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Anonymous 132193[Reply]

What's your opinion on women who let rich guys pay them to get pregnant? Is it an easy way to get rich or a scam only stupid people fall for?
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Anonymous 132196

my first opinion is to question what kind of xy would consider doing this

>Is it a one time payment, or several?

>Who even wants this? Men with a fetish for spreading their seed?
>How would they explain this to the child in the future? This is unethical in some way, surely?
>Would the father visit the child?

What is the POINT? Money? Who would set up a site for narcissistic women to use their wombs and offspring as money makers> They're having children, >THEIR OWN<, for money - it's as morally hazardous as surrogacy, but somehow worse, with just how weird the fathering situation is.

surely it's a joke

Anonymous 132198

>>132196
Sort of a way of bypassing natural selection but if you’re rich enough to do this you were probably rich enough to get married normally so very strange

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>>132196
>who even wants this?

There's a subset of very rich men in Silicon Valley who want to father as many kids as possible as a status symbol. Elon Musk is the best known babydaddy of this kind but there's others like Pavel Durov and Xu Bo.

Anonymous 132200

>>132198
These guys don't want relationships, they want to pay for wombs so they can larp as genghis khan. A single wife can't mother hundreds of kids.

Anonymous 132201

>>132200
If you visit a country located on the equator, you may find yourself surprised
(Jk you might be right)



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 132154

>>132153
I have the knowledge you seek

Anonymous 132191

i drank an entire carton of apple juice.
i made eyes at the orange juice.
i sipped a bit.
i held onto my composure

the orange juice is still there

i defeated myself today

Anonymous 132192

>>132191
Congrats but how big is the carton?

Anonymous 132195

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>>132192
1 litre, so six servings… it was delicious and i couldn't stop…

Anonymous 132197

>>132195
One liter isn't so bad but I am glad you exercised some self restraint with the orange juice



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Lonliness Anonymous 7090[Reply]

Do you guys ever struggle with loneliness? Is the feeling almost constant and intense, or is it more buried and hidden until you think about how alone you are?

Share you thoughts, feelings, vents, insecurities, fears etc about loneliness, maybe we can all help each other out to not feel so alone for a second <3
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Anonymous 98703

>>98682
>why not just socialize with actual normies if that does it for you?
I have tried and it doesn't seem to work except for one friend that I know since school. but I can't be needy and bother her all the time.

Anonymous 98704

>>98698
i thought i typed this for a moment

Anonymous 132129

bump

Anonymous 132189

>>132129
Why? Feeling lonely?

Anonymous 132190

>>132129
This is the laziest necro I've ever seen



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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 132180

>>132179
I'm not trying to be rude so I'm sorry if I came off that way. I guess I haven't experienced modern dating. I've been out of the dating scene for like 6 years.

Anonymous 132182

>>132117
How does not believing in insane concepts like Heaven/Hell, Reincarnation, ghosts, Souls/the afterlife, angels, demons, invisible forces etc. make someone schizo? Do you know what a schizo actually is and how they think? Btw most religions find what's in anime to be sinful lol

Anonymous 132186

Had a bad day yesterday and tried to jerk off and when I did a huge fucking spider crawled onto my leg and up my thigh and I was up for hours trying to find it. I found it at 2:30AM and slept around 3AM. I’m tired fuck my life I can’t even touch myself without a spider bothering me

Anonymous 132187

>>132186
>Surely if I send an incredibly obvious omen, nona will change her shameful ways…
>Never mind…

Anonymous 132188

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getting falsely accused of being shit you're not and then walking away instead of becoming argumentative because you're fucking sick of arguing



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Has anyone else given up completely on their life? Anonymous 131845[Reply]

I work a dead end job, no higher education, I'm not saving for retirement, no real plans for the future unless you count Pinterest boards for the future lul, I have health issues I refuse to address, etc. I don't know, I'm just tired of hearing about self improvement everywhere. I genuinely don't care and would be happy just decaying on my desk chair while scrolling on the webs all day. Anyone else like this?
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Anonymous 132159

>>132158
Nope. There's always hope.

Anonymous 132160

>>132159
greenhouse emissions won't stop themselves

Anonymous 132162

>>132160
We'll fix it

Anonymous 132183

>>132162
Whats the plan

Anonymous 132185

>>132183
Nuclear fusion. The demands of AI will make it impossible to ignore, as much as the powers that be love oil, there are companies even bigger than oil companies now that want to make their AI singularity a reality and its not possible with simple fossil fuel.

Once fossil fuels are done with the planet will slowly recover.



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Relationship General #4 Anonymous 132131[Reply]

Use this thread to post about ANYTHING related to relationships:

>Venting

>Advice
>Questions
>Experiences
>Etc

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Anonymous 132170

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My boyfriend often comes back home a bit depressed. Says he sucks and he’s a failure and complains about everything. At this point I just don’t know what to say to him so I just told that I’m going to stare at him for an hour each day in silence. So I started staring at him like pic related. Somehow that amused him greatly and changed his current disposition completely. Maybe this could work if I did it every day. I should check.



