually no progress.
I started at 225 lbs and I now weigh 165. I’m not done losing yet, but I’m starting to feel really fucking discouraged.
I still look so fucking awful, if not just a little less wide than I used to be. I still have rolls and I can already feel the fact that I’ll have loose skin on my thighs and arms and stomach. The worst part is my legs, because I carry all my weight in my thighs so they’re still fucking gigantic.
Like even though I’ve lost weight and I’ll eventually get to my goal number, I won’t ever fucking feel pretty because I let myself get that big in the first place. It’s not even going to mean anything.
I struggled with binge eating all through out high school. I couldn’t take the feeling anymore so I decided I would finally try to stop binging and lose the weight, and I’ve been doing pretty consistently well as far as the scale goes, but I just feel like i barely have any visible progress to show for it.
I know I’m still overweight but even as I get closer to my goal I’m worried I’ll still look awful.
I feel so sick to my stomach because even after all I’ve put myself through I still can’t be beautiful and it’s all I’ve ever wanted but I guess it just isn’t attainable for someone like me. I hate living in my body, I hate looking the way I do.

>>126618
>>126618
hi, just know that the closer you are to your goal weight the better you'll look. youve made so much amazing progress already, and ive been in your place before. i also struggled to lose weight on my thighs but what helped the most is incline walking and power pilates. it doesn't matter how much you've used to weigh; what matters now is that you're changing and you're becoming healthier! keep going!

>>126630
thank you for the advice and kind words i really appreciate it nona :)

>>126404 there's no spaces for actual outcast women to discuss their feelings together without being mocked now. look at r/foreveralonewomen's reception for instance. a lot of these self-proclaimed "femcels" are fucking HORRIBLE anyways. there's a pattern of them using their self-diagnosed mental illnesses to justify abusing others.

>>126399
BASED

>>126353
the worst part is that they're unavoidable. you can make a brand new account from scratch, and if the algorithm detects you're a woman who displays chances of depression, they'll start feeding you "femcel" content. this is why so many normal people think that they're femcels or whatever. just because it's popular to pretend to be alone.

femcels are not real.

>tiktok
eww

>>126640
Also duh porn and sex is not much different..same sex acts and positions. Literally same. Performed the same way. It looks visually like average hetero sex. Women fucked on all fours and sucking dicks. Duh.

>>126642
It literally is. Nature doesn't have concepts what is submissive and degrading, those are self imposed.
>>126644
I mean yeah, because 99% of hetero men are porn addicted, it makes sense they will replicate sex as what they see in porn.
And you're not much different from your average pornbrain moid. With the way you talk and your fixation on degrading language.
Do you think wearing heels and makeup are also not by societal expectations placed on women and it's all just nature too?

Porn sex is ugly, I like ASMR, it is comfy and not a gross way to be intimate

you're impressionable as fuck nona

i don’t understand people who view women who are abused as lesser. i’m subhuman for submitting to abusive dynamics ingrained in me since birth? where i’m taught every time i rebel i will be if not beaten on the spot then abandoned? consent between men and women is barely real. and that is not on me or other women. it’s on men. most women just want to be loved.

>>125768
they want a virgin because being the one who degrades her makes them excited. it’s not romantic. they want to be the one to defile you. they want someone who said no to everyone else. they don’t actually care if you say yes to THEM. they will rape you and just lie and say you said yes.

>>125602
had a man tell me he literally saw me in his dream for half a decade before he met me, rape me the second we were alone, bragged about me to this incel friends who were jealous he “stole me” from a friend i didn’t have feelings for and had told no i didn’t want to date you 500 times. there was no stealing. and then he timed the rape so he could escape out of the country, left me because he couldn’t rape me anymore and i was showing signs of trauma and crying in public at six flags with his friends there about what did to me. then spent all his time abroad having sex with prostitutes around his base until he was dishonorably discharged and ended up dating the minor he had been online grooming for months before and after me.

>>126564
Nah, at least women don't bond over abusing men.

