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Anonymous 131040[Reply]

How do I build confidence and make friends? I get anxious and easily exhausted talking to people, but I feel lonely.
I'm an adult, and it feels like it's too late to find friends or people like me. I want to post about the topics I find interesting on social media and see if I attract like-minded people, but then I feel cringy (I don't think people who do it are cringe, it just feels stupid when I do it). If I start putting significant effort into posting my views, I start getting paranoid thoughts about never actually making friends, just having my posts incorporated into a LLM, eventually seeing some soulless influencer regurgitate my statements word-for-word because AI gave it to them and seeing other people comment "Wow, that's a great point! Followed!".


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I think he’s gay Anonymous 130790[Reply]

He likes pegging, transgender women, and Black male 🌽. A few years ago, he used to tell me transgender women were men, so by his own worldview, he’s gay. I just feel like I wasted my time on a confused man and regret letting him gaslight me. Not sure why I cannot meet a normal heterosexual man.
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Anonymous 131016

>>131014
it's all a feminist psyop to make you believe the disparity between male and female crime rates

Anonymous 131017

>>131016
the Big Fem's influence stretches far

Anonymous 131018

>>131014
I'd imagine that's because female sex crimes tend to receive more lenient punishments so there's less of a push to secrecy as well as the much much higher likelihood that men are technologically literate enough to even access the darkweb. In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject and I, with all due respect, personally couldn't care less about it outside of making a few offhand comments on the subject. So I'll retire from this conversation now if you don't mind.

Anonymous 131019

>>131018
>In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject
no, not really. i just thought it's funny you'd bring up dark web of all things

Anonymous 131039

>>131018
> female sex crimes tend to receive more lenient punishments
women don't really rape, torture and dismember then rape their victims again like men do so yeah, less severe crimes get less punishment



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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 130699

- What are you doing?
- Just watching the world.

this is definitely one of my all time favorites

Anonymous 130948

Kiss me 殴るように唇に血が滲む程
Hold me あばらが音を立てて折れる程
好き好き大好き 好き好き大好き
好き好き大好き
愛してるって言わなきゃ殺す

Kiss me like a punch until the blood oozes from my lips
Hold me until my ribs make a sound as they break
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
I like you, I like you, I love you!
Say you love me too, or I’ll kill you!

Anonymous 130965

Well it rains and it pours when you're out on your own
If I crash on the couch, can I sleep in my clothes
'Cause I spent the night dancing, I'm drunk I suppose
If it looks like I'm laughing
I'm really just asking to leave this alone
You're in time for the show
You're the one that I need
I'm the one that you loathe
You can watch me corrode
Like a beast in repose
'Cause I love all the poison away with the boys in the band

Anonymous 131038

Sympawny no.4 - in memory of sweet Chubby Cat
Chubby Cat was sweet and playful and the perfect cuddle buddy. With a sprinkle of playful piccolo, a touch of warm strings, and a sweet harmony progression - hopefully, the music sounds just a little bit like him. Rest in peace sweet Chubby Cat



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How to stop feeling like a subhuman because I'm a woman Anonymous 126636[Reply]

No it's not because of men that I feel this way, neither porn, but I've seen porn and women act like subhumans in it.
My problem is that I see submission as subhuman and female submission in sex is human and natural and sex is the fundamental part of the reality. So it's like we are subhumans in life. I don't hate myself but I hate womanhood.
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Anonymous 129360

stop thinking about sex so much and you will be less miserable. yes, heterosexual reproduction is fucked up when you really think about it, but you have to ignore that and go on with your day

Anonymous 131025

Don't have sex, the only position where you can kill a man while having sex is straddling him.

It is as well not recommended for men to do it, because of the consequences it can give to their male clitoris.

Female humans are not sub humans. If anything, the vagina evolved as that because it was coherent with pregnancy. Females are in charge of choosing who to mate with, females have never tried to be like males if anything they have desired to not be abused or used and discarded.

The ban of abortion in some countries will just make women more responsible of celibacy, if women cannot be celibate then you can say we are sub humans.

It is hard anyway, socially women are raised to comply and do as told, despite the bible proposing the complete opposite, that men should be the ones that should obey and work.

Females are not submissive by nature, if anything, they are raised to be compliant.

I am ignorant in history, so I cannot tell you since what period of time women started being raised to be compliant.

Anonymous 131034

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>>126636
Men are stronger than women, yes.

Not because of physical differences - with technology its not even worth mentioning
Not because men are more intelligent (on average its around the same)
Men are stronger because fundamentally we are insane. Or rather, women have groomed us to be this way.

