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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 128296

his screen time and trying to hide it after being called out still say everything. he actually can’t stay away even when he’s trying to prove a point. full time workers who never see each other and he can’t stop spending all his free time in one player games or playing the same games just alone so he can try and fool on lookers. you’re not even in the same room most of the time. “it would interfere with the audio” hes jerking off to his ex upstairs on mute that’s why it’s dead silence between you when you lose and are in the audio chat alone and he only goes heh and mmm.

Anonymous 128297

you actually have never really had conversations that aren’t about his interests you’re imitating, his exes, his exes you’re imitating, his problems being canceled publicly, how it’s just you two and fuck her she’s wrong i’ll take you to the same places i did as a message to her you’ll only find out about after! like he can’t even pretend to be interested in your mind or you. it’s hilarious. the only thing you have to talk about is cosplay planning. he can’t even act excited about the wedding you had to make him post about it after he wouldn’t.

Anonymous 128298

thank you for allowing me to choose both of your destinies and how people will view you for the rest of your lives.

Anonymous 128305

>>128298
Nurse she’s out again

Anonymous 128307

can’t wait to decide if you’re allowed to keep your next job or not.



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

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Anonymous 127776

did i get lost along the way?
lose my mind for a new identity?
i quite enjoy ruining your day
and i just wanna cause a entropy

you tried so hard
to make a hero out of me
but there are some rules i don’t obey
and i just wanna cause a little chaos and
entropy

you tried so hard
to take the discord out of me
but guess what?
i wasn’t born that way
and i just wanna cause a little entropy

Anonymous 127777

and when you shame me
it makes me want it more

Anonymous 128023

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Anonymous 128024

panty-anarchy-pant…

Friday night, time to get drunk
Go, go to the party, time to get drunk
Arrive in the Clio, get driven by a hunk
Straight to the bedroom, driven by a hunk
Plenty of boys in the yard
One look at me and they get hard

H-Hard as stone, ready to bone
Like Medusa on a party throne
DJ, DJ, DJ DJ DJ
Slow it down for an epic BJ
Thanks, man, so glad you came
I think I love you, what's your name?
Don't leave yet, we're having fun
Friday night, number one
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Anonymous 128306

sing for me my sweet acolyte



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Hate Thread Anonymous 118525[Reply]

What do you hate and why?
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Anonymous 127494

men who rape virgins

Anonymous 128269

AI bros- especially and specifically the ones that use AI to generate fake gfs to abuse, use it to undress pictures of women, use it to generate porn of women without their consent, etc.

Feels like AI is just another tool in the box for men to abuse and degrade women

Anonymous 128302

moid celebrities, especially comedians who oftentimes manage to be inflammatory, woman hating and ugly at the same time in an already lousy industry that objectifies and commodifies women to the extremes. a list ones are also evil incarnate. I'd like to send them all into a giant pot of scalding water and watch the skin boil off their bones

Anonymous 128303

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>>128302
>I'd like to send them all into a giant pot of scalding water and watch the skin boil off their bones

Anonymous 128304

>>128302
Youre hating on ugly women in an industry that commodifies them what

I get the hideous moid part but please name me some celebrity women that are ugly

This looks like more of the same basic primal bimbo shit



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Anonymous 128299[Reply]

Why is making friends so hard as an autistic woman? I have ptsd from past female friendships

>Women who used me for emotional labor when she was upset/lonely, then totally disappeared until she needed advice or comfort again. She never asked how I'm doing

>Women being fake
>Women when they make fun of people passing by, whether it’s another girl wearing pants that they don’t like or a disabled person who can’t control their disability, their snide comments, make me instantly uncomfortable
>Women always trying to find validation from 'hot guys'
>Women making comments about your style or how to appear more beautiful
>Women want to vent about their various men, who are pumping and dumping them, constantly
>Dating men who she knew was toxic for her. Ruining her mental health over them (like intentionally hurting herself and sending herself to the hospital to see if they cared enough to show up) and dumping it all on me
>Women want to complain about their day constantly, the conversation is just an exchange of complaints
>Being thin is like blood in the water, especially to female secretaries. they diminish you to your looks, and when you're also smart they get offended
>They only talk to you to share trauma or trauma dump you or try to make you feel responsible for their life choices
>Putting down other women. and then being nice to those women to their face
>Be cautious around woman who become your best friend really fast
>Even childhood friends being jealous towards any accomplishments and goals that I have. It comes from insecurity
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Anonymous 128301

