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Is there a discord server? Anonymous 255437
I would really like friends, lost a close friend and I'm really lonely, does anyone here run a small/private discord? I just want to have friends to play video games with and show my drawings and crochet work n stuff
Anonymous 255438
Hi! I'd be happy to chat and play with you. I only play small, cozy games tho but I'm happy to play anything. I do embroidery so we could exchange on that as well. Its risky to exchange info directly tho because raids and stuff, but I have a throwaway email, if you have one too you can email me your discord. Or we can exchange first in a game. Less risky and I don't think it would break the rules if it's through something else.
I'd suggest joining crochet and embroidery servers btw! If you're on Pixel Stitch or Cross Stitch Chat you can find me there (my user begins by Scar and I have a fox pfp)
Anonymous 255439>>255440>>255442>>255564
when splaton 3 comes out next friday lets form our own CC clan (i think they let you use hashtags now too in the game to find specific people who use the same tags)
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>>255439What should we use, #CrystalCafe?
Anonymous 255441>>255458
>>255437I found my friends playing tabletop roleplay games.
I think those type of games allow you to quickly understand if those people are good to be around or not and it gives you an excuse to stay in contact if they are.
Discord doesn't really work for me, friendships made there always end up going south, no matter how great they seem at first.
Anonymous 255442>>255443
>>255439Ty for the carry nonas
Anonymous 255443
>>255442i think im going to make a thread on #media on release day specifically for it
Anonymous 255444>>255446
>>255437i'd love a discord server too, even though i prefer lurking
Anonymous 255445>>255446
>>255437would also be really interested in a discord! literally everywhere else i frequent online is super male-dominated and i'd love a small female only community
Anonymous 255446
>>255445>>255444Same! I'll probably be too anxious to talk (can voicecheck though) but i'd love to just have a comfy discord server with you all. The lolcow one was… not my thing. Perhaps a discord server would be a little bit more active than CC too because people are often on discord and the small talk makes it easier to talk more! I'd really love that but i'm too dumb to make a good server
Anonymous 255448>>255450
I would say face cam + ID (name etc censored obviously) + a hand sign.
I don't have the switch personally. Maybe we could first find an online chat to exchange our usernames? Before making a server we could have a private conversation and VC first.
Anonymous 255449
Tbh i think I'll make a new throwaway email with protonmail dedicated to exchanging discord users so we can build really slow
Anonymous 255450>>255451
>>255448I'd also like to join, but this seems excessive. A sufficiently dedicated moid will find a way in no matter what, the only thing this will do is scare away the more privacy-minded among us.
Maybe just do basic voice verification to get rid of generic trolls and combine that with a rank system that gives only active, trusted users with good status access to more sensitive channels. Creating a believable (!) female persona with matching post history and all is much harder for your average moid than bypassing voice or image verification.
Moid presence can never be ruled out completely in online spaces, it's best to keep that in mind and not let verification systems lull you into a false sense of security.
Anonymous 255451
>>255450true tbh, i got paranoid because i remember my experience on some girl only servers but you're right. if we keep it a rather small server anyway it will be fine
Anonymous 255452
So here's the email I created:
hellocrystalcafe@proton.me
if you'd like to add each other on discord please contact me here and I'll make a group when we're at least 3, then we can think about creating a server
Anonymous 255453
its very fast to create a proton mail account btw and you're not forced to put another email or a phone number to create it, so if you feel uncomfortable sending an email with your personal one you can just create a throwaway like i did for that.
Anonymous 255454>>255455
Would love to chat with some of you but I strictly refuse to do voice chats.
Anonymous 255455
>>255454I do understand that some people don't like voice chats but it would be too easy for men and trannies to invade our space if we don't do basic validation… Birth certificates and stuff would be too easy to fake
Anonymous 255456
The neck pic with timestamp is a very good idea tbh!
I've sent some discord friend invited, I'll see my mails tomorrow for the ones who sent me one tonight.
I'll create a friend DM groupe first like I said to some and I'll send an invite in private when "proof of woman".
Anonymous 255457
So who's discord group is this that decided to flood this slow site here at this specific time
Anonymous 255458>>255459
My friend group is falling apart, this one girl who I felt was so alike me but whatever I guess. Trying my luck with reconnecting to old friends but it's hard.
I also prefer group chats to meet people. I was hoping to meet people via an MMO/any multiplayer game but it's rare that you click with them outside of that specific game as well
>>255441I heard so many positive stories about D&D I'm tempted to give it another go after my last first time ever session lasted literally one round.
Is there a specific website you recommend? How did you meet your current group.