Women realized that, rather than deal with the horrors of the wild themselves, itd be better to gaslight some horny ape into doing it for them. Because women are responsible for childbirth, tribes of humans who did this were more successful than tribes who didn’t. It worked out well, especially considering how much harder the human animal is to properly birth and raise.

In the process though, women always ran the risk of creating a weapon too powerful for them to control. So they needed other concepts beyond overt strength. Morality and sexuality to begin with. Early religions were both very matriarchal and very sexual. And outside of purely ascetic systems of thought, most world religions remain dedicated to the same objectives.

This has worked very well. In fact what makes it work the best is the final lie - that men are superior to women. Thus every man views women not as their employer, but their waifu, their pet, their one little source of warmth. When in reality, women are the reason we have suffered to begin with.

Only in modernity are the lies beginning to crumble. Now that the wild has been tamed, the wildness of men is equally obsolete. Yet men still seek to be rewarded by women, only to realize women now enjoy their wildness as an amusement rather than a necessity. Men have begun to realize that they were the factory workers all along, and they never had any value beyond what they could bring to the real favored gender - women.

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Anonymous 131035

>>131034
>In the process though, women always ran the risk of creating a weapon too powerful for them to control
Woah… It's just like that one Jewish myth about a golem…

Anonymous 131036

>>131035
>Judaism
Yes, exactly



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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131029

>>131028
It's going to depend entirely on the chemistry you have with the other person but you yourself also need to let go of your insecurities a bit when having sex or you'll ruin it for the both of you. Be confident, I mean somebody is willing to fuck you which means they clearly like something you have going on. Show off a bit

Anonymous 131030

>>131029
I am confident and I enjoy it with my one and only partner I've ever had. Just that I find it pretty mundane, and have since the very beginning. Like masturbation I guess.

Anonymous 131031

>>131030
Well this almost makes it seem like you've never had an orgasm before. It's a pretty intense experience. When I would go down on my ex, she'd basically crush my head with her thighs as she came

Anonymous 131032

>>131031
I guess not during sex. I'll work on that.

Anonymous 131033

>>131032
Maybe ask your partner to try some new positions. There are a few positions I've noticed girls tend to like but maybe that's a bit too graphic for this board. Damn these posts make me seem like I've fucked a shit ton of women but I swear it's only been a handful!



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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 130898

>>130895
You still did not explain why you consider late 20's and early 30's moids "ancient."

Anonymous 130899

>>130897
That's what you get for picking moids with shitty genes. Do you go for moids with autism, too? Would probably more matched for a shotafucker because spergs have the mentality of a child.

Anonymous 130912

I'm a little tired of repeating myself, but I really want to clarify (once more) that I don't want anything to happen between me and him.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW DO I MAKE THESE FEELINGS GO AWAY INSTEAD OF FIGHTING EACHOTHER?!

Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.



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Anonymous 129602[Reply]

i hate seeing girls like the same things i like i feel like im always out for male validation even though im not interested in men… i feel like my life as a woman has no worth because im fat and ugly. im relapsing into bulimia and my mouth is rotting away. im out of school, i cant get a job and my friends always exclude me in selfies when we hang out because im so ugly. everyone i talk to is a transgirl i have no cisgirl friends and im scared of them all. when im done reading, playing games or watching anime for the day i realize how sad my life is and i want to kill myself.honestly im afraid of anyone that isnt a tranny. i hate seeing pretty girls i hate seeing cosplayers. i really want them to all die someday. i always forget im autistic until i speak to real people and then i realize theres just no hope for me.

Anonymous 129603

haah even posting this i feel like im close to a panic attack . im so scared of everything

Anonymous 129606

maybe be happy on ur own before you can be happy with someone else. and then you can find the right person for you to enjoy life with

Anonymous 129607

um for what it's worth i like the picture you posted do you have more cute images like that

Anonymous 129615

sammmee im ruining my already ugly appearance with bulimia wooo! I relate to everything ye said so at least ur not alone. Is there a place in this world fr people like us I wonder

Anonymous 131024

>>129602

List your best memories.
List your worst memories.

Bulimia will make you more ugly.

Men who like kids do not like kids. They just like the idea of abusing someone, being stronger, smarter or older enough to manipulate them.

Being autistic just makes you be avoided because you are not happy, you are not healthy, and autism is socially acceptable only when you meet those two criteria (happy, healthy) because most people (who are not autistic) often are not honest enough because of social reasoning. And end up in consequence, being unhappy and miserable.

