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Red flagging every damn thing Anonymous 04/26/23 (Wed) 09:50:14 PM229957

I can't tell if it's gotten worse.. if anything really changed or if something that used to happen just has a new name.

I understand being judgemental of scrotes if theyre being overbearing or threatening.

I just hate how women, especially, can't have more fun. Skip the tedious bullshit, miniscule hangups. Laugh, drink forget everything, enjoy each other. Why do i accidentally run into draining af tedious women all the time in my life?

Its everywhere in stupid ridiculous forms. The hobby of a person or the video game they will or won't play.. offline, online.. dress, appearance tastes, social media or no social media. Every detail about a womans life is going to be nitpicked to death,especially. People just pretend like this doesnt happen now. Why do women want other women to be miseable ? I know i asked this a bunch before somwwhere else i just never get a satisfying answer. It just comes right the f back to every woman and hits her in the face. If a person's going to redflag someone because they're sick of social media.. what else are they nauseating about? I question this kind of personality and their drain on my energy. I wonder if people have really discussed braindead female redflagging and if it makes the female experience just absolutely hellish for MOST of us. So why even do it at all?

Anonymous 04/27/23 (Thu) 03:18:26 AM229988

>>229957
People that use buzzwords irl are my red flag. If you say red flag out loud or talk about reddit tier shit like "vulnerable narcissism" or "gaslighting" or "emotional labor" or use any kind of internet lingo like Chad or incel it's over…

Anonymous 04/27/23 (Thu) 05:52:06 AM230002

>>229988
Men gaslight them, and use women for emotional labor. They aren't internet buzzwords, genius.

Anonymous 04/27/23 (Thu) 06:12:18 AM230005

>>230002
yeah but if a man says any of those words out loud, in real life, to my face, I'm never talking to them again.

Anonymous 04/27/23 (Thu) 11:33:53 AM230033

>>230005
What kind of guy asks a person to do emotional labor for them directly ? Lol

Anonymous 04/29/23 (Sat) 07:53:41 AM230279

>>229957
human nature. look at how women and men act when put in a stressful situation together, we'll use army boot camp as an example.
When beginning as recruits, the men's nature is to be violently competitive against eachother, and as a result they get broken down, and built back as a team. because the whole point of basic training is to ingrain into you that working together as a team is a better way to not fucking die.
When beginning as recruits, the women's on the other hand is to help eachother, and come together as one little "tribe" (for lack of a better word). once they get comfortable with each other, and shit starts to get rough, they start the infighting and start sabotaging eachother and other petty bullshit. any drill sgt will confirm exactly that for both men and women. they way we interract socially is influenced so much by the 2 billion years of evolution preceding us, and men and women have different traits to fit the different roles we've filled throughout that last 2 billion years. it's just survival

Anonymous 04/29/23 (Sat) 10:56:20 AM230287

>>230279
No it isn't. Nitpicking mindnumbing details isn't survival in any place. Survival is functioning harmoniously together. What you're describing in women is just stupid maladaptive chaos that breaks down the function of the group.

Anonymous 04/29/23 (Sat) 01:26:44 PM230296

>>229957
You're not wrong op, it's stupid. But the more they do it, the more it comes across as failed socialization. Some do kt more than others.

Anonymous 04/30/23 (Sun) 02:17:32 AM230384

>>230287
surviving is doing whatever it takes to not die. let me put it to you this way, if a cavewoman who didn't know any better went to eat some plant from the ground, and anothercavewoman tried to stop her because her "nitpicking of mindnumbing details" picked up that that plant was poisonous as shit, the cavewoman wouldn't die.

and besides, i'm not nitpicking over bullshit, i'm pointing out the two vastly different ways that men and women interact socially when left to their own devices. men and women are vastly different from a sociological perspective.

Anonymous 04/30/23 (Sun) 05:24:14 AM230393

>>230384
Anon that isn't a mindnumbing pointless detail, it's a poisonous plant. Why wouldn't you say something ?

OP alot of women are just socialized to act more retarded 'because that's how women are' they don't think about it. Especially when they're young and entitled and think it won't come back around to them.

I feel like 99% of retarded women like that are just young and haven't given thought to how they were socialized like rats.

Women and men aren't sociologically different. That's also fucking ridiculous. They're mimicking and passing on behavior, they just saw imposed on them. Usually this kind of woman is about two braincells away from brain damaged.

Anonymous 04/30/23 (Sun) 05:42:53 AM230394

>>230279
>they start the infighting and start sabotaging eachother
this example real or madeup? do women actually?

Anonymous 05/09/23 (Tue) 03:18:55 PM231751

Honestly I do a lot of redflagging but that's because there are usually so many guys interested in me, I simply do not know how to select the worthy ones.

Anonymous 05/09/23 (Tue) 05:04:25 PM231753

>>230279
>>230287
>>230394
I've never actually witnessed the infighting, passive aggression, and sabotage people stereotype women's relationships as experiencing even though all of my close friends have only ever been women. I'd imagine that when this does occur, it's typically over male attention and is the product of patriarchal socialization that prompts some women to be pick-mes (i.e. isn't innate or biological). I do think women are less inclined to be competitive than men, and I don't think the fact that that's a virtue implies they need to suffer from some kind of innate woman-specific vice to balance things out - maybe women are just objectively better. I mean, 90+% of rapists and murderers are men for a reason.