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Anonymous 44115

Where the fuck do you meet men

Anonymous 44116

Through friends.
Alternatively, join a yoga class or a hobby club.

Anonymous 44117

>>44115
Why would anyone ever want to meet men?

Anonymous 44119

>>44115
You need to get yourself into situations where you can meet new people, even if the only people you click with are girls that then opens you up to potentially meet their existing circle of friends which could contain some bf material

Anonymous 44120

you don't because your social experience is far lacking compared to all of the others your own age and lower aged people of your same social level will see you as old and never talk to you

Anonymous 44121

>>44120
Or she can meet someone in the same situation as her. Imageboards are full of this type, unfortunately.

Anonymous 44122

>>44115
bumble

Anonymous 44124

>>44115
Just buy one at the man store.

Anonymous 44147

They are everywhere. The hot ones? I don't know.

Anonymous 44148

>>44121
I tired /soc once and very very very very very few of them are actual nice humans. Majority of them are asshats who want nudes. Even if it doesn't start that way, that's the ultimate goal for most. I gave up and deleted my discord and never went back on it. That was like a year ago.

Anonymous 44151

>>44115
Card game tournaments and cosplay conventions.

Anonymous 44157

>>44115
Minecraft

Anonymous 44158

>>44148
No shit soc is a terrible board. No decent man will go on it. There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan. Try smaller boards and don't add people on the premise of you being female. Add them on shared interests/hobbies and it may unfold with you getting a good man. Also avoid anime and videogames and the like as the interests. So-called 'Nerdy' people are shallow and childish.

Anonymous 44164

>>44158
>There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan
No, anon. No.
>So-called 'Nerdy' people are shallow and childish
Then why would you want to find a guy in the nerd Mecca?

Anonymous 44168

>>44157
The problem with the ones you meet there is that they care about diamonds more than they care about you. From experience :(

Anonymous 44170

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At your local library? (Don't listen to me; I haven't dated in nine years.)

Anonymous 44178

>>44158
/fit/?

Anonymous 44186

>>44157
As far as I know, only little boys still play Minecraft. Do you have something to confess to us, anon?

Anonymous 44189

>>44115
Depending on where you work you might meet one there. I dated a coworker for 2 months and he fucked a lot up for me and I had put in my 2 weeks. Another coworker convinced me to stay and try something different so I switched to 3rd shift and everything fell into place. Met the sweetest guy and we have been dating for 2 years now. Obviously this kind of thing doesnt happen everyday but if whatever you have going on everyday isnt working then try changing something up. I wouldnt recomment your job though, maybe a hobby. You would be surprised by what is waiting for you.

Anonymous 44214

>>44115
Most men on /ic seem like incels. And thats one of the slowest boards.
So don't try 4chan at all

Anonymous 44234

Martial arts, sport clubs, meeting apps, uni, workplace, dance clases, bars, common friends, asking minor stuff to strangers and chat.
Men will notice you and aproach you if enough signals are given, no matter the place.

Anonymous 44346

Grocery stores

Anonymous 44347

>>44158
>she thinks men post on 4chan
traps, traps in denial and little boys

Anonymous 44348

>>44115
through friends, doing stuff you like etc. You can always mail order one, if men do it, we should too

Anonymous 44398

Hinge, or at a bar or social event. Men will be more likely to respond to you if you just go up and talk to them, as opposed to the other way around. A lot of them like it, in fact. Give it a shot princess, you got this.

Anonymous 44464

After college? Very difficult. You are really restricted to the workplace. Better hope you don't work in a majority female profession. People suggest bars, clubs, and others, but there is an obvious selection against positive traits in those environments. You could try online dating, which presently is stacked highly in our favor. Good luck.

Anonymous 44466

>>44465
You will have to figure that out elsewhere, Steve.

Anonymous 44471

beach-hot-love-sum…

is online a wrong answer?

