cover2.jpg
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 04:54:43 PM 44115
Where the fuck do you meet men
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 05:35:03 PM 44116
Through friends.
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 05:46:51 PM 44117
>>44115 Why would anyone ever want to meet men?
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 06:42:01 PM 44119
>>44115 You need to get yourself into situations where you can meet new people, even if the only people you click with are girls that then opens you up to potentially meet their existing circle of friends which could contain some bf material
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 06:48:55 PM 44120
you don't because your social experience is far lacking compared to all of the others your own age and lower aged people of your same social level will see you as old and never talk to you
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 07:16:20 PM 44121
>>44120 Or she can meet someone in the same situation as her. Imageboards are full of this type, unfortunately.
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 07:41:17 PM 44124
>>44115 Just buy one at the man store.
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 11:04:38 PM 44147
They are everywhere. The hot ones? I don't know.
Anonymous 12/19/19 (Thu) 11:07:23 PM 44148
>>44121 I tired /soc once and very very very very very few of them are actual nice humans. Majority of them are asshats who want nudes. Even if it doesn't start that way, that's the ultimate goal for most. I gave up and deleted my discord and never went back on it. That was like a year ago.
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 12:32:49 AM 44151
>>44115 Card game tournaments and cosplay conventions.
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 07:20:02 AM 44158
>>44148 No shit soc is a terrible board. No decent man will go on it. There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan. Try smaller boards and don't add people on the premise of you being female. Add them on shared interests/hobbies and it may unfold with you getting a good man. Also avoid anime and videogames and the like as the interests. So-called 'Nerdy' people are shallow and childish.
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 12:41:33 PM 44164
>>44158 >There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan No, anon. No.
>So-called 'Nerdy' people are shallow and childish Then why would you want to find a guy in the nerd Mecca?
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 01:28:07 PM 44168
>>44157 The problem with the ones you meet there is that they care about diamonds more than they care about you. From experience :(
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 02:06:21 PM 44170
CmhgCPRVUAAP4UL.jp…
At your local library? (Don't listen to me; I haven't dated in nine years.)
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 05:14:37 PM 44186
>>44157 As far as I know, only little boys still play Minecraft. Do you have something to confess to us, anon?
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 06:05:05 PM 44189
>>44115 Depending on where you work you might meet one there. I dated a coworker for 2 months and he fucked a lot up for me and I had put in my 2 weeks. Another coworker convinced me to stay and try something different so I switched to 3rd shift and everything fell into place. Met the sweetest guy and we have been dating for 2 years now. Obviously this kind of thing doesnt happen everyday but if whatever you have going on everyday isnt working then try changing something up. I wouldnt recomment your job though, maybe a hobby. You would be surprised by what is waiting for you.
Anonymous 12/20/19 (Fri) 08:28:44 PM 44214
>>44115 Most men on /ic seem like incels. And thats one of the slowest boards.
So don't try 4chan at all
Anonymous 12/21/19 (Sat) 02:44:55 AM 44234
Martial arts, sport clubs, meeting apps, uni, workplace, dance clases, bars, common friends, asking minor stuff to strangers and chat.
Anonymous 12/23/19 (Mon) 07:46:52 AM 44347
>>44158 >she thinks men post on 4chan traps, traps in denial and little boys
Anonymous 12/23/19 (Mon) 07:56:49 AM 44348
>>44115 through friends, doing stuff you like etc. You can always mail order one, if men do it, we should too
Anonymous 12/24/19 (Tue) 01:09:53 AM 44398
Hinge, or at a bar or social event. Men will be more likely to respond to you if you just go up and talk to them, as opposed to the other way around. A lot of them like it, in fact. Give it a shot princess, you got this.
Anonymous 12/24/19 (Tue) 07:07:04 PM 44464
After college? Very difficult. You are really restricted to the workplace. Better hope you don't work in a majority female profession. People suggest bars, clubs, and others, but there is an obvious selection against positive traits in those environments. You could try online dating, which presently is stacked highly in our favor. Good luck.
Anonymous 12/24/19 (Tue) 07:36:46 PM 44466
>>44465
Anonymous 12/25/19 (Wed) 03:24:03 AM 44486
>>44115 Go to church if you want to find someone marriageable.
Anonymous 12/25/19 (Wed) 03:20:24 PM 44500
>>44486 That's how one of my cousins found her husband. Would recommend.
Anonymous 12/26/19 (Thu) 07:41:40 PM 44560
>>44115 Keep in mind that their thoughts aren’t as restricted by the context of your meeting. Most women will be hesitant to open up to a stranger that they meet in a professional or serious context, however for men that isn’t really the case.
Obviously it’d be short sighted to go on dates with every attractive guy that you meet in conferences, classes, or whatnot, but certainly keep in mind that guys you meet there won’t necessarily be unavailable because of the situation.
Anonymous 12/27/19 (Fri) 12:25:25 AM 44567
How to Be Yourself…
How to Be Yourself by Ellen Hendriksen
Anonymous 12/27/19 (Fri) 12:45:01 AM 44569
939x0w.jpg
Captivate - The Science of Succeeding with People
Anonymous 12/30/19 (Mon) 11:39:38 AM 44767
>>44151 I can confirm that you will find many many men at card game tournaments, but not many of them are bf material
Anonymous 12/30/19 (Mon) 01:19:33 PM 44771
>>44767 Depends on how you define bf material. What if all I want is a clean dick.
Anonymous 12/30/19 (Mon) 04:23:40 PM 44773
>>44771 Card game tournaments are infamous for their stink
Anonymous 12/30/19 (Mon) 05:03:41 PM 44776
>>44773 Are they stinkier than men at cosplay cons?
Anonymous 12/30/19 (Mon) 06:17:44 PM 44779
>>44771 then you'll be fine
>>44776 I've never been to a cosplay con, but I've never found card tournaments to stink, just the occasional person
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 10:37:59 AM 44934
>>44115 Church. Just don't go to a cucked one - you'll find pansies there.
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 02:45:49 PM 44943
>>44940
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 02:47:32 PM 44944
>>44943 That guy looks as straight as a circle.
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 03:40:28 PM 44949
>>44946
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 05:41:05 PM 44955
There are tons of guys at board gaming events.
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 05:57:40 PM 44959
>>44955 You've clearly never seen the intense hatred in discussions about women invading gaming circles. Any group you join if you are least average looking will tear itself apart trying to get with you, or so /tg/ says.
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 06:36:17 PM 44968
>>44959 I do avoid those types of boards tbh.
I'm also not that pretty.
Anonymous 01/02/20 (Thu) 09:00:31 PM 44985
>>44946
Anonymous 01/03/20 (Fri) 04:37:45 AM 45023
>>44955 I hate board games with a passion. I hang out with a nerdy engineer crowd and love the people, but hate how every time we meet at someone’s house, we end up playing board/tabletop games. I just don’t understand what’s so fun about those games and only play them so I can spend more time with people I love.
Anonymous 01/03/20 (Fri) 05:03:08 AM 45030
>>45023 This is why
>>44959 happens
They don't want you there either
Anonymous 01/03/20 (Fri) 05:24:02 AM 45037
>>45029
Anonymous 01/03/20 (Fri) 06:46:17 AM 45043
>>45030 That's fine. Everyone has things they enjoy, you know? To each their own.
Anonymous 01/04/20 (Sat) 04:49:14 AM 45105
>>44464 do you say presently because you expect this to change?
Anonymous 01/04/20 (Sat) 11:29:12 AM 45111
Discord servers for content creators you watch, especially massive ones with tons of random fans. Join vc a few times a week and get e bf in 2 months ez
Anonymous 01/04/20 (Sat) 01:44:16 PM 45115
>>45111 But my favorite youtuber doesn't have shit like discord.
Anonymous 01/05/20 (Sun) 04:44:18 AM 45152
Where can I meet women that's waking conscious is tied to the internet and are cynical yet still optimistic.
Anonymous 01/05/20 (Sun) 05:27:46 AM 45153
>>45152 Probably a neet weeb convention
Anonymous 01/05/20 (Sun) 05:42:19 AM 45155
>>45153 Like an anime convention? I don't have a big interest in anime besides a few shows.
Anonymous 01/06/20 (Mon) 02:59:17 AM 45189
Literally go to a bookstore, and start asking questions to the first seemingly decent guy there, or if you're passive, have a book but don't stare into it - be open to others around you, make eye contact, smile at the attractive ones, or look at them repeatedly.
