/b/ - Random

Really depends. I tend to dislike a lot of normies not on principle but their behavior. The groupthink. Enabling people in friend groups even if they're clearly shitty to people outside your friend group. Lack of critical thinking. A lot of hypocrisy. Outside of that, I don't much mind nor care.

I don't hate normies, I would prefer to be a normie.

I prefer normies than incel men who sadly are kind of our counterparts. So not that bad

>>308912
I hate normalfags.. They're always so smug and rude and they try to laugh everything off.

i love normies. there's many at university and they're nice

I hate them but they are no different to the 'non normies' to me because I am extremely autistic

Normies are mostly unable to reach understanding when it comes to address them with deep ironic humor, are used to join friends groups, even if they dislike it’s members, just for futile loneliness avoiding; show high levels of hyprocrisy, struggle for mantaining social status, even if it implies utterly unethical conducts towards other people; are low IQ individuals on average and their entire identity is thoroughly based on personal image and appearances. Neither deep feelings capabilties nor ambitions, rare interests or frustrations.

A few years ago I radically un-onlined myself and went out into the world, my first new friend I made was someone who didn't use the internet at all and didn't even have a smartphone and it was such a welcome opportunity to reconfigure myself, how I spoke, how to spend 'lazy hangout' time without screens… I really appreciate not having to listen to sperging about this or that influencer and parroting memes and adopting new lingo every week. There's a whole other level of vanity (or lack thereof) and reset how I viewed beauty in myself and others when there's no internet to present to.

Aside from that… normies are chill in a lot of ways. They don't micro-categorise and pathologise everything they/you do, they don't parade a million illnesses around, and I didn't have to be paranoid about all the messy and vindictive drama that comes with befriending niche internet weirdos. In real life, people fight and have falling outs and then that's it. You rarely gain multiple year long stalkers or find vague posts about yourself.

Of course there are many ways in which normies don't live up to people I've met on here and similar communities. There's a deep understanding of a shared experience that no matter how hard I try to explain it to others (sometimes I talk to them about my "old life" and they're curious but puzzled) it's just something you had to experience for yourself.

>>308912
"People seem to be normal til you get to know them".
It's just that particular types of people attract eachother, online communities just make it more apparent
"Birds of a feather flock together'
Normies only exist in our minds, people are just to diverse in real life simply because no two people had the same life experience that conditions their current perspective, I would say people are more similar than different when taken as a whole.

The normie is someone adapted to their social environment.
Sometimes they achieve that by sacrificing their identity, emotions, opinions, just to align to some stupid standard or fit in. That is pretty pathetic.
Sometimes this is a person who figured out a good compromise between themselves and the world and got both to cooperate. That is admirable.
In the end, the average pathetic normie secretly fails to understand why society the way it is. Why people are the way they are. They have the quality I hate the most - the inability to understand the suffering of a thoroughly broken person.
The second type probably will cause you have to live a life that isn't one dimensional to develop such a mind.

>>309071
the average human isn't a normie according to you?

normies are the reason we have subscription services for things we used to own.

If you were normie you wouldn't have an anime reaction pic ready to use.

They tend to be quite stubborn people, they are also usually very pretentious and prefer to satisfy their pleasures, instead of being deeply interested in something

Wish I wasn't the way I am. If I could be "normal", I absolutely would choose to be.
But I'm not. And I can't. So here I am.

All that matters to me is that normies make an attempt to understand. And if they don't understand, don't be fake about it. Just admit that you don't really get it and be more accepting of it anyway.
Don't tolerate abuse or anything, but be aware of people's feelings, even if you they don't make much sense to you.

The world is so damn difficult to navigate.

>>309075
Why don´t you get a job and a boyfrined, utterly broken person?

>>309100
I have these things but I don't understand what's the point of this gotcha. Cause they are broken, duh. Way to miss the point.

i never got along that well with other autistic people, the people i got along best with were always strongly connected to normalcy but sympathetic enough to my weirdness and socially competent enough that we could make it work. i really wish i could just be normal :|

>>308912
I judge on a per person basis.

Maybe no one trust cops anymore because the Stasi have decided to work for the elites now instead of respecting the Bill of Rights.