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Anonymous 132401[Reply]

I need to know if loosing your virginity to a moid is really worth it. I'm afraid to be thrown and dispossed like an used tissue after gifting my virginity to someone…should I consider having my first time with another girl?, ¿Do you regret losing your virginity?
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Anonymous 132433

>>132401

Have dry sex, you basically rub with men until you both get wet from pleasure. No penetration, no pregnancy involved.

Do not take pills. It does not matter how many women take them, do not do it unless you are not in a safe enviroment or have a very very active sex life.

Condoms do not promise "no pregnancy" instead they should be used to prevent certain diseases and for pregnancy it can break, leak, and other kinds of awful things no one wishes for when using them. If you want sex? have dry sex. You are basically a virgin, since virginity is based on if a man has introduced himself inside you.

If you really really want sex, you are just ovulating or practically bery horny. Just tell the moid to pleasure you by dry sex. Keep your panties, he keeps his boxer, you do it dry and if he wets he has to change of clothes.

If what bothers you if he will discard you, discard him first. The first moment you feel you care for him too much, find other man that is more interesting than him in ways he will never pleasure you, in mind, in affection, in companionship, etc.

I hope you can be happy and healthy, xoxo, best wishes.

Anonymous 132608

>>132401
Pretty much just regretted it, mostly because the relationship didn't work out and the guy I lost it to wasn't a virgin either. It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with. They'll likely forget about and associate this as one of his many attempts at finding love. I regret being a sensitive trusting faggot and letting my guard down. They weren't that bad of a person. I miss feeling more naive and optimistic about life. I hate the feeling of deja vu of attempting the same thing with someone else, it feels dirty. If none of this bothers you, go ahead.

Anonymous 132616

>>132608
> It leaves me bitter knowing I've shared something private with someone who I wasn't going to spend the rest of my life with

You figured it out, no amount of shallow platitudes about ah it's just sex, have fun,
will ever tell what you know now.
I hope you can find your love soon thou, good luck nona.

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my first time was with a girl and i don't regret it, it was her first time too. its better to have a partner who is a bit more experienced than you because they can guide you in a way, but it has to be someone who truly cares about you and isnt using you as a cheap fuck. imo sex with men is very physical while with women its more sensual and beautiful. p.s. cum smells awful and tastes worse

Anonymous 133346

I'm still a virgin but I wanna try sex with a man and a woman just to know for sure if I'm straight bi or gay. I can get horny thinking about certain individuals but how the actual sex is could impact that. Like I used to be more into women when I was younger and got crushes on other girls but then as a teenager I got into gay guy porn and now I prefer men



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Vent thread Anonymous 132763[Reply]

Again we need to vent
Previous Thread >>>/feels/129800
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Anonymous 133337

>>133331
would it help to tell some strangers? might lighten the load, could see a different perspective.

Anonymous 133338

My marriage has been falling apart for a long time and idk if I can take it anymore but I can't handle a divorce
We go through phases of getting along so well and being so lovey, I think if I just do everything right it can stay that way forever.
Sometimes my husband tells me he loves me and wants nothing more than for me to be happy. Then today he tells me he would have broken up with me if we weren't married and that he hates me.
His anger issues are killing me. I told him one day he's going to kill me with his anger issues and he said "please, please do it. What would I do without you (sarcasm)" .
I haven't felt genuinely suicidal in years but I really badly want to kill myself lately.
I'm so tired of trying so hard and wanting nothing more than his love and he just hurts me. Sometimes I'm mad at him and I think he kisses me or has sex with me to pacify me and make me think he loves me, but then it all goes back to normal and it hurts so bad.
I'm so young and I don't want to be in a marriage like this forever, but I don't think anyone else will even want me or if I could go through it again.
I just wanna be loved.

Anonymous 133339

>>133338
It took me quite some time to understand love you have to chase isn't really love at all. I hope you learn faster than I did.