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>>255458I didn't really "find" my group, rather from various different ones I found differently people and we stuck together in the long run.
It started on skype of all places but now we are all settled with Roll20 for games and discord for OOC.
I feel roleplay is the best way because it's a social game so people's shittiness surfaces almost right away and it's easier to be on talking terms with others if you do enjoy their presence, since if you have chit chats IC (in character) then you can easily have chit chats OOC (out of character).
Roll20 has a section for "Looking for Players" so it's easy to apply to anything.
I'm not saying it's easier to find friends though, just that it's a faster screening process… if you don't like tabletops though I wouldn't recommend it.
If you want to try otherwise there's lots of newbie friendly games setup!
Anonymous 255460>>255566
discord server update: its created and under building.
for the ones who wanna join, the mail contact works fine, you can ask me to add you on discord by writing me there :
hellocrystalcafe@proton.me
Anonymous 255461>>255462>>255507
DISCORD UPDATE
it's building with time!
so, just to clarify things:
i only send invites through discord DMs because i make temporary invites (1 use max) to avoid leaks
there is verification once you join the discord with voice chat, you can speak in any language, just 1-2 sentences are enough for now. if voice chat is impossible we can discuss that.
if you feel unsure or unsafe before joining, i can voice chat with you in private and i'll be the only one talking. verification will happen either way though, sooner or later.
thanks!
hellocrystalcafe@proton.me
Anonymous 255463>>255464>>255465>>255466
So what was up with with this discord thing, never heard anything back. Considering all the apparent weird deleted posts here, I wonder if the email was just some moid trying to get usernames and pics from us.
Anonymous 255464
>>255463???? i email everyone back and add everyone who gave me their user! we're almost 20 on the discord already. check your emails or send back one. i'm sorry if I missed your mail, maybe i read it and forgot to reply. the deleted posts weren't mine, i didnt even see what those posts were.
Anonymous 255465
>>255463also i ONLY give invites through DMs, if you asked me to send you one through mail its normal i didnt send it to you but i always reply to people and tell them to add me on discord so i can invite them.
Anonymous 255466>>255467
>>255463and i have a rule about pics. verification is through voice chat preferably, pics are only the neck and only if YOU completely refuse to voice chat. this is for safety, because if i dont verify people males can enter the discord.
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>>255466>only the neckI get it.
Anonymous 255468>>255469
>>255467Lol
Not sure if it was a sarcastic response?
Anonymous 255469
>>255468trannies don't pass, essentially
Anonymous 255470
I already know this is probably going to be a shitfest in the end, but I'm so devoid of female friendships that I might give it a try.
Anonymous 255471>>255473>>255478>>255480
hi,
received and responded to the emails.
btw as i told the girls who contacted me i wont be available for verification in the next few days (its temporary) and i may be less fast to reply to mails and send invites but someone else has the power to verify and give you roles in my place.
we're about 30 now :) lots of artists and nerdy girls, its very comfy! hope more of us join. thanks
Anonymous 255472
I'm in a comfy discord with women from all around the world, including the cat painter. It's creative hobby oriented, with no drama or negativity.
Anonymous 255473
>>255471just emailed! Can't wait!! Thanks for making the disc and making sure it's troon free lol
Anonymous 255474
>>255437I’ll join later! Have to make a throwaway email.
Anonymous 255475
emailed!
Anonymous 255476
anyone got a link to lc dc?
Anonymous 255477
just emailed too!
Anonymous 255478>>255479
>>255471How can I get the email?
Anonymous 255479
>>255478it's in the thread
Anonymous 255480>>255481
Been waiting awhile, someone probably this poster
>>255471 added me on discord but they're never online. Could I get someone else send me an invite?
Anonymous 255481
>>255480Hey, the owner is currently between hospitals or something atm so someone else is verifying members who get in. Give it a day or so and you'll be given the invite and verified :)
Anonymous 255482>>255483
We need more fujo femcel neet representation in server
Anonymous 255483
>>255482Be the change you want to see
Anonymous 255484>>255485
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what do you guys talk about on the server besides yaoi and if I join will i be the decrepit elder as a person in their late 20s
Anonymous 255485
>>255484The majority of members are 20+ dw nona :D
Anonymous 255486
Sent an email too.
Anonymous 255487
just sent an email !
Anonymous 255489
Hiii I've sent an email, hopefully im not too late to the party and you guys are still vcing?
Anonymous 255490
Just sent an e-mail as well!
Anonymous 255491
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Hiii
Just responded to the mails sorry. We still accept members yes. :)
Anonymous 255492>>255493>>255494>>255495>>255496>>255497>>255500>>255501>>255504>>255505>>255517
discord update
responded to the recent mails. sorry i dont look at them as often because i dont receive as many as i used to and i was busy.