Anonymous 44486

>>44115
Go to church if you want to find someone marriageable.

Anonymous 44490

test

Anonymous 44500

>>44486
That's how one of my cousins found her husband. Would recommend.

Anonymous 44560

>>44115
Keep in mind that their thoughts aren’t as restricted by the context of your meeting. Most women will be hesitant to open up to a stranger that they meet in a professional or serious context, however for men that isn’t really the case.

Obviously it’d be short sighted to go on dates with every attractive guy that you meet in conferences, classes, or whatnot, but certainly keep in mind that guys you meet there won’t necessarily be unavailable because of the situation.

Anonymous 44567

How to Be Yourself…

How to Be Yourself by Ellen Hendriksen

Anonymous 44568

Flirtology by Jean…

Flirtology by Jean Smith

Anonymous 44569

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Captivate - The Science of Succeeding with People
by Vanessa Van Edwards

Anonymous 44767

>>44151
I can confirm that you will find many many men at card game tournaments, but not many of them are bf material

Anonymous 44771

>>44767
Depends on how you define bf material. What if all I want is a clean dick.

Anonymous 44773

>>44771
Card game tournaments are infamous for their stink

Anonymous 44776

>>44773
Are they stinkier than men at cosplay cons?

Anonymous 44779

>>44771
then you'll be fine

>>44776
I've never been to a cosplay con, but I've never found card tournaments to stink, just the occasional person

Anonymous 44934

>>44115
Church. Just don't go to a cucked one - you'll find pansies there.

Anonymous 44943

>>44940
Your head is way too small for your body, you look ridiculous lol

Anonymous 44944

>>44943
That guy looks as straight as a circle.

Anonymous 44949

>>44946
To be fair, he does look like a Greek rapist.

Anonymous 44955

There are tons of guys at board gaming events.
Local boardgame stores host events sometimes for people to come and play games for free. There's also Meetup.
It is spooky going to an event for the first time, but i never played boardgames until recently and in my experience no one has been mean to me about not knowing how to play a game. Usually they're just happy to have someone play with them.

Anonymous 44959

>>44955
You've clearly never seen the intense hatred in discussions about women invading gaming circles. Any group you join if you are least average looking will tear itself apart trying to get with you, or so /tg/ says.

Anonymous 44968

>>44959
I do avoid those types of boards tbh.
I'm also not that pretty.

Anonymous 44985

>>44946
It's true that he gives off gay vibes. I think >>44940 and >>44947 would look good together.

Anonymous 45015

>>44115
4chan.org/r9k/

Anonymous 45023

>>44955

I hate board games with a passion. I hang out with a nerdy engineer crowd and love the people, but hate how every time we meet at someone’s house, we end up playing board/tabletop games. I just don’t understand what’s so fun about those games and only play them so I can spend more time with people I love.

Anonymous 45030

>>45023
This is why >>44959 happens
They don't want you there either

Anonymous 45037

>>45029
Reported
Enjoy hell pedophile

Anonymous 45043

>>45030

That's fine. Everyone has things they enjoy, you know? To each their own.

Anonymous 45105

>>44464
do you say presently because you expect this to change?

Anonymous 45111

Discord servers for content creators you watch, especially massive ones with tons of random fans. Join vc a few times a week and get e bf in 2 months ez

I’ve heard you can also meet them irl but I’m too awkward to talk to boys irl.

Anonymous 45115

>>45111
But my favorite youtuber doesn't have shit like discord.

Anonymous 45152

Where can I meet women that's waking conscious is tied to the internet and are cynical yet still optimistic.

Anonymous 45153

>>45152
Probably a neet weeb convention

Anonymous 45155

>>45153
Like an anime convention? I don't have a big interest in anime besides a few shows.

Anonymous 45189

Literally go to a bookstore, and start asking questions to the first seemingly decent guy there, or if you're passive, have a book but don't stare into it - be open to others around you, make eye contact, smile at the attractive ones, or look at them repeatedly.

