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unheard Anonymous 127364[Reply]

song lyrics
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Anonymous 127777

and when you shame me
it makes me want it more

Anonymous 128023

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>>127524

Anonymous 128024

panty-anarchy-pant…

Friday night, time to get drunk
Go, go to the party, time to get drunk
Arrive in the Clio, get driven by a hunk
Straight to the bedroom, driven by a hunk
Plenty of boys in the yard
One look at me and they get hard

H-Hard as stone, ready to bone
Like Medusa on a party throne
DJ, DJ, DJ DJ DJ
Slow it down for an epic BJ
Thanks, man, so glad you came
I think I love you, what's your name?
Don't leave yet, we're having fun
Friday night, number one
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Anonymous 128306

sing for me my sweet acolyte

Anonymous 128370

Data trails like fingernails scratch across the sky


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Anonymous 128359[Reply]

I feel so fat and ugly all the time, someone help me fix it…give me a workout routine or a better diet routine…im so tired

Anonymous 128360

eat less, eat correctly
walk, 20min body-weight exercises
and be concistent

Anonymous 128361

>>128359
walk after you eat, for as long as you can. do jumping exercises and massages to drain your lymphatic system - it helps with fluid retention, which can cause bloating. quit sugar and eat fish with more vegetables. do jaw stretches to erase double chin - it'll take a while, but stretch upwards and say your vowels, or stick your tongue out, face to the side, and stretch opposite to how your arm is placed across your chest.
most of all, don't stress about things that you can't change unless you're actively planning on fixing them with surgery. it's a mental waste, and every time it happens, distract yourself by moving.
manifestation can delude you into a better mental state and perspective if you're willing to do that as well. repeat to yourself daily that you ARE getting healthier, ASSUME that you are getting skinnier - because it is the truth, no matter how long it takes.
good luck

Anonymous 128363

Girl I used to be fat (obese). Start counting your calories (My fitness pal helps). Walk a lot (10,000 steps per day is recommended). Avoid ultra processed food. Cook from scratch. Go to the gym and ask the staff what exercises they recommend. Ask them to demonstrate the exercises and make a routine for you if you're not sure. You're paying them so they'll be happy to help you. If you're really obese and nothing works, you may benefit from Ozempic/Mounjaro.

Anonymous 128364

>>128363
I am like 166 LBS or 75 KG
I have a double chin,hip dips, leg and belly fat to the point it creates a round spot in front of my pants like a pudgy belly…I hate it so much…I’ll take this advice and try a couple things…my biggest issue is being hungry all the time and not having motivation to work out…I’ve started doing squats or wall sits when I’m not doing anything…I just want to be happy with my body

Anonymous 128369

>>128364
"Hip dips" sounds like some terminally online shit. Do you use Tiktok/Instagram a lot? If so you should consider cutting them out entirely, there is almost no benefit to using them aside from if you need it for social connection sparingly. They will make you hate yourself for no reason.

I also used to be fat af. What is your current diet like? You won't be able to reduce your calorie intake sustainably if you're hungry all the time.

Doing diet/exercise will make you happier with your body as long as you're not doing it as a way of dealing with some other major life stressor/self hatred/negative self beliefs, which you probably have considering you're using this website. I used to be fat af and lost a lot of weight and I wasn't able to do shit about it until I started working through past trauma.

You'll be fine, ily


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Anonymous 127867[Reply]

I recently stood up to a girl in my friend group who has been treating me like shit all year in private and doing petty mean girl stuff like kicking me out of our group chat, making plans with me and then canceling without explanation as to why, and also ignoring my texts when I asked if she'd be willing to be mature and talk things out in person instead of being passive aggressive to me all the time. It was at a party a mutual friend of ours was throwing and I basically texted her an essay there explaining how she's done me wrong all year and how I hope she learns some maturity for next year. Then, instead of addressing me personally, she ran out of the room crying, acting like a victim and everyone at the party basically turned on me saying that somehow I'm the one who was passive aggressive all along and now they're manipulated by her into thinking I'm the one who was an instigator. I fucking hate being Gen Z and I fucking hate being apart of this generation of crybullies.

Anonymous 127869

when did this start and why?

