>>129188
good for you nona you have a dream and it seems you're willing to fight for it,. you can definitely get out. much love

politicians and billionaires made it this way on purpose and they have names and addresses

Go, escape. Build a beautiful life for yourself.
Don't let anyone tell you no. Your mind alone proves you deserve out of that environment.

This is real but I hope sometimes soon you start realizing that other black people aren't 'wrong' for not liking the stuff you do. This might be a stretch but you seem to idolize European culture like there aren't artistic, spiritual, deep black people. If you want to see the people around you care more, become someone that cares. Quit thinking running away to France will solve everything. That isn't your only option. Go to some slam poetry event. Listen to rap that ISNT just about gang violence so that you can see how much of an art it really is. treat rap that is about gang violence like what it is: people finding a form of art to express their hard life. I'm not trying to be rude but your mindset is pathetic and you aren't the only black person that admires deep thinking and meaning, you just let yourself grow into a eurocentric mindset. I hope you grow out of it soon and start actually exploring the world around you with an open mind.

>>129189
>>129200
>>129192
thx Nonas
>>129227
Ya, what you said is true. I don't believe all black culture is bad or anything. And I agree I came across as close minded. I'm just frustrated that so many people in our community praise gang culture shit. But not all rap or black culture is like that I know. A lot of aspects of it is very beautiful and I admire it a lot. and I don't praise only white culture since that's cringe I just want to get away from my horrible city kek. but I agree with what you said

>>128910
very true. And the truest truth of all is realizing that death is preferable to life

Love is coming over my bestie's house, joking, watching anime, cooking together, talking about our past troubles and future worries. I came over to help her prepare for a party she was throwing and to actually meet her bf who helped cook too. I brought a pie i made for it, and everyone enjoyed it and many wanted seconds. Love is being kind to yourself and showing that kindness to others. Most people will not reciprocate but those that do, and truly value your care, will love you and become like family.

definitely not what your gooner picture portrays

Love is cuddling under a heated blanket. It's him respecting my wishes to wait till marriage. It's us cooking for each other. It's us doordashing each other medicine or sweets even though we're too far away to get it ourselves. It's the stuffed animal he sewed by hand. It's the drawings he's made of us. It's the warmth I feel when he holds my hand. It's way we still are kind to each other after we get a little too heated during a discussion. It's the patience we have for each other when one of us messes up.

>>129197
This is a good answer, Love this!

You're either asexual or have some sorta trauma. Were you exposed to sexual content too young?

am i cooked for showing apprehension to the idea of getting married to my bf of 3.6 years?
we are both 24. i'm not ready, and never realistically thought i'd ever get married.
i'm not opposed to the idea of marrying him, he's essentially ideal. but now i'm afraid that the whole thing is ruined by my apprehension of thinking he's not the right one for me or something. i know i hold onto very naive and idealistic ideas of what marriage and love are, and i'm trying to get over that. but the thing is that he knows this is how i feel bc i've been so open about it since it's obvious how much i've been spiraling about it. lets say we do get married, will this follow into the marriage? always associating our coupling with the doubt on my end and the general idea that his wife was not 100% on board at the first sound of a ring and matrimony? most girls kill for this, fight their boyfriends for not bringing up marriage sooner, i'm broken lmao

>>129210
Maybe he'll never propose and you're worrying for nothing.

>>129212
he’s made it very clear he wants to get married! says he doesn’t want to date much longer than 4 years without my hand..

>>128940
I quit my job in June 2025 but other than that it's pretty much same to same. I'm trying to start applying for jobs but even seeing negative reviews online like glassdoor about unethical company behavior is triggering to me. Nobody around me understands and some even tell me I am entitled and privileged to be choosy about not wanting to get into a toxic job again.

>>129216
AYRT, and yes, I feel this. I had an interview with a company that had horrible glassdoor reviews, they ended up ghosting me before the final interview and I am relieved lol. I also withdrew my application for another job where I had a meeting with the VP. The other VP interview a week before went well, she was chill and warned me about the next interview stating that the engineer sill has ptsd from how intense it was and it just confirmed my bad gut feeling. Interview happens and the lady and I bickered a bit and since I am used to that leadership style I handled it well. She insinuated that I was going to move onto the final round but I emailed the hr lady after the interview and withdrew my application. I knew exactly what that job would be like and I noped out quick. I also live in Toronto and the job market here is absolute garbage. I know that I would rather be unemployed than work a toxic job ever again.

These people (like in the image) don't want solutions, they just want a sounding board to feel like they are the center of the universe and that everything except them are the problem why they are feeling low. My autistic ass thinks solutions but when I try to give it to them, they get angry. Sometimes I try to talk about myself in an attempt to demonstrate that everyone goes through their problems and they accuse of making everything about myself. I can never win.

Fuck moids. If he can't handle his own emotions, dump 'em

I love advocating for moids opening up about mental healths, because it shifts power dynamics and control back to me

Stuff like this makes me wonder the context of her reply. I would never talk to my boyfriend like this. It makes me wonder if he did something fucked up then tried shifting focus to his own feelings, like many emotional manipulators do.

>>129208
Then he should be dumped for being a liar.

I bet he's never been pegged before.

>>129209
all moids lie for sex. they admit this themselves.

ur discord bf isn't a real bf

>>129221
knew someone would say this

Yeah everyone. Why do you think we're on the internet handwriting AI slop comments instead of do something productive

Probably ADHD, but not autistic
What's with the perched position? I understand that squatting is important for your legs and knees, but why do it on a chair?

>>129182
Something called proprioception actually, needing extra information about where our body is in with respect to space to feel comfortable about, or something like that.

yep and it's so goddamn awful. i do not function at all and the thought that i have to live like this forever because those disabilities are incurable really hurts.

>>128302
Youre hating on ugly women in an industry that commodifies them what

I get the hideous moid part but please name me some celebrity women that are ugly

This looks like more of the same basic primal bimbo shit

>>128304
I never said any celebrity women were ugly what I said the men were ugly

>>128302
Real as fuck. Male comedians piss me the fuck off