Anonymous 45196

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>>45189
>make eye contact, smile
>look at them repeatedly

Anonymous 45200

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>>45196
top rofl

Anonymous 45258

>>45255
this

Anonymous 45290

>>45196
>>45196
Oh wait. Are you saying you're too ugly or awkward to pull this off? In that case my condolences, but most girls don't need to do much. Be available to talk, don't be unavailable.

Anonymous 45786

>>45023
They like competition.

Anonymous 45788

>>45023

i think it's because the nerdy engineers are socially inept and board games provide very, very structured frameworks/scripts for interacting in person. it always feels like a crutch. i'd just rather talk and hang out without literal rules in place.

Anonymous 45839

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It's weird how half the population is so hard to find, like I'll have to break into a cute boy's house to find one

Anonymous 45849

>>45786

That makes sense. I’m not a very competitive person at all, and don’t really find much joy in winning over other people. Not a big fan of sports either.

Anonymous 45850

>>45839
You should try going outside before resorting to this.

Anonymous 45862

>>45850
She would naturally wind up outside on her way to the house she was planning to break into.

Anonymous 46431

>>44115
Anywhere.
What you meant to ask is "where the fuck do you meet men who are worth meeting", the answer to that is I don't know.

Anonymous 46511

>>46431
What does "worth meeting" mean tho

Is it something you feel at a certain moment

Anonymous 46514

>>46511
NTA but I assume she meant bf material

Anonymous 46554

>>45788
That´s nice and all, but then you dont get to kill the dragon take its gold.

Anonymous 46569

>>44158
/int/ is very decent and has a lot of qt and funny boys. Plus you will know exactly what country they're from, which is a big plus

Anonymous 46570

>>46569
Which /int/?

Anonymous 46573

>>46570
4chinz one

Anonymous 46574

>>46569
>>46573
>>46570
I thought i was the only one lurking /int/ to find a bernd bf.

I've been lurking more on Kohlchan's /int/ though, as i noticed at least 3 BR anons who are into femdom and might be sub bottoms.

Dunno how i will get them to contact me though.

Anonymous 46593

>>46574
That's why I asked her which /int/.

Anonymous 46630

Anyone who would suggest 4chan as a serious place to meet people is either a man or a man in a dress. Please don't fucking take advice from these larpers.

The only thing you'll find on 4chan is a bunch of basement-dwelling incels who will string you along so they can post your nudes online or make your life hell because they have mommy issues and want to destroy other women's lives in revenge.

If you want to meet men, go outside. Literally nobody I know in a long-term relationship has ever met anyone online.

Anonymous 46633

>>46630
>dated guys from 4chan
>now married to a /fit/izen lmao
She didn't learn the lesson

Anonymous 46638

>>46630
This is only true for the cliché incel boards like /b/, /v/, /vg/, /r9k and /pol/

Anonymous 46640

>>46630
The coolest and nicest bunch of people I met and still am in contact with were from 4chan. I don't know if I hit the jackpot but we've had a discord server for years now and it's full of really nice and interesting people. 4chan is huge and it isn't just visited by angry alt right virgins.
Even the few angry virgins we had in that group matured over time and grew out of it and became decent people lmao
More and more people meet up online and stay in ltr's although I think it's still a taboo to admit that, at least in my country.

Anonymous 46660

>>46630
>>46638
>met my best friend and now ex on /pol/
We only broke up because it was too expensive to travel and keep up a long distance relationship.

Anonymous 46661

>>46660
Why? I'd expect girls to go on any board other than /pol/.

Anonymous 46662

>>46661
/pol/ is good for a laugh and very occasionally insightful

Anonymous 46667

>>46661
it's because nobody here is a girl

Anonymous 46668

>>46661
Well I am a racist so.

Anonymous 46670

>>46668
Hopefully, you're as honest about it in real life as you are here.

