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my partner is addicted to his computer Anonymous 127144[Reply]

i can’t believe he couldn’t even spend time with me on thanksgiving. he wakes up. instantly in a game. i reluctantly open my computer and check on his ex, a bad habit of mine. can’t bring myself to play a game. i look over my shoulder and catch him creeping on his ex before going back to his game. we leave and spend some time at our relatives for thanksgiving together. he’s on his phone the entire time. we just got engaged and he is more interested in his phone than me. he couldn’t even get me a ring the right size. now we are back home and he RAN to his computer. and he’s just focused on what his ex is doing. what should i do?
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Anonymous 127217

>>127216
yeah what exactly are these allegations hes so worried about you hearing

Anonymous 127221

>>127204
idk maybe there's a cuckocalypse or something. OP sounds like a cuck being with a man who isn't letting go of his ex

Anonymous 127222

>>127221
hes just always insisted they were the ones not over him

Anonymous 127223

>>127222
Yeah, that's called projection.
I'm sure you're more mature and wise to his tricks now than before you entered that relationship. It's not morally wrong to trust people, so don't fret about it, you know better now. If anything, you should be pissed at him for taking advantage of you and using you when he knew he only had eyes for his ex. What an asshole.

Anonymous 127224

>>127222
What??? You can't be serious. Everything You said about him points to him not being over her, why would he keep on checking on her otherwise? in fact even his actions are bound to her, him asking you out just to one up to her and everything else, all seem like things he's doing because he can't let go.



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 127214

>>127213
all the girlfailure larping and cuckposting happens close to each other

Anonymous 127215

>>103992
Sounds like you might want to work through that anxiety of yours. That's an almost AvPD level of social anxiety there. Just fuck up on purpose sometimes, see that it's not that big of a deal.
I know someone whose anxiety training involved putting some cardboard on a leash and treating it like a real dog in public. The horror stories she imagined would come of it never happened, when people asked about it she could manage to explain it and the whole experience made her feel more confident in acting like herself.
I offend people by accident all the time, if someone points it out and it's an honest mistake, you can just apologise and move on.

Anonymous 127218

>>127158
>>127213
Some girls actually act like babies, it can be a traumatic age regression, the kind that pedo moids relentlessly sexualise and encourage in women unlike with traumatised men who just get called retards.
Nothing morally wrong with being retarded like that, but it's nothing to be proud of.
>>127158
Pedo anime definitely romanticises it, entire casts of shows have women of every fictional age acting like dumb 7 year olds who need an adult moid to teach them basic life skills. The moids behind it are frankly disgusting. They have a desperate need to feel superior and if the only way for them to do that is to have their love interests be mental 7 year olds, that's not just pathetic, it's creepy. There's way too much of that low budget slop and nothing disgusts me more than seeing it in the romance genre.

Anonymous 127219

>>127215
that cardboard story sounds like a modern torture method! I can see how it would help though. how did she explain it when asked?

Anonymous 127220

>>127213
(this) feels like someone who's never heard of people having low self esteem or just being dummies



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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

Previous thread >>>/feels/120288
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Anonymous 127138

>>127137
men don’t care about your feelings. don’t care about theirs. simple as.

Anonymous 127146

>>127120
>>127137
Thank you nonas. The manager friend is definitely supportive of me not babysitting him anymore at least on the outside (I think she deep down wants me to take care of him so she doesn’t have to deal with him but feels guilty over it). I still don’t see a way for him to get better any time soon, so I might just suggest we keep him idle at the office or something so he doesn’t constantly get in trouble. His coworkers are gonna hate him for it since they’re already the most overworked team which worries me, but that’s probably the most realistic option if I want to be free from him. It still feels wrong to give up on him like this though… Ugh. I didn’t realize moid tears had such a tight grip on my heart. I’ll follow through on it and talk to his manager by the end of the day.
Thanks nonas!

Anonymous 127201

>>125413
Guys I fucked up big time
>In the sitting room with my dad chilling he's on social media and occasionally shows me some funny memes, funny videos etc
>eventually stumbles upon a meme or some comment thread where there's an argument, either way the word "cuck" appears and he's laughing and asking if I knew what it meant
>excitedly say it's when a woman cheats on her man with a big black guy, right?
>he looks kind of stunned and says "well it's when someone cheats, but… yeah, I suppose it could be that
>awkward silence
I could literally feel him think less of his daughter in that moment, I'm sorry dad I'm a failure

Anonymous 127202

>>127201
lmao what the fuck

Anonymous 127212

>>127201
so many fetish posts the past 12 hours wtf is going on



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Anonymous 125487[Reply]

me and my bf aren't compatible

Anonymous 125489

Why does he not like mogeko games?