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Anonymous 132144

>56 years
Ancient nona vent

Anonymous 132166

wiggles n squirms



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Are my "friends" sabotaging me? Anonymous 132098[Reply]

Hi nonas! I am a 29 yo autistic woman but even though Im awkward and bad at socializing Ive managed to keep some (girl) friends on my social circle, some of them Ive known since HS. Anyway fast forward to today and for over a decade none of them have managed to help me bag a boy/moid (whatever term you prefer). So I decided to try to find out what the moids had to say about it and several of them told me that I have friends who are gatekeeping me out of relationships with men. This honestly shocked me a little because I think it could be true I dunno. How can I tell if my friends are driving away moids (even the good ones)? I have no social skills and this is frankly eating me up on the inside, if this is true I do not know how to react to this or how to confront any of my friends. Please help me I am so confused I don't know what to think. I don't want to be in my 30s with no boyfriend experience, I dont need a super handsome moid just one who will love and respect me to some degree at least. Thanks!
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Anonymous 132127

And yeah by I meant they're projecting their dynamics of keeping sore losers around.

Anonymous 132141

>>132119
>Its just weird that theyre all doing great romantically (well most of them some have shitty bfs but oh well) while Im just left by myself
if people have the social skills and looks to find a boyfriend, they will do so. socialisation can only be taught to a certain point, and you haven't even asked for their help. why would they be thinking about your love life, and how is it weird that they have more success than you? are you even trying at all

>I feel hurt, besides I also want a bf experience.

they won't miraculously find you a bf, you're the only one who knows what you want, and it's your job to try. they can't carry you through your love life. the most you could even ask is for help with outfits, texting back, flirting & hangouts with scrotes that they know. it takes quite a bit of mutual involvement, and naturally, most people don't jump to do it without being asked

>>132120
socialising isn't your strong point? that explains the not-dating thing, much easier than the possibility of sabotage. but yes, we can't write off the chance of sabotage entirely, even if a lack of social skills could be a more obvious answer.

yes, they could be keeping you as an autistic jester (if you're asking about whether or not that's real, it is.) but it's tiring to keep around an autist just for this reason though, and there are generally more glaring signs that people pity you rather than like your company (ignoring what you say, speaking over you, friends breaking off into smaller groups where you're not included, forgetting what you've told them, etc)

>they basically said that my friends think that I am romantically incompetent or they want to have a "poor, sore loser around"

you didn't question them further about whether your friends said or implied these things directly behind your back? what are they basing these assumptions on? putting up with an unsociable autist just for an ego boost isn't as likely as your friends simply not knowing how to help you or breach the topic, for example.

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Anonymous 132142

wait, don't tell me you asked moids that have never met your friends

Anonymous 132145

>>132098
You should use a dating app.

Anonymous 132161

is your moid better than theirs and are you prettier or maybe have more going for you in life? if so then absolutely yes. they probably have you around to humiliate you or look better despite you having a lot of value that you haven’t been allowed to recognize. they infantalize you and have a boxed in notion of who you are because it serves their own insecurity. this has happened to me before and is what i take away from it. the women in question were not ugly but didn’t take care of themselves or have style and were poorer than me with family issues.



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College/Uni feels Anonymous 10[Reply]

Share the good, the bad, and hell of pursuing a degree. Whether it be living in a dorm with a horrible roommate, classes kicking your ass, or something happening relating to school that has filled you with joy.
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Anonymous 54302

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i have a genuine interest in medicine but fuck if i'm actually going to be able to whole-heartedly study it in the future lol. i was a depressed retard in hs and never studied and didn't care about my grades and never applied to any good colleges because of it, so i've been working through this pharm tech program for the past few months but i'm legitimately scared it's not going to get my anywhere. i'm almost 6 weeks away from being done and i just have a pit in my stomach that i've wasted all this time and money for books and getting my license and taking the tests and going on an externship only to bum around for months or years because i can't get hired anywhere. it's ultimately my end game to move the fuck out and into institutional pharmacy for better pay and to get my foot in the door for real education about medicine, but given my track record with school i feel like that's just a pipe dream. sigh.

Anonymous 54307

>>54302
I'm a recent grad in Microbiology and had similar fears to you. I was a really shitty student in both high school and college, like 2.7 GPA shitty. Despite that I got into a healthcare career that pays well enough and encompasses my interests because I had work experience on campus that was somewhat related and they asked for a degree instead of my transcripts. Now I'm doing fairly well at my job. I know it's a college student thread, but just wanted to post so folks like you know to not give up. All that matters is having that degree and taking on work and volunteer opportunities in the life sciences departments of your school. I'm not even sure if the latter is required but it definitely helps.

Anonymous 132130

bumping thread

Anonymous 132143

>>132130
CONTRIBUTE!
I WON'T
BUT YOU SHOULD!

Anonymous 132150

>>132143
I HATE READING ARTICLES



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