Anonymous 128344

>>127867
That would have happened in other generations as well, don't worry.

Other than that, find better friends. You don't want drama in your social life.

Anonymous 128353

>>127867
I’m going through something similar so I feel you. Don’t let the stupidity and immaturity of other people blind you from the truth. At the end of the day you did right by yourself and that’s something to be proud of.

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>>128353
Thank you anon… I feel a little less alone now knowing that I'm not the only one going through this this year…
Haha… on New Year's Day they even collectively kicked me out of all the group chats and I found chatlogs of them talking shit about me behind my back all of last year….
Let's just say that this has severely impacted my mental health. I nearly had to check myself into the mental hospital. Now I'm basically just turning myself into a shut-in. I watch anime on repeat and I sit and draw and I don't even leave my house anymore. Since I live in a small town, this group betraying me has left me very distrustful of people and now I don't want to be friends with anyone in my hometown anymore.

Anonymous 128368

>>128367
Do you live at home anon? Are there places you can meet people that aren't from your hometown.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 125413[Reply]

I don't even know what number we're on

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I'm so scared of being watched and exposed it's terrifying
I can't even explain it

Anonymous 128334

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idk if im lazy or just super depressed. nothing sounds fun or appealing, not even tv or games. I can manage to drag myself to work but I come home to a hoard of trash and unwashed dishes. i cant do something as simple as clip my fingernails T.T

Anonymous 128335

I picked up the third book in the series instead of the second on accident and the prologue spoiled the end of the second book. And everyone says the second book is the best one in the series. I want to fucking KILL MYSELF.

Anonymous 128365

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My life fell apart unexpectedly and I'm between homes at the moment, couch surfing for the 3rd… maybe 4th time? It seems like every time I get my feet on solid ground something devastating comes along and sweeps it right from under me and I'm on the run again or back to a bad place. I've been going to work with the same two pants and shirts for two weeks and it's embarrassing as hell. I might not even have a job in a month cause of a change in company ownership and drastic changes/budget cuts they are making to top it all off. I'm starting to resent the people around me for having relatively stable, good lives while I'm constantly only just barely keeping my head above water. I try and keep a pretty good attitude despite it all but I'm losing the willpower to keep it up.

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chugging down a berry flavor vodka bottle while snacking like a fat bitch rn. nobody loves me and i'm a nuisance to everyone around me. every year i hope this is the year, but it never is.


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

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Anonymous 128348

i hope one day we can finally work it out.

Anonymous 128349

thank you for stopping being friends with the girl who was tormenting me.

Anonymous 128355

literally shut hte fuck up and go fuck yourself you stupid fucking bitch

Anonymous 128356

>>128295
damn clock it

Anonymous 128362

thank you for defending me and never them.


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Anonymous 128331[Reply]

I HATE TATTOOS SO MUCH

STOP FUCKING DOODLING ON YOURSELF

IT LOOKS SO BAD

EITHER GO ALL OUT OR DON'T DO IT
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Anonymous 128339

Why use a mid photo of a tattoo to prove your weak ass point lmao. Anyways none of this shit matters. Get over yourself, other people shouldn't have to center their existence on some bitch that probably can't order at McDonald's without stuttering

Anonymous 128342

>>128339
uh oh the inkling is mad

Anonymous 128343

>>128342
Lmfao

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>>128333
>>128339
IF YOU HAVE ONE TAT FLOATING IN A SEA OF SKIN OR A COUPLE IT LOOKS BAD OKAY. I'M SORRY YOU FELL TO PEER PRESSURE

>>128342
FUNNY POST

Anonymous 128358

The mark of white trash


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I am so tired of the modern dating world Anonymous 127745[Reply]

I really don't understand. I'm about to cry actually. I am trying my absolute best all the time, I am dating all the time, trying to talk to guys, I meet so many nice and sweet and interesting ones but they are never taking me out on any dates. I always initiate. Is it really that hard. Like I am actually very cute, 6'0, long hair, I take very good care of my looks, clothes, I have an apartment, job, I own property, my mental is semi ok, except I'm clingy, I have a very nice body. I have lots of hobbies and I am well read sort of, I don't spend time on social media. I have everything going for me and even that's not enough. I can't even get a movie date. All I want is to be taken to the movies and to be given some flowers. That's all I want. I think it happened once but only when I suggested to the guy to do that. Why do none of them want to do that with me? Are they really all that lazy and stupid? I have truly lost all hope in men, especially modern men, they have absolutely no idea how to treat people nice. Or maybe I'm too crazy. I hate men so much. I am literally like this against my own will. Female incel. Unlovable
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Anonymous 127763

>>127762
Men as in men or men as in trannies?