Anonymous 46671

>>46670
I am. It's not really taboo in here (latin america), pretty much everybody is racist on some level.

Anonymous 46798

>>44115
anywhere you would find men. clearly not at the places you hang out at. at the end of the day you just need to put yourself in the same room as them, and i'm sure you'll work out the rest.
lots of places were already mentioned. less well known are the archery and gun ranges, though if you go that route you'll get to know a lot of boomers along the way.

Anonymous 46800

>>46798
archery ranges are less noisy so you can actually talk to people, who are also more friendly in general

Anonymous 46848

>>44968
Doesnt matter.
Guys go crazy in these circles. But if you go, best bet is to go after one who isnt hunting you. Higher potential bf material. Since he values his hobby higher than a female he doesnt know at all. Also shows he is not that needy.

Anonymous 46849

>>46431
What is even worth meeting anyway. Im fine if he is not a fuckboy and doesnt chase staceys

Anonymous 46864

>>44115
is 4chan even an option. i feel like everyone there has some form of mental issues

Anonymous 46869

>>44115
I'm honestly not sure.
The gym will get you someone physically fit but who knows about personality. Maybe meet them online through mutual interests but dont tell them you're a girl until you know them better

Anonymous 46942

>>46864
That is a bit pot, kettle considering where you are posting.

Anonymous 47010

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Cosplay conventions

Anonymous 47012

>>47010
does airtighted mean what i think it does?

Anonymous 47014

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>>47012
Not sure about what they mean

Anonymous 47048

Depends what kind of men you're looking for. Someone with similar musical taste? A gig, show or a festival.
Someone with similar hobbies or interests? Try joining a club or something (don't try to approach people in gyms though, most people don't want to be bothered in their workouts, speaking from experience).
Dating apps are also an option.
You can also go to a bar alone, as long as you look approachable (body language, don't sulk in a corner staring at your phone!) people will come and talk to you.
You could also try to get to know other women, whenever you get to meet a circle of friends there's usually men in it.
Also, random occurrences like meeting someone on a walk, falling over on a bike and having someone come help you, the options are truly endless. But one thing is for certain, men won't come to you if you just sit in front of a screen and post here.

Anonymous 47071

Test

Anonymous 47105

>>44115
Enroll in some social activity and send clues.

Anonymous 47110

Reminder that /int/cels from 4chan are raiding this thread as we speak. Beware of those basket cases

Anonymous 62445

>>62438
Not everywhere is closed. I'm still going to work, so I have plenty of people to still talk to.

Anonymous 62452

>>44486
Based

Anonymous 62465

>>62438
The lockdown's been mostly lifted everywhere but the US and the US has been ignoring it anyway.

Anonymous 62466

>>62465
I wish.
My uni is closed till April next year.
Same goes for all public places like swimming pools and such.

Anonymous 62467

>>62466
Same, I can't even go to the fucking library for AC and a quiet place to study and it was 118 degrees fahrenheit last week and now I'm being gassed to death by wild fire fumes.

Anonymous 62471

>>44158
i think fit would be like a smart place since they're at least they take care of their bodies

Anonymous 62472

>>62471
Nobody outside of CBT is actually into fitness there. The lack of moderation allowed everyone from r9k to brigade there since their board got taken over by gays and /int/. They even raided this place from there about a week back.

Anonymous 62473

>>62472
>CBT
>not /plt/

Anonymous 62523

>>44115
Join a Judo class.
If it's a decent school those guys can get pretty big.
Especially the ground sparring when they try to pin you down can be quite intresting

Anonymous 62525

Go to India then show bobs and vagene.

Anonymous 62538

>>62467
These wildfires are fucking with me I can’t go for runs or even leave the house for long periods of time without getting a headache.

Anonymous 62662

At your local gym for the cute ones?
Maybe on some outdoorsy club or so too if you don't want a lardass neckbeard that carries a waifu pillow IRL?

