>>228266Accept men pray on femininity itself, the peacocking, the emotional laboring, the whole performance no matter what kind of femininity we're talking about. It's like wearing a sign on your back that says "yes I'm easily bullied into doing whatever you want" (even if youre not) Because if you give some of your mind away to the performance emotional laboring, THEY KNOW you give all of it away. You can't prioritize the performance and know how to be a complete asshole when you need to be. Most women would chicken out. That is not true for men, they use every kind of nastiness, /just/ to intimidate or lie. And it is not just due to size. But think about it. Did they pursue sexual dimorphism and breed women to be small so they could intimidate and use women this way?
Emotional laboring/ peace keeping pretty much sets you up to burn so you don't know how to use cruel indifferent aggression when you need it. Even worse you try to keep a happy perspective that isn't true half the time, so you pretend not to notice when you're getting screwed over. No matter how much you say you're not getting screwed, you definitely are if you don't know how to be an asshole from hell when you need to be. Society sets you up to not know how and pretend you don't have to be. It even punishes you for knowing.
So why do you think its surprising when men see performance femininity like a target on your back? Why do you think they treat you like someone easy to bully and intimidate into doing what they want?
They know on some level before you do, you'll try to be agreeable, try to be the one thats peaceful. They will ALWAYS manipulate your preference to be peaceful and bully you into some kind of lesser/crappier corner with aggression. Even if you dont immediately see the aggression. They'll trap you there with a lie that can last years and know you wont really be able to do anything about it after they've screwed you over.
Youre not expected to even KNOW HOW to use aggression and cruel indifference, especially by society. You never can if you make emotional laboring your priority. Again you cant because society punishes you for it. (Which is why you should NEVER care what society thinks as a women btw.) But even then they'll leave you a thousand miles behind, holding shit for all you did.. in a corner you were stupid enough to believe shouldnt exist, and now you can't get out of.
It's even worse that males will never return the favor and peacock, for us. How fucking ugly they are is more than just an insult, it leaves women numb and pretending all their lives. You just forget what real attraction even is. Forever, while men do not. Men dont bother and then entitle themselves to young women, who mostly reject them. But the harrassment continues. And that is just disgusting.
Theyll try to brainwash you that men are the ones that are visual but really theyre just feral pigs who dont know how to live with what they've always gotten for free. Of course theyll fucking throw a tantrum. Gee why do you think that is?? Gee why wont men ever return performance femininity and only shun it?? Because they think vioence, is the only truth, not love. If they lose to women theyll be "dead" (wow another tantrum and another lie). So it was a manipilation tactic from the start? Hurdur you think?? Its just stupid as hell to accept men the way they are. Just assuming and taking advantage of all these "anti-femininity" psychological powers you're taught to avoid. Which you're not only punished for, you even become biased against like a dumbass pickme who never gave one second of thought to how she got to where she is.
It doesn't matter if there are some okay men, if you have to live with the filth they spread in the rest of the world. I dont want a descent guy … if i also have to live without abortion, in the same society that has human sex trafficking.
That "descent" guy is just as easily a mofo liar using you while he can.
Before you even get to Mr. decent though, you had to weed through tons of rotten ones to find him. a
Another reason it's just depraved, dangerous, demented, and insulting af to signal to other women this is the ideal way to exist when its a towering joke on you.
No matter how you look at it you always lose with feminity because men never return it, when they're encouraged too be ugly parasitic, opportunistic assholes. It doesn't matter how pretty you are, you still get treated like garbage and are semi-paraded through life like a clown. Especially by men. Gee why do you think? What is the true reason men treat women like a joke? Because the joke is on them. They're performing femininity while men are not. That is the be all end all truth of it, that goes down to the bone. It's the source of all problems women have ever had. Femininity is for clowns and men know it.
I'll accept femininity in a world where men return it in equal measures and take what they dish out sexually. But until then they're just extremly indulgent, extremely spoiled liars