Anonymous 01/06/20 (Mon) 04:17:01 PM 45196
1lw1ZeG.jpg
>>45189 >make eye contact, smile >look at them repeatedly Anonymous 01/08/20 (Wed) 04:48:17 PM 45290
>>45196 >>45196 Oh wait. Are you saying you're too ugly or awkward to pull this off? In that case my condolences, but most girls don't need to do much. Be available to talk, don't be unavailable.
Anonymous 01/17/20 (Fri) 06:13:00 PM 45788
>>45023 i think it's because the nerdy engineers are socially inept and board games provide very, very structured frameworks/scripts for interacting in person. it always feels like a crutch. i'd just rather talk and hang out without literal rules in place.
Anonymous 01/17/20 (Fri) 11:42:43 PM 45839
1578857045930.jpg
It's weird how half the population is so hard to find, like I'll have to break into a cute boy's house to find one
Anonymous 01/18/20 (Sat) 04:23:21 AM 45849
>>45786 That makes sense. I’m not a very competitive person at all, and don’t really find much joy in winning over other people. Not a big fan of sports either.
Anonymous 01/18/20 (Sat) 04:36:07 AM 45850
>>45839 You should try going outside before resorting to this.
Anonymous 01/18/20 (Sat) 07:15:35 AM 45862
>>45850 She would naturally wind up outside on her way to the house she was planning to break into.
Anonymous 01/29/20 (Wed) 05:47:20 PM 46431
>>44115 Anywhere.
What you meant to ask is "where the fuck do you meet men who are worth meeting", the answer to that is I don't know.
Anonymous 01/30/20 (Thu) 02:59:04 PM 46511
>>46431 What does "worth meeting" mean tho
Is it something you feel at a certain moment
Anonymous 01/30/20 (Thu) 04:22:59 PM 46514
>>46511 NTA but I assume she meant bf material
Anonymous 01/31/20 (Fri) 05:42:54 AM 46554
>>45788 That´s nice and all, but then you dont get to kill the dragon take its gold.
Anonymous 01/31/20 (Fri) 03:45:42 PM 46569
>>44158 /int/ is very decent and has a lot of qt and funny boys. Plus you will know exactly what country they're from, which is a big plus
Anonymous 01/31/20 (Fri) 05:07:12 PM 46574
>>46569 >>46573 >>46570 I thought i was the only one lurking /int/ to find a bernd bf.
I've been lurking more on Kohlchan's /int/ though, as i noticed at least 3 BR anons who are into femdom and might be sub bottoms.
Dunno how i will get them to contact me though.
Anonymous 01/31/20 (Fri) 09:45:58 PM 46593
>>46574 That's why I asked her which /int/.
Anonymous 02/01/20 (Sat) 10:20:00 PM 46630
Anyone who would suggest 4chan as a serious place to meet people is either a man or a man in a dress. Please don't fucking take advice from these larpers.
Anonymous 02/02/20 (Sun) 12:44:21 AM 46633
>>46630 >dated guys from 4chan >now married to a /fit/izen lmao She didn't learn the lesson
Anonymous 02/02/20 (Sun) 03:49:34 AM 46638
>>46630 This is only true for the cliché incel boards like /b/, /v/, /vg/, /r9k and /pol/
Anonymous 02/02/20 (Sun) 08:27:58 AM 46640
>>46630 The coolest and nicest bunch of people I met and still am in contact with were from 4chan. I don't know if I hit the jackpot but we've had a discord server for years now and it's full of really nice and interesting people. 4chan is huge and it isn't just visited by angry alt right virgins.
Even the few angry virgins we had in that group matured over time and grew out of it and became decent people lmao
More and more people meet up online and stay in ltr's although I think it's still a taboo to admit that, at least in my country.
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 11:02:38 AM 46660
>>46630 >>46638 >met my best friend and now ex on /pol/ We only broke up because it was too expensive to travel and keep up a long distance relationship.
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 12:10:28 PM 46661
>>46660 Why? I'd expect girls to go on any board other than /pol/.
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 04:02:44 PM 46662
>>46661 /pol/ is good for a laugh and very occasionally insightful
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 05:37:38 PM 46667
>>46661 it's because nobody here
is a girl
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 08:34:04 PM 46670
>>46668 Hopefully, you're as honest about it in real life as you are here.
Anonymous 02/03/20 (Mon) 08:37:12 PM 46671
>>46670 I am. It's not really taboo in here (latin america), pretty much everybody is racist on some level.
Anonymous 02/07/20 (Fri) 04:04:31 AM 46798
>>44115 anywhere you would find men. clearly not at the places you hang out at. at the end of the day you just need to put yourself in the same room as them, and i'm sure you'll work out the rest.
lots of places were already mentioned. less well known are the archery and gun ranges, though if you go that route you'll get to know a lot of boomers along the way.
Anonymous 02/07/20 (Fri) 04:18:26 AM 46800
>>46798 archery ranges are less noisy so you can actually talk to people, who are also more friendly in general
Anonymous 02/08/20 (Sat) 10:35:41 AM 46848
>>44968 Doesnt matter.
Guys go crazy in these circles. But if you go, best bet is to go after one who isnt hunting you. Higher potential bf material. Since he values his hobby higher than a female he doesnt know at all. Also shows he is not that needy.
Anonymous 02/08/20 (Sat) 10:38:05 AM 46849
>>46431 What is even worth meeting anyway. Im fine if he is not a fuckboy and doesnt chase staceys
Anonymous 02/08/20 (Sat) 11:14:29 PM 46864
>>44115 is 4chan even an option. i feel like everyone there has some form of mental issues
Anonymous 02/08/20 (Sat) 11:24:06 PM 46869
>>44115 I'm honestly not sure.
The gym will get you someone physically fit but who knows about personality. Maybe meet them online through mutual interests but dont tell them you're a girl until you know them better
Anonymous 02/10/20 (Mon) 06:17:49 AM 46942
>>46864 That is a bit pot, kettle considering where you are posting.
Anonymous 02/11/20 (Tue) 01:06:30 PM 47012
>>47010 does airtighted mean what i think it does?
Anonymous 02/12/20 (Wed) 12:58:34 AM 47048
Depends what kind of men you're looking for. Someone with similar musical taste? A gig, show or a festival.
Anonymous 02/12/20 (Wed) 11:49:06 PM 47105
>>44115 Enroll in some social activity and send clues.
Anonymous 02/12/20 (Wed) 11:53:49 PM 47110
Reminder that /int/cels from 4chan are raiding this thread as we speak. Beware of those basket cases
Anonymous 09/11/20 (Fri) 11:46:31 AM 62445
>>62438
Anonymous 09/11/20 (Fri) 06:01:50 PM 62465
>>62438
Anonymous 09/11/20 (Fri) 06:32:08 PM 62466
>>62465 I wish.
My uni is closed till April next year.
Same goes for all public places like swimming pools and such.
Anonymous 09/11/20 (Fri) 07:49:06 PM 62467
>>62466 Same, I can't even go to the fucking library for AC and a quiet place to study and it was 118 degrees fahrenheit last week and now I'm being gassed to death by wild fire fumes.
Anonymous 09/12/20 (Sat) 03:17:21 AM 62471
>>44158 i think fit would be like a smart place since they're at least they take care of their bodies
Anonymous 09/12/20 (Sat) 03:33:51 AM 62472
>>62471 Nobody outside of CBT is actually into fitness there. The lack of moderation allowed everyone from r9k to brigade there since their board got taken over by gays and /int/. They even raided this place from there about a week back.
Anonymous 09/12/20 (Sat) 07:10:54 PM 62523
>>44115 Join a Judo class.
If it's a decent school those guys can get pretty big.
Especially the ground sparring when they try to pin you down can be quite intresting
Anonymous 09/12/20 (Sat) 07:44:42 PM 62525
Go to India then show bobs and vagene.
Anonymous 09/12/20 (Sat) 10:12:12 PM 62538
>>62467 These wildfires are fucking with me I can’t go for runs or even leave the house for long periods of time without getting a headache.
Anonymous 09/13/20 (Sun) 11:39:55 PM 62662
At your local gym for the cute ones?
