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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132053

>>131935
There's an entire channel on ridiculous Shabbos practices kek
They had a video where they ironed the countertop but I can't find it

Anonymous 132082

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One of these days I’m gonna get myself doxed and posted on kiwifarms

Anonymous 132083

>>132082
There is a nonzero chance that your entire existence is being mocked in excrutiating detial on an imageboard in China

Anonymous 132084

>>132083
They should invite me there

Anonymous 132085

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>>132084
不知天高地厚



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Childhood stories Anonymous 132068[Reply]

Do you have memorable people or events from your childhood? What was your first experience with Internet like? Share your stories in this thread. I really like hearing those.

Anonymous 132069

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When I was in elementary school me and my classmates used to sneak into the kindergarten nearby through a hole in the fence. We were trying to move stealthily around the playground, looking for places to hide. That was pretty fun.

Anonymous 132076

>>132069
That sounds awesome. I miss hide and go seek

Anonymous 132077

>>132068
I remember some of my earliest experiences with the internet was download ROMs and emulators (SNES, Sega, NES). Learning how to get these programs to work was foundational to my interest in computers, software, as well as my IT skills which us millenials supposedly have.

Anonymous 132081

>>132077
lol this reminds me of the first time I tried getting into Pokémon when I was 9. There was a disclaimer on the rom download page like “if you do not own this game you must delete this file within 24 hours” and I actually considered taking it seriously



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 132062

>>132059
Buddhism is like the one thing that isn’t retarded. Nirvana isn’t something you’re required to pursue, it’s just a logical conclusion to the question of “how do you end suffering.” Buddhism understands most people will not reach Nirvana because they don’t even want to reach it, which is fine because it’s not really about socially shaming people into things.
The key insight is that ours pains and our pleasures are fundamentally related and you can’t lose one without the other.

Anonymous 132073

>>132062
>Abrahamic faith: Believe what I do or eternally suffer
>"Oh no how horrible"
>Buddhism: Believe what I do or eternally suffer
>"It's cool guys"
Buddha was a misogynist btw and a shitton of Buddhist branches believe women shouldn't be allowed to be monks or other leaders and that men are the only ones who can't reach enlightenment. Buddha also didn't even believe in supernatural shit, that was stolen from paganism and Gnosticism and added later. The only thing more retarded than Buddhism is new age shit and theosophy who believe in eternity of reincarnation without enlightenment because that's basically Hell in its own right, Buddhist's only semi-based belief is Naraka because torturing rapist moids for a quintillion years is based and technically not immoral because it isn't eternal, then again they also have period blood hells for women

Anonymous 132075

>>132073
Your soul is immortal and eternally reincarnating, getting caught up in the details of being male or female is in itself an attachment. It’s pretty well-established that women can reach Nirvana too so I don’t know where you’re getting this from. Criticizing any religion because specific adherents and interpretations were flawed is very unproductive.

Anonymous 132078

>>132075
And Buddhism is not as simple as “reach Nirvana or suffer”, there are earthly pleasures and heavenly realms that it acknowledges, the irony is that these good things keep you “coming back for more” so to speak and are in themselves a cause of suffering accordingly, even if you personally deem it “worth it”.
Like the gambling addict who can’t stop playing the slots because he won once.
Compare this to western religion, where suffering is seen as something redemptive and virtues, and the reward is an eternal heaven of pleasure. Buddhism doesn’t conflate a good suffering with a bad suffering, nor a righteous pleasure with a shameful pleasure, to Buddhism it’s all the same.

Anonymous 132080

>>132078
Another wonderful thing about Buddhism is that you don’t even need to believe in it to appreciate the benefits, it teaches very measurable ways to regulate yourself and avoid spiraling. You could rebrand this all under modern psychology instead of 2000 year old asian terminology and it would sort of come out to the same thing. The question is more so how far do you want to take it, and for someone like yourself who is quite literally living in hell it is worth considering.



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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?
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Anonymous 132058

Honestly I'm tempted to, I can't get out of bed until 4pm some days. I don't know what to do, I can't find a job, I owe my mom hundreds of dollars of money for her credit card bill because she lets me use it to buy food which just screams to me I'm gonna be in debt later in life. I guess it's less I've given up and more I just don't know what to do

Anonymous 132061

>>132058
How old are you?

Anonymous 132072

>>132061
19 years old

Anonymous 132074

>>132072
Literally a little goo goo gaa gaa baby at that age.

