/b/ - Random

GOOD PLACE TO VENT. I WAS AT SA WORKSHOP AND ON MY SECOND WEEK ONE OF THESE FREAKS WAS THERE. I am sick to death of people pretending this is normal. I felt so horribly uncomfortable with a man in the room and i’m sure others did too. I have since switched the charity I used but I called this out in the circle and the weirdo started arguing with me, and nobody stuck up for me. Like I get the space is not about that and I don’t want to move the focus off helping eachother but jesus christ are you just going to sit there and pretend this is okay? I’m somewhere else now with an anti trans (women only) policy but the fact these people are snaking their way into spaces of vulnerable people is making my blood boil. I felt like screaming when it happened and I feel still like screaming because no doubt he’s still there with my old group. I feel powerless about it, I hate that this is a thing at all

>>311146
This is how I feel about talking openly about being a lesbian. I'm supposed to be inclusive toward these scum, I am expected to be talking about women and trannies if I ever mention I'm a lesbian. If I exclusively point out I only like vag, I get told neovags exist. If I say I like only biological woman, I get told I'm a bigot who needs therapy. THhere are no lesbian spaces ANYWHERE that can exist openly and freely and its fucking getting to me. I feel like both my teenage and most of my adult life (Im 24) has been robbed from me because when I was a teen I thought I was trans for being GNC while a lesbian, wasting my time in fear mongering spaces during the last few years where lesbians had their own spaces. Then when I became 18, it was too late. All spaces meant for homosexual women were taken over by pickmes and trannies.

I see men have spaces for themselves everywhere and its getting me, I would be lying if this shit didnt make me wanna start on a manifesto. I am tired of it. I am tired of it bleeding out into the real world to the point I literally cant escape it. They call us obsessed yet even though they colonized every space possible both online and offline, they still complain. They are fucking roaches. I am denied a community. I would rather live in a world back in the 1970s where everyone was homophobic than exist right now because at least the homophobes didn't wear my identity like a skinsuit and marginalize us in our own fucking community.

The whole concept in itself is absurd, I cant even watch a video about a pedophile with every textbook AGP behavior imaginable who used to a normal dude most of his life without the people bending backwards to use "she/her" pronouns because he calls himself a girl because it is quite literally a fetish, as he calls himself a lesbian too.

If I dont get with a woman sexually soon I am going to end up in prison with multiple life sentences. I just want a community. Even the people on here are mostly straight. I just want to express myself, my sexuality, freely. Its okay for these people to talk about literal incest and shit but God forbid a woman likes only other women in a sexual manner because both sides seem to fucking hate that. Fuck humanity.

>>311150
igy babe. it’s the obsessed thing that pisses me off the most about them. they aggressively and obnoxiously insert themselves into every space they can, totally overrun it and stop any criticism of themselves by bullying or outright hate until everyone is forced to play pretend. it’s not just that I find dudes in drag visually / socially gross, it’s how fastidious they are in invading and overtaking any fucking place online and now IRL. I mostly grew up on the internet in a lot of male dominated spaces and so I always had this attitude that I should not disparage all men but the freaky in your face bullying these people accomplish their fake acceptance with is just so masculine in the most intimidating and frustrating way possible. like how fucking dare you act like that, target me, target my spaces ON PURPOSE and then call me obsessed for not liking it. delusional evil fucking people.

I sympathise with your plight too. Until recently I have struggled forming friendships with other women and was always boxed out I felt when it came to having a sort of social web for support and i’ve been isolated. Idk if i’d call myself lesbian, but I have had a couple of strong infatuations toward other women before. It’s very hard to navigate and one of them I suppose I freaked out a bit and it sort of ruined our friendship. I don’t know how to navigate my feelings on it and it doesn’t help when half the spaces for lesbians are increasingly filled with men or other genres of gender non conforming whatevers. I sympathise with your frustration even if my situation isn’t exactly the same

https://www.reddit.com/r/transgenderUK/comments/1mi31s2/ms_apologises_over_trans_employee_in_bra/

Sorry if this is rage bait but look at the comments defending a tranny trying to fit a young girls bra at a supermarket. This infuriates me so much.