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 07:59:11 AM 62699
711357617.png
>>44115 At their homes in front of their computers. You just have to find where one lives and then brake inside through a balcony or something, that's how nerdy men imagine their manic pixie dream girl will just fall in their hands. Alternatively you could find one at a party, an actual party, drinking alone at home is not a party, a gathering with some of your friends is not a party either.
>>44170 In the age of internet? I don't think so.
>>44568 >>44569 Cringe.
>>45839 You're on to something there.
>>46630 4chan indeed is a terrible online hangout, anyone worth their salt left it in 2014.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 09:31:58 AM 62714
>>62699 Sauce? I know it very ot but this pic cracked me open for some reason.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 10:15:11 AM 62718
YzLZdEd.jpg
>>62714 I don't know artist's name, but i have this one more heartwarming image for you.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 11:20:40 AM 62723
>>62718 Cheers, I reverse image searched it, artists name is adarsh balak.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 01:16:25 PM 62735
>>62699 The problem is that the more social and outgoing they are the less likely they are too be loyal. Plus I cannot deal with them having a social life since I don't. I want somebody like me.
Where do you get a comfy homebody bf? Also I hate manchilds and people who play video games and watch anime. I don't want a total loser either.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 01:21:40 PM 62736
i was placed next to this cute guy when i had to get a forklift license for my job.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 06:26:03 PM 62763
>>62735 >I cannot deal with them having a social life >I don't want a total loser Aren't you contradicting yourself?
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 06:28:57 PM 62764
>>62763 Some people will just find any excuse to not love somebody. It's literally female r9k.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 07:32:10 PM 62769
>>62763 My definition of loser is somebody without a good education and career.
I know loads of losers with a social life and also loads of successful people without one.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 09:46:24 PM 62785
>>44234 >Men will notice you and aproach you if enough signals are given, no matter the place. Given they're not autistic, then you'd have to declare your intentions straight up.
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 09:56:27 PM 62788
>>62785 What then of autistic men?
Do you simply "approach", if not "pursue" them?
How do you make it clear that you're being serious and are not in fact making fun of them?
Anonymous 09/14/20 (Mon) 10:09:12 PM 62794
>>62789
Anonymous 09/15/20 (Tue) 01:55:12 AM 62832
>>62794 I mean are we talking about actual diagnosed autism or internet meme autism (which is really just social awkwardness)?
The former are bad partners and should be avoided but the latter can be fine.
Anonymous 09/15/20 (Tue) 01:57:05 AM 62833
>>62830 I think you're taking the whole "miner" thing a bit literally.
Anonymous 09/15/20 (Tue) 05:37:42 AM 62846
Spoiler
>>62769 I think that not having a social life causes mental distress, even introverts go mad without socialization, it only happens latter for them. Humans are a very social species, our individual successes get judged, rewarded and punished according by how well we participate in our society. Our individual successes are also dependent on how successful our cooperation with each another is. I don't know any successful socially inept people, except Mark Zuckerberg maybe? I think that socialization is a big part of life and under normal conditions should be a reward into itself.
Anonymous 09/16/20 (Wed) 03:20:21 PM 62939
>>62761
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 12:37:47 AM 63116
>>44115 In the current year? Idk
I met my fiance at a religious function
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 04:01:55 AM 63121
Someone suggested martial arts and i actually think that's a decent idea. Thing is, i can't stretch out my fingers completely, because of a condition. Can i still learn Taekwondo or would i look like an idiot. Also, Kickboxing might be fun too, but you don't rly get physical with men during the training, right?
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 07:47:58 AM 63128
>>63121 Do swimming instead.
I met my first bf in an advanced swimming techniques class I did at uni.
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 05:49:53 PM 63168
I got my last bf through a local imageboard meeting (it was for a small local imageboard). I wouldn't reccommend this route, since even the oldfags are usually either incels or incels-who-made-it, in other words, they still either have mommy or daddy issues.
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 06:17:55 PM 63171
>>63168 I met my ex through a small obscure imageboard too and while he wasn't an incel type, he was emotionally immature and had no real life experience whatsoever outside of work. Can't recommend
Anonymous 09/18/20 (Fri) 08:36:03 PM 63178
I've been thinking about going to a gardening club to find a bf. If they like to garden I know that they are patient, outdoorsy, and nurturing, so ideal bf material for me.
>>63121 You could call the dojo and ask or go for a grappling art instead like
>>62523 suggested. Tbh I think judo is more effective anyway if you want to be able to defend yourself as a female.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 12:42:44 AM 63198
I meet mine on tinder
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 01:10:34 AM 63201
I'm actually deeply concerned how often I read about female anons trying to meet male anons off of the chans. Are you girls purposefully trying to hook up with porn addicts, closeted trannys, RP/MGTOW and/or incels? No hot normal guy uses imageboards. Absolutely. No. Hot. Normal. Guy. I don't care if you're weird and ~totally introverted and like vidya games~ yourself, there is NO comparison between the women here and the men on imageboards. You deserve better so stop picking them. Let natural selection do its job please.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 02:40:09 AM 63211
>>63201 My ex was neither of these things but I still can't refute your argument because he simply didn't know how to deal with relationships. You're right, no emotionally sound man hangs out on IBs.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 07:31:23 AM 63223
>>63221
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 08:19:19 AM 63224
>>63201 >>63223 While it's still not a great idea, imageboards aren't one person. 4chan has millions of users and all kinds of people from all countries, actually much more diverse in types of people and opinions than elsewhere. There is literally no requirement to go on and post.
There is plenty of comparison to women here and other imageboards, the women here literally use and post on those imageboards. And based on this thread people clearly don't want a 'normal guy' because normal guys are shit or won't be able to understand people here.
Also, normal really has nothing to do with being hot. There are endless cases of hot men on 4chan but those posting their pics on an anonymous imageboard are likely to be the crazy ones.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 08:28:15 AM 63225
>>63224 1. How do you even meet guys on 4chan? Like there is zero contact info.
2. The guys who are going to approach you are self-selecting themselves to be thirsty and/or desperate as fuck, if nothing else.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 09:24:50 AM 63226
>>63225 There is /soc/! Most of the guys on there are cumbrains but I’ve met some sweet, somewhat-normal people.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 09:38:19 AM 63227
>>63226 >There is /soc/ Eww, those moids are disgusting.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 03:13:37 PM 63247
School, Work, Hobbies and through Friends.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 04:16:11 PM 63255
>>63226 /soc/ is a nightmare. To anyone who reads this, don't even go there. 99% is hookup/porn threads and the 1% of platonic threads are still full of troons and coomers. I tried /soc/ at my most desperate and highly filtered who I added and I still only met either bitter, spiteful moids or uwu wholesome idiots with anime profile pics. /soc/ is the bottom of the barrel because everyone you'll meet is either desperate for contact or already talks to 58494 people.
The only way to meet good men on 4chan is to participate in hobby/discussion threads, see if someone posts contact to keep up the convo, pretend you're a male while you get to know them, and only reveal that you're female once you know how they think about women.
Anonymous 09/19/20 (Sat) 07:33:17 PM 63280
>>63224 Sorry retardchan, I don't think not-normal guy means autistic incels or men who secretly hate women. You can meet a guy who likes not-normie things not on 4chan. Let's not forget that 4chan is full of mass shooters (and soon-to-be-mass-shooters). I'm not gonna argue about the 'hot' bit because there can be a good looking dude on there will typically have other issues that are wrong with him.
All of the men on there have something wrong with them with like 0.00000001% exceptions.
Anonymous 09/20/20 (Sun) 09:02:11 AM 63356
>>62885 I studied dating behavior of people.
In environments with high sexual peer pressure, due to how culture works and people.
Only assholes are left to date, all serial daters with a lot of expertise who could not give less of a fuck who they date, the main reason they are so successful and can refine their abilities so well.
Most people opt out of this, completely.
There isn't even a great gender bias to this, most people opt out before ever trying, not seeing themselves compatible ever.
Some people try a few times, get burned every time and on either side, they make up a majority of where
>every x is horrible comes from.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE3j_RHkqJc just about anger, but fits the issue pretty well.
These people also have big issues outside dating, with how they train themselves.
The current dating culture, largely allows a few moids to pick completely unchecked, be mostly matched with the worst of our people and this leads to an arms race of horrible autism.