Anonymous 133340

>>132763
new pattern I noticed
>noise changes decibels depending on the app I open

Anonymous 133345

>>133317
Yeah I had 3 periods this years all lasting less than 2 days



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/lg/ - lesbian general Anonymous 108545[Reply]

felt like this should be a thread tbh
what's everyone up to? i'm thinking of downloading tinder again
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Anonymous 133053

>>133052
subtle brag lol

Anonymous 133081

obligatory viewing

Anonymous 133274

do you ever wish you were straight?

just been having some depressing thoughts lately.

Anonymous 133342

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i've recently matched with this cute green haired alt girl on tinder. i thought she'd be a great fit since she wrote she likes submissives and i've been lookin to not be the top for once. turns out she is actually bi and into timid twinks and feels bad about domming women since "they're precious and don't deserve that". I don't think she got over her exbf yet tho, despite being broken up for a year now, she keeps mentioning him and all the shitty ways he treated her. I wish she was more affectionate and called me pretty and asked more about me, i want to connect with her but she also is slightly autistic and sometimes comes off as cold. On our second date we went to an ice cream shop, we get in line and i whisper to her that i'll pay for today, and she says she was gonna, i say "lets rock paper scissor for it" she agrees. we both throw scissors, and says "i shouldve known…". she did paper second round and i went scissors again lmao. Shes so cute , and fashionable, and soft and kisses nicely, but i hate that this probably won't be anything more than FWB type situation.

Anonymous 133343

dated a guy for a while and hated kissing him, got back with a girl and i didn't realize how much i missed not getting scratched while making out



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Anonymous 130353[Reply]

What was the hardest part of growing up for you?

Anonymous 130354

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For me I was just constantly confused, unhappy, and lonely. My youth was a rather unfortunate time of my life, I am much happier now.

Anonymous 130359

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always feeling different to other children, people constantly misunderstanding me, my emotional needs rarely being met and feeling so out of place and alienated.

Anonymous 130363

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Feeling misunderstood by my family, never outgrowing my middle school awkwardness, not being very good at picking myself up again after big disappointments and rejection, having difficulty imagining a good future for myself that wasn't an impossible fantasy where I was as beautiful as I wanted to be and as loved as I wished I'd been

Anonymous 133297

dealing with neglect and abuse at home only to go to school to get bullied for being "weird" (unkempt because i was neglected) and having teachers either ignore me at best or participate in tormenting me. worst part was seeing how they treated the kids with present and proper parents with kindness and care. believe it or not i didn`t chose to not have the right pencil with me at 7 years old, i`m not doing this to make your teaching harder. but i guess some teachers just like the power and without parents who care about you, who will defend you anyway? we say we care so much about childrens safety as a society but that`s just bullshit.

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finding a reason to keep going



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Anonymous 133323[Reply]

What are unique struggles of being a lesbian? As a straight woman who passionately hates men, I always wondered.

Anonymous 133325

This photo makes me want to goon

Anonymous 133329

should be obvious. it's very, very lonely even by everyone else's standards. majority of women are straight, even if you hate men you're still attracted to them and at some point you'll still yap about them in some form.

you deal with all this suffering and for what? to have a smaller dating pool that has the same problems that the hets and bisexuals have because too many women are picking up the same bad habits and traits that moids have.

Anonymous 133332

>>133323
i'm vry feminine and so is my girlfriend– it's lovely and amazing (we're the type that have cute picnics and braid each other's hair)

also, her and i both hate men, but i don't think anyone should date women just bc they hate men… you should LOVE women too

i was vry vry lonely and had never dated until meeting her so i guess that is a big issue…

Anonymous 133336

>>133332
it seems like it's not necessarily about gender but about compatibility, connection, respect and liking each other



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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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I don't have anywhere else to post this lol

Anonymous 133312

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just 10k steps today

Anonymous 133313

>>133312
Any movement is good

Anonymous 133314

>>133296
Dean Withers is so fugly

Anonymous 133335

I really ought to start getting some sort of income or a job
I’m paranoid if I lose my husband aka only breadwinner I’ll get fucked



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Abusive OCD bf pt 2 Anonymous 95617[Reply]

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Last thread hit limit and many nonas seem concerned for her safety.

