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i am sad Anonymous 132452[Reply]

for whatever reason, i could not stop hurting myself and making bad choices since i was a teenager. always doing weed to try to fill the void of being alone. i never just slowed down or took a rational approach to fix the problem. like simply taking care of my body and working hard. instead i coasted by and am now haunted by regret. i hate feeling envious over people in a relationship. but its a constant dagger in my side everywhere i turn. i failed to do simple things that others can do without thinking. i am a loser lol. my brain is legit damaged with severe memory problems now because of escapism with some trash drug and i've been ready to rope because of that for a few years. my life is now 90% more dull than it already was, which was already bad to begin with. i try to ignore the hurt and embrace the absolute joke of a human i am. and i am sometimes okay at it by just stop caring/searching for stuff outside of myself and needing anything from the world. but every shitty music song practically is about love and i am always reminded that i am worthless and defunct. even with my dog who looks like the puppy in pic rel who is the best thing ever i still feel like i am not enough. but not only that, an existential curse of the feelings i have rid myself of. its this transcendental void that kills me inside. i can barely concentrate or do anything with my life because i just rot in a perpetual state of regret. but i try to not be so harsh on myself and dwell on the sad cloud that keeps following me everywhere i step. my mom tells me to move forward, but its so hard your entire life and mind has been irreversibly ruined. i need to let go of this negativity.

Anonymous 132453

>>132452
I feel like that when i run out of weed too.



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bf clothes smell like ferret Anonymous 131785[Reply]

i love my boyfriend desu
but clothes that hang up in his room smell like ammonia-y ferret droppings. not musky, like cat pee if it was even worse, and without actually coming in contact with the pee. he has to wash his clothes when he comes over. when i go over i have to keep my clothes shut in my zipped suitcase. my dumb ass just hasn't told him that i know the source of it
we're ldr and idk how to broach the topic that it is gonna be me or the ferrets if he wants me to move in with him. i have migraines and my ocd already makes me think i'm stinky
also it's bad for animal welfare i think
wtf i do
(i already am bitey when he doesnt do stuff to my standard in my home, he just says ok and does it tho)

Anonymous 131787

build a decontamination chamber in your house

Anonymous 131788

>>131787
do not worry
there will be no house if this is not dealt with somehow

Anonymous 132339

If they're not spayed and neutered, then doing so should help a lot. If they already are and they stink that much… they are susceptible to human illnesses; you could try to give them the flu.

Anonymous 132451

>>131785
kill yourself bf haver



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132412

>>132411
Same here xister, I turned my life around by smoking fentanyl
Now I have friends but I wish they'd stop stealing my stuff

Anonymous 132413

It’s all so tiresome.

Anonymous 132425

I like how it tickles when flies walk on my skin.

Anonymous 132428

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I’ve been getting fat ever since someone else started bringing in sweet snacks into the house… I didn’t even notice it until now. If buying all groceries were up to me, I wouldn’t be buying candy bars, that’s the funny thing. I’ll ask them not to buy this stuff for me…

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>>132051
Nona I want to tell you I’m almost done packing (I was gone for two weeks)… the piggy banks are wrapped in paper and in the middle of boxes of clothing. I am feeling hopeful. I hope you have kept standing your ground.



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 132445

>>132435
Flirt with him, idiot, and test the waters. He's probably straight and just a softboi.

Anonymous 132446

>>132441
For autism and how to learn a step by step method of social interaction, read "What To Say Next" by Sarah Nannery. She systematically explains (in granular detail) how to conceptualize this from a female autistic point of view. Very good imo.

Anonymous 132447

i always attract people who use me for ideas and never give me credit. like stealing my jokes to post on their social media accounts. why do they never feel any guilt about this and dont even like me or treat me with any respect?

Anonymous 132448

i waana slash my fkn wrists so bad

Anonymous 132449

>>132446
Thank you, I'll definitely read this soon. I appreciate the help



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bullied kids will never be taken seriously Anonymous 132440[Reply]

ok so basically what eats me alive lately is thinking about how the things i have been ridiculed for liking and straight up bullied is now liked by the people that hated me for liking said thing.
am i stupid for letting such thought bother me?, well, i know it’s stupid but part of me feels a bit sad, knowing i spent half my childhood up to adolescence being made fun of and hated for such little things, in which also made me extremely depressed and self isolated. seeing what made me happy and people hated me for liking being now their “interest” is so soul crushing to me.
it makes me think that all the pain i’ve felt while being bullied was just nothing, my sister used to be so mean and angry towards me for liking certain music and now she booked 2k in tickets for the concert of the bands I LIKED.
and now simply when i bring up about it it’s like “well that’s not true” “i dont remember it”.
am i in the wrong for feeling sad over things like this? it hurts me sometimes.

Anonymous 132442

Bullied kids are taken seriously. That is why people who bullied you will never straight out admit what they did to you, it may sound obvious yet it's not.

People often expect others to change, to admit their mistakes. See mouthwashing, Jimmy straight out admitted what he did in the end of the game. Yet despite what he did admit, he did it in front of the consequences of his actions despite admitting it when the current thoughts happened through his mind.

What Curly experienced bullying from Jimmy was for the fact he instead of dealing with thoughts of helplessness, was the feelings of lacking more than what he had. Returning to a home, having a wife and kids and not spending his whole life on the jet.

If you think about it again, you are practically expecting them to admit the responsability of their acitons, something women often are not teached about because society expects women to bother about other things depending on where you live. Yet most of the times as I might add as well, women are not expected to fully mature and thus in consequence, they raise improper children most of the times. Or to the contrary, they are expected to be as mature as possible since children to justify abuse and labors against their will, which they might as well use irresponsability as a way to escape those chores.