The best way is to ignore the grand tenet of
>never date someone you know if you can't date normal people and end relationships normally, it's best to not and leave poor souls alone
all this also means that any sane person, can easily lock down the best guys that exist the first time they run into them dating
not that media and the world isn't designed to make us hate them and only if they are from certain races
we are getting fucked, just not the right way, we are celebrating it and we still vote it in and support it every which way we can
our perception largely defined by broken people who would never follow their own advice
but with lots of glee destroy any relationship of their friends for far lesser reasons
>>63227 worst board there, their chinese factory assembly line for nice guys is pure horror
>>63226 I've not met a single normal person there, their cham chat rooms are horrible, the nicest looking guys dox, threaten, blackmail and plan the worst things.
Better chances to find a confused hippie with strong convictions on pol.
The way our brains work is not compatible with trying to find love online and the abstraction of perception to it all, is a perfect breeding ground for issues like in Watzlawik's
>Manual to unhappiness or how it's translated
>The Situation Is Hopeless, But Not Serious: The Pursuit of Unhappiness Any hobby where one meets people is going to be more successful than the internet dating choices.
>>63280 they don't, try to make a positive thread about women and see what happens
if it's remotely successful you'll notice people who are clearly men pretending to be women in real life fucking up the threads and then deleting them
beside their vested interest in fucking people with their hate for the real deal
they and others also just created the idea of incel and politicized it
it's not even a moid term
I mean, the last two weeks it was perhaps better, lots of jannitor changes
Also they helped out with putting a filter on the address to here.
>>63280 how do you think it works in matriarchal or matrilinear cultures? they still exist
and even what the scythians had with centaurs and amazons still exists in some tribes.
Even Islam matrilinear societies like the Minangkabau or Touareg exist.
Both great examples of the effect culture has.
Everyone's culture is under attack, it's not easy enough to calculate economic success and political control with it and those are natural processes, happens in any epoch of mankind.
Just the tools are a whole lot different and in theory, any interested person could find more than enough information of how incel, is a political and cultural weapon, used by letter agencies in conjunction with corrupt journalists to push it.
Successfully used, transforming people.
Anonymous 09/20/20 (Sun) 05:06:09 PM 63401
>>63280 >>63356 Have you had any success anywhere else?
Anonymous 09/21/20 (Mon) 03:27:55 AM 63418
>>63356 1,000 IQ post. Especially with how assholes and sociopaths are the only ones active in online dating which, funnily enough, makes up the majority of men.
Anonymous 09/21/20 (Mon) 04:28:28 AM 63422
>>44158 soc is probably the most male gay board of 4chan, and there is a lgbt board there
Anonymous 09/21/20 (Mon) 07:10:46 PM 63460
>>63418 So if sociopaths and generally unpleasant people make up the vast majority of actively dating men, then do you think it would would work to pursue men on your own?
After all if the only men who approach women are generally unpleasant, it seems to be logical that you should just pursue men that you want of your own volition.
Then again I've never dated, so I wouldn't really know anything.
Anonymous 09/21/20 (Mon) 07:58:21 PM 63463
>>63460 All you have to do is not be completely passive.
If you are completely passive only the scum will approach you.
If you go out meet people and show some interest in people (you don't literally have to confess love) then you will get attention of better men.
Anonymous 09/22/20 (Tue) 02:35:24 PM 63706
I just went cycling across the city for an errand.
Anonymous 09/22/20 (Tue) 05:15:14 PM 63720
>>63706 Stop looking for excuses to talk with boys. Just go up and talk to them. Literally pick one.
Anonymous 09/22/20 (Tue) 06:24:25 PM 63741
>>63720 That's such an American thing to say, lol.
Anonymous 09/22/20 (Tue) 06:34:54 PM 63767
>>63741 I hope you realise Americans are the ones who think every relationship has to start like the ones on TV.
Anonymous 09/25/20 (Fri) 07:42:29 PM 63990
>>44115 Church is really the only way to go, although most guys that go to church already have wives and kids. Still I'd take my chances there over literally anywhere else.
Anonymous 09/25/20 (Fri) 08:33:24 PM 63995
>>44115 Throw yourself to the ground in front of him.
"Ow, I bruised me knee, if only some cute guy could help, haha."
If he ignores you, there was something wrong with him anyway.
Anonymous 09/27/20 (Sun) 02:48:04 PM 64171
>>63995 I can't imagine this actually working.
After he has done everything he could to help you he would never see you since you're just an inconvenience to him.
Anonymous 09/28/20 (Mon) 02:07:16 AM 64211
The best place to meet dudes online is twitter. I know people who got married off of it. Bonus points if you are religious, then if you retweet and follow a lot of Christian stuff youll get a bunch of Christian dudes in your DMs. These people generally aren't total psychopaths because they put a lot of effort into gaining a reputation and high follower count because its more of a genuine community instead of a swarm of randoms.
Anonymous 09/28/20 (Mon) 05:57:33 AM 64226
>>64171 Well you obviously need to follow up with drugging him and tieing him up while his guard is down.
From there you just need to stuff him in your trunk and toss him in your designated boyfriend room.
This is pretty basic stuff anon.
Anonymous 09/29/20 (Tue) 01:14:15 PM 64290
>>44115 Find a hobby you like ("get a life") and join a group related to that hobby. This is a common suggestion for men, and a lot of these groups are mostly male so you'll have options. Not all hobbies need a group, I like bouldering and you can meet people just going to the boulder gym.
>>44955 From my experience local board gaming events are great, though it depends on the kind of guy you're looking for. Some muscular guy might like board games but I wouldn't count on it. If it's an open event nobody will ever be mean to you, they expect new players.
>>44959 Some of those nerdy types can be really thirsty and I've heard i't destroyed gaming groups before. A rule that was suggested to me was to only join groups where I wouldn't be the only female but I've only ever played at open events so it was never an issue.
>>44968 >I'm also not that pretty. Just try to care for yourself and work out a bit. Unless you're somehow deformed, if you look confident and work out like once or twice a week you're in top 80% attractiveness.
Anonymous 09/29/20 (Tue) 07:52:28 PM 64306
Figure out what your favorite hobby is and go to any sort of meet up related to that hobby.
Anonymous 09/29/20 (Tue) 09:59:38 PM 64315
>>47010 it means having a dick in your vagina, a dick in your ass, and 1-2 dicks in your mouth
Anonymous 09/29/20 (Tue) 10:03:03 PM 64318
>>64290 where's a good place to meet a muscular guy?
Anonymous 09/30/20 (Wed) 09:17:35 PM 64385
>>64318 To be mean to?
I always want to tease them, but Im told my jokes always come out too mean.
Anonymous 09/30/20 (Wed) 09:48:20 PM 64391
>>64389
Anonymous 09/30/20 (Wed) 11:06:33 PM 64397
Depends on the men you're looking for. Tinder, Discord are good places to start.
>>64318 lol
Anonymous 10/01/20 (Thu) 04:37:47 PM 64431
>>44115 Better question: How do you make these chimps leave you alone? Men are ugly and unlovable, but they never seem to fuck off and mind their own business.
Anonymous 10/07/20 (Wed) 02:13:23 AM 64968
>>47012 A dick in every primary oriface at once, yeah. Mouth, ass, pussy.
It's really intense, and they all just focus on thrusting so if you don't like penetration, I don't recommend it.
Anonymous 10/07/20 (Wed) 07:04:02 AM 64991
>>64977 Yeah. I was more willing to try new things when I was younger and I watched too much porn, so it probably warped what I thought was okay to do.
I don't know why I ever thought differently, but surprise surprise, a large chunk of moids want to try stuff they see in porn, and don't care about your pleasure at all. Some do, and some of the stuff is actually great to do, but most of it is impractical and probably won't get you off, and is just for them.
Anonymous 10/07/20 (Wed) 09:19:57 PM 65028
>>64991 how do you even go about organizing that type of thing
Anonymous 10/08/20 (Thu) 12:28:55 AM 65041
>>65028 Essentially, I knew a few people already who I knew would be into it. Guy friends, ex roommates, etc. Real dudebro types, but who are still fine with seeing other dudes naked or accidentally touching dicks. Also using apps like 3nder. And I just sort of advertised that I was down to give it a go. Eventually, two guys were keen, and after some drinks and weed we were good to go. The third guy was actually a last minute addition, messaged and showed up on the night. Before him it was just DP.
