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Anonymous 131900[Reply]

what is it called when you have been on 4chan and this website for like 7 years when you was hella ugly and bullied but some reason you had a hella glow up in the last 2 years at 20 and u still have the same ideology but u dont fit the criteria cus u are now attractive to people. idk its cus looksmaxxing did something to me all i did was get filler and have a healthier lifestyle now i look hot but dont have the brain of a normie but neurodivergeant and still a weirdo with no life just a pretty face and im autistic

Anonymous 131901

The closest thing that comes to mind: halo effect changing how people perceive you.

Anonymous 131902

>>131900
>start eating some fruits and veggies
>a little lip filler
>wtf I'm hot now
You never needed lip filler then and you were always hot

Anonymous 131903

>>131902
not rlly i could show u a picture of me when i was extremely depressed and bullied terribly in highschool and half of my teenhood was me getting wrecked in an alley to fit in because i thought that was how you get friends but after i left all of these people i legiterally had the biggest glowup and i am so much healthier looking

Anonymous 131904

>>131903
I'm happy for you. It sounds like you're doing much better. That's what I like to see


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(un)official blogposting thread Anonymous 69765[Reply]

tell me about your day cc!
stories also welcome
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Anonymous 131895

>>131894
Dude I'm well aware what "tech" exists, I'm worried about the common practice of using something that's like Cellebrite to analyze phones when you're merely leaving the country. Like, you know, not theoretical stuff.
Don't reply to me again on this topic.

Anonymous 131896

Also I don't live in the west so yes the government does care what I do and what I think, though in my case the likelihood of it would probably be relatively low.

Anonymous 131897

>>131895
>>131896
God, you're beautiful

Anonymous 131898

>>131897
I know

Anonymous 131899

>>131898
and modest too. Truly the perfect package


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Ugly Vent Thread Anonymous 124874[Reply]

A thread for women to vent and share their experiences with being ugly and how they cope in this look obsessed society.
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Anonymous 131710

>>131709
Russian nona?

Anonymous 131711

>>131710
I wish

Anonymous 131860

looks like the thread got nuked

Anonymous 131891

>>131860
Deo gratias, it was one guy's larping monologue

Anonymous 131892

>>131891
Nah the mod manually deleted every post


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Prayer Thread Anonymous 122943[Reply]

For yourself, for others, for the world, any way you want to pray.

Anonymous 122944

praying for my friend in the hopes he is struck with some kind of happiness soon

Anonymous 123369

>>122943
Praying to have better health

Anonymous 123374

Praying that children around the world can be safe and keep their innocence, and for those being abused to find a way out and to overcome the trauma.

Anonymous 123775

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Praying that everyone takes up the cross, praying that everyone sees the power humility, praying that pennance is done for degenerate lives we tolerate.

Anonymous 131889

can i get a prayer. can i get a prayer, anyone


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Unsent Letter Thread Anonymous 128239[Reply]

Previous thread >>>/feels/115657
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Anonymous 131718

>>131717
Wym to gain status. You are assuming that. Status is definitely one of those things I don’t care for. I don’t like people glorifying and justifying the behaviors that had been harmful towards me.

Anonymous 131719

>>131718
1) tf is a vector?

2) what happened?

Anonymous 131720

>>131719
In computer security, an attack vector is a specific path, method, or scenario that can be exploited to break into an IT system, thus compromising its security.
In health and disease transmission, a vector is a living organism that carries and transmits an infectious pathogen to another living organism

Anonymous 131722

>>131720

So nona either broke security protocol or transmitted a disease by bullying someone?

Sounds retarded af

Anonymous 131887

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Why do you have to keep showing up in my dreams? Not only that, my subconscious humanizes in a way that isn't true to you, setting me up for disappointment again and again.
It's like I miss something that has never existed.


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Mean Girl Predators Anonymous 131854[Reply]

I went to the hair salon and got my hair done. Afterward, the hairstylist started taking pictures of me to advertise her work on Instagram without asking for my permission. It made me feel really insecure, and then she did the typical, “Oh no, sweetheart, you’re so gorgeous.”

I really hate that kind of “baby girl” manipulation some women use with other women, acting overly nice and showering you with compliments while taking advantage of you or dismissing how you actually feel.

