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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 127399

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Anonymous 127424

when you were here before
couldn’t look me in the eye
you’re just like an angel
your skin makes me cry
you float like a feather
in a beautiful world
and i wish i was special
you’re so very special

333

your playlist even has the acoustic version we listened to that night, after, sitting on your lap in the drivers seat of your dads red charger. you had told me my skin was so pure. you couldn’t stop kissing me and sang to me.

Anonymous 127425

to see within
is to feel without a light
who’d have thought
that we’d break the things we like?
to find a stone
just to bounce across a pond
it’s the path it makes
that’s a clue to wordless songs

her hair curls
in the damp of night
the scent recalls
like a photograph with life

to live without
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Anonymous 127426

411
and the earth looked at me
and said “wasn’t that fun?”
and i replied
“i’m sorry if i hurt anyone”
and without even thinking
cast me into space
but before she did that
she wiped off my own face
she said
better luck next time, don’t worry so much

Anonymous 127428

[Припев]
Слёзы льются, как река
Они капают, капают, капают, капают, разбрасываются повсюду
Они могут продолжаться, может быть, даже до следующего утра
Они будут капать, капать, капать, пока не достигнут моей комнаты

[Куплет 1]
Благодаря вам еда стала просто ужасной на вкус
Это лучшая диета из всех возможных
Я сгораю от смущения при виде моркови в форме звезды
И, как следствие, они должны похоронить мальчика



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stop lying to yourselves Anonymous 127369[Reply]

there is nothing in the world moids value more than the women they call “whores”. yes nonas… even your precious nigel’s. they see no issue giving these “whores” their sexual energy daily while in “monogamous ” committed relationships. they will shame these women publicly and go jerk off to them 30 minutes later. and don’t you forget that if you were to engage in these whorish activities yourselves they will suddenly have a problem with it because you’re the madonna in their story. committing to a moid is allowing yourself to be his full time madonna. while he gets to disrespect both you and the “whores” he shames however much he wants. stop allowing them to do this. men do not love you. romantic love is patriarchal propaganda.
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Anonymous 127379

>>127374
it wasn’t something i consciously did. i don’t think it’s something you can do on purpose.

Anonymous 127381

>>127373
been there done that

Anonymous 127402

My view on moids and why they treat women the way they do changed completely when i realized women are nothing but tools for moids for different purposes. They need one typeof woman to be theiir mommy that cleans up shit after them, cooks for them, takes care of the kids, and does all other boring shit moids don't want to waste their precious time on

And another type which op already mentioned is the whore, they need their harem of women they jerk off to, usually young, attractive, and vulnerable

Anonymous 127413

>>127402
this post triggered a what was i made for ass moment in me. i wonder what my use was. i think i know though and it hurts.

Anonymous 127427

>>127369
who hurt you?



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brainstorm thread Anonymous 127397[Reply]

say someone did a terrible act against you and now you are ready to get revenge. they are getting married. it’s a small event but someone you know hates them. you are also considering hiring someone. should i have them shout details of the crime - a very taboo and shocking crime. but have it risked as being associated with you. or would you have them scream or do something else? what would you do? this is the biggest event in their life for years and they will be sinking all their money into this endeavor. the grown woman marrying him helped him destroy evidence of this crime, committed by a grown man against a teenage girl. i have the option of being in attendance and am invited or i can stay home. this is a plan years in the making.
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Anonymous 127419

>>127414
only the best advice at crystal cafe

>>127416
honestly it's about making the message as effective as possible and idk if just announcing his crime at the wedding is effective. people just may get confused unless there's solid proof and ignore this
does he not have any more victims. a metoo campaign online may be reasonable maybe???

Anonymous 127420

>>127419
yeah like i don’t wanna drop the exact plan or what it’s about and i was kind of trying to plan like what if they sense i’m gonna to say something. and watch out for me. so should i send a person who would be willing or hire a stranger. what do i shout. if i do anything at the event what do i do because i want to do make a scene and ruin it. someone could be shushed or not heard across a room etc.

Anonymous 127421

>>127414
okay i actually read this now i thought this was literally advice on how to make a bomb and i was like what the fuck. um. this is still insane though.

Anonymous 127422

>>127420
good chance they don't expect you to say anything especially if they do invite you
there are sometimes stages where guests say their speeches, maybe you want something like this or something more anonymous (idk like spreading mass printed cards on the floor??)
you sound like you planned this for longer than me tho so it's up to you

Anonymous 127423

>>127422
there’s more parts to it but the wedding is a new thing that i am definitely going to take advantage of



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escaping samsara Anonymous 127407[Reply]

how are we going to do it guys

Anonymous 127408

I'm gonna be the emotional support for you guys who will do the solving

Anonymous 127409

>>127408
i love that. i am building a team.

Anonymous 127410

>>127407
One dickchop at a time



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Anonymous 125487[Reply]

me and my bf aren't compatible

Anonymous 125489

Why does he not like mogeko games?