Anonymous 125680

same but we are 3 years in ahahaha

Anonymous 125775

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

Anonymous 127211

men aren’t compatible with anyone. they don’t ever have close bonds. they bond with other men entirely based on interests like video games and anime. not on personality or compatibility or people whose values they align with. they view women as even less important and only care about physical appearance. they’ll only resort to looking for a girl with the same hobbies when their friends get older and have work instead of being free to game all day. then they involve the woman, maybe. men will always choose physical attraction first. if they bond with you about hobbies straight away it’s because they think they’re out of options and you can usually tell they settled when you start out as a friend. men who are really interested will court you but again. the interest is only in appearance. only losers who can’t date their type and no longer have social lives will date the ugly weeb girls they ignored for 15 years. keep in mind the only thing they care about is sexual compatibility and if romance and sex isn’t the starting point, you were the backup plan.



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unsent letters Anonymous 127088[Reply]

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Anonymous 127205

i don’t remember a single word of what you said to me other than the threats. however i am so glad to see i was right about you being in love with your ex, it being unrequited, and you guys not getting back together. i could not have anticipated you not being part of his life anymore and finding out major life events through social media. so no i’m probably not gonna myself. i’m glad i stuck around long enough to find out there was no scary group of people who hated me and were going to jump me and confront me. just one sad violent obsessed woman who put off her “twin flame” with her personality disorder. you’re welcome for the internet footprint though.

Anonymous 127206

i guess the only person who turned out to be sending messages no one was reading and no one cared about it as you, R. i guess the person on the outside looking in has always been you. keep skinwalking prettier women and trying to figure out your sense of style through plans to get attention online. the name rhiannon galloway will always be associated with a woman who stalked harassed and threatened a rape victim though. like a girl came forward and you started driving past that girls house and sending her messages saying you were outside and were going to jump her. that she was a problem to be taken care of. remember? remember telling her you had hacked her and were going to get her? remember when you would try to allude to her location? her job? that the police would get her? hundreds of threats and insults. because she was raped by someone you were obsessed with, so you became obsessed with her.

rhiannon, who is laughing now? who won at the end? who is alone and which couples are married now? when the truth came out, did you end up vindicated dating your ex or did you change your social media names to rhiannon terra and have a bunch of public humiliations?

goodness always prevails over evil like you.

Anonymous 127207

no one is killing themselves over your words. you should probably stop writing to nik in bad french before someone says something to you personally though. or don’t. “beans and bebe” is unintentionally so fucking hilarious. if that’s how you want to be remembered sweetheart i think that’s just wonderful.

Anonymous 127209

>>127207
did he like fart a lot while you dated or something

Anonymous 127210

maybe you texted me when your number was blocked and gave up but i always wondered why you didn’t contact me there after the first time. now i realize it’s so your pathological lies didn’t get screenshot. you literally cant reply. rip.



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men don’t know how to do it anymore Anonymous 127087[Reply]

i don’t know how anyone puts up with them. i’m so bored. i’m too romantic and in the real meaning of the word. i want to swear a blood oath to each other and then he ravishes me under a full moon on the stone stairs of ancient castle ruins. instead everyone is giving some sort of booktok limp wristed wanna be daddy dom. no i don’t want to be spanked. i want to tell you i would find you in every life to do this in every form we’ve ever taken in every way we could, whether i’m your wife or your whore we belong to each other. men want to jerk off watching school girl porn. i’m
not your buddy you indulge in similar interest with and am there just to hang out. i’m yours. i don’t want to be injured or do weird sex stuff. i want to be YOURS. i’m done with the half assed. i’m done with people settling because their time is up. i either belong to someone or i don’t and i don’t want to belong to any of these men.
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Anonymous 127136

>>127135
Oh my god she’s propping up one of her breasts with her sword the other one is dangling over her belt.

Anonymous 127145

I still have a Virgin's idea of soul bonding sex lel

Anonymous 127147

>>127145
that’s because it’s the truth. you are bound permanently to every person you have sex with.

Anonymous 127198

>>127126
Cocksucker.

Anonymous 127203

>>127198
hardly



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Anonymous 127156[Reply]

is it ok to lose 15 lbs if u entered a relationship 15lbs heavier yes or no ????
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Anonymous 127168

>>127156
>if u entered a relationship 15lbs heavier
heavier than what?

