Anonymous 318889
What does being in love feel like after the honeymoon phase is over?
When you first meet someone that you click with, and have that connection, you can talk for hours. You remember everything about them, and they might do that for you. You miss them and can't stop thinking about them. You want to see them again. You try to think of things to share and talk about each other's lives. There's a lot of getting to know each other. Planning out adventures to have together.
But what do you do when you don't have much to talk about anymore, they're not interested in your day, you're the only one making effort, and they have more fun with other people? Is it just normal for people to grow close only to grow apart after a few weeks, months or years?
It seems like having kids, pets, hobbies or solo adventures are the only way to go after that.