are you afraid of stalkers/ ever been stalked? Anonymous 110742
That's kinda sweet. I'm probably the worst offender in online stalking though
Being stalked is one of my biggest fears, actually. I live a double life, so it would get very bad if someone stalked me and found out things that they weren’t supposed to, or contacted people I know from elsewhere.
Luckily it hasn’t happened; I’m very careful about the information I give to people on both irl and online.
Yes, I was stalked for a year, and once posted about it in /x/. It was fucking terrifying. To be honest I'd have to sit and find the words to describe how profoundly negative the experience was, and knowing how much worse it is for other people makes me literally, not figuratively, shiver. Vote separatism today.
>>110742>Yes, I was stalked for a year, and once posted about it in /x/.
of all the places, what made you go there?
My bad should have clarified that it was on this site kek (I don't use 4chan, it was on the x board here)
It obviously went to the trash as one of the cleaners of the train saw it as such given how dirty, messy, and shitty it smells.>OP's prompt
Closest thing is being stalked online by HR of a company related to security and stuff. They probably paid FBI a grand or two for a background check despite not being hired by them, lol.
(Someone post that one picture of 4chan anons being complete ghost to federal agencies despite being simple NEETs.)>>110750>That's kinda sweet.
this is gonna sound bad but I met a few people off of 4chan years back. I only briefly spoke to them (I.e., two weeks) then I hit a massive depressive spiral and essentially ghosted all of them by accident. my reasoning? that I was doing them a favor.
months later I got a DM on facebook from one of those guys that literally figured out all my real-life information based off my discord and hacking me…the guy in particular had talked on and on about a girl that had stopped talking to him overtime (she stopped talking to the whole friends group) about 5 years ago and he had an obsessive hang up on that.
and I got so fuckin spooked that I faded him–before I had the others.
maybe I deserve it but holy shit I can't believe so many people have the capacity to stalk another human being.
I don't even look at the posts of the people I used to know online.
I interviewed a guy at a job I was working and then he stalked me for months, would find my social media accounts and bombard me with messages there and tell me how he had seen me around town and what I was doing, etc. I saw him outside of my work a bunch, so I literally ended up quitting that job because of it as son as I could, and he eventually would park outside my house for hours at a time. I tried to go to the police about him, but they didn't do shit. He was eventually arrested because he was caught preparing to shoot up a mall. Glad to be alive.
yes, i am being stalked and it fucking sucks. the worst is, i can't even hide at home because they installed stalking equipment in fake neighbours' apartments and even tried to make me walk into them (of course i didn't because i'm not that retarded).
The thing I hate the most about being stalked/fixated on/harassed my moids is just how little support you'll get, especially from other moids.
Before I learned to NEVER tell men your trauma, I remember telling one about a stalker I had, and he just… didn't think it was a big deal? It's like he was waiting for me to get to the bad part, but it never game.
Just "Oh well, it doesn't seem that bad".
They never understand the psychological trauma and never feeling safe, having your security subject to the whims of a psycho. But it's ok since despite tormenting me for years they never attacked me physically.
God, I hate moids. Nothing good comes from moids. Either they are obsessed with you and want to ruin you or they are indifferent and passive.
the other thing is the trust issues. Absolutely any moid you interact with can become a psycho stalker and you have 0 control over it. If they want to, they'll do it. Once it starts there's little recourse. The police don't care, and even if they did they can't do anything. In fact your stalker can gossip about you, lie, and call you a "whore" to rally other moids into their corner. When that girl was killed and left in a ditch by her moid a month or so ago, before when he talked to the male police officers he was just joking about how hysterical and emotional she was and the police agree with him and say shit like "haha bro my wife is the same, women, amirite??"
How are you supposed to not be afraid of every man? it's such a risk. I hate them.
tbh it's because many of them are so privileged they don't begin to understand trauma or how someone can experience it. they literally see you like a chair and like any stones thrown at you or creeps that try sitting are you are just harmless.
I have been stalked as a kid. Even before I became a teenager, I think. There was some weird guy, possibly autistic, who would show up on my street and try to talk to me. He then disappeared somewhere.
The first time we met, he offered his hand when I was getting out of a bus. I took it, but he would not let go and tried to kiss me. I told him that he was a moron and that I was a kid, wrenched my hand out, and went home.
weird, I always had the opposite experience. Rather than being indifferent they're overly protective. Maybe it's just the way you communicate it, anon, but more likely your choice of company.
eh, have you ever been called cute? usually boils down to a girl having a babyish face.
Nta but if that's why men are generally gentle with me then that's incredibly cursed and awful.
May be the sweet spot though, since on topic for the thread I've never been properly creeped on. Just a couple clingy dudes which is doable. I attribute it to my size and masc energy/voice, even with the baby face.
Sorry you ladies always go through this. Men can be depressing.
I have been cyberstalked before and that was a uncool. They were making fake profiles of people I knew, boosting the friends with people that I also knew to give the account authenticity and then add me. This happened on work social media, normal social media, various forums, and basically anywhere my usual 5-6 usernames were used. I only noticed because these accounts started mysteriously knowing things I'd told the other accounts in spite of that information having absolutely no bleed-through of information (for example, a user on a programming forum knowing that I also mix my own music and maintain a youtube channel for them).
In the end I wiped off and closed every single account I could remember I had as far back as accounts I'd opened when I was 12. Changed all of my passwords to random generated on a locally stored password manager with a USB access/recovery key, Made a brand new set of email accounts and switched the mailer/recovery accounts to those new accounts, took down all pictures, everything. Did it all within the space of an hour so they would have hardly any time to react, and on social media I only add people I've met in person recently and where possible I'll add them whilst I'm with them to ensure the friend request is received by them.
The worst part is that this person once sent me pictures of the city center and local mall, library etc around my local town, I've reversed image searched and tineyed those images and they seem unique, and the EXIF data suggested that they were taken that day from a phone camera, complete with GPS coordinates. So whoever they are, they very at very least lived or had visited my city, and based on a few other factors through our conversations, very likely knew me IRL. Creepy as fuck that someone out there had used the internet to insert themselves into my life and reach so deeply into different faucets of my personality and life.
I get stalking your crush and shit but I simply don't get why someone would do this.