Live your best life, nona, there is still hope



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I hate how invasive troons are. Anonymous 129459[Reply]

A few days ago I was contacted by a troon asking to be friends, I thought it was okay since I don't have any female friends.
I talked to him for a while until he asked me to do VC, his voice was that of an effeminate man.
The worst part is that I can't even stop talking to him or ghosting him because he could expose me as "transphobic".
I feel stupid for not noticing it sooner; it was so obvious. He was acting very "feminine" in a forced and performative.
If I don't answer he starts spamming me, also he asked me if he could do "yuri" with my character and his (I'm an artist btw).
I have to live with this torture if I want to live, I hate modern society.
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Anonymous 130624

>>129519
last year my gay dorm RA tried to stay in my bedroom while I changed tops because he's gay and that apparently makes it ok
i got really anxious because i'm socially awkward and it was really hard to get him to leave in a way that sounded like friendly banter and not like i was extremely uncomfortable because literally all my friends and everyone around thinks he's a great guy, and i didn't want to seem homophobic or make things awkward
so, i think i can understand where OP is coming from here, if this person actually can create social consequences for her

Anonymous 130649

>>130624
Is this an NA thing? In my region gay men never stay in the room when you are changing even women leave, what in the lack of privacy you all have going on?? Your nakedness is your own to share with who you choose. It is one thing if you are in an area where nudity is common, we do have such areas but seriously??? In YOUR bedroom??? Know your rights. You have the right to personal space it is in UN rights of a child and an adult. You also have the right to have relationships or the lack thereof. Don't be letting people talk you out of your rights as a human or call you evil for exercising them.

Anonymous 130653

>>130649
same poster as
>>130624
it's a virtue signaling thing, i think anyway, at its root, maybe the influence of social media and tv as well, the idea that girls and gay guys are on the same team or smth and that they're automatically good people because of oppression
for example, the girls' bathroom on my dorm floor was literally declared "girls and gays" in the first week of first semester, they even put up a sign on the door lol
and kept letting the guys use it even after the two gay guys on our floor continually left the toilet seat up, left pubic hair on the seat and even left the toilet unflushed a few times, and left the sinks a mess, and that's not to mention the shower situation
obviously i wasn't comfortable at all and i started showering at like 5 am to be as sure as possible there wouldn't be guys in there. at least there were no trannies, thank god
and i think girls (like me) who are actually made really uncomfortable with gay men overstepping boundaries still cooperate because of social pressure. i'd love to say that i stood up for myself and said something, but if i had that kind of self-confidence i probably wouldn't be posting on crystal cafe

Anonymous 131021

Something that would work is to say the most sad thing. Lie.

Say you have anxiety, that you take pills. Say that you feel so bad sometimes you have to take more pills to sleep.

Say that you are in therapy and that it does not work properly.

Make him feel like a monster, some men will dislike the idea of being a monster because it means they will be outcasted, humilliated and ridiculized.

Victimize yourself and use it for your advantage, calculating uselessness is worth bucks.

Anonymous 131023

op you should stop talking to him asap, he is clearly into you and will try to get you to send nudes or something eventually



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Anonymous 130265[Reply]

What is dating like?

30 and never been asked on a date or had a BF.
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Anonymous 130299

OP are you abstinent by choice or not because you look great and I'm sure lots of guys and even other women would date you

Anonymous 130311

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Terrible and wonderful, depending on who you end up dating. Guys are either total moron apes with no sense of class, or absolute gentlemen but those are rare. I broke up wjth my long term gf of a couple years a few months ago and started dating. I got some matches on tinder and went on a couple dates, one of the guys was a complete fuckboy but i wanted to try out guys. He didnt hold doors, asked to pay half of the bill, drove a beat up old car, and was very insistent on going with him to an underground dj set that night. I left early and unmatched him. On the other side, i found an amazing guy that i wasnt too crazy about looks wise but we had so much in common,like playing same games and have similar hobbies, we clicked very quickly. He's polite, likes my jokes and goofy demeanor, holds doors open for me, and takes me out on cute dates all the time. I return the favor by cooking him delicious home made food he can reheat after he comes home from work over the course of the week.

The key is to not just look for attraction, but find a companion that will be your best friend and who you can rely on. Dating shitty guys feels like a waste of time and is unfulfilling, maybe you might get some action but its kinda hollow and tbh I get off better by myself. Try stuff out, get out of your comfort zone, and trust your gut.

Btw im 31 myself

Anonymous 130312

>>130265
it was the best experience of my life, albeit that's because she was the most amazing, wonderful person ever.
but being single is enjoyable too

Anonymous 130313

>>130299
its not actually op its catfish

Anonymous 131022

>>130313
>>130265
Why are zoomers even obsessed with her? she looks like a bloated taylor swift, she edits her pics like no tomorrow at least taylor shows her real face



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