/b/ - Random

>>129397
Yeah I knew one once, its cringe.

>>129397
or the classic "i know i hurt you but its my bpd" as if that excuses everything

I’m sorry my illness inconveniences you in a minor way, but I deal with it all the time :(

>>129397
>"When I'm with you I feel so calm"
>"I love you"
>"I've never felt like this before :)"
>"don't worry, I won't leave you like they did"
>"I'm not using you for your apartment and sex, that's ridiculous. How could you even accuse me of of something like that? It's your friends telling you that isn't it. I told you they're jealous of what we have. I told you and you didn't listen, you never listen to me. You make me feel like shit all the time over things you make up in your head. Acting like this.. It's no wonder he left you. I'm starting to think you didn't tell me the entire story anyway, why would someone just do something like that? Oh, you're sorry. You're sorry after everything you've done. Bullshit. Stop? I'm not saying anything mean, what are you talking about? Stop crying. Stop crying and talk like an adult. If you could control your emotions I wouldn't have to leave. Hey.. Hey.. Okay. It's okay. Just stop crying and come here.. It'll be okay.. Shhhhh.. That's it baby. Stop apologizing. Just come closer. You know I care about you. Cmere"

cue sex

>>129572
classic BPD (I can't tell if this is a triggered BPDoid or a spot on impression of one)

>>129580
that's some Quality Time ass shit

There was a BPD moid I was talking to before he ghosted me kek. For context, we've known each other since we were 11
>some long ass text out of nowhere that was like, "I've been thinking about you ever since I came home from university for summer break. I think you're beautiful and I think there's a chance we're compatible."
>for starters I'm not really into him physically, plus I know he's some type of mentally unstable. It's not like he's a deadbeat either, he's a law student and we get along quite well as friends. I decide to give him a chance
>we start talking and I take hours to respond
>"REEEEEEEE did I scare you off because of my BPD? I'm so attached to you"
>I'm confused as fuck but kek'd because what in the fuck is this mental illness
>cue two weeks later he ghosts me
>thank god
s, never give BPDfags a chance.

I was friends with this BPD guy, he was really nice actually, well, he used to constantly apologize for "insulting" me or something but I'm too retarded to realize when people are being mean like that so we got on well. It was online so. One guy used to constantly tell me he was malicious but I never really saw it, sure he would lash out but I always sort of got why and it didn't effect me because again, couldn't realize when he was a dick. Or he would do something like jokingly call me a thot and then apologize over and over again like it meant anything lol.
BPDs be crazy. Massive drama whores and massively self destructive. They eat themselves up. Kind of sad.

Is BDP just the new "autist" in internet lingo?

i take meds for bipolar disorder and i thank god every day that i do not have bpd, they're just kind of fucked

>>131960
No. BPD is mostly associated with drama queens that ruin relationships that an autist wouldn't have even gotten into in the first place.

>>129572
your kind should be put in special camps tbh

>>131965
Bipolar is equally fucked you’re not special

do they say anything? all i ever hear is incoherent screaming and crying

>>134801
youre forgetting door slams nona

>>129727
I've been friends with a BPD girl for a long time. Over time the episodes became less and less severe until we were quiet normal friends

>>134219
ik this is an old reply but doesn't bipolar respond to treatment better, whereas most personality disorders pretty much do not.

>>314481
It does and also has the highest percentage of remissions. These retards just stop taking meds.

"You're so selfish!"
"That's it, i dont care anymore!"
"im never doing anything for you again"
[insert delusion surrounding a very unserious situation paired with daily drug abuse]

Almost forgot about how they claim to attract narcissists and abusers meanwhile they abuse people themselves and think everyone but them is a narc

>>314479
Makes sense - the more you show you're not going to leave the less the bpd acts out of fear that you're going to leave
Which is all any of it ever is

“Omg I just looked at the bpd abuse subreddit… I will never be loved.. I’m a monster…”

>>129397
ppl with bpd are genuinely insufferable 95% of the time & most of them dont even have it either theyre js retards who self diagnose based on tiktoks theyve seen kek

>>316478
Most of the time I see people “diagnosing” others with BPD in spaces like /r9k etc, not so much themselves. It’s a boogeyman like NPD where some people file any behavior by a person they don’t like under a pathology.

>>316477
person said this to me a few weeks ago and i reassured them. now they are sending me insults and threats. i am not ok rn :(

>>316489
It’s not you it’s them nona. Just imagine you’re dealing with a feral cat. Some people just have a nature you have nothing to do with.

>>316490
Thank you so much i needed that. So much whiplash. He felt safe to me and now I’m truly afraid of him.

>>316491
>Thank you so much i needed that. So much whiplash. He felt safe to me and now I’m truly afraid of him.

be careful, nona. a lot of people act fake and wear disguises, they make themselves appear nice and safe, only to take off their disguise and show you their real face

it's not your fault

>>316492
Thank you nona. Ik this thread is for bpd but it was bipolar and in a matter of days he became someone i dont recognize at all. I will be careful <3

>>316493
>and in a matter of days he became someone i dont recognize at all

That's narcissism. They fake love, empathy, they fake it all. They are only there for themselves and only themselves

Empathetic people are the opposite. They're up front front the start, you can see their intentions, there's no BS and no drama, they're empathetic and caring

Narcissists are attracted to empathetic people, like bees to honey, and try to take advantage

>>316493
I kinda don’t agree they’re necessarily narcissistic or have evil intentions, some people genuinely have a fucked up affective issue as well as paranoia etc. But the important point is even if they don’t you’re not obliged to help them to your own detriment. At least I hope you’re getting something out of that relationship nona!

>>316496
t.bippie

>>316497
Me? Schizotypal.

“I love you, I only shout at you and tell you I hate you because it’s my BPD making me split…” if you are reading this and are in a relationship with a bippie, take this as your sign to run far away. it will never work out

>>316481
Honestly i think its just where u look on the internet bc i am surrounded by ppl on social media who are self diagnosed “borderlines” . its a disease