No one noticed granma at church today 😭

>>133722
I also wonder why they're useless. I often find im comparing them to the drones in honeybee hives, which the female workers throw out of the hive in winter because they dont need their genetic material or mouths to feed anymore

>>133735
I seriously wonder this, what drives males to be kind of expectant of women to take over everything. Even in careers and school. When women start flooding education the men stop and drop out. What IS that??

>>133736
It's called a brain drain

>>133737
No a brain drain is something else entirely
>>133736
Women are socialized to actually do 90% of domestic work and men at most are socialized to carry something heavy once in a blue moon. Reminds me of that one time at the home economics class where we made some soup and for some reason the teacher decided to give it to the guys.

I’m gonna miss you, my handsome bf. Well, I guess you’re not my handsome bf anymore. I’m still in denial about it, I don’t want to delete the folder I have full of photos of you and our messages, nor do I want to scribble off the date on my calendar when you were meant to come down and see me. I understand this is my fault, I was too harsh with you and I hurt you. I hope one day we can be together, even if it’s another lifetime. Thank you for everything Jay, I will love you forever with all my heart, my little plane autist.

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>>133407
You're all so depressing. It's just a moid. There's so many of them out there and I can promise you that your moid will talk to you again if you message.

I miss you more than I probably should, and I wish we could’ve done all the things we talked about. I regret fucking it up when we were so close to actually having it all. I guess what hurts most is realizing that maybe you never felt as deeply about me as I did about you. I hope someone loves me one day as much as I loved you, and when they do, I hope I never hurt them the way you hurt me. I just wish things had turned out differently.

Go fuck yourself, i wish you had the mental capacity to think before dating a unstable and recently woman but i guess if your dumbass couldnt figure out you were 'cupioromanticc' (whatever the fuck that means) earlier then you would have known it was a shitty idea to do that either.

It's my fault too for being dumb enough to date you during that moment of my life, but whatever, fuck you anyway.

I'm writing this for me, but it's for you. Once I've written out what I want to say to you, hopefully I'll be more at peace with it.
I miss you, of course, even you can probably figure that out. I wonder if you miss me too, but I'm pretty sure that as time goes on, you'll probably notice things you disliked about me and you'll be at peace with lightly disliking me and leaving me in the past. But you did say that you don't hold a grudge against me, and that you'll remember our time together fondly. I'll try to trust you instead of just going with my own version of what will happen, I never really trusted you and I'm sorry about it, although now I still can't say if that was a mistake.
I like you, romantically, I've never really told you outright like this, so it feels really nice actually typing it out. One time you accidentally said "I love you" to me and it made me feel really giddy. I've enjoyed holding your hand and resting my head on your shoulder pretending there was nothing more behind it. But we both know we'd be an awful match, which is why I always tried keeping it as friendly as possible, even though I failed miserably a couple of times. At least, you always seemed to be aware of this, and you expressed to me that you felt the same way. Dating or anything like that just wasn't in the cards for us, and I'm glad we never seriously considered it.
However, you've hurt me more times that I can proudly admit. With the things you say to me, sometimes I see the way you see me. Our arguments never were really big, but it was a warning sign that there would be more to come, because I could never change your way of seeing me. Sometimes I think you thought I was inferior to you, in some kind of "caring" way. Sure, I'm 3 years younger than you, but it was definitely more than that. You didn't see me like you see your other friends. By the way, since you're not reading this, I can say that a bunch of your friends seemed like pretty bad people, that annoyed me a bit. You always made excuses for them, sometimes I wondered if you were more alike to them than I knew, the answer's probably yes. I've had what you and I had a couple of times before, and it always started like this. Even though I cut things off soon, I'm pretty convinced that it would just have developed into something pretty bad. You already know this, but my pride is a big reason of why I let you go. I just cringe thinking at my future self seeing me forgive you again and again for crossPost too long. Click here to view the full text.

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Take a nice long walk outside and see all the trees and grass. If you live in a hellscape city then look at the boring buildings instead and realise that a lot of this isn’t a problem. It’s a hobby, not a virus, if you truly have a problem with things “taking over your life” it normally means you need a balance. Humans all have things that fill in the small blanks to make things enjoyable. Sounds like you have too much time on your hands if you have to worry about small pleasures becoming big constant ones. Indulge in “media” a little, but bore yourself a lot with basic responsibilities and make time managements for yourself.

>>133719
I know that this isn't a problem that's why I called it gay and its minuscule compared to other threads on here. Its all really just avoiding doing things I like to steer clear of unhealthy attachment nothing else. It wasnt my intention to make this sound like a big deal despite the text length.

>>133718
I forgot kids cant read and somehow think that is a flex

>>133720
What did you want by making the thread? If you want to act like it’s not a big deal (it isn’t, but I get the feeling you're a little bothered by it) and you’re obviously not looking for any input, this could’ve been a thought that just stayed in your head, or even a vent in the already existing thead. Gotta love cc for all of its lame posts that die out in a day

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>>133683
Play moid games win moid prizes
You're still performing for ugly moids

>>133603
I've been single for so long so I feel you. I had a brief relationship 3 years back and since I'm so used to it I need my space too. I think these relationships are possible

My boyfriend of 2 years said he thinks he might be trans and I'm not sure what to do. I don't understand either. He's so handsome he has no reason. Just trying to think of all the ways things might change and if I can handle it.

