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>>310572
nothing makes me wish I was a man more than this. They have it so FUCKING EASY it makes me want to fucking die. No moid has ever felt the sting of accidentally being made to feel fat and it makes me rage.

>>310579
If you feel too fat… well… Loose weight?
As long as you are not anorexic I don't see what is your trouble. If you don't care about being fat, then be happy and if you do, then don't be fat.
I don't understand the issue.

>>310579
Overweight girls are sought after, heck even obese girls are sought after but less so. Same for fat guys as long as they've got charisma and confidence.

Why don't we pretend weight doesn't exist?

>>310598
health at every size is already a thing

>>310597
Absolutely nobody likes fat men and definitely not retarded obese men

>>310597

you are half right, namely the second half. The acceptance of fat women is a meme, men only want to be with fat women because they think it is easier to rape and manipulate us and get away with it. Men rape you twice as fast as they normally would when you are fat, and no one believes you (guess why?)

>>310601

https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/1411692/

>"married men were significantly fatter and more likely to be obese than never married or previously married men, even when demographic, social, and physical variables were controlled. By contrast, marital status was not significantly associated with fatness or obesity among women when other variables were controlled."

the data indicates this simply is not correct "nona", but nice try pushing this narrative that being a fat man isnt easier than being any woman. Men should all be fucking crushed by a hydraulic press

>>310604
A good majority of men get thin before marriage then balloon up because they think they have a free ride secured, the datum you posted supports that. Once in a marriage the woman feels trapped due to various factors like social stigma, religious stigma, and expected financial insecurity. Like any abusive relationship it's difficult to find the motivation to break it off, and believe me, being with an obese man is abusive, even if he's not physically abusive it takes a mental toll.

I'm not saying it's not easier, that's true, it is easier to be a fat and even obese man than a woman. I'm arguing that nobody likes them. Everything you hate about men is amplified. Their bodily functions, their stench, their greed, ect.

>>310604
that's funny considering how women getting fat after marriage used to be such a huge meme among boomers

>>310606
and im arguing that no woman divorced her husband for being fat, but every woman seems to be worried about the inverse. It feels like at least some people like fat men.

>>310609
i understand where you're coming from, nona. it really does feel that way when you put it in that light

>>310604
>Men rape you twice as fast as they normally would when you are fat
Wait, really? I was at my heaviest last year and lost 20kg, but gained like 9 back this year. Was really struggling to find motivation because I'll see shit about men being abusive or preying on women and my mind goes "Why would I want to lose weight and become pretty then, that'd only make me an easier target" so I forgo my diet again, even though I do want to lose weight. But if what you say is true then maybe I should, just so I don't look like someone they can take advantage of, or something, I don't know.

>>310684
It may be somewhat true. Abusers go for the vulnerable, which being fat is often a sign of. (lack of confidence, neuroticism, trauma, etc) Girls who were abused are both likelier to become fat and get abused again.

I am but it's not so bad, I've recently been losing some weight too so I'm even less fat but it's never been bad enough that it affects my movement or anything like that. It's not too hard to hide the belly, either.

Moved to >>>/hb/21988.