>>126629
women will bond to men over abusing other women though. come forward about rape. it won’t be the male friends that bother you publicly. it will be some woman who is either dating him or wants to and thinks because you are both women, somehow she’s allowed to scream at you follow you around drive by your house and send you threats. the day i spoke up i got told there were people in my yard standing under my window that were going to jump me for being disrespectful. it was all one woman who wasn’t even dating my abuser at first. your abuser will also go on to forge bonds with new women with this almost “us against the worldl” level shit against his “crazy ex.” there is honestly nothing borderlines like better than being told by their favorite person (who is always a man) that they are better/different from some other woman. they’ll get the same treatment being called the crazy ex but that brief window where they are on a pedestal is like crack to them. the man will then go on to use all of this behavior against them in the discard phase mind you. but that’s the real narcissistic high cluster b’s are after. the “i’m better than her” feeling.

>>126629
the male abuser is obviously still the worst but there’s a type of almost covert abuser woman that attaches itself to men and assists them. it’s why you never see women do this stuff alone. it’s his fault. but there are some women out there who hate and seek to harm other women too.

>>126609
No guildies or anything? Well, I understand if not, I was the type to run away and log out if I got interacted with in an MMO

I am never dating an avoidant ever again.

Fuck feeling this way over someone who runs away from you any time you're not acting like the perfect version they created of you in their head.

The worst part is as if they can feel when you try to detach yourselffrom them and they pull you back in.

Fuck avoidants, fuck their breadcrumbs, fuck hoping they will change. Fuck them for promising they'll always love you (they won't).

Maybe you loved me at some point. But now I'm just feeding your ego by keeping in contact with you.

I'm blocking you tomorrow and deleting your number. I value my peace. And I hope you'll never get to hurt someone like you hurt me again.

>>126627
Avoidants act like this? That sounds like a clustee B issue. I always thought I had Avoidant PD but I guees not, I just figured they are all like me where they will talk for a little, feel like you don't actually care and that my mere presence is an annoyance to you but never bring it to you because that in itself sounds needy and manipulative, then ghost you forever. Or ghost you, come back, then fall back into isolation again.

I mean I am getting better but I've never truly felt close to anyone, but I plan on trying to become close to people- mainly when it comes to getting a girlfriend, I hope I never act how you described, it's my biggest fear that I'll never feel that type of connection and that my existence causes others harm.
>>126589
Fuck trannies, idc why someone would hate a tranny, but also what you said about TERFs is so true- theyre homophobic prudes who think women should be obese and ugly like they are, and they think lesbians should be caretakers for self-uglified femcels who arent even attracted to them. I hate radfems. Its laughable how radfems will excuse trannies though. "kill all men.. except the ones who wanna wear me like a skinsuit, actually I am privileged for being born a woman and my experiences are worthless compared to a man".

>>126632
>on all fours
Nah I think they used to do it in the trees

>>126627
>>126633
I mean, you can be cluster B AND avoidant. He said he was diagnosed with bipolar but after being with him it feels like he's borderline more than anything.

>>126594
Some greasy unkempt freak << a woman who takes care of herself and isn't an asshole.
I get that he's a man but he's not even human at that point. Some disgusting blob of filth, like the average tranny or neckbeard? If they aren't gonna chase after a normal man, they might as well get with a butch or something because there is no way in hell the unkempt moid is more desirable.
I'm not talking about women seeking normal men, I am talking about the sheer amount of women who get with these unhygienic ugly failures of society. That is a paraphilia.
>>126595
It's not that women avoid me, I don't reach out to women because I do not know how to find women who are into other women. Dating apps are inherently unhealthy and the area I live in is full of woke slop because it's meant for people in their 30s/families, not people in their 20s. Every "lgbt" space here is trans-centric too and weirdly focused on "trans youth" in particular, which is creepy. The gay bar got shut down during Covid, I never got the chance to go there.
I am going to a concert for the first time next month and I plan on actually going outside places in general instead of being a recluse, but the blackpill has a grip on me regardless. I feel like no matter what I'll do, it will all be pointless. I hate the thought of going outside where I am forced to play nice toward trannies in order to have access to communities they should be kicked out of. I hate having my sexuality be some type of secret where I'm forced to be paranoid about in case something bad happens to me. I don't like being resentful like this, though. I just kinda hope theres women out there as resentful as I am, and maybe we can meet together, we can have each other instead of being lonely incels.