Anonymous 255493
>>255492hi i sent u an email :)
Anonymous 255497>>255498
>>255492i sent an email too.i dont want to use my real discord but my burner is throwaway#6638
Anonymous 255498>>255499
>>255497guys i dont want to spreed mistrust but one minute after this post theres was a moid raid in the no bf thread and he was promoting his server scrotes as boyfriends something like that. im not saying this anon is a moid but be careful when add strangers from there
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>>255498yeah I get the mistrust, but I wasn't looking for random adds from random people. I sent a mail to the burner email the one nona made to be added to the server (hellocrystalcafe@proton.me ), but I never received a message back. I sent that email my real discord as well. throwaway is just a fake or w/ever in case the server anon sees it here instead. I get what you mean about the raids. I saw some gross shit in /b/ that stayed up for fucking hours.
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>>255499ohh the one from the discord server said that she dont look at the recent emails often
>>255492 so maybe it will take some time before they add you. still take care nona!! even in a "female" space there are some weirdos.
Anonymous 255501
>>255492Hi I sent you an email!
Anonymous 255502>>255503
just to bump this thread i also sent an email :)
Anonymous 255503
Also sent an email. Thanks for the bump
>>255502 I didn't know there was a server
hellocrystalcafe 255506
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checked my emails today and responsed to everyone! i sent you an invite directly by mail to the verification discord as we dont do verifications on the cc discord now, but i also sent you a friend request. please check your mails for the invite, i wont send it by dm if you see my friend request first unless you cant use the invite to avoid making too many links!
sorry for the wait, i was busy and i also had to wait for security measures. thanks a lot.
Anonymous 255507>>255510
>>255461Wish more miners from the US joined the server.
Anonymous 255508>>255509>>255510
>>255437I wish I could join but big groups of people scare me.
Anonymous 255509>>255510
>>255508I am in the discord and I can say 100% that it is a cool bunch of girls from all different backgrounds and they were super welcoming to me.
hellocrystalcafe 255510>>255511>>255512>>255514>>255515>>255518
>>255507Why, for meet ups? We do have members from the US but it's just so big that many come from different states.
>>2357We were suspicious of one person trying to get in because of the voice but could'nt really tell. Didn't matter because female or not something else about her seemed shady so we didn't let her in.
One XY tried when I founded the discord though but it was obvious (male name he didn't bother to change, pepe profile picture, very moid bio status, very moid writing, refused to voice chat). It was funny because he tried to trigger us with antisemitic jokes and stats about black men, except that I don't care, it's not even forbidden in the rules as long as it doesn't create drama. I like american free speech, I don't like bitchy people. We think he was some 14yo edgy r9k boy because he genuinely believed I thought he was female and kept going with his memes acting like he "owned" us despite us not being offended. Ben Shapiro from walmart.
>>255508We're a little bigger than I expected but it's very chill and slow, you can get in and see if it works for you, no pressure. I only filter out inactive people once i a while to avoid "spying".
>>255509Thank you :)
Anonymous 255512>>255513
>>255510hi there! i got added back in october but couldn't find an invite or friend req… the only friend requests i had at the time were from moids (in their profile pics). Should I email again? ty <3
hellocrystalcafe 255513
>>255512Hello, yes don't feel shy and send an email again if you didn't receive a response or couldn't find any request or invite! You can just specify it in your mail or tell me about it in vc just so I know you reached out before. thanks for asking :)
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Anonymous 255515>>255516
>>255510I'd maybe be interested in joining but I'm not sure how many other miners would be a similar age to me (late 20s)? Also wondering what channels you have and what sort of stuff is often talked about?
Anonymous 255516
>>255515We have quite a few late 20s and 30s nonas. We have channels for essential media/hobbies and ones for more personal stuff, I'm sure you will find what you like to talk about there. It's a women's space, free of political correctness so you can complain about anything as long as you don't attack other users.
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hellocrystalcafe 255519>>255520>>255522>>255524
discord update!
its getting more active :) thanks for joining
i responded to emails today, please check.
i always add you when you give me your tag by mail so if i didnt thats because it didnt work. please don't wait for my friend request, check your mails and if you can't find a reply send a mail again!
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>>255519I didn't get added! But I emailed you again!
Anonymous 255523
Just saw this and sent an email
Anonymous 255526
Is this still active? :')
sent an email
Anonymous 255527>>255528>>255529
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Heyo, seriously asking if this discord thing is still somehow active? anyone withing the server can confirm this?