I call it the “baby girl” act because it reminds me of a certain YouTuber who has that exact performative personality (rhymes with Yasmin Fan)

Anonymous 131856

>>131854
Is that supposed to be you in the picture? If it is I think you look nice but I could certainly understand the frustration with this. Given they're effectively using you as advertising without paying, you could likely sue them if you're in the US. I'd ask them to take it down if they posted it already

Anonymous 131879

compliments are levied to shut down insecure people when a person can't be bothered to deal with them, but still wants to seem like they're giving a thoughtful reply. or wants to just get on with something, like this lady needing your photos for her social media. if you kept rejecting her then she'd be inconvenienced; so of course she defaults to petty babyish soothing. it's so utterly self centred and irritating. people will always opt to save face at the cost of outright neglecting people's dignity. sure, it's uncomfortable to acknowledge self image issues, but why rely on a cheap dismissal like "you're so gorgeous" as if that fixes anything

Anonymous 131881

>>131879
Okay but you're literally gorgeous

Anonymous 131885

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>>131881
take me seriously!

Anonymous 131886

>>131885
Sorry sorry I'm a prankster at heart you see. It's in my nature to tease a bit. I do think your complaints are reasonable which is why it's important to stand up for yourself in the moment.


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Vent Thread Anonymous 129800[Reply]

Again because we need a gazillion of these
Previous Thread >>>/feels/125413
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Anonymous 131859

bagholders of the …

>>131600
>>131607
Don't feel too bad.
SPCX closed today at $154.60. I wonder how many people dumped their retirements into it. But a sucker is born every minute, as they say.

Anonymous 131882

A guy at work asked for my Instagram. He honestly looked like he stepped right out of a fanfiction, so I was a bit surprised. But then he never ended up messaging me. :/

Anonymous 131883

>>131882
Message him then

Anonymous 131884

>>131882
you will find the fanfiction moid of your dreams soon ✿

Anonymous 131905

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money money money money money money


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i hate being short Anonymous 129782[Reply]

i hate being short no one takes you seriously and peopl talk about how "cute" you are as if thats somethinf good and not extremely infantilizing. my self confidemce would be significantly improved if i was at least 5`6. short bodies look like shit in general, if youre skinny you just end up making yourself look even smaller and more fragile if youre fat your body starts to look all lumpy and your proportions seem off, if youre muscular you just look retarded any type of volume on short bodies ends up looking retarded. you cant win
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Anonymous 131642

True

Anonymous 131876

>>131595
life is not an anime being treated like a child barely has any benefits

Anonymous 131877

>>131643
i would never willingly reproduce but i agree

Anonymous 131878

>>131643
nope

Anonymous 131880

>>131643
men won't look so tall anymore if every woman is a skyscraper. we need the mix for novelty! use! your! head! / preserve! height! rarity!


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¿What can I do if I'm in love with my proffesor? Anonymous 130854[Reply]

First I need to clarify that I'm already eighteen, and that I'm not stupid enough to try anything (I don't want advice to flirt with a middle aged man who is starting to bald a little)
I don't want anything to happen. Even though I feel attracted towards him in a way that I have never felt towards any other man, I know that: A)I don't want to get raped. B)he won't notice me (if he's not a fucking pervert).
But I just NEED to hear it from someone who has been through the same situation. He's kind, walks around with his dog, is confident and well-spoken. GOD I have written a shit ton of poems for this guy.

He doesn't seem to be married or in a relationship, but in some ways, I feel like it's weird how his entire body language shifts when he's talking to a girl (am I going crazy?)
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Anonymous 131020

>>130912

Make a FODA listing all the reasons of why it would not work.

Emotionality is a reaction. React to the reasons it would not work.
Eventually you will start to feel the other way, disgust perhaps even.

Do not force feelings of disgust.

If possible, try to make the disgust for the idea of dating that man natural.

Men know when women like them and treat them better, if not, they use it to treat them badly to feel better.

Do not feel bad for men, if you do, you just will make yourself miserable. Adam was in charge, not eve. Men are not worth your energy.

Most men.

Anonymous 131027

>>131020
>>131020
You're right, noona. I have been thinking of this for the past three months and you have put into words a feeling I was never able to express. Thank you.

Anonymous 131162

>>131027

I am glad you can finally put your thoughts based on your sentimentalism, it is very hard to do so sometimes.

If you can, see about father-daughter relationships.

Older men, if they can see you as a "girl" or "daughter", if they are mature enough they will treat you more as a father figure and authority rather than "flirty" as most old men treat women.

Good men will treat you like a daughter if you treat them like you would treat your father if he was in their place.

That at least, has always worked for me. Old men always compare me to their own offspring, in some sort of way, if I treat them like that. Not in a flirty way.

I hope you can sort this out, have faith in your capacities nona xoxo

Anonymous 131874

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I'm back with some news about this…and nothing has happened. He's just pretty friendly to me, and most of the time when I catch him staring at me from affar, I notice that he's just…tender. He's younger than I thought! (28 yrs old, but stil close to thirty). Now I wish he was my uncle, lol.
If someone ever wondered how he looked like, here it is a cartoon character he reminds me of.

Anonymous 131875

>>131874
I'm glad all's ended well.


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