Anonymous 36803
>MC just has to be caring, considerate, hard working, kind and supportive once to get n girls falling for him and have a harem of women who are constantly thinking about him and obsessed, and he can have any woman he wants just because he is considerate
Why is this so common in anime? Is dating in Japan really like this?
Anonymous 36804
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Harem animes aren't designed to be a realistic or accurate depiction of dating. They appeal to the "nice guys" that have no real personality or social skills but also can't handle rejection. Their wish fulfillment fantasy is to have their "nice" behavior be validated by women but also to not grow as a person and become a well rounded human being. It's a coping mechanism for "nice guys" that don't want to change and become better people.
Anonymous 36806
>>36804These guys are not nice they are door mats most of the time.
Anonymous 36807
>>36803hayato is cool he isn't your typical lose anime moid
Anonymous 36818
>>36803Japan are the masters of escapist wish fulfillment media. The female equivalent exists too.
If you want to read actual good romance it's out there too.
Anonymous 36838
>>36804No. Looks are the bare minimum