Anonymous 127764

I went to the gym the other day and i tried to use a barbell after a girl and I asked if she was done and she said yes then I went to pick it up and she said im not done with it and I was like wtf?? And walked away and I was mad because some girls were laughing and I feel like everyone thought I was trying to hit on her and I felt embarrassed

Anonymous 127765

TALL WOMEN ARE BEAUTIFUL AND UNDERRATED
RAAAAAAH

Anonymous 127766

>>127746
Wrong

Anonymous 128357

Sad…


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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>>127479
i listen to audiobooks on my lunch breaks

Anonymous 128345

Back from my psych evaluation
He said I’m likely bipolar and have cptsd
I was fairly certain of cptsd myself, but he said your parents don’t seem to have done anything that egregious
Got me doubting for a sec
But to be fair I know they for a fact distorted my image of social interaction to a point I expected constant verbal attacks and accusations from everyone so idk maybe I was poor at communicating or something

Anonymous 128347

8 months ago I was stealing from the grocery store to make ends meet and now I have a savings account. Keep going anons, it will all work out somehow

Anonymous 128351

>>128347
Good for you, nona.

And thanks, I needed hope today.

Anonymous 128354

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>>128347
Congrats on the savings, and ty for the encouragement


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NEETs what do you do all day? Anonymous 125667[Reply]

NEETS = Not in education employment or training. I’m over 25, any over over 25 NEETs? What do you actually do all day?

I’m awake now, took two puffs of my vape. TikTok scrolled, Reddit scrolled and played a game on my phone and I’m immensely bored. Ideas are welcome , any of active forums I should know about? Any & all welcome

There’s a lot of times where I just bed rot and do nothing due to the depression but I think this isn’t one of those days. But I am lonely as I have no one and bored and I don’t feel like gaming tbh.
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Anonymous 128310

Clean, cook food, game or watch yt videos, go on walks with my friend sometimes, torture myself with the fact that I need to start looking for a job because im running out of money

Anonymous 128311

Besides satisfying my physiological needs, not much. I think a lot. From the moment i wake up i start thinking and i don't stop thinking until all my energy is depleted. It is lonely to be a thinker, to have realized things that take long time to realize, because you can't explain to others something that takes long time to realize for the same reason you can't learn a language by having someone explain it to you. It takes time and i have spent a lot of it. Now there is an abyss between me and other humans, it feels lonely, but at the same time i feel fortunate, i regret nothing. There is a way back to people, some day i might start helping them, but my compassion is still lacking.

Anonymous 128312

>>125667
Self study. Free courses online. Laugh at streams. Hobbies. Cloud watching, painting, woodwork. Explore. Go on virtual tours. Plenty of free crap to do online and IRL. Volunteer.

Anonymous 128320

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I'm over 30. It's possible that I have AuDHD but I never got diagnosed, and never will. I just watch useless videos, scroll useless sites, read useless things, argue with useless people online, and do useless stuff. I live with my parents and help around the house, and I watch movies during days where I don't feel guilty about wasting my time.

I have tried many attempts to change my life, but my attempts always crumble because I try to take drastic steps to change. I try to change to take steps that could be as simple as starting to go out for a walk or as drastic as getting an interview but I could never really make it out. The simple changes don't stick for more than a weak and the drastic changes are too overwhelming I just crash out the next days and completely hit rock bottom again.

Anonymous 128350

>wake ups
>feel distorted and scared
>eat
>think about watching an anime, reading a manga, finding a job
>don't
>it feels like I'm forgetting something important
>think about learning something
>don't
>eat
>sleep
>wake ups
>pain
>didn't I have this day already


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