Anonymous 132079

>>132058
>job
care work
pay back your mom, then leave if you hate it



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Anonymous 130287[Reply]

I'm ugly. I'm overweight. I'm extremely socially anxious and autistic, which is why I haven't had a single friend in almost ten years. I lack hygiene, I'm incredibly insecure and feel the need to kill myself when I have to think of my pathetic existence. Nothing is fun to me because I cannot concentrate for the life of me. I have tried to change my life multiple times but I cannot stick with it. Instead, my body keeps being pulled in to bed and my fate is probably to rot here forever.
Only reason I haven't killed myself yet is because I'm still young, only 20, so I am hoping for a miracle… Advice would be very appreciated. If there is any at this point.
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Anonymous 130303

>>130288
my doctor wont prescribe stimulants for my adhd because I am fat and my blood pressure is too high T.T

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>>130300
>My next therapist used 'talking therapy' which involved me getting things off my chest, then they would give their professional feedback on thought patterns or behaviours.
That does sound helpful, and even though I didn't go to therapy because of childhood trauma, I wish mine was like that too. I wish she would give her professional insights on my problems but instead, she just invalidates every single one of mine. I tell her I have issues with masking constantly since I was a child, and her response to these kinds of things is "No, you don't seem to have that problem"?? It's like going to the doctor because your knee hurts, and they just tell you "No, your knee doesn't hurt. I think you're just imagining the pain!" She also told me that I cannot be autistic because my of my good ability read and write, and because I can feel emotions (I thought she was kidding me but no). What she probably meant was that I cannot be autistic because I'm a woman lol.
>there are extroverted nice people who like the same things you do and will make the effort to connect - so please don't hide from them :)
Well that sounds encouraging, I have met extroverts before who were very kind to me, I guess they liked that I'm quiet because that gave them more space to talk hah. I think I will try to attend such meeting, and if it sucked, I won't have to see the people ever again.
>Keep posting here with updates:) I believe in you!
Thank you anon, I will update under this thread in a month or two from now, I'll try to do as much of your advice as I can!

Anonymous 130309

>>130301
I'm really sorry about that, but I am positive that we can make it out of it. As you have said, you were able to pull yourself out before a couple of times. Also I think it helps to hear of other nonas who went through the same and got better eventually. I think putting in a bunch of effort is worth a try, no matter how hard it will be.
>>130303
Hmm, I have heard of obese people being prescribed stimulants such as vyvanse for weightloss since it suppresses your hunger a lot… Maybe make him aware of that. You'd solve two problems at once.

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>>130301
How does your body feel physically? Do you have an illness? I know I said to the OP, but please also get a full blood panel (including serum iron + ferritin) if possible.

Anonymous 132071

>>130287
How it going OP?



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 132006

>>132005
I'm not Indian but okay.

Anonymous 132021

>>132001
are you sure it's your skull making you unlovable

Anonymous 132048

A bimax and nose job would make it possible for me to get loved i think. I can afford them in the future. It would fix my side profile. Then fat transfer for my undereyes and canthoplasty, all of these would at least fix my subhumanity to certain extend. I could wear clothes without worrying about my side profile. Yep

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I saw a handsome guy today and my day is ruined again

Anonymous 132056

>>132055
You can't let them keep getting away with it. Next time you see a handsome guy you walk right up to him and let him know that he owes you sex and attention.



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Cool facts about women! Anonymous 132063[Reply]

1. During pregnancy, cells pass back and forth between a mother and her baby. What is truly amazing is that these baby's cells can stay active in the mother's body for decades after birth—a phenomenon known as fetal microchimerism.
If a mother’s heart, liver, or other organs suffer an injury later in life, these lingering fetal cells will actually migrate straight to the site of the damage. Once there, they can transform into the specific types of cells needed to help repair and heal her body.

2. A surprising number of life-saving and everyday inventions were born purely out of women looking out for others. In 1902, a woman named Mary Anderson was riding a streetcar during a freezing sleet storm in New York City. She noticed that the driver had to keep opening the front window to manually wipe away the ice, leaving him shivering and delaying the passengers.
Feeling bad for the freezing driver, she went home and sketched out a lever-operated rubber blade that could clear the window from inside the cabin. She patented the very first windshield wipers a year later, entirely because she wanted a stranger to stay warm and dry.

3. In the late 19th and early 20th centuries, a brilliant group of women known as the "Harvard Computers" completely revolutionized astronomy. At a time when women weren't allowed to operate the university's telescopes, they were hired to analyze thousands of photographic glass plates of the night sky by hand.
Despite being barred from the actual observatory equipment, their mathematical precision unlocked the universe. Annie Jump Cannon created the star classification system still used by scientists today, and Henrietta Swan Leavitt discovered how to measure distances in deep space—the exact "cosmic yardstick" Edwin Hubble later used to prove the universe is expanding.

4. Biologically, some women possess an actual superpower when it comes to perceiving the world. While the average person has three types of color-sensing cone cells in their eyes, a genetic variation allows some women to possess four distinct types of cones.
This condition, called tetrachromacy, allows them to see up to 100 million different colors—roughly 100 times more than the rest of us. Where a standard eye sees a basic green leaf or a gray concrete wall, a tetrachromat can perceive an incredibly rich, shifting gradient of entirely distinct shades and tones that most people simply cannot detect.

Women are amazing!

Anonymous 132064

5. You can thank a woman for the secure wireless connections we use every day. In 1942, Hollywood actress and inventor Hedy Lamarr co-developed a "frequency-hopping spread spectrum" technology.
Originally designed to prevent radio-controlled Allied torpedoes from being jammed by the Axis powers during World War II, her concept of constantly switching radio frequencies became the foundational blueprint for modern Wi-Fi, Bluetooth, and GPS.