You better be decent looking though; that's how you get dumped quickly since everyone always thinks "I could do better" if one is more handsome/beautiful than the person they're in a relationship with, sadly.

Anonymous 62699

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>>44115
At their homes in front of their computers. You just have to find where one lives and then brake inside through a balcony or something, that's how nerdy men imagine their manic pixie dream girl will just fall in their hands. Alternatively you could find one at a party, an actual party, drinking alone at home is not a party, a gathering with some of your friends is not a party either.

>>44170
In the age of internet? I don't think so.

>>44568
>>44569
Cringe.

>>45839
You're on to something there.

>>46630
4chan indeed is a terrible online hangout, anyone worth their salt left it in 2014.

Anonymous 62714

>>62699
Sauce? I know it very ot but this pic cracked me open for some reason.

Anonymous 62718

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>>62714
I don't know artist's name, but i have this one more heartwarming image for you.

Anonymous 62723

>>62718
Cheers, I reverse image searched it, artists name is adarsh balak.

Anonymous 62735

>>62699
The problem is that the more social and outgoing they are the less likely they are too be loyal. Plus I cannot deal with them having a social life since I don't. I want somebody like me.

Where do you get a comfy homebody bf? Also I hate manchilds and people who play video games and watch anime. I don't want a total loser either.

Anonymous 62736

i was placed next to this cute guy when i had to get a forklift license for my job.

The last day we took the train together and he asked for my snapchatt. I hope he asks me out soon.

Anonymous 62763

>>62735
>I cannot deal with them having a social life
>I don't want a total loser
Aren't you contradicting yourself?

Anonymous 62764

>>62763
Some people will just find any excuse to not love somebody. It's literally female r9k.

Anonymous 62769

>>62763
My definition of loser is somebody without a good education and career.

I know loads of losers with a social life and also loads of successful people without one.

Anonymous 62785

>>44234
>Men will notice you and aproach you if enough signals are given, no matter the place.
Given they're not autistic, then you'd have to declare your intentions straight up.

Anonymous 62788

>>62785
What then of autistic men?
Do you simply "approach", if not "pursue" them?
How do you make it clear that you're being serious and are not in fact making fun of them?

Anonymous 62794

>>62789
No but they make horrible partners with zero emotional intelligence.

Anonymous 62821

>>44115
Clubs unironically

Anonymous 62830

>>45862
one verb: tunneling

Anonymous 62832

>>62794
I mean are we talking about actual diagnosed autism or internet meme autism (which is really just social awkwardness)?
The former are bad partners and should be avoided but the latter can be fine.

Anonymous 62833

>>62830
I think you're taking the whole "miner" thing a bit literally.

Anonymous 62846

Spoiler

>>62769
I think that not having a social life causes mental distress, even introverts go mad without socialization, it only happens latter for them. Humans are a very social species, our individual successes get judged, rewarded and punished according by how well we participate in our society. Our individual successes are also dependent on how successful our cooperation with each another is. I don't know any successful socially inept people, except Mark Zuckerberg maybe? I think that socialization is a big part of life and under normal conditions should be a reward into itself.

Anonymous 62939

>>62761
I messaged him and have talked now for 2 days straight now PLUS he asked me out.

Thank you for making me message him first im so happy

Anonymous 63116

>>44115
In the current year? Idk

I met my fiance at a religious function

Anonymous 63121

Someone suggested martial arts and i actually think that's a decent idea. Thing is, i can't stretch out my fingers completely, because of a condition. Can i still learn Taekwondo or would i look like an idiot. Also, Kickboxing might be fun too, but you don't rly get physical with men during the training, right?

Anonymous 63128

>>63121
Do swimming instead.
I met my first bf in an advanced swimming techniques class I did at uni.

Anonymous 63168

I got my last bf through a local imageboard meeting (it was for a small local imageboard). I wouldn't reccommend this route, since even the oldfags are usually either incels or incels-who-made-it, in other words, they still either have mommy or daddy issues.