More related to the thread topic, this is not a way to meet good men. If you're keen to fuck, then go for it, but not a great way to meet 'the one', or any romantic guy. Just coomers.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 04:23:11 PM 65459
1559518838068.jpg
In the current age, good men wouldn't be outside interacting with the general population.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:53:36 PM 65471
>>65459 How do I lure them out of their rooms?
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:55:44 PM 65472
>>65471 Dont go for whatever run off the mill moid, let those choke in loneliness, they wont try in life and die out if nobody shows them interest anyway.
Go for racoons.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 11:23:57 PM 65527
>>65501
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 09:48:14 AM 66173
exzkzwjtu3.jpg
>>65527 >>63995 That sounds like something Tomoko would do ngl.
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 10:05:07 AM 66175
>>45189 How does one exactly go about this in a casual manner? I'm always afraid of coming off desperate or creepy. Has anyone tried this, and has it worked out?
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 10:42:15 AM 66176
>>66175 You need a good pretext for that.
>Hey nerd, where's this book at? >This library smells like old people, amrite? >Does this institution have hentai mango dohinshee? Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 11:01:39 AM 66177
1602957904106.jpeg
Why is getting a bf so hard? Where do I even meet guys? I read stories here about NEET girls with extensive dating history and whatnot, meanwhile I have a part-time job n I attend uni, but still no bf.
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 11:20:20 AM 66178
>>66176 also, do men find it weird when women approach them first?
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 11:47:37 AM 66180
>>66178 Nah, I think it's the same for both genders it's not creepy unless you're ugly, or you are too random.
Just don't spill spaghetti, don't look at the floor while saying 10 words per second.
Don't start showering him with random questions, take it slow.
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 08:44:29 PM 66218
>>66178 >do men find it weird when women approach them first? Only if he is a prick who aint worth your time anyway. Approaching first is a must in this day & age where moids are just retarded.
Anonymous 10/22/20 (Thu) 12:37:53 PM 66441
>>44486 where my niece (we're the same age) found her amazing husband
Anonymous 10/22/20 (Thu) 12:51:19 PM 66443
>>63990 >>64211 A lot of more traditional churches has singles groups specifically for meeting potential spouses. there is a mix of married people there, too, so it isn't a meat market, it is a real chance to meet people.
My roomie went to the Catholic one, Youventutim (SP?) for 6 months before COVID and said it was fun and that those 6 months resulted in 6 marriages
Anonymous 10/22/20 (Thu) 02:13:54 PM 66445
Can't believe anons are actually recommending the church, religious men are the most hypocritical of all
Anonymous 10/22/20 (Thu) 03:49:59 PM 66452
>>66445 Of my friends the only ones with decent guys married church guys
Anonymous 10/22/20 (Thu) 05:52:35 PM 66466
>>66452 Maybe it depends on the area, I live in an overwhelmingly catholic country and every dude that's super into going to church is a weirdo.
My ex was the "church on sunday, confess my sins every once in a while" type of guy, he had a terabyte porn collection and still did all the sex stuff before marriage but then was in constant fear of going to hell kek
He'd tell me how he cried to the priest and would explain what he jerked off to in detail, religious men are wack. At least he was honest with me but that's because I wasn't judgmental due to being raised as a filthy atheist. That changed now and I don't date coomers, but I lose respect when it comes to dudes that don't jerk off because god tells them to.
Plus they're usually nationalistic misogynists but I'm aware the nationalistic part varies from country to country.
Anonymous 10/29/20 (Thu) 01:54:33 PM 67509
gestos-caballeroso…
Where are the good men? Do gentlemen still exist?
Anonymous 10/29/20 (Thu) 02:00:06 PM 67511
>>67492
Anonymous 10/29/20 (Thu) 11:45:45 PM 67728
>>67511 That statement in itself is a cope. Don't get mad that people actually care about their bodies while you sit on your ass all day.
Anonymous 10/29/20 (Thu) 11:56:51 PM 67731
>>67728 >moid goes to the gym >gets his ass kicked by another person that actually learned fighting techniques or that has a weapon and hows the basics on how to use it. Boohoo. Besides /fit/ is full of misogynists, basically /r9k/ 2.0 and they deserve to kill themselves.
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 09:55:38 AM 68025
If you draw or have other artistic hobbies, try art related online communities. I've met quite a few guys that were really cool to talk with on deviantArt(inb4 >deviantArt, there's not only sonicfags and ponyfuckers there.) Plus you can usually judge their character somewhat from their art, if someone's drawing fetish inflation anime porn you can be pretty sure he's not relationshit material lol.
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 02:10:14 PM 68031
>>63201 you are using imageboard right now, don't be a hypocrite
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 04:39:41 PM 68034
>>68031 using an imageboard =/= dating men from imageboards
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 05:37:21 PM 68038
>>68034 I mean yeah, it just means that statistically speaking you're the same type or "quality" as those people you would be dating. And I kind of agree, people on imageboards tend to have more issues than the ones who aren't in these places, but telling someone not to date people from an imageboard on an imageboard… cmon how can you not see the irony? Its like an obese person telling another obese person not to date obese people.
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 05:52:08 PM 68041
>>68038 >I mean yeah, it just means that statistically speaking you're the same type or "quality" as those people you would be dating. You have a fundamental misunderstanding of this entire issue. It doesn't mean that at all, in any sense, especially not "statistically". You're legit either retarded or possess a penis. Pretending that male imageboard users are anywhere near as innocuous as the fairly mild mannered female weebs that visit CC is straight up apologia and completely detached from reality.
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 06:03:32 PM 68043
>>68041 >mild mannered posts racoon bf in you're path Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 06:20:00 PM 68044
>>68041 >mild mannered >in the same post where you call me retarded Irony aside, have you seen like…. any post talking about men in here? Dont be delusional, we are to men what /r9k/ incels are to us.
Anonymous 11/01/20 (Sun) 06:46:12 PM 68047
>>68044 Oh yes, anon, we're just like the board that eggs on people on to kill themselves and laughs at photos of dead "roasties". Being realistic about how unfaithful, dishonest, and dangerous men is is not the same as what they do on r9k. Men are a proven statistical danger to women, this is a literal fact. We aren't the ones committing upwards of 80% of violent crimes and higher for homicide and rape. American men aren't the ones being murdered at a rate of 3 men a day by the women they were or are the most intimate and vulnerable with. That's women. Women recognizing that fact is not the same as men being angry and resentful because they aren't able to fuck us on command. And the majority of us on here aren't pornsick. That in and of itself is a huge differentiation. Pornsick people are not desirable partners.
Anonymous 11/03/20 (Tue) 05:28:55 PM 68326
>>67744 Where is he wrong tho.
It's become an outright meme that you can't treat women properly without being a "nice" guy.
I.E. petulant 30IQ rage when denied coochie.
Not only that but everything in society encourages abject selfishness to the point of absurd.
Anonymous 11/05/20 (Thu) 05:27:34 PM 68460
m00tkins.jpg
>>45015 Can confirm that men browse that website. And they are exactly the type of men that someone making a thread like this would be fit for.
Anonymous 11/06/20 (Fri) 11:02:11 AM 68534
>>68461 I know at least four couples where neither one has eyebrows.
Anonymous 11/08/20 (Sun) 11:52:35 PM 68709
>>68693 They don’t want women posting on there though
Anonymous 11/16/20 (Mon) 01:58:43 PM 69258
>>68047 I can't tell if this is ironic joke or not. Is this an altered copypasta from /r9k/?
Anonymous 11/27/20 (Fri) 06:01:23 AM 70201
>>69258 from what i can tell some wizard runs it and he shuts the site down every other day because he hates everyone and everything on it
Anonymous 12/04/20 (Fri) 05:14:47 PM 70697
>>45189 You underestimate how dense guys are. 99% of the time they won't pick up shit. Don't waste your time being so subtle, it doesn't work.
Anonymous 12/04/20 (Fri) 07:36:15 PM 70699
Go to the beach or something and stare at them nonstop
Anonymous 02/16/21 (Tue) 09:37:52 AM 76203
>>63201 This fact cuts both ways, hence why you should go outside. People have problems anyway but if you're inexplicably trying to meet men on 4chan you're not advancing beyond at least one struggle you have (social) anyway.
Please do yourself a favor and just be personable in real life. You never know who's out there. Just look at the internet and realize there are tons of guys who are just as lonely as you, and you will make one of their day if you just be patient and don't rush this shit by trying to settle on that godforsaken website.