>>128299
It has nothing to do with being autistic. Most of them are desperate for some kind of approval. So you should immediately dismiss any kind of judgement or rejection from them, Especially if youre in a higher place and didnt initially come in looking for that kind of chaos. When i was younger i would try to understand them but its better if you dont. If theyre coming from a place of harrassment of any kind theyre like starved dogs already. I honestly dont think most women are any better than men because theyre brainwashed as hell and begging for scraps because of social conditioning when they dont even have to. Even the prettiest women on earth act like this. (Well honestly i think theyre even more brainwashed to behave desperate, because they have to act the part to please the man that already expects them to behave like this.)



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Anonymous 127725[Reply]

I cannot stand the political climate that exists today. As a leftist, I’m told to hate Republicans. I live in a very Republican area and these people are not bad people. I have a very bad cold and I can’t really breathe and I had to go pick up medication and it was like $100. I didn’t have enough money and I had to call somebody to ask to borrow some money and while I was calling, this old lady overheard and paid $100 for my pills. How can I hate these people when I know that they’re good at heart?
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Anonymous 128256

>>128232
You dont think healthcare, abortion and banned books effect you? Food safety laws stripped down because half the population voted a retard into office?

Anonymous 128257

>>128256
not just a retard, but a child rapist retard. I won't be surprised if a law passes that lowers the age of consent to 14

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>>128159
It's not about left or right. Right wingers have a lot of batshit insane stuff but it doesn't make them bad.
People are imperfect and make mistakes all the time even if they are good willed like >>128208 said, society would be much better if people weren't as tribal whether based on lineage or political persuasion like >>128232 said

>>128167
Please be trolling

Anonymous 128286

Lets get priorities straight. Political systems don't matter, only genetics matter. Genetics determine all human culture.

Anonymous 128287

>>128286
Interesting way to sell national socialism and eugenics



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Things they don’t teach you in school Anonymous 115819[Reply]

The important things. Like, what am I supposed to do when I, as a married woman who loves her husband, am feeling extremely attracted to a male friend? I wanna suppress my feelings and act like everything is normal but it’s so hard, it’s literally physically painful. I‘m feeling physically sick. Maybe I should cut contact with him, but I know that would really hurt him and I really can not do that. What am I supposed to do? I’m despairing. I don’t know who to ask
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Anonymous 121027

>>121009
is this actually true?

Anonymous 121038

>>121027
Partly. Male deathrate in the 30s is conventionally 2x female but the younger age cohort is dying faster at an accelerated pace.
https://www.statista.com/statistics/241572/death-rate-by-age-and-sex-in-the-us/
Age Male Female
15-24 126.9 49.3
25-34 251.2 108.6
35-44 373.3 201.2
45-54 668.4 393.9
You don't really have to worry though, it's typically unmarried and especially never-married men that make those numbers happen.

Anonymous 128255

>>121009
…backup… husband?

Anonymous 128258

>>121038
> it's typically unmarried and especially never-married men that make those numbers happen.
Oh, so incels are genetic trash after all

Anonymous 128284

>>115887
>Or can it work being platonic with each other?
Nope

>>128258
Lol



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Anonymous 128262[Reply]

Can bad days, trauma, mental scars, and nightmares from bad experiences ever be healed?

Everything you experience for the first time, good or bad, always hits a lot harder.
Everything you experience up until 25 hits a lot harder.
Venting doesn't work.
You can't put a broken glass back together.
The cracks will still show, shards will still be missing.

Can all you do is move toward and live with everything that happened and try to find peace?