If you see this, we hope you are ok! Please give us an update on the police situation.
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Anonymous 132334

>>128474
updates?

Anonymous 133159

hoping op is well

Anonymous 133214

tell us how it's going op

Anonymous 133333

op will stay with this man until he kills her. the end.

Anonymous 133334

Op got tired of making shit up for (you)s



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why am i still sad when my life is so much better than it was a few years ago? Anonymous 133321[Reply]

i feel super cringe writing this cause my life isn't even that bad anymore, but i'm still super sad for seemingly no reason
i feel really stupid whenever i miss classes or break down about going outside or don't clean my room or do work until it's too much to do…
i've been getting therapy and trying essentially every medication for anxiety and depression since freshman year. which on its own shows my life is pretty good since my dad got me medical help…
but i really can't figure out why i'm still so sad? my life is okay. i still live with my dad (i'm in uni) and he doesn't expect me to get a job yet or anything. he just wants me to get good grades, keep my room clean, take my meds, and feed the cats. but even that's so hard for me. it makes me feel like i'll never be a functional adult cause i can't even do simple tasks. i don't have any hobbies either. i used to draw and play instruments and sing but i never liked doing that. i don't even play video games or watch anime anymore, so all of the games and anime i like were made before 2022.
i wonder if i'm a spoiled brat or something. i guess i had a difficult childhood, but my dad got custody of me when i was in seventh grade, so it makes no sense why im not fine now ???
sorry for stupid rambling, i kinda just wanted somewhere to let this stuff out.
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Anonymous 133324

>>133321
sounds similar to me. having a "good life" didn't help.

have you tried psychedelics like mushrooms? they really helped me break through some heavy depression. dont buy the fake gas station gummy kind either, grow the real thing (assuming it is legal in your state)

Anonymous 133326

>>133321
I think your life is missing spirituality. I used to avoid even discussing spiritual matters but I've since realized some people are simply not mentally strong enough to exist without a spiritual reason for being. They could have everything in the world but without a reason to live and go on they break down and end up doing something violent to themselves or others. I would really suggest getting more in touch with your spiritual side and that can mean many things as spirituality looks very different depending on who you ask but I'd just suggest exploring around and seeing if you find something you connect with.

Anonymous 133327

>>133324
i haven’t tried any kind of substances since my dad is super anti-drug and still checks all my packages to make sure it’s not anything i can hurt myself with. maybe if i eventually move out ill try something like that

Anonymous 133328

You're definitely depressed op. Have you gotten a therapist?

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>>133321
i too would half agree with the spirituality thing the nona on top said, but i would also suggest you to start an hobbie!
Absolutely anything that can keep your mind off your daily life, maybe better something you can see grow each day that you can see in hobbies like sewing, gardening, drawing, making something in general.

I'll always suggest sewing because it's so versatile and it saved my life, but it can be anything.
I wish you the best of luck nona, even better times will come!



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Anonymous 133302[Reply]

It scares me that I see moids talking about taking womens rights away, I genuinely do everyday. They always have some spiritual esoteric reasoning for it, I don’t give a shit that Aristotle or some literal who said women are defect and below men. They want any reason to make women subhuman.

Cause all they want women to be is dumb, weak, breeding slaves for them. Moids are visual creatures who only love women for their body and see them as less than them in every aspect.. A woman reaching her fullest potential as a human is awful to them, she must believe that being anything greater is masculine and not her role. Being breeding cattle too uneducated and weak for anything is the ideal woman to the moid.

Anonymous 133303

>>133302
I'm sure it'll blow back into their faces, aside from peoples random ass bodies its pure egoism to imply any version of yourself can be enslaved. maybe its a projection from being already enslaved by other noids

Anonymous 133305

don't be scared of them. arm yourself and never again be afraid of a scrote.

Anonymous 133308

Larp

Anonymous 133309

Larp

Anonymous 133310

Larp larp saaaahur



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