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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
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Anonymous 133209

>>133208
God you people are so whiny and annoying. Spare us all the fake moral outrage

Anonymous 133210

>>133209
Who is "us"? Do you have a multiple personality disorder?

Anonymous 133213

>>133209
Lord forbid some women have their own opinions I guess

Anonymous 133216

>>133200
if by "breakdown" it means killing your children then yeah, that's literally, quite, the ONLY thing people can be morally outraged about.
I would die for my children, like I can't imagine what kind of shitty existence you can possibly go on to live after killing not only one but three of your children.
Children, are always going to be more worthy of protection than any adult, EVER. She doesn't deserve sympathy the moment she killed her kids, the kids deserve it, because they are dead.

Anonymous 133217

>>133213
no because the internet addicted femcel thinks if you care about children then you are a man now.

Reminder in the last few months we had this argument when that pedogame pragmata came out about how only women have the "awww" reaction to children and men were being pedos about it (which was true) but now apparently for real life children the aww factor is completely gone.
I also don't understand how suddenly mentally illness is sympathetic since the same people hate trannies (that are mentally ill) and people with down syndrome that cause problems to the family around them.



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anyone else avoiding going to a psychiatrist or a psychologist? Anonymous 133187[Reply]

i want to or more so i feel like i need to go, but i hate the idea of having to pay for someone to listen to me and understand me. nobody in my life wants to hear out my problems and it sickens me because thats the first thing i would do for them. i know therapy is more than that, but ultimately i would only go just to be heard for a little and be understood without anyone judging me. but it feels so not worth it. i dont even have a job why should i spend so much money just to talk to someone for an hour. isnt that what friends are for…
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Anonymous 133189

>>133187
Right. My sentiments exactly. But psychiatrists don't deal with that, their business is drugging you with pills.

Anonymous 133190

I dont trust psychiatrists/therapists at all. Unless someone has schizophrenia or something I feel therapy is largely unnecessary and self indulgent

Anonymous 133191

I have been going for a year but I think I need a break. It feels like another task now and I feel like I say things to get kudos and praise even if it’s not true. I hate being a people pleaser.

Anonymous 133193

I'm going there as a part of "working on myself" to work on my avoidant attachment but I'm not sure I expect progress. anyone have a good experience with it?

Anonymous 133215

therapy is only helpful if you need coaching on how to make healthier decisions, but ultimately you need to get to a place where you can do things independently and don't have to pay for a support system.

i feel like people who are in therapy for 30+ years a re being scammed, unless they're like severely ill and have no one.

i only work with psychiatrists that are very, very conservative in their prescribing and take what i need help with into consideration, and do not have some sort of weird narrative about me.

it takes time to find the right provider unfortunately, but i am grateful for my current shrink because he actually listens to me about my PMDD and mental afflictions.

he doesn't view me as broken, just someone who could benefit from some medical interventions so i'm not suffering all the time.

i hate ssris tho. those are kinda scammy if you take them longterm. good habits and sobriety will get u there imo after ur baseline is sorted with learning how to be disciplined. discipline is a skill rooted in compassion and takes time like any other. you can't really force the process.

lamictal has helped me a lot, as well as gabapentin and a minipill for my pmdd. i feel lowkey halfway cured and i just started everything like 2 weeks ago. i just need to build better habits.

i'm 1.5 abstinent from drugs too and it helped to not complicate my brain as much.
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College/Uni feels Anonymous 10[Reply]

Share the good, the bad, and hell of pursuing a degree. Whether it be living in a dorm with a horrible roommate, classes kicking your ass, or something happening relating to school that has filled you with joy.
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Anonymous 132150

>>132143
I HATE READING ARTICLES

Anonymous 133060

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I miss smoking weed and kissing my uni bestie, I hope she is alright

Anonymous 133063

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>>132150
I love reading articles. You should try The Atlantic and Nature Mag they are great :)

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>>132143
I will contribute this

I hope you all get a good education and kill it in life like these homos r doin here

Anonymous 133207

>>10
Its almost September and I haven't packed one damn thing



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I haven't had friends for ten years Anonymous 131946[Reply]

I'm a NEET. I live with my mother and she's the only one I talk with. Give me life advice.
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Anonymous 133090

>>133087
Lol you sound cursed as fuck, fuck your life lol

Anonymous 133135

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Anon I love Winx club let's be friends but put Aisha in the next thread pic

Anonymous 133144

>>133087
It's going to be alright, . Don't let the past keep haunting you.