Anonymous 63171

>>63168
I met my ex through a small obscure imageboard too and while he wasn't an incel type, he was emotionally immature and had no real life experience whatsoever outside of work. Can't recommend

Anonymous 63178

I've been thinking about going to a gardening club to find a bf. If they like to garden I know that they are patient, outdoorsy, and nurturing, so ideal bf material for me.

>>63121
You could call the dojo and ask or go for a grappling art instead like >>62523 suggested. Tbh I think judo is more effective anyway if you want to be able to defend yourself as a female.

Anonymous 63198

I meet mine on tinder

Anonymous 63201

I'm actually deeply concerned how often I read about female anons trying to meet male anons off of the chans. Are you girls purposefully trying to hook up with porn addicts, closeted trannys, RP/MGTOW and/or incels? No hot normal guy uses imageboards. Absolutely. No. Hot. Normal. Guy. I don't care if you're weird and ~totally introverted and like vidya games~ yourself, there is NO comparison between the women here and the men on imageboards. You deserve better so stop picking them. Let natural selection do its job please.

Anonymous 63211

>>63201
My ex was neither of these things but I still can't refute your argument because he simply didn't know how to deal with relationships. You're right, no emotionally sound man hangs out on IBs.

Anonymous 63223

>>63221
Do you have an argument?

Anonymous 63224

>>63201
>>63223
While it's still not a great idea, imageboards aren't one person. 4chan has millions of users and all kinds of people from all countries, actually much more diverse in types of people and opinions than elsewhere. There is literally no requirement to go on and post.

There is plenty of comparison to women here and other imageboards, the women here literally use and post on those imageboards. And based on this thread people clearly don't want a 'normal guy' because normal guys are shit or won't be able to understand people here.

Also, normal really has nothing to do with being hot. There are endless cases of hot men on 4chan but those posting their pics on an anonymous imageboard are likely to be the crazy ones.

Anonymous 63225

>>63224
1. How do you even meet guys on 4chan? Like there is zero contact info.

2. The guys who are going to approach you are self-selecting themselves to be thirsty and/or desperate as fuck, if nothing else.

Anonymous 63226

>>63225
There is /soc/! Most of the guys on there are cumbrains but I’ve met some sweet, somewhat-normal people.

Anonymous 63227

>>63226
>There is /soc/
Eww, those moids are disgusting.

Anonymous 63247

School, Work, Hobbies and through Friends.

Anonymous 63255

>>63226
/soc/ is a nightmare. To anyone who reads this, don't even go there. 99% is hookup/porn threads and the 1% of platonic threads are still full of troons and coomers. I tried /soc/ at my most desperate and highly filtered who I added and I still only met either bitter, spiteful moids or uwu wholesome idiots with anime profile pics. /soc/ is the bottom of the barrel because everyone you'll meet is either desperate for contact or already talks to 58494 people.

The only way to meet good men on 4chan is to participate in hobby/discussion threads, see if someone posts contact to keep up the convo, pretend you're a male while you get to know them, and only reveal that you're female once you know how they think about women.

Anonymous 63280

>>63224

Sorry retardchan, I don't think not-normal guy means autistic incels or men who secretly hate women. You can meet a guy who likes not-normie things not on 4chan. Let's not forget that 4chan is full of mass shooters (and soon-to-be-mass-shooters). I'm not gonna argue about the 'hot' bit because there can be a good looking dude on there will typically have other issues that are wrong with him.
All of the men on there have something wrong with them with like 0.00000001% exceptions.