The best you can do is do the same they did to you, without making it noticeable. I would recommend you to directly overcome it.

Sometimes women are taught to not be responsible because since children we are taught women should not be responsible about the consequences of their actions.

To mature is to be responsible most of the time, it's part of growing up. And it comes with judgement from others about your past all the time. Currently bullying is seen as something not cool, it's popular to defend others. If they do what's popular they will not let others know they remember what they did and even justify it.

Leave things there and if possible make them feel guilt, make them feel irresponsible, learn manipulation if you want.
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Anonymous 132444

>>132442
>join the retards
>take the L
Nice options, reddit.



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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 131718

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

Anonymous 131719

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

Anonymous 131722

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af

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Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.



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Anonymous 131463[Reply]

What's your dream bf like?

for me:
>16-66 years old
>in severe debt
>incel, never had sex
>bald
>173cm tall exactly
>widely considered to be a schizo
>has a number of congenital diseases
>has brain damage
>no friends
>might be missing a finger or two
>speaks Mongolian
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Anonymous 131481

>>131480
>>pink nipples
good taste.

Anonymous 131484

>>131480
>Right leaning + not feminist
extremely cringe

>>131463
>bald
cringe

>21-25 or not stupid

>does not really identify with anything, cares about humanity as a whole (dutiful and self-sacrificing like a male feminist)
>can survive and make peace in any situation (such as being trapped in a basement)
>good fat storage, slightly fat because he takes care of his needs
>promiscuous and easily charms others to have homosexual relations (“my husband’s bf”)

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>>131484
>cringe
assassinates you

Anonymous 131519

>16-20
>white, skinny, has glasses and a full head of hair
>above 5’7” at least
>showers
>baldness does not run in the family
>shy and awkward
>virgin
>cute
>christian, ideally lutheran
>doesn't watch IRL porn (written or drawn is fine)
>an otaku like me :3

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>under 30
>metalhead
>brown eyes
>delicious body
>alcoholic
>anime watcher and drug taker
>hard to approach
>seems emotionally closed off and egoistic
>nice and funny when his mind isn't somewhere else
>has nothing in common with me
>lets me poke his waist



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are women meaner or nicer when you look good? Anonymous 131767[Reply]

Since I've moved to a big city I've had this problem where I'll be minding my business in a grocery store and some crackhead middleaged woman will try and start a fight with me. It happens a few times a year. I never instigate, I always keep to myself and stay far away from people. They'll throw insults usually, but last week a woman tried hitting me with her cart.

I always look like a bum when I go grocery shopping. My friend suggested I dress up when I shop so that these women will feel inferior and leave me the fuck alone. Does that work? I thought they'd get jealous and the opposite would happen.

Idk. Let me know what you guys have experienced.
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Anonymous 131807

You probably seem harmless and kind, and that type of thug really likes to hit on women. If you dress better, they might think you have more money and want to ask you for more things; the best thing to do is walk around with a serious face, homeless people and drug addicts like to intimidate people who seem excessively kind.

Anonymous 131809

>>131808
No milf for canadians

Anonymous 131826

>>131772
Nod and walk away.

Anonymous 132434

Update: maybe it hasn't been long enough to make a real observation. But it seems like people are ghetto around me and not toward me lmao. I also got a job. Have had zero crackhead encounters or middle aged women try and fight me. My theory is that I look rich enough to sue them.



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Anonymous 132401[Reply]

I need to know if loosing your virginity to a moid is really worth it. I'm afraid to be thrown and dispossed like an used tissue after gifting my virginity to someone…should I consider having my first time with another girl?, ¿Do you regret losing your virginity?
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Anonymous 132407

>>132405

I feel as it shouldn't be a concept at all, since now, in this age, it has become nothing but a word. A worthless term that has lost any meaning. But being in control of my sexuality also means wether I want to be sexually active or not. I simply want it to be a nice, comfortable memory instead of a regret.
I don't want to be vulnerable infront of a male that doesn't understand the amount of trust I'm giving him.

Anonymous 132408

Well if you're not sure about the person you're with don't be intimate with them, kinda obvious

I guess young people are embarrassed about not having lots of sex, well porn work and cheap sex leads to poverty

Anonymous 132414

>>132407
There is no guarantee, and there is never a guarantee that even the sweetest memory won't turn sour in case of a messy break up or something
Just, indeed, make sure you're on good two way terms with your partner - male or a woman, beware of red flags, love bombing especially, because it's those types who usually "dispose" of their partners afterwards

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>>132401
Don't because you'll regret it

Anonymous 132433

>>132401

Have dry sex, you basically rub with men until you both get wet from pleasure. No penetration, no pregnancy involved.

Do not take pills. It does not matter how many women take them, do not do it unless you are not in a safe enviroment or have a very very active sex life.

Condoms do not promise "no pregnancy" instead they should be used to prevent certain diseases and for pregnancy it can break, leak, and other kinds of awful things no one wishes for when using them. If you want sex? have dry sex. You are basically a virgin, since virginity is based on if a man has introduced himself inside you.

If you really really want sex, you are just ovulating or practically bery horny. Just tell the moid to pleasure you by dry sex. Keep your panties, he keeps his boxer, you do it dry and if he wets he has to change of clothes.

If what bothers you if he will discard you, discard him first. The first moment you feel you care for him too much, find other man that is more interesting than him in ways he will never pleasure you, in mind, in affection, in companionship, etc.

I hope you can be happy and healthy, xoxo, best wishes.



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