6. From a purely biological standpoint, women are built with a remarkably resilient immune system. The X chromosome contains a massive concentration of genes responsible for immune function and microRNAs that regulate the body's defenses.
Because women have two X chromosomes, their immune systems have a built-in redundancy system. If a pathogen mutates to bypass one genetic defense mechanism, the second X chromosome frequently provides a secondary line of code to recognize and fight off the infection. This is a primary reason why women generally exhibit higher survival rates during severe global pandemics and respiratory epidemics.

7. In short-to-mid-distance athletic performance, men hold general advantages in raw speed and explosive power due to higher muscle mass and larger lung capacities. However, as race distances extend into extreme ultra-endurance territory (such as 200-plus mile ultramarathons) the gender performance gap closes dramatically, and women frequently win these grueling events outright.
This is driven by an evolutionary metabolic difference regulated by estrogen. During prolonged, sub-maximal physical exertion, the female body is significantly more efficient at lipid oxidation (breaking down stored fat for fuel) while sparing limited glycogen (carbohydrate) reserves.
Because the human body holds tens of thousands of calories in fat stores but only a few thousand in glycogen, women possess a built-in efficiency advantage for multi-day pacing, allowing them to maintain structural stamina long after carbohydrate-dependent pacing strategies break down.

Anonymous 132065

8. When the Electronic Numerical Integrator and Computer, “ENIAC” (the world’s first programmable, digital computer) was unveiled in 1946, the engineers who built the hardware were hailed as pioneers. But the machine itself was just a massive, silent room of vacuum tubes, wires, and switches. To make it do something useful, a team of six mathematicians was hired: Jean Bartik, Frances "Betty" Holberton, Kathleen Antonelli, Marlyn Meltzer, Frances Spence, and Ruth Teitelbaum.
At the time, "software" didn't exist as a concept or a career. These women were handed raw electronic schematics of the machine and told to figure out how to make it calculate complex calculus equations. Without programming languages, manuals, or operating systems, they manually mapped out logical data flows, invented the concepts of subroutines and nested loops, and physically programmed the computer by configuring thousands of switches and cables. They literally drafted the blueprint for modern software engineering.

9. The global lifespan gap, where women systematically outlive men by an average of 5 years, isn't just a result of lifestyle choices. It is tied to basic cellular preservation.
Every time a human cell divides, the protective caps at the ends of its chromosomes, called telomeres, shorten. When telomeres get too short, the cell stops functioning and dies. However, the female hormone estrogen directly stimulates the production of telomerase, an enzyme that repairs and maintains these chromosomal caps. This molecular defense slows down the rate of cellular aging, giving women a systemic biological advantage against the structural degradation of tissues and blood vessels over a lifetime.

10. From a genetic standpoint, women do not possess a uniform genetic expression across their entire body. Because a double dose of X-chromosome genes would cause a toxic overproduction of proteins, female embryos undergo a process called Lyonization (discovered by geneticist Mary Lyon) during early development.
In every single embryonic cell, one of the two X chromosomes is randomly selected, crumpled up into a dense, silent ball called a Barr body, and permanently turned off.
Because this selection happens independently in each cell, a woman's body develops as a literal patchwork quilt of genetic expression. Some patches of tissue exclusively use the X chromosome inherited from her mother, while neighboring patches use the X chromosome from her father.
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Anonymous 132066

Thank you anon. Have a nice day.



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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.
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Praying that everyone takes up the cross, praying that everyone sees the power humility, praying that pennance is done for degenerate lives we tolerate.

Anonymous 131889

can i get a prayer. can i get a prayer, anyone

Anonymous 131964

>>131889
A prayer for anything specifically?

Regardless may god bless and keep you always friend. God stays with anyone who wants to be kind and better themselves in this world.

Anonymous 131975

>>131964
nothing in particular, all i wanted was to see who'd reply. thank-you

Anonymous 132057

i pray for your light to illuminate my face. Please show me your light.



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need advice Anonymous 132010[Reply]

I'm aware of how retarded I am being but I am deeply in love with a fictional character. From the moment I wake up I am thinking of him to the time I go to sleep. It makes me want to cry since he's not real and would never be able to hold me or speak to me. I am thinking of getting a body pillow or sexo doll modeled after him but I am scared even then that won't be enough. Any Anons struggle with this? I need advice on how to deal with love for fictional husbandos.. Underneath my skin feels itchy when I think of him and my head starts hurting. It hurts physically. I love him so dearly.. I feel so crazy I am literally planning on modeling a sexo doll after him and staging a wedding in the middle of the woods with him.
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Anonymous 132036

Honestly you could do a lot worse than Medic.

Anonymous 132038

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>>132034
It's not too weird considering where we are posting she can be very much genuine. There's also the girl who made an engie doll lol. I support them tbh.

Anonymous 132040

>>132038
At first this picture made me sad because she seems lonely but if that doll brings her any comfort, then I can understand why she'd want it.

Anonymous 132045

I was a scout fan myself.

Anonymous 132052

We all been there nonita, you'll get over him. But if you don't go see a psychiatrist



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