Anonymous 02/16/21 (Tue) 03:15:05 PM 76251
>>46671 Oh this explain why /pol/ meets are full of mutts
Anonymous 02/20/21 (Sat) 02:16:13 AM 76661
I think it's important to have an actual social life. Most of my Discord friends were actual friends or friends of friends first, and one of 'em moved nearby from out of state. Some of those friends have friends of the opposite sex. That can … lead to things.
On the other hand, I've chatted with people on 4chan's LGBT board offsite and there were some weirdos, and I've been the weirdo, too. Nothing actually crazy, but nothing good comes of it, tbh. Scored some femboy lewds for the social clout.
Or just install Tindr like everyone else.
>>70697 Often very true, but sometimes they play dense because it's easier and less likely to hurt feelings than a hard "no". But I fucking swear, it's like they either lead with dick pics and expect sex that night, or they casually shoot the shit at best (or outright ignore you) and nothing goes anywhere.
Anonymous 02/20/21 (Sat) 02:56:40 AM 76670
>>76661 >find local Tridentine latin mass, weirder times the better! >show up >wait for mass to end >pick one of the 2-5 bachelors you think looks best >compliment suit/hair Congratulations, you've got a fiance.
Worst case scenario, you make friends with sweet old church ladies who make you some scarves and recommend their grandsons.
Anonymous 02/23/21 (Tue) 10:40:56 AM 76875
games, men like to play video games
Anonymous 02/23/21 (Tue) 12:10:48 PM 76883
>>76875 Ugly, unhinged, unhygienic, unstable ones. Sometimes one gets lucky ngl tho.
Anonymous 02/25/21 (Thu) 09:04:06 AM 77171
>>44116 you won't meet men in a yoga class lol
Anonymous 02/25/21 (Thu) 09:45:53 AM 77172
>>77171 In my university town the yoga classes were about 50% male, 50% female.
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 04:35:14 AM 77247
>>76883 Literally all young moids play video games these days
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 05:12:55 AM 77251
>>76670 those guys cant get their strokes right though
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 08:00:25 AM 77254
phew2.jpg
>>77253 H-haha yeah who play video games well into their twenties like seriously
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 12:23:08 PM 77261
>>44158 > There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan doubt.jpg lol
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 12:35:58 PM 77264
>>77254 scrotes play video games even into their 30s
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 03:13:24 PM 77273
>>77254 You never saw the viral gma on youtube playing Animal Crossing?
Anonymous 02/26/21 (Fri) 07:19:26 PM 77293
>>77254 Thy now have video games on their smart phones too
Anonymous 03/02/21 (Tue) 12:32:43 AM 77473
>>76883 >Ugly, unhinged, unhygienic, unstable ones. dumbest take in the last 7 days on this site
Anonymous 03/11/21 (Thu) 07:19:03 AM 78054
>>76670 Last time I was at church the only guy under 25 and over 16 was the weird edgelord from my old highschool. He stopped wearing leather jackets all the time and came out gay a few years later. Shame, he was kinda cute, in an angry sort of way.
Then again, my area got rid of the latin masses ages ago and the priests wear pink or green robes on occasion. I haven't been back since my dad died.
Anonymous 03/11/21 (Thu) 09:59:18 AM 78065
idk the only men who talk to me r internet men. weirdo internet men who fetishize mentally ill girls
Anonymous 03/11/21 (Thu) 03:10:01 PM 78078
20210204_115210_re…
Gun ranges. In Europe especially, they're like 98% male.
Anonymous 03/12/21 (Fri) 01:28:19 AM 78111
>>78065 Where do you meet these men?
Anonymous 03/12/21 (Fri) 01:49:21 AM 78112
>>78054 There's definitely been a resurgence in younger people going to the Latin masses over the past few years. Even if it's out of the way, I'd suggest trying to find one in a 30-minute radius.
Anonymous 03/12/21 (Fri) 11:50:06 AM 78124
>>78111 i either meet them on twitter or discord. mostly twitter, but u can find them on discord too. if they find out ur a sad girl , they r mostly likely going to dm u. its mostly the anime guys tho btw
Anonymous 03/17/21 (Wed) 02:01:58 AM 78484
>>63224 >those posting their pics on an anonymous imageboard are likely to be the crazy ones. can confirm
Anonymous 03/17/21 (Wed) 09:48:39 AM 78511
>>78493 Oh, I'm sorry. Try the local laser tag arena, zoomette.
Anonymous 03/17/21 (Wed) 10:39:01 AM 78515
>>44178 She probably means heterosexual men
Anonymous 03/17/21 (Wed) 08:21:02 PM 78541
1606840755372.gif
>>44178 I'm dead, plus the boys over there are extremely insecure
Anonymous 03/28/21 (Sun) 06:59:38 AM 79196
Where do you meet women
Anonymous 03/28/21 (Sun) 08:58:33 AM 79199
>>79197 How do you attract men in the library? Previous attempts at occasionally starring have not lead me to success.
Anonymous 03/28/21 (Sun) 09:25:38 AM 79202
>>79199 you gotta just go for it
worst case they ignore you and you move on with your life knowing that at least you tried
if youre not confident you just gotta fake it til you make it
Anonymous 03/28/21 (Sun) 12:22:20 PM 79205
Ask your friends to fuck their boyfriends. They’ll say yes.
Anonymous 03/30/21 (Tue) 11:14:23 PM 79500
Videogames, specifically communities around videogames.
Anonymous 03/30/21 (Tue) 11:36:08 PM 79502
>>79500 This, don't lie and say you're a guy but just don't bring it up until you've established a casual, friendly basis.
Anonymous 03/31/21 (Wed) 03:33:47 AM 79522
>>79500 Why would you try to find a boyfriend in a vg community?
Anonymous 03/31/21 (Wed) 05:54:41 AM 79527
Most men are self-conscious as fuck and don't expect women to like them, which is why they're almost always utterly fucking baffled anytime a female shows any interest. Don't be quick to show interest and dont go out looking for a bf.
Anonymous 03/31/21 (Wed) 05:54:54 AM 79528
>>79500 Some guys will do the opposite though, where they seem fine when they think you're a dude but then flip into being total creeps the second they find out you're a girl
Anonymous 03/31/21 (Wed) 07:36:05 AM 79532
1617057944043.jpg
>>79528 Well, YMMV. At any rate you'll know more about the guy.
Anonymous 04/07/21 (Wed) 10:32:54 PM 80464
>>80240 LMAO hell? Damn. I didn't think I'd have to die just to get a decent date.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:35:56 AM 80577
Honestly? The best guys are all taken.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:49:07 AM 80578
>>80577 this reads like it was written by a horny troid
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 05:14:47 AM 80579
>>80577 what the fuck is this larp lmfao get the fuck out you degenerate coomer
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 05:28:56 AM 80581
>>80578 I was Fed up and I've given up before this. To tell you the truth I wasn't really specifically looking for this but it clicked that maybe there was another kind of desperate. These couples looking for "a unicorn" truly are, there's nobody out there so when I casually left posts on a mutual group people started to dm me.
I was just literally punishing myself by looking at old highschool friends get married and have kids and cars and a fucking life before I was going to delete Facebook but it sucked me in. I hadn't really used the site in years except to message my burnout brother and make sure he was still alive.
I was getting jealous of the girls who ended up single mothers even because at least some guy loved them enough to become a father with them.
I've never had that. Ever. I was always too tall, too pasty with gross acne, loose skin, no muscle tone (I still have none), and glasses. Thick ones. My nose is probably too big and I have an overbite. My nails get gross and yellow, and I don't know why. My hair gets greasy after one day, lays flat on my head and is dull brown. I even tried "no poo" and got fucking alopecia for my trouble. Never again. No haircuts work, my head is shaped weird.
I tried social everything. Sports, cars, games, drinking until I thought I was becoming an alcoholic, tattoos, edgy piercings to distract from my uggo face and bad skin just to have the guts to approach guys.
I was always the friend my "friends" would try to set up with the overweight or persistant underachieving guys who wouldn't leave them alone after making it clear they were not interested. They all got married and never talk to me at all unless I message them first. Too busy with babies and their husband's friends and social life. because I'm homely, probably manic and depressed, and wasted my early 20's being a wasted 4 days a week angry welfare loser renting rooms from student housing.
