>>313604>How do u trust a man after seeing how men actI trust people based on vibes, resulting from their general demeanour, other people's responses and testimonies, their personal and political views, their emotional go-tos and habits, how intimidating they come across, the overall way they make me feel and so on.
I set the vibe check threshold for men higher and I never trust authorities that are alone in the same room with me with my safety, especially if they're men. In these cases, I try to have at least one other person present or at least nearby within hearing distance.
I also can't sleep well around new people, regardless of whether a friend "knows" them. If I miss my last train home, rather than sleeping over, I'll stay up until 5 am to catch the first train home. Idc if that "hurt that guy's feelings", my safety is more important to me and my boundaries are mine to set.
>relationshipsIf someone passes the vibe check, they're cool.
I've been lucky in this regard so far.