>>129459
Just admit that you don't want anything to do with them and who are if they use a word against you?
They want to gain power over you, you don't have to respect them.

>>129519
last year my gay dorm RA tried to stay in my bedroom while I changed tops because he's gay and that apparently makes it ok
i got really anxious because i'm socially awkward and it was really hard to get him to leave in a way that sounded like friendly banter and not like i was extremely uncomfortable because literally all my friends and everyone around thinks he's a great guy, and i didn't want to seem homophobic or make things awkward
so, i think i can understand where OP is coming from here, if this person actually can create social consequences for her

>>130624
Is this an NA thing? In my region gay men never stay in the room when you are changing even women leave, what in the lack of privacy you all have going on?? Your nakedness is your own to share with who you choose. It is one thing if you are in an area where nudity is common, we do have such areas but seriously??? In YOUR bedroom??? Know your rights. You have the right to personal space it is in UN rights of a child and an adult. You also have the right to have relationships or the lack thereof. Don't be letting people talk you out of your rights as a human or call you evil for exercising them.

>>130649
same poster as
>>130624
it's a virtue signaling thing, i think anyway, at its root, maybe the influence of social media and tv as well, the idea that girls and gay guys are on the same team or smth and that they're automatically good people because of oppression
for example, the girls' bathroom on my dorm floor was literally declared "girls and gays" in the first week of first semester, they even put up a sign on the door lol
and kept letting the guys use it even after the two gay guys on our floor continually left the toilet seat up, left pubic hair on the seat and even left the toilet unflushed a few times, and left the sinks a mess, and that's not to mention the shower situation
obviously i wasn't comfortable at all and i started showering at like 5 am to be as sure as possible there wouldn't be guys in there. at least there were no trannies, thank god
and i think girls (like me) who are actually made really uncomfortable with gay men overstepping boundaries still cooperate because of social pressure. i'd love to say that i stood up for myself and said something, but if i had that kind of self-confidence i probably wouldn't be posting on crystal cafe

Something that would work is to say the most sad thing. Lie.

Say you have anxiety, that you take pills. Say that you feel so bad sometimes you have to take more pills to sleep.

Say that you are in therapy and that it does not work properly.

Make him feel like a monster, some men will dislike the idea of being a monster because it means they will be outcasted, humilliated and ridiculized.

Victimize yourself and use it for your advantage, calculating uselessness is worth bucks.

>>130887
So you only tolerate men when they’re approaching the male pattern baldness stage of life? Interesting.

>>130895
You still did not explain why you consider late 20's and early 30's moids "ancient."

>>130897
That's what you get for picking moids with shitty genes. Do you go for moids with autism, too? Would probably more matched for a shotafucker because spergs have the mentality of a child.

I'm a little tired of repeating myself, but I really want to clarify (once more) that I don't want anything to happen between me and him.
CAN SOMEONE TELL ME HOW DO I MAKE THESE FEELINGS GO AWAY INSTEAD OF FIGHTING EACHOTHER?!

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

>>131012
given the fact that most subreddits and spaces meant for women get infiltrated by moids yeah. men aren't exactly known for respecting boundaries or rules set up by women

>>131014
it's all a feminist psyop to make you believe the disparity between male and female crime rates

>>131016
the Big Fem's influence stretches far

>>131014
I'd imagine that's because female sex crimes tend to receive more lenient punishments so there's less of a push to secrecy as well as the much much higher likelihood that men are technologically literate enough to even access the darkweb. In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject and I, with all due respect, personally couldn't care less about it outside of making a few offhand comments on the subject. So I'll retire from this conversation now if you don't mind.

>>131018
>In any case, I can sense you have strong feelings on this subject
no, not really. i just thought it's funny you'd bring up dark web of all things

I look uglier with makeup

>>130967
Maybe you're just applying it incorrectly

>>130968
if you're ugly, makeup wont make you prettier unless youre so good at it you can draw yourself a new face. otherwise it just accentuates your already undesirable features

>>131008
You sound stupid and sheltered. Most women fraud their looks including celebrities, they look unfuckable without makeup. My face looks masculine so makeup doesn't work for me, I look better naturally

>>131010
you think all women rock a full glam every day and I'm the sheltered one?
if what you saying were true, troons wouldn't have a hard time passing

>>130934
ngl bestie twin you done effed up lowkey, but imo he givin some red flag ick vibes, so all in all? give yourself some peace queen if you know what im sayin. go treat yourself

>>130974
okay sure but what should i tell more

>>130975
tysm luv we talked last night it's all good for now he doesn't really blame me and still wants me so im glad and ig im gonna be more understanding towards him these days

>>130990
How did you trigger him to making a mistake and what was it?

they always come back

>>130863
I honestly forgot wtf was I thinking when I wrote that post. I think what I find cringe is the general reasoning for veganism more than anything else. If it were something like "I won't eat meat because I'm not a casual" I'd think that's kinda awesome.

Lolcow’s lonely women thread and murderer documentaries on youtube really make me feel not alone in being really isolated and out of touch from reality. Thank you lolcow autistic experiences thread and weird people youtube documentaries, also the strange people thread here on /x/. This is something really hard for me to come to terms with as it fills me with dread.

Finally found that one table that tied schizoidness to historical attitudes towards children. Psychogenic modes are a fringe theory I think but it makes an interesting point.

To be a hermit is to be holy.

my face when I accidentally see people I don't like having a good day

>>130998
Because you are all hopelessly, ruthlessly addicted to written pornography. As a matter of fact, female porn addiction is the reason we have language period but you all aren’t ready for that one yet

>>130999
>female porn addiction is the reason we have language
I dunno, doesn't sound so bad to me

>>131000
Language is nothing more than psychological warfare.
True meaning is found in music.
We say music puts into words things that cannot be explained, but its rather that music is the explanation and words are the butchery.
https://youtu.be/195XntreoMc?si=DclYeK7CA4ZlKKwc

>>131001
My response to your musical statement is the Danse Macabre arrangement for Dalmatians 102

>>131002
We used to be an actual civilization.

>>130928
Well, duh. You can't just ask someone to have certain feelings about you, it doesn't work that way. Perhaps tolerating your mental behavior is proof of affection in on itself. Why ask to be loved if you don't know what love is.

Got swindled out of €32 at market just now, money must be coming too easy to me, why couldn't i pay attention, fuck. Must be karma.

>>130950
Someone says they're heartbroken and your immediate assumption is that they're such a burden that mere tolerance should count as affection. Why? What in the post made you conclude that besides your own contempt for people who are emotionally struggling? Man I really hate image boards. So much obnoxious toxic behavior.

>>130928
Nona, this post reads like someone who’s been hurting for a very long time. The stuff about him is sad, but the way you talk about yourself is what worries me. Please don’t sit alone with these thoughts.

I barely ate anything yesterday and today, and I just can't get myself to. I am FAILING to THRIVE.

>>130970
Why does this character look familiar

Hadiths are a meme