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Anonymous 300646

Anybody else pathologically can't read/write smut or even just esex? Sex is cringe enough, spelling it out in words makes it even worse for me. I only read manga smut skipping over any of dialogue that may have words "cock/pussy/fuck" in it. I feel like an incomplete woman because of that because all women I know prefer to read about sex and have been esexing with dudes since they were like 14.

Anonymous 300685

I played an ero rpg and just kinda skipped those scenes because i was more interested in the story

Anonymous 300686

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Does anyone read these types of books anymore, or is it just Gen X women?

Anonymous 300696

You really need to find better hobbies and stop lurking chansites so you can get better friends

Anonymous 300888

>>300646
>sex is cringe
>cock/pussy/fuck
>esexting with dudes
you're a lesbian, asexual, or traumatized
>>300685
those scenes are part of the stories. they're interactions between the characters that can reveal stuff about their personality and relationships
>>300686
those books suck

Anonymous 300902

>>300686
They should make books like this but they're about sexy elf twink mages being bullied by warrior women

Anonymous 300910

no i can't do it at all lmao sex is cringe as hell just let me do what i need to do

Anonymous 300912

>>300686
I used to read these a lot, they aren’t good at all lmao but they serve as fun wish fulfillment I guess

Anonymous 305585

>>300888
I am none of those. I enjoy actual action of sex, in the moment the physical pleasure of it allows me to ignore the cringiness of the context. But talking about it is still super giga cringe. Sex literally has no other purpose than skin-to-skin contact, talking about it feels stupid.

Anonymous 305600

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yes, i've never encountered someone who feels the same and isnt just trying to appear "normal" lol

Anonymous 305654

>>305600
What do you mean by normal. Normal is esexting, not doing it is what riles people up and they assume you are some religious fanatic.

Anonymous 306992

A lot of it is extremely cringy, but you have to find authors you genuinely like. Also, it takes a bit of suspending disbelief. You kinda also have to be horny before you read it, not read it in order to get horny. Otherwise, it's extremely cringe, kinda how you feel embarrassed after realizing what you just jilled to. Admittedly, I don't read fics as much as I used to (mostly because I can't find suitable topics to read about), but if you just act selfish for a little while, it's actually okay-ish. It's probably more important to find specific fetishes or situations you like, than focusing on a certain character.

>>300686
It's just Gen X and boomer women with cringe fantasies and probably distant husbands. Who would genuinely want to read that stupid fantasy 50 shades of gray/Colleen Hoover type of shit. Literally none of it is even remotely appealing. The average 20-year-old author on Tumblr can write better smut than that.

>>305585
Sex and or/sexual stimulation is not actually that pleasurable outside the emotional content. If sex were just about physical pleasure, you might as well just buy a toy. There's a lot more social and emotional nuances which go into it that really drive it beyond. Sex is actually a whole world in and of itself, there are almost a million things stupid human beings can do in terms of sexuality, the dynamics of it and so on. It's also one of the defining aspects of human relationships.

Anonymous 307449

>>306992
> If sex were just about physical pleasure, you might as well just buy a toy.
The physical pleasure that is only possible through skin contact. Does chemistry or something. It is not comparable to masturbation even without social context.

Anonymous 307451

I love smut. But I never want to actually have sex. I love masturbation and it is enough for me.

Anonymous 307458

>>307449
idk, ive had better times jacking off over sex, literally got a toy and it felt like "the real thing" and only used it once

Anonymous 307464

I can read it but writing it is cringe, because you quickly realize theres only so many artful ways you can describe the acts and you basically just fall into all the usual cliches, aka lots of growling, pumping and billowing/flush

Anonymous 307472

>>307458
Then you dont like sex, I dont see your point in this comparison. Completely different things. Masturbation is not "demo version" of sex.

Anonymous 307482

>>300646
i only like the idea of sex, like i'll imagine a perfect man and think about him and all kinds of scenarios when masturbating and i love it and it feels good yeah, my alone time is great and my orgasms are thunderous, but besides that i hate everything related to sex. i hate the actual act and every time i had the chance to do it i'd refuse in the last minute because i felt this deep seated disgust and "nah, he isnt the one" (so im still a virgin), i hate seeing it on movies and series, i hate porn be it real or drawn, i hate reading it, i hate when it's implied, i hate sex jokes, i even feel disgust when seeing pregnant women or with young kids because what they did to get there was nasty. the only time it's ok is when it's on my mind and with this imaginary dude who's kinda like my made up husband atp, then everything's off limit and valid and i become a mental slut, but outside that i fucking hate sex.

Anonymous 307507

>>307482
I can sorta understand this predicament as you know, a former virgin. Having actual sex sorta fixed it in a sense that I dont think real sex is a big deal anymore. But I still dislike well…As you put it, idea of sex. You kinda dont think about it in the moment since the physical sensation is so overwhelming. But when sex is mentioned in words, given a mental space, I find it unsettling.



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