If the answer is no I intend to make a new server myself using the same proton method, I'll wait for responses but if I get none I'll probably do it this week.
How many nonas are still interested in the idea?
Anonymous 255528>>255530
>>255527Where'd you get that Dostoevsky fanart from?
Anonymous 255529>>255530
>>255527Hey, yes, the discord server is quite active! If you sent an e-mail, please be patient ^^
Anonymous 255530
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>>255528Pinterest ofc but the artist is from Tumblr
>>255529Alright Perfect!, I already sent an E-Mail so I'll just wsit for it
Anonymous 255531
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I emailed couple days ago. can't wait to be accepted.
Anonymous 255532>>255533>>255534
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Sent an email. I remember the last time I visited CC there was a megathread for nona's to post their discord tags, describing themselves and what they wanted out of possible adds etc but now I can't find it. I know it definitely happened because I added a few from that thread that I still have on my account, I was coming back to find it to post myself due to having barely any female friends and wanting to put myself out there and make more. Did it get deleted or do I just suck at looking? I couldn't find it on /meta/ or on /b/. Searching CC + discord just gave me this thread and the thread about the now deleted CC discord server. Someone please tell me they know what I'm talking about.
Anonymous 255533>>255535
>>255532Hey did you find it?
Anonymous 255535
>>255533>>255534Yeah turns out it was an old friend finder thread that got deleted due to drama(?) or some kind of raid. The one that's currently up is too new to have been the one I was thinking of, and it had a note from the admin saying they won't delete posts so be careful about posting your tag. I remember that's what stopped me from posting there originally.
Anonymous 255536
sent an email a couple weeks ago and no response, is the server still active?
hellocrystalcafe 255549
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Hi, I'm not sure why the discord is considered an inactive group here, but that's not really an issue.
if that's because we don't update much here well… Idk, this thread isn't the discord, ofc we're not chatting here.
Anyway, I would like to say sorry again for the late replies and updates. I function slowly and chill. Also, I was busy with uni, family and health issues.
I would like to make it official now that I prefer to keep the discord about 100 members. I've set free a few spots today so I'm sending about 10 mails and sending friend requets. I prioritized the ones who gave me their discord tag but I reply to the oldest mails as they have waited the longest.
which is why I'm happy to see there's a second group. I'd suggest giving priority to women who aren't from our discord so everyone can have a spot in at least one female only chatgroup.
i'm not finished checking inactive members so more spots may be free later. thank you
hellocrystalcafe 255550>>255557
i finished sending mails/friend requests. please check.
there's a few people i didnt reply to because something felt off.
discord is now closed, you can still send emails of course but i wont reply unless there's open spots
thank you
Anonymous 255557
>>255550Heya if you could recheck the email I sent back to you and reinvite me? I had a really dumb moment and didn't realize who the request was from. If you check the email reply you'll know who I am hopefully
Anonymous 255564>>255565
>>255439I want cc sploon 3 friends….
Anonymous 255565
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>>255564same, i just joined a group with a bunch of moids too.. id rather be with cc ladies
Anonymous 255566
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>>255460Hi!! could i join? my email is riricool@proton.me
Anonymous 255567
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I haven’t joined the servers yet but this new voice message update will possibly help aid yall in sniffing out moids
Anonymous 255568
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if its still open, i would love to be invited ! my email is piuruirui@gmail.com
Anonymous 255569>>255570
Are the discord servers in this thread still active? I want to join.
Anonymous 255570
>>255569Yes, there's only one though.
Anonymous 255571
If its still up could I join too? I really would like some friends. here is my email signups628@protonmail.com
Anonymous 255572
I'd like an invite to the cc discord pls. dokurochann@proton.me i'll give verification im not a moid too
Anonymous 255573
If anyone has any server, my email is diffdaffdoff@proton.me. Don't mind doing verification (:
Anonymous 255574>>255575
Hi could I get an invite to the LC discord please? My email is eggoverrice@proton.me
I'll do verification too! Thank you!
Anonymous 255575>>255576>>255577
no one who asks for invite itt will get it. you have to find the email and send a message.
>>255574this is not a thread for LC discord.
Anonymous 255576
>>255575oh okay, got it sorry
Anonymous 255577
>>255575oh ok lol sorry. sent it. I think its the right email.
hellocrystalcafe 255579
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Hi, I'm inviting people again, please check your mails!
during verification admins talk too because well its obviously easier to do this way and because thats fair. admins were obviously verified members by me.
everyone from the disc knows my voice and my french accent :) but if you have lots of doubts i can also put on my cam. i don't show face though for safety issues (4chan or soyjak trolls)
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