I've tried to distance myself from all of them and these people are almost old enough to be my parents so my past isn't a factor.
I might be a little selfish now that I got something that feels like a dream, but I would NEVER do anything to push her away from him because I know I'm the one getting dumped to save their marriage.
So I've just become super submissive.
I get fired from every job I take anyway because I would get so worn out from even normal or below average looking people treating me like I don't exist or a literal mule for their labor. Oh, Sarah will take the third shift. Fuck you.
I think I can at least do this one thing if it means I can live comfortably with a handsome man and his wife for a few years.
It's been since before covid started and I'm sure lockdown has helped since it's this weird "zombie apocalypse" situation and they joke about "saving me from the walkers" because I sperged out from reading cvg and nearly noped back to my grandmother across the country but they convinced me to stay.
Probably because other girls got spooked after the first time they messed around. They mentioned being with one other girl before (who left them for a mutual friend) and she says that it left a bad taste in their mouth.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 05:38:45 AM 80584
>>80579 I knew I was too fucking autistic and wordy to get advice or tell my story here. I'm just going to phonepost myself into depression anyway, no wonder I've only lurked.
You're all way more fucking normie than you think.
I did something that made me happy during this fucked virus shit and it's not the same things you all spout.
Church is literally insane. Those people are crazy and the priests are literally closet xhild rapists and there's no magic sky man.
I swear to fuck there's no actual girls(female) here is there? You're the ones who sound disgenuine: I've never once had a friend who ever sounded like some of you.
Even the few and far between somewhat unsuccessful or mental issue friends that I met who I know use image boards (or because I showed them) never sounded like cc.
I truly don't know what this place is.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 05:51:15 AM 80586
>>80579 You know what I'll just fucking go then, but if I had some way to fucking bet you every last dime I had I would bet that you could get a message from a couple or 10 on 3nder or Facebook or some shit that's at least a 7/10 with a house and a job.
I'm not going to sit here crying because I thought I could vent to someone but since it's so fucking taboo I can't even share the one time I've ever been happy or in love with anyone else.
I thought maybe, just maybe here would be OK. Whatever.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 06:15:31 AM 80588
We get some real crazies here
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 06:33:54 AM 80590
>>80588 Yeah I probably am.
So what. I'm too ugly to be a manic pixie dream girl.
I look like trailer trash even with loads of makeup applied by someone who knows what they're doing.
But they don't seem to care? They say they love my body and I get a kiss goodnight and they tell me they love me.
It's almost been a year during this pandemic and I still wake up surprised when he's down there making coffee every day and she's already gone by the time I wake up. I still usually stay in bed playing catgame for a hour every morning before I drag my ass out of bed after they leave it. He only sleeps for like 6 hours.
He says it's because he's getting older but he has more energy than every single person I've met nearly half his age. His generation is all like that. I've met his friends.
I'll die alone with 20 cats otherwise or drink myself to death or become something worse.
I feel normal here.
Maybe some of you could like that too. There's somehow a million couples out there like this but like nobody as desperate as me willing to give up Disney prince delusion.
I thought you wanted to find handsome attractive successful men?
Like I said they're all taken by 25. The real ones anyway.
They all went to good universities and married their hot neighbors and pumped out kids by 30.
And now that they're done with that and they have money and time they're bored and want excitement.
She's just really based and probably becoming a lipstick lesbian, I dunno.
She pays more attention to me than him these days because we tend to gang up on him? He complains about being overruled all the time but you can tell he actually loves it anyway. Plus she likes putting me in all her clothes from highschool lol.
I'm having fun now anyway, maybe I'll get dumped and I'm always worried I'm just a sex toy to them but after a year I don't know.
I still get all weird and self conscious and go into denial and they always drag me out of it and baby me.
Then I get worried they'll fucking hate my doubts and fears and get sick of assuring me they want me to stay with them so I just go with it.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 07:47:54 AM 80598
9324879837489342.p…
>>80590 Disagree. The best guys are not all taken. My little brother is 28 (29 this month) and has a doctorate. He's an oddball but in a lovely goofy way. Slightly chub but powerful and strong, He has biceps like tree trunks and a rock solid chest but a nice soft little belly. Also if big dick energy is a thing, he has it in spades. When he morphed into a teenager he suddenly became cool and it just stuck that way for him.
As his depressed loser burnout sister he ends up taking care of my a lot and he's my best friend. He's very caring, very giving and relentlessly nice. I've paid close attention to the women he's dated in the past and have been as unbiased as possible in my analysis of why the relationship failed. out of the last 5 he dated.
Debbie cheated on him
Sarah was far too posessive and controlling
Chloe was short tempered, mean spirited and impossibly selfish
Imogen cheated on him with her ex
Kate was super weird and kept trying to force him into being a vegan and would get visibly upset at BBQs, especially if you refused her nut loaf (that tasted like burnt rubber and sadness).
He hangs out mostly at work. but also at the gym, but the point of my post I guess is that even when they're not taken, they're out of your reach. I swear if our kids wouldn't come out with a whole heap of defects I'd have dehumanized myself and milked every ounce out of him a long time ago. There's nothing worse than forbidden fruit. He's perfect for me, but he's not for me.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 10:39:57 AM 80609
>>80598 >not all men are bad! like my brother, who I want to fuck I love this board.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 10:57:47 AM 80610
>>80598 One generation of incest isn't all that likely to produce defects, yeah the chance is increased compared to a normal couple but it's still pretty low. The problem is if it repeats for generations. I can't really care about relatives fucking when it's completely legal for people to pass on their horrific genetic diseases. Have you ever read about people with the Huntington's Disease gene getting pregnant on purpose, knowing that they? Their kids have a 50/50 chance of dying young from a horrific degenerative disease but it is completely legal for them to reproduce. It makes you want to die inside a little bit.
I'm not saying you should fuck your brother btw that's still probably a bad idea, but slightly higher chance of defective babies isn't the best reason.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 11:24:26 AM 80612
>>80610 stop giving her ideas please
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 11:48:46 AM 80616
>>80612 Not that anon but it's important that sister anon confronts her feelings, otherwise she'll never be happy. They could also just adopt.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 12:32:18 PM 80622
>>80612 I don't support incest I just think the genetics worry is a weak excuse to be against it until society starts openly embracing eugenics
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 12:47:38 PM 80625
>>80610 Much appreciated, but if the chance of deformity or disease goes up in any respect it's just not worth the risk. To do so would be the same mentality as those with horrible diseases that they pass on knowing it will destroy their kids lives.
>>80612 Believe me I've toyed with the scenario enough times in my head that there's likely nothing you can think of that I have not thought of. it's what happens after that which puts me off. I can't lose my best friend just because I want to ride him until we're both black and blue and I look like a twinkie someone blew the cream out of.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:21:35 PM 80638
>>80625 >Much appreciated, but if the chance of deformity or disease goes up in any respect it's just not worth the risk. To do so would be the same mentality as those with horrible diseases that they pass on knowing it will destroy their kids lives. In that case, you just need to prove the two of them have no deleterious diseases, recessive or otherwise, and there's no problem.
The only rational argument against incest is based in eugenics, anything else is just social construction.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:22:54 PM 80639
>>80590 Anon I don't think you're a moid but you've got terminal insecurities and internalized misogyny. Knocking up a woman doesn't mean they "loved her enough to do so", that's just one of the 3585 things in your posts that scream about your lack of life experience which makes me feel sad for you falling for the unicorn bullshit to get validation. You don't have to do this. I've been there. Being alone is better. Don't sell yourself short.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:24:00 PM 80640
>>80598 Nothing stops you from dating your brother, the only legal barrier is that you won't be allowed to marry. Defects do not crop up over one generation, and unless either of you have severe diseases, the chance of passing anything is minimal.
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:28:48 PM 80642
>>80639 >Being alone is better so true
living alone and single has been some of the best and happiest years of my life
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 04:57:58 PM 80644
>>80590 He's cheating on his wife with you. Why do you keep insisting he's such a wonderful guy?
Anonymous 04/09/21 (Fri) 07:43:43 PM 80663
>>80644 It's a polyamorous thing. I don't agree with it personally but he isn't cheating and they both have sex with her.