Anonymous 128263

You can’t put a broken glass together, but mentally, you’re not glass. You’re not born perfect and that fragile. Trauma doesn’t really make you broken irreversibly, but it can until you have the support and the understanding to recover. (Like people who actually get what you went through help a lot)

I had stress so severe it was incomprehensible to others when I tried to explain, never vented so the shit kept building up and my mental functioning began to actually shut down from being unable to carry that weight. That went on until I got to a safe environment with safe people who treated me normally. Then my functioning gradually started restoring because I had only functioning issues and an attitude. I’m “scarred forever” in the sense my developmental path had shifted, but I’m not suffering from past events anymore.

Idk if it made sense nona just wanted to share my experience.

Anonymous 128265

>Can bad days, trauma, mental scars, and nightmares from bad experiences ever be healed?
Dunno :( I'm waiting for mine to go away, but it's been so long and I'm tried. Only good thing is, I forget less traumatic events over the years.
I guess "time heals" is a real thing?

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Taken from an excerpt on this random article I found-

“The story of kintsugi—this style of pottery—may be the most perfect embodiment of all our trauma-shattered lives… Instead of throwing away the broken beloved pottery, we’ll fix it in a way that doesn’t pretend it hasn’t been broken but honors the breaking—and more so, the surviving—by highlighting those repaired seams with gold lacquer. Now the object is functional once again and dignified, not discarded. It’s stronger and even more valuable because of its reinforced, golden scars.”

I highly recommend you read the article here- https://www.vaneetha.com/journal/kintsugi-beauty-in-the-broken

Also, do more research on kintsugi. It might change your mind on our minds merely being "fragile glass"

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>>128263
this 100%

just like flesh, the mind can heal
does it mean everyone will heal ? no
does it mean no one has a chance to heal ? no

Anonymous 128283

>>128282
In fact I’d argue purely psychological trauma is unlikely to cause irreversible damage unlike what can happen to your body. Most damage is functional and just requires a lot of effort to relearn. I’m not an expert on this topic tho so feel free to correct me on that.



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i have a phobia of female role in sex which makes me dysphoric as fuck and sex repulsed Anonymous 126444[Reply]

anyone else??? i just find the role submissive and humuliating, i dont wanna post it on nsfw board bc i dont wanna see anons talk about wanting to do humiliating sex acts i have a phobia of
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Anonymous 128276

>>128158
Incels think sex is an act of evil done to women. They think it is good only because they are the ones inflicting it on women.
You can just not think that sex must be an act of evil done to women. This does not solve the problem of being exposed to people who still think this way, but you can just fantasize about healthy and non-harmful sex with a husbando.
You can identify a psyop without buying into it yourself.
Blackpillers are ideologically identical to incels/misogynists, as in they share the same core beliefs about the sexes. The only difference is whether or not they think their values are “right”, or “wrong” from their position The only way to be a true separatist is to eradicate your male-centered perspective. Your internal world does not have to operate on the same logic as misogynists. You should acknowledge its existence, but you should not agree.

Anonymous 128277

>>128276
They definitely do think it’s an act of evil considering how according to them women are immediately sullied by having sex and need to stay celibate for their own good

Anonymous 128278

>>128100
Only if you dont assert the female gaze.

Anonymous 128279

>>128276
Exactly

Anonymous 128280

>>128277
Yes, but it is an act of evil he is entitled to inflict on women, therefore it is “good” (when he does it).



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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 125958

you have to MOVE
your body produces endorphins when it moves around, especially when exercising

you should have a ritual to kickstart to your day
tell yourself that you can play your games after your morning ritual AND breakfast (which includes washing the dishes)
you'll have to wash them anyway so what difference does it make ? if you get rid of your chores first, your fun won't be spoiled by the worry of having to do them

>tiktok

soulless slop
>r*ddit
no comment
tbh i find trooncord less cancerous, i have a few servers that i only use to scroll the meme channels and mute the rest

Anonymous 126008

I'm not formally recognized as not NEET by the government, but I'm actually employed as a god, and always educating myself on matters pertaining to that.

So, fairly thread relevant.

Anonymous 128267

I'm 22… I feel like my life is ruined because of neeting

Anonymous 128268

>>128267
how? you're still young at 22 lol

Anonymous 128275

>>128268
>you're still young at X
NEVER think this way. It will end in regret.



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