>>126590
Lesbians are the most whiny pieces of shit ever, lesbians are the most annoying sjw someone can think of, you supported trannies blindly before they started coming after you. It's not our problem, fuck off.

being a lesbian doesn’t make you more oppressed than the average woman. call me lesbophobic or whatever idc. being an actual lesbian is very rare anyways. you guys are a very small group in general. also many lesbians act just as entitled and misogynistic as the average man. and even talk like borderline incels often. i mean you’re doing that rn. like just look at the way you talk about women you aren’t attracted to. quit your whining. you’re not more oppressed than the average woman and most of your experiences are the same as any other woman on earth.

>>126626
Hey man, it must be hard being a straight woman who has access to 50% of the population, with online communities literally everywhere meant for you, and then be stuck posting on some image board comparing women who only have access to <1% of the human population with zero online spaces of their own, shamed (and sometimes killed) for having the audacity to think about the same sex to yourself.

Like the fact there are communities where straight women can causally talk about wanting werewolf cock and fucking elderly ugly men pretending to be a child, being celebrated for it, yet a woman can't fucking talk about finding another woman sexy without it involving a man? Your dismissal proves my point. A straight woman can get into a healthy relationship with a man easily as long as she can recognize red flags, her options are seemingly limitless, this whole "all men are bad" shit and yet you call act holier than thou towards lesbian incels? LOL. Can't even say "sorry men don't wanna fuck your hairy fat self" because the irony is, a lot of men- including men with good personalities- would want to. Every type of man out there exists because you make up the majority, the only person stopping you from finding "true love" is literally yourself. Sorry daddy didn't like you growing up so you purposely exclude yourself from a privileged dating pool out of spite. Do women have less rights? Yeah, but you have an outlet where you can be yourself anywhere you want without being banned or shamed for a sexuality you can't even change, able to talk about whatever topic you want no matter how messed up as long as men are involved in some way. You have limitless distractions when it comes to TV, movies, games, etc. Every fantasy you can think of if you don't wanna reach out to someone, knowing that another woman created it too- making it less awkward to consume. We don't get that, but we do get to see the other side of the coin- gay men- get celebrated with every possible space you can think of meant exclusively for them, all the while we can't even have own lesbian bars because straight women insist on bringing their male friends into it and then acting like you're a horrid monster for daring to kick him out.

>>126635
yup it's inceldom forever for you, but mostly because you're highly insufferable, not because you're lesbian. not a lot of people on your wavelength so to speak

I'm jealous of girls with clear skin, especially really fat girls who eat like shit. I cut out so much of my diet (white carbs, dairy, I eat minimal sugar and fats), bought so many skincare products but my face is still acne riddled.

I'm jealous specifically of fat girls with a ton of potential because even though I've basically done all I could to improve my appearance esp. with diet and fitness my highest potential is ugly while all they have to do is literally put in like half the work I do to be a 10/10.

i’ve never felt jealous of another woman.

Damn imagine wasting your time thinking about how pretty you are in relation to other women.

You know what's so much more interesting than that, look at this awesome bowl of oyster dipping noodles.

>>126198
My philosophy prevents me from caring about people's husk and start critically analysing the way they speak and think instead.

I'm jealous of girls who look similar to my type but prettier. So a rounder jaw, more upturned nose, puffier lips, clear skin, or curvier body, all make me jealous. And thick, long hair too.

The only thing making me feel better is knowing i pass as slightly above average\cute which is good enough to not be treated like a troglodyte I guess. Besides, even the most beautiful women in the world get treated like trash and cheated on, so what is even the point of looking beautiful then.

>>126445
You aren't supposed to drink your own kool-aid.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Drinking_the_Kool-Aid
See this post >>126453 she could be having a bf right now.

>>126456
> she could be having a bf right now.
Idk what u think u know about me but I do not have one and would never wish to have one lol

>>126462
Cool, now stop making everything about yourself, i was only using you as example.

>>126463
> i was only using you as example.
Which is exactly why I said something abt it dumbass lmfao so sorry I'm apparently making everything about myself

Besides there was literally nothing wrong w/ what the other anon said so idk what ur issue is

>>126623
imagine being this new