Anonymous 63356

>>62885
I studied dating behavior of people.
In environments with high sexual peer pressure, due to how culture works and people.
Only assholes are left to date, all serial daters with a lot of expertise who could not give less of a fuck who they date, the main reason they are so successful and can refine their abilities so well.
Most people opt out of this, completely.
There isn't even a great gender bias to this, most people opt out before ever trying, not seeing themselves compatible ever.
Some people try a few times, get burned every time and on either side, they make up a majority of where
>every x is horrible
comes from.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rE3j_RHkqJc just about anger, but fits the issue pretty well.

These people also have big issues outside dating, with how they train themselves.

The current dating culture, largely allows a few moids to pick completely unchecked, be mostly matched with the worst of our people and this leads to an arms race of horrible autism.

The best way is to ignore the grand tenet of
>never date someone you know
if you can't date normal people and end relationships normally, it's best to not and leave poor souls alone
all this also means that any sane person, can easily lock down the best guys that exist the first time they run into them dating
not that media and the world isn't designed to make us hate them and only if they are from certain races
we are getting fucked, just not the right way, we are celebrating it and we still vote it in and support it every which way we can
our perception largely defined by broken people who would never follow their own advice
but with lots of glee destroy any relationship of their friends for far lesser reasons
>>63227
worst board there, their chinese factory assembly line for nice guys is pure horror
>>63226
I've not met a single normal person there, their cham chat rooms are horrible, the nicest looking guys dox, threaten, blackmail and plan the worst things.
Better chances to find a confused hippie with strong convictions on pol.
The way our brains work is not compatible with trying to find love online and the abstraction of perception to it all, is a perfect breeding ground for issues like in Watzlawik's
>Manual to unhappiness
or how it's translated
>The Situation Is Hopeless, But Not Serious: The Pursuit of Unhappiness
Any hobby where one meets people is going to be more successful than the internet dating choices.
>>63280
they don't, try to make a positive thread about women and see what happens
if it's remotely successful you'll notice people who are clearly men pretending to be women in real life fucking up the threads and then deleting them
beside their vested interest in fucking people with their hate for the real deal
they and others also just created the idea of incel and politicized it
it's not even a moid term
I mean, the last two weeks it was perhaps better, lots of jannitor changes
Also they helped out with putting a filter on the address to here.
>>63280
how do you think it works in matriarchal or matrilinear cultures? they still exist
and even what the scythians had with centaurs and amazons still exists in some tribes.
Even Islam matrilinear societies like the Minangkabau or Touareg exist.
Both great examples of the effect culture has.
Everyone's culture is under attack, it's not easy enough to calculate economic success and political control with it and those are natural processes, happens in any epoch of mankind.
Just the tools are a whole lot different and in theory, any interested person could find more than enough information of how incel, is a political and cultural weapon, used by letter agencies in conjunction with corrupt journalists to push it.
Successfully used, transforming people.

Anonymous 63401

>>63280
>>63356
Have you had any success anywhere else?

Anonymous 63418

>>63356
1,000 IQ post. Especially with how assholes and sociopaths are the only ones active in online dating which, funnily enough, makes up the majority of men.

Anonymous 63422

>>44158
soc is probably the most male gay board of 4chan, and there is a lgbt board there

Anonymous 63460

>>63418
So if sociopaths and generally unpleasant people make up the vast majority of actively dating men, then do you think it would would work to pursue men on your own?
After all if the only men who approach women are generally unpleasant, it seems to be logical that you should just pursue men that you want of your own volition.
Then again I've never dated, so I wouldn't really know anything.

Anonymous 63463

>>63460
All you have to do is not be completely passive.
If you are completely passive only the scum will approach you.
If you go out meet people and show some interest in people (you don't literally have to confess love) then you will get attention of better men.

Anonymous 63706

I just went cycling across the city for an errand.
There are SO MANY cute looking single men walking all over the place.

The only problem is, there is no place where people can just to meet others.

Anonymous 63720

>>63706
Stop looking for excuses to talk with boys. Just go up and talk to them. Literally pick one.

Anonymous 63741

>>63720
That's such an American thing to say, lol.

