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>>267209
>Femanons, would you date a man
No.

>>267209
hey, at least you have the supplier at the end of the day

>>267209
I never understood men who donate sperm. Like maybe it's some weird fantasy about spreading their seed but it's weird and you're bf is weird tbh

>>267214
I found his reasoning off putting too as I myself never felt any desire to spread my genetics.

>>267215
This is a retarded reason IMO. I couldn’t date a man who donated sperm because I will only date someone who I plan to eventually marry and I would view any of his children has being mine in a way, as if he were denying me the ability to meet members of our own family because he just didn’t care enough about them as individuals. That’s the type of thing that would keep me up at night.

>>267214
In Australia the government encourages young healthy men to donate sperm.
It's actually a good idea from a population growth perspective.
They also do genetic tests on your sperm so the women can pick what things she wants and they can see background information on the guy.
So for example, if he's a phd or an athlete that is information that is available.

Without going through the process of trying to find the perfect partner you can pick the best quality sperm to have a kid. I mean, there's still a problem of your genetics that are likely bad if you're on here, but hey at least there's sometimes 50% chance there'll be decent genetics.

Not sure why anyone on here would be against this as it's female empowerment to the max.

I could understand if it was a close family member or friend that couldn't conceive.

But a guy just sending his dna to who knows what. To treat his kids who knows how. I'd say is a red flag.

>femanons
stop

Hell no.

>>268329
>>268334
>>268340
>>268341
>Whinges about men and tfw no bf
>Option exists where you can have a gf and a perfect child if you want
>NO NO I WANT MY SHIT TIER REATRDED OVERWEIGHT BF
Most of you are actually lesbian and you're not willing to accept it. It's like how most incels are gay and haven't transitioned yet.
You can be with the girl of your dreams and have perfect kids.

>>268360
What the fuck are you talking about.

>>268361
Get a gf and have perfect children by selecting which seed you want.
I'm sick of seeing people complain about men or women when the solution is right in front of them.

>>268360
Bad recrooting attempt

>>268360
no one here is interested in your vagina

>>267215
>I myself never felt any desire to spread my genetics
Can see why that's a redflag for you
Assuming he doesn't get to know what happens with his sperm, can't say I care.

OP here, I'm extremely stressed over this dilemma, it keeps me up at night. What should I do? I know I will never be able to 100% accept his past. Should I break up with him over this?

>>268415
If it's bothering you this much now, it's going to gnaw at you more as time goes on.

>>268415
yeah you should leave him scrotes like this are evil

>>268415
Haha he's going to be very confused

>>267209
>I'm still extremely uncomfortable

what do you mean "still"? how long have you just been mulling over this?

nona, do yourself a favour and just fucking tell your moid how you feel, be an adult. if after the talk, you don't feel any better, then it isnt for you, dont drag it on in fear

My bf and I are both virgins. He told me he gave two girls oral sex before, which I didn’t mind about. However he implied that both these girls were virgins at the time. He didn’t tell me that one of the girls was a random woman he met in a bar while drunk. He said the day after eating her pussy, he got a really bad sore throat, got a fever, sick etc. He had to go to the dr and get antibiotics. I’m assuming he must have caught some kind of oral STD from her but he says it got treated and he’s fine now. But I’m kind of scared now that he might still have the STD bad transmit it to me? I’m very freaked out about sexual hygiene and have a fear of contracting stds. I’m kind of pissed that he hid this from me until now. Am I overreacting?

>>273059
Just ask him to get tested. If he believes he's clean it should be no big deal.

>>273059
>oral sex
He's not a virgin then

>>273059
>her moid sucked on a strangers pussy and got STDs
Oh gods why are you still with him

>>273059
>a random woman he met in a bar while drunk
He's a slut

>>268360
basado…

>>273059
I hope you’ve never kissed this slut’s mouth

>>273059
>random woman he met in a bar while drunk
>thinks he's actually a virgin
are you retarded

>>268360
based tbh
its insane how so many nonas here continue to hate on men and swear to never date/touch them and yet keep crying about them in some form or another

its seriously giving huge r9kcel energy when they can just take the lespill and be happy. when i first went out with my gf i did it out of antimoid spite, was skeptical about it long term and didn’t want to do anything sexual with her. 3 years later were now talking of being married.

even if you think you will never do anything sexual with another woman, its okay! honestly my first year or so with my gf was entirely non sexual, and it was still amazing. being so affectionate and vulnerable with another individual who you know will never see you as just another hole to coom inside was honestly liberating. intimate companionships with another woman is insanely underrated and idk why more women don’t engage in this.

>>273741
Imagine being so misandrist to the point that you become a dyke.

>>273742
the post you're replying to is mocking misandry though?

>>273742
God I love that for her.

Yeah. He'd given up on dating before I met him and his lifelong lesbian friend asked him to so she and her wife could have kids. I can understand why she asked and he agreed, but I'd honestly feel more comfortable if he'd just donated anonymously. It's a little weird being around his daughter, but she does let me get a look into the future and provides yet more proof of how good as a dad he'll be. After seeing this thread I asked if he'd considered donating anonymously, and while he had as a sort of biological imperative reflex, when he found out there's an excess of donors he decided not to.

>>273742
Is being a dyke something bad though?

>>273741
>intimate companionships with another woman is insanely underrated and idk why more women don’t engage in this
any nonas want to be intimate companions with me?

>>267209
>>268415
>>273059
>>273753
Honestly as someone who would be affected by knowing that my partner has donated his sperm I always ask that early on during the dating phase. More women should be aware of their partner’s past, if body count is important to you, sperm donation should be too.

>>273741
What do you even identify as now? Straight? Bi? Asexual Lesbian?