/feels/ - Advice & Venting

They shouldn't fear loneliness that much.
It doesn't kill you (or it does but very slowly)

>>112016
I'd rather be with a 6/10-looking guy who is truly my best friend, always makes me laugh, shares my opinions and interests, etc than a 10/10-looking boring ass normie who's used to women bending over backwards for his approval bc he's conventionally attractive and is therefore more likely to cheat.

no, i love having a hot bf. it's great

Go back zoomer

>>112034
ok Stacy

>>112016
>only dating bc they're both conventionally attractive

thats something they have in common, they can relate with their experiences and what they are in society

>>112034
I don’t. Every time I go out a Stacy wants to lure him and they do everything to draw attention to their boobs and butt in his presence. Like doing the pose where they lean over intentionally to show cleavage and pushing their tits together with their forearms. Or accidentally dropping something near him and bending down to pick it up. Or she keeps adjusting flapping her cardigan and the fabric movement draws your eyes there because she keeps moving/adjusting her cardigan …
It’s sickening. Why do stacies do this why can’t they accept the fact that an ugly girl like me got a conventionally attractive man.

>>112016
I think young people (I'm talking high school to early 20s) today just don't know how to connect with people on a personal/emotional level. I blame porn and social media addiction.

>>112395
true, but I believe it was like this even before the internet. It just enhanced it. Conventionally pretty looking people, who also happen to be healthy mentally, are mostly so bland and boring that they don't really have expectations when it comes to relationships besides "is looking good" and "isn't annoying". There's nothing special about them so why would there be anything special about their relationship? Purely transactional.

The truth about attractiveness is that it's necessary for the first impression and first impressions are super duper important because they actually start the conversation. After a while though, your face doesn't seems good looking or ugly anymore to the other person, it just becomes a familiar face. Think of it like looking at your mom's face. You don't think "She's so ugly" unless you put your mind to it but have a stranger approach you and you immediately start thinking about their looks. So, yeah. You do need to have things that click together and also be half-decent I guess.

>>112033
>I'd rather be with a 6/10-looking guy who is truly my best friend, always makes me laugh, shares my opinions and interests

I've dated men like this. You fall head over heels for them because you think they really see you. Then because of their moid sensibilities, they slow fade you and you go crazy and start chasing them until they dump you. On net, probably not worth it. It's hard to fall for boring normies in the same way, and that reason in conjunction with their mental stability makes for a generally long lasting relationships that don't scar you.

>>112466
AYRT; nah I dont fw online dating its a waste of time + he proposed to me already and are living together, have pets we take care of, and the wedding is in just a few months. Words of affirmation every day, lots of quality time together. If anything our love for each other gets stronger every day.

IRL > net