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 01:31:19 PM 80783
>>80598 Honey I know your pain so fully you're making me want to day drink at 6 in the morning. My brother is a gigachad. Always amazing to me growing up, we're talking about a brother who:-
- beat up my bullies
- cuddled me and stroked my hair when I was sad
- shared his desserts and candy with me
- always included me in games
- always helped me with homework
- took care of me when I was sick
- defended my decisions to our parents
- hung out with me when I had no friends
Plus he smells amazing, is athletic and fixes cars which is pretty manly. I always used to tease him that I was going to marry him when we grew up and he always played along, it crushed me when I realized it was never going to happen. I'm so autistic that my mom had to literally come into my room after a family party, sit me down and ask me to stop saying it in front of people because it's gross and weird coming from an 11 year old and it was never going to happen. 10 years later and I still cringe about how much I cried. It's not fair that 99.999% of men are irredeemable pieces of dog shit and the one golden example of a man in your life is literally taboo.
I've had the hots for him forever too. I walked in on him masturbating once and I froze, not because I was in shock or anything, but because my heart was pounding through my chest and all I wanted to do was throw my dress off and doink him until it hurt. I know it's gross and I don't care. I have a naked picture of him I stole from his laptop when I was 18 and he was in college and I rub off to it to this day. I'll probably do it now. Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 04:07:04 PM 80791
>>80783 >>80598 >sudden incest You're all trolling and practising brocon fanfics on this board, r-right?
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 04:18:46 PM 80793
there is nothing wrong with incest
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 05:12:58 PM 80799
>>80793 Normal people don't want to fuck their siblings
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 05:17:48 PM 80801
>>80791 >>80598 here. 'fraid not. I'm 100% serious.
>>80799 The Westermarck effect is complete bullshit.
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 05:48:12 PM 80805
>>80801 What's the age difference between you and your brother?
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 06:12:59 PM 80808
>>80805 4 years and change.
>>80783 Glad I'm not the only one. life really is just a long joke with us as the punch line.
Anonymous 04/10/21 (Sat) 06:53:40 PM 80811
>>80783 sooo hot holy shit
wish i had a chad brother who was sweet to me
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 12:24:21 AM 80853
Incest is gross. I have 2 brothers. One is a kind, lovely man who has a law degree, doesn't watch porn (he talks about his beliefs with me, that's how I know), is friendly, conventionally handsome, etc.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 12:33:18 AM 80855
>>80853 Oops I forgot to finish my first point.
As much as I admire and respect my eldest brother, I'd never want to date or fuck him no matter how shitty other men are. I respect him too much for that and i want hint to be happy and have his own life.
Not to mention that it IS possible to find men who are quality. You have to put effort into yourself and not settle for less. My boyfriend is finishing up college, cooks and cleans for me, is kind, generous, and loving, isn't corrupted by porn/4chan/etc, has productive hobbies, will do anything I ask of him and extra (like once I commented that there's no light in our closet and not only did he purchase lights for it that he rigged up but he also bought organizers and reconfigured things in the closet to give me more clothing space because he knows how much I like clothes, but I never even asked for anything to be changed in the first place), isn't degenerate sexually but is able to fulfill my sex drive (2-3x a day), cares about his family members and my family members, my mental health, the list goes on. He is kind of similar to my eldest brother now that I think about it, but of course, my brother wouldn't be intimate with me mentally (and physically, duh) the way my boyfriend knows me. He also has improved over the course in our relationship at dealing with conflict.
But if you're into incest, that's a tall order imo to expect another man to be "good" to you in that same way, or to not see his own sisters in a specific way.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 01:26:16 AM 80864
>>80846 I'm amazed to this day that people still fail to understand what the Oedipus Complex is. I guess it comes with having never read the tale of Oedipus.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 01:31:51 AM 80865
>>80793 Theres something with you faggot.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 02:14:49 AM 80870
>>80853 Confusing consensual incest with incestual rape is probably running into an issue. You don't have to love your brother, but there's no reason they can't want to love or fuck their brothers. If it's consensual, there is literally nothing wrong with incest unless you're a eugenicist.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 02:20:04 AM 80871
>>80855 If you found out one day that your boyfriend is actually your long lost brother, would you still stay in a relationship with him?
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 02:20:40 AM 80872
>>80783 >all I wanted to do was throw my dress off and doink him until it hurt so why didn't you?
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 03:45:38 AM 80879
>>80870 Certainly if it's not consensual it's worse. But consensual incest, assuming you both grew up and knew each other as siblings, is still going to have other repercussions that are not purely genetic in nature (which I mentioned). Not to mention power dynamics will nearly always be present in some way, shape, or form in "consensual" incest relationships. If a kid sister turns 18 and starts to fuck her incel 21 year old brother, it's extremely tricky territory to protect the potential power dynamic of her brother being an elder sibling. That fact alone contributes to the consideration of whether that is "consensual". I mean, consider how molesters within families where the kids are both underage operate - they don't always know they're molesting, but they're profiting off the power dynamics their younger siblings is subjected to by being their younger sibling.
Idc if it's a long-lost situation or something, though note those are generally fetishized scenarios by outside parties and they rarely occur in real life. In the cases that does occur, though, I think they shouldn't breed preferably, but by all means, get married, have a life together. Do you.
>>80871 I'd still date him because we did not grow up in the same family.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 04:01:08 AM 80880
>>80879 >Not to mention power dynamics will nearly always be present in some way, shape, or form in "consensual" incest relationships. This is so vaguge, power dynamics exist in literally any human relationship that has ever existed, what is the level of "power" that has to exist for the concept of "consent" to be thrown out the window? I thought the entire point of consent as a concept is individuals can own their bodies and make decisions for themselves. If you believe in "power dynamics" you can't mutually believe in consent at the same time.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 03:16:25 PM 80903
>>80879 Would you date your brother if he wasn't your brother?
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 06:10:46 PM 80911
>>80903 This is such a silly, false question because you would never know your brother to the extent you do if he wasn't your brother. Assuming this isn't just some shitty moid LARP, anon would probably think her brother was an asshole like everyone else and never have the opportunity to know him in-depth.
Anonymous 04/11/21 (Sun) 11:01:55 PM 80933
>>80598 can you tell him to come fuck me
Anonymous 04/13/21 (Tue) 12:16:29 AM 81032
>>80903 No. He is a devout christian and I am atheist. Barring that and the fact he physically disgusts me despite the fact I am aware he is conventionally attractive to others, I would. But it grosses me out to think about because I know him as my brother. I have no interest in him.
Anonymous 04/13/21 (Tue) 12:33:58 AM 81035
>>80880 >If you believe in "power dynamics" you can't mutually believe in consent at the same time. Let me demonstrate. If a daughter decides to get into a relationship with her father (who raised her since she was a baby) once she turns 18, how likely is it that that relationship is going to be fair and equal when she has acted in the parent/child relationship power dynamic for so long? She is at considerable risk that her father will treat her in an unequal way because of this dynamic. Even if her father treated her lovingly in the relationship, the dynamic still remains, likely has unhealthy results, and can easily, easily be abused. Consider why 13 year olds in school having relationships with their teachers is considered unsafe, even if the teacher really does have an interest in the person they're in a relationship with.
With most siblings, it's not an equal relationship. Most sibling relationships have order instilled in them (elder vs. younger) and look at each other, depending on this order, usually. They also might have special roles assigned to each other from a young age. The point is, if they grew up with each other, the potential for inequality in the relationship, as well as abuse, is huge. Ask people who are molested by siblings - it's often not a clear cut "someone didn't want it". The sibling's relationship to each other was utilized for access that usually wouldn't be granted. The same would apply to a potential relationship once a person's 18.
I mean, consider how that would impact certain scenarios - you could groom relationship partners for yourself and legally nothing could stop you as long as long as they hit a certain age. Obviously, this isn't the main situation I'm thinking of in my above responses, but it's an opened up possibility.
I think of it similar to the legal age of consent isn't technically necessary in that I'm sure there have been positive relationships of 12 year olds with 20 year olds, etc. But, the age of consent provides a certain protection to its victims.
Anonymous 04/13/21 (Tue) 07:41:00 AM 81074
>>80783 So… the femcels are afterski responsible for the incest shit on pornhub huh?
Anonymous 04/13/21 (Tue) 10:01:49 AM 81088
>>80577 Yeah, that sounds like a great way to end up old and alone.
I think I'll pass.
Anonymous 04/14/21 (Wed) 02:10:16 PM 81204
find on campus, message him on instagram. is it that hard for you?