Anonymous 127170

>>127168
the weight i am supposed to be

Anonymous 127171

>>127170
like your max healthy weight?

Anonymous 127173

>>127171
10lbs above my natural weight 20lbs above my ideal weight but he doesn't like if i'm skinny

Anonymous 127188

>>127173
i think probably don’t worry about it



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Normiemaxxing Advice Anonymous 126975[Reply]

Come on, how the fuck do I normiemaxx? I want to be happy like them. I want friends, I want to be respected and seen as NORMAL. Any tips? What should I do and what should I avoid?
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Anonymous 127139

>>127122
Normiemaxxing is often neither healthy nor normal.
If you're a proper normie, you don't have to waste time on explicitly figuring out how to act like one, most of it will come to you naturally the more you spend time around people. You mess up, you learn, you move on.
But if you're extremely deep in the weirdness, scared shitless of being ridiculed or even slightly rejected and very desperate to behave normal in public, you can speed things up by suppressing your personality and pretending you're already a normie.
100% won't work, but it'll give you a ton of anxiety.

Anonymous 127141

>>127139
no one is going to say anything to anyone’s face like ever. trust me. i have gone after people i know in real life and torn their faces off over text and then blocked them and they didn’t say shit to me at the grocery store. so there’s no need to be anxious it turns out. no one is going to do anything to your face people are cowards. there is no normal anymore. everyone is fucking insane now. so also rest assured you will realize the people in public are being weird as hell and it’s not just you. now decide that they aren’t better than you. and just say whatever thing comes to mind and then let the conversation die and they have to pick it back up if they want it. simple.

Anonymous 127142

>>126975
Build confidence and self-esteem so you can get over not being a normie.
You can make friends without being seen as normal.
Most people are weird if you get to know them closely enough, I'm starting to think that true normies don't exist.

Anonymous 127143

>>127142
i honestly think some of these girls are confused at how people are shy and anxious themselves in public and aren’t open with them. and think that’s being a normie and don’t understand not every relationship starts out intense like texting your online friends lmao. the people around you are real human beings with histories and trauma and illnesses affected by society and just trying to hold it together. they also have hobbies. anyone with a hobby now thinks other people don’t have them and having any hobby makes you quirky. i think it’s like backlash to consumerism where the lamest thing you can be now is someone who doesn’t do anything. so there’s a lot of weird projection and performing happening now. no one knows what being alternative is anymore because it stopped existing as a concept ten years ago. people just don’t get it and know how to adjust.

Anonymous 127148

>>127139
I'm sure your experience is insightful but doesn't need to be extrapolated to everyone and isn't so black and white. Maybe some nonas just need a safe environment to do it without having to fake it at first.

>just bee confident and urself :^)

ironically requires some degree of normality because being a tolerated weirdo faggot requires social skills (which normiemaxxing is supposed to provide) or resources. nobody really cares about you otherwise and confidence requires backing anyways



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/rock bottom/ - general Anonymous 76609[Reply]

This thread is for people who have hit rock bottom. Not people who are having a bad day, but people who are living in the depths of despair. Whether you're a nona who is struggling with serious addiction, mental or physical illness that severely precludes your life, constantly feeling suicidal, whether you're being abused, have any other serious life issues or if you are simply unable to function and don't know where else to turn, vent here and let's try to support each other.
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Anonymous 126990

>>125666
You should be evicted for letting water damage happen. I hope you get sued.

Anonymous 126997

>>126990
i think they own wouldn’t it be their neighbors living room if not

Anonymous 127124

>>124208
Nona can you get a job at McDonald's or something? Or do some cardio at home? It's not over for you!

Anonymous 127125

>>124208
At least you have those fat reserves to help you get through the hard times.

Anonymous 127140

>>124208
nona track your cycle. there are points your body needs more calories because you are building up your uterine lining again. there are points you naturally have more energy and you need less food. only eat roasted local vegetables with a side of like boxed rice or cous cous. throw out the leftover rice but you can eat as much of it as you want once a day. i do a side of feta. your hormones will fix themselves after a month of that and your body will remove the excess weight itself and you can even have a full week to be snacky like you’re literally supposed to eventually and not gain the weight back. you literally just have to figure out how your body works. it is designed to balance itself out. your body doesn’t want this excess fat either it’s bad for it and it’s hormones. it’ll take care of it for you if you act right.



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