>>133721
Why would you even want to be with a moid that even considers being a tranny? That just shows his weak brain, break up with him, he's a degen

>>133721
You have to run. Your boyfriend has already been exposed to agp enough to think he is one, he probably already has a porn addiction or lurks transbian puppygirl bullshit. I’m so sorry for you. Something has caused this and it isn’t good. Don't be an unhappy girlfriend who puts up with her boyfriend’s fetish just to feel supportive. It’ll ruin you long term

>>133696
I have never had the cops fail me. But I dont think you can get shy or intimidated by them. If you treat them friendly and are polite they will be very helpful. Eh I did have a disgusting one arrest me one time but i had a warrant and it was deserved lol i didn't pay a traffic fine

>>133697
but chicken nuggets suck after a while. god they are really horrible food.

go make some shrimp alfredo from scratch or grill some salmon &potatoes on the grill

>>133696
do you ever call her mar-a-lago face to her face? what do you think she would do?

>>133714
you should do it btw. from far away. while holding a potato canon menacingly.

>>133713
Why yes I would like a plate of your shrimp alfredo I'm so glad you offered.

>>133672
That might be the move, but either way I think I'm losing both no matter what, and maybe I don't WANT to keep talking to her after this to be honest…
I've never seen or heard about a woman in a relationship rejecting someone because she had a boyfriend and and then trying to claw the guy back in while escalating things, it's like she instantly regretted it.
I just feel sickened by how she's treating her boyfriend, I would've never expected this from her, and this is just from what I've seen and what she has told me so I have to imagine the real thing is even worse.

>>133666
>EXCEPT that my friend texted HIM a couple of hours later.
LOL this slut was put in the spot and has been trying her absolute hardest to revert that.
That's just shameful, poor bf.

>>133667
B

>>133673
> I just feel sickened by how she's treating her boyfriend, I would've never expected this from her, and this is just from what I've seen and what she has told me so I have to imagine the real thing is even worse.
I don't understand. This is your own friend. Someone you're supposedly very close to. Don't you think it's possible that she could just simply be getting carried away?
Sorry Nona but if she's really your friend you'd have a little faith in her. You'd feel comfortable talking to her about your feelings. You're failing her by not coming forward.

>>133676
Yeah how old is the OP and her friends? This sounds so immature. Either they are very very young, or not as close friends as OP says.
>>133673
I hope my friends would approach me if I was in a period of my life where I'm doing something questionable that goes against my typical character.
>I've never seen or heard about a woman in a relationship rejecting someone because she had a boyfriend and and then trying to claw the guy back in while escalating things
Please tell me how old you all are. This is bog standard emotional cheating/monkey branching.

I'm sorry.

>>133653
Bro…

What happened? Who did it? Did you report it?

Let's rape them back

my bad

Trust your instincts. Your boyfriend cannot satisfy you. Break up with him and ask the other guy out.

Might want to sit down and write some fanfiction about where do you think that insane chemistry would take you if you choose this other guy. From the post we don't get much, just that you like his talks.

It will help you understand how much of what you're seeing is actually there or just things that you wish were true when there's not much in reality to support that idea in your head

>>133678
Do not. Do not listen to this.

There are going to be lots of moments in any relationship where other people seem enticing. This is normal. Other people are going to seem more exciting because you don't know them. They are fresh, they are new, they are different.

And that is entirely why this is a mistake. You have a perfectly good boyfriend. You know him, you feel safe with him, you feel comfortable with him. You've spent a good amount of time with him already and you know you that you're compatible together.

You haven't actually dated this other guy. You don't know what he's like in a relationship outside of how he wasn't ready to commit to you earlier when you were closer(red flag).

You're already emotionally cheating given how much you're fantasizing while interacting with him. Your boyfriend doesn't know and won't have to know but if you go further you might just end up with someone who isn't consistent and will leave you with nothing while losing your current boyfriend too.

thank u all for the replies. I want to elaborate it's not that i'm idealizing the guy. we were friends for a while and I started to fall in love with everything i got to know about him. For me new people aren't 'enticing' at all because I want a connection before anything else. In my opinion friends to lovers is the way to go. That's why it's difficult with him because we already have a history and I know him. And truthfully his qualities resonate more with me than the ones my boyfriend has.

>>133681
your comment brought me back to reality. You're right it's crazy to think about breaking up for someone who isn't even clearly communicating with me. When we had the conversation he showed regret not being more direct with me and asking me out. But he still isn't doing that- maybe because I told him i didn't want anything more. Then again, I also said he could always text me if something was up. So he knows he could ask me. Instead he is making playlists with my name on spotify and telling me in the description to reach out to him. I won't interact w that anymore. If he actually were to communicate w me I'll say I'm in a relationship now.

thank u nonas <3