Anonymous 125680

same but we are 3 years in ahahaha

Anonymous 125775

why aren’t you guys compatible? don’t leave us hanging nona

Anonymous 127404

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same



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why does society think women owe each other compliments? Anonymous 126800[Reply]

i hate the expectation that women are supposed to constantly compliment other women. especially on their looks. i’m a straight woman… i don’t view women through physical attraction at all. so complimenting their body or features feels unnatural to me. but if a woman doesn’t do it, people immediately assume she’s envious, insecure and sometimes even anti woman. men never face this. straight men aren’t expected to compliment other men, and when they don’t, no one questions their character or motives. women, meanwhile, are pressured to provide nonstop emotional validation. not complimenting a woman’s appearance doesn’t mean i dislike them. it just means i don’t feel obligated to perform a role society unfairly forces onto women. i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.

Anonymous 126828

isn’t it just one of the first signs of being socially well-adjusted to at least attempt a compliment when seeing someone even if you don’t mean it? men aren’t expected to do it because they’re viewed as blunt and blind to social cues (and they generally are). women can read the room and can actually pick up on when someone needs validation or comforting. don’t fight it nano, the discomfort in being forced to compliment is just a reminder that you can emotionally understand someone.

Anonymous 127298

>>126800
How is this an expectation? And it doesn't have to be from physical attraction. If I notice someone is wearing something nice that stands out to me, and I know them well enough, I'll say nice top ! where did you get it from? It's not that deep lol

But it's definitely not a good idea to compliment if that feels unnatural to you or whatever. But have people assumed you to be envious/insecure because of that?

Anonymous 127361

> i don’t find women physically attractive. sorry not sorry.

u dont have to want to fuck another woman to compliment her lol

Anonymous 127403

>>127361
usually only moids think like that tbh



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Anonymous 106726[Reply]

post yr ideal partner
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Anonymous 126972

>>119668
I know a guy almost exactly like this, minus the TERF part.

Anonymous 127260

Haha this is interesting. completely ideal/unrealistic:
lookswise:
>5'9-6'0
>good hygiene
>have some sense of style, or at least aware to look put together
>good dental hygiene !
>mixed or not white;
>bigger than me , but not too muscular

personality
>minimal screen usage/no social media like me
>minimal longing for sexual intimacy
>values me as a person
>can cook
>does not drink/smoke
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Anonymous 127325

-does not post on social media or better yet have it
-always wants to spoil me
-caring
-over 5'11
-direct
-responsible and decisive
-pudgy muscular

Anonymous 127372

>Tall
>Similar culture to me (mediterranean)
>Charismatic and social but also has nihce interests/takes an interest in my hobbies
>Family oriented
>Quiet/more laid back than me
>Goal oriented and driven
>Likes to always touch and cuddle
>High sex drive to match me
>Big thick dick most importantly

Anonymous 127380

>>127372
having a nice one is honestly so important.



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 127215

>>103992
Sounds like you might want to work through that anxiety of yours. That's an almost AvPD level of social anxiety there. Just fuck up on purpose sometimes, see that it's not that big of a deal.
I know someone whose anxiety training involved putting some cardboard on a leash and treating it like a real dog in public. The horror stories she imagined would come of it never happened, when people asked about it she could manage to explain it and the whole experience made her feel more confident in acting like herself.
I offend people by accident all the time, if someone points it out and it's an honest mistake, you can just apologise and move on.

Anonymous 127218

>>127158
>>127213
Some girls actually act like babies, it can be a traumatic age regression, the kind that pedo moids relentlessly sexualise and encourage in women unlike with traumatised men who just get called retards.
Nothing morally wrong with being retarded like that, but it's nothing to be proud of.
>>127158
Pedo anime definitely romanticises it, entire casts of shows have women of every fictional age acting like dumb 7 year olds who need an adult moid to teach them basic life skills. The moids behind it are frankly disgusting. They have a desperate need to feel superior and if the only way for them to do that is to have their love interests be mental 7 year olds, that's not just pathetic, it's creepy. There's way too much of that low budget slop and nothing disgusts me more than seeing it in the romance genre.

Anonymous 127219

>>127215
that cardboard story sounds like a modern torture method! I can see how it would help though. how did she explain it when asked?

Anonymous 127347

Off all the days to be sleepy my body is sleepy on the day I need to do it less and not more

Anonymous 127391

I might have isolated myself out of a group chat
And ngl I don't gaf at the moment.

Long story short there's a manchild who refuses to be held accountable and now his friends are creating excuses for him. And ngl I was mean. But also, I don't think he's the kind of dude I'd wanna hang around with for long periods of time. And he probably feels the same way???? Regardless his friends are enablers

I'm going to lean on my own spirituality more. Maybe I am wrong. But maybe this is the higher power cutting off people who aren't for my highest good in the first place



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dating ppl you’re not physically attracted to Anonymous 126942[Reply]

dating ppl you don’t find attractive is actually one of the most selfish and cruelest things some ppl do to each other. i can’t stand how some ppl actually think this is a virtuous act and think this makes the love you have for someone more valid. stop doing this. you’re way better off alone than doing this to another person.
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Anonymous 127348

>>127339
What is the point then. You're essentially dragging around a ball and chain.

Anonymous 127349

>>127348
i left eventually. and i think very badly of those abusers now. i was abused and had very low self esteem. i wasn’t allowed to have any until i realized how shit these people really were.

Anonymous 127350

>>127349
Good for you !!

Anonymous 127370

>>126943
these replies say otherwise lol

Anonymous 127382

>>127350
thank you. i think i’m a lot smarter and stronger and i like myself more now. and i don’t like those men one bit.



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