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>>133144
Thank you nona

Anonymous 133183

get a job maybe idk



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Being an ND, black woman is a curse Anonymous 132518[Reply]

I've come to terms with the fact that I will forever be alone. Being forced to move as an expat and sheltered ruined all social skills (that I never even had) and detached me from my birthplace, breaking all connections I had. I'm not a likeable person, even online, and I don't even know why. In a group full of people, I always have a notion that I am hated and nobody likes me. I swing from being very proud to ashamed in interactions. My family doesn't like me either. I've been made a lolcow on several occasions. I haven't had a real friendship since I was 13. I'm about to go to university and I genuinely feel like ending it to save myself from the suffering ahead of me.
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Anonymous 132585

>>132584
Isn't LC enough for you?

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Anonymous 132587

>>132586
Why do you have to announce you're black wherever you go? Even on an anonymous website? I just don't get why you can't stay in your dedicated spaces for blackcels if you want to talk about racism or whatever. The only reason this post is here is because OP wants attention and knows libfems here will give her that.

Anonymous 132590

>>132587
>>132583
This is so mentally ill and weird, kek. No one's "announcing they're black wherever they go", you just have a hateful fixation on black people like the other incels who sperg about and project on other races. You can hide the thread, no one here has ever (or will ever) reach out to talk to you personally. Also, you have no place to call anyone a "libfem", because feminism isn't for you, and you know exactly why.

Anonymous 133173

>>132584
Probably it being a site for women to talk even though men have been raiding us for years. Is there any website that's like Lipstick Alley for women of all races?



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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
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Anonymous 133140

>>133132
That's for the bast, humanity has become too dysgenic anyway.

Anonymous 133142

>>133131
Sounds like an excuse a ghoster would tell.

Anonymous 133150

>>133142
The problem is that people seek out to make "real" connections with others only just with the extremely fucking tedious, fake, mutable, most often superficial, larp-ass stuff that means nothing so it just doesn't sustain at the long-term. Everybody eats, play games, movies, and whatever the shit. These stuff are subproducts our modern little lifes. What does that tell about somebody, truly? Nothing. So yeah, I'd ghost the shit out of someone that lame.

Anonymous 133151

>>133150
You're complaining about your own inability to advance your relations into deeper connections. It's natural for friends to start out as people you share interests with.

Anonymous 133168

>>133151
That's why I said in the long term, only mutual interests are not sustainable.


>You're complaining about your own inability to advance your relations into deeper connections.


I have friends that got to know me through shared interests, but now are a larger part of my life. But it does indeed require some effort.



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

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Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 128468

OP again. I started second-guessing myself. Husband keeps calling and threatening to call the police (what?) and show up at my workplace (I'm not there). Suddenly I'm worried the shelter won't take me. I don't know what the shelter will be like, which worries me. I don't know how I'll find another job.

But at least I won't be abused any more.

Anonymous 128474

On my way to the shelter. My husband showed up at my workplace so they're filing a police report.

Anonymous 132334

>>128474
updates?

Anonymous 133159

hoping op is well

Anonymous 133214

tell us how it's going op



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Any German Women here? Anonymous 133119[Reply]

I'm German and would like to connect with other German PinkPill Women on here. Have you found community? Only see English speaking threads everywhere

Anonymous 133120

>>133119
There are people from other countries here but generally everyone just speaks in english here because it's easiest. I don't think I've heard of any germans on here though



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Anonymous 133133[Reply]

I had my first week of college and there are already at least a few girls who hate me for some reason, and I've never even spoken to them.

I've been hated by other girls since elementary school and I have no idea why this happens.

Anonymous 133134

>>133133
Maybe you smell strange

Anonymous 133138

>>133133
Own it. Bitches hate you cause they know you're the prettiest and they're scared.



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