Anonymous 63767

>>63741
I hope you realise Americans are the ones who think every relationship has to start like the ones on TV.

Anonymous 63990

>>44115
Church is really the only way to go, although most guys that go to church already have wives and kids. Still I'd take my chances there over literally anywhere else.

Anonymous 63995

>>44115
Throw yourself to the ground in front of him.

"Ow, I bruised me knee, if only some cute guy could help, haha."

If he ignores you, there was something wrong with him anyway.

Anonymous 64171

>>63995 I can't imagine this actually working.
After he has done everything he could to help you he would never see you since you're just an inconvenience to him.

Anonymous 64211

The best place to meet dudes online is twitter. I know people who got married off of it. Bonus points if you are religious, then if you retweet and follow a lot of Christian stuff youll get a bunch of Christian dudes in your DMs. These people generally aren't total psychopaths because they put a lot of effort into gaining a reputation and high follower count because its more of a genuine community instead of a swarm of randoms.

Another great place is church. Go to an orthodox church, some of the sweetest people Ive ever met in my life I met there. If you go and wear a veil theres usually some put together dude who will swoop after you instantly.

Good luck!

Anonymous 64226

>>64171
Well you obviously need to follow up with drugging him and tieing him up while his guard is down.
From there you just need to stuff him in your trunk and toss him in your designated boyfriend room.
This is pretty basic stuff anon.

Anonymous 64290

>>44115
Find a hobby you like ("get a life") and join a group related to that hobby. This is a common suggestion for men, and a lot of these groups are mostly male so you'll have options. Not all hobbies need a group, I like bouldering and you can meet people just going to the boulder gym.

>>44955
From my experience local board gaming events are great, though it depends on the kind of guy you're looking for. Some muscular guy might like board games but I wouldn't count on it. If it's an open event nobody will ever be mean to you, they expect new players.

>>44959
Some of those nerdy types can be really thirsty and I've heard i't destroyed gaming groups before. A rule that was suggested to me was to only join groups where I wouldn't be the only female but I've only ever played at open events so it was never an issue.

>>44968
>I'm also not that pretty.
Just try to care for yourself and work out a bit. Unless you're somehow deformed, if you look confident and work out like once or twice a week you're in top 80% attractiveness.

Anonymous 64306

Figure out what your favorite hobby is and go to any sort of meet up related to that hobby.
It's a great way to meet similar minded people,I think people like similar things because at least a part of the way they think has to be somewhat similar.

Anonymous 64315

>>47010
it means having a dick in your vagina, a dick in your ass, and 1-2 dicks in your mouth

Anonymous 64316

>>62939
pics or it didn't happen

Anonymous 64318

>>64290
where's a good place to meet a muscular guy?

Anonymous 64354


Anonymous 64385

>>64318
To be mean to?
I always want to tease them, but Im told my jokes always come out too mean.

Anonymous 64391

>>64389
I second this. Aside from looks there's not much to them.

Anonymous 64397

Depends on the men you're looking for. Tinder, Discord are good places to start.
>>64318
lol

Anonymous 64431

>>44115
Better question: How do you make these chimps leave you alone? Men are ugly and unlovable, but they never seem to fuck off and mind their own business.

Anonymous 64968

>>47012
A dick in every primary oriface at once, yeah. Mouth, ass, pussy.

It's really intense, and they all just focus on thrusting so if you don't like penetration, I don't recommend it.

Anonymous 64977

>>64968
…? Have you?

Anonymous 64991

>>64977
Yeah. I was more willing to try new things when I was younger and I watched too much porn, so it probably warped what I thought was okay to do.
I don't know why I ever thought differently, but surprise surprise, a large chunk of moids want to try stuff they see in porn, and don't care about your pleasure at all. Some do, and some of the stuff is actually great to do, but most of it is impractical and probably won't get you off, and is just for them.

Anonymous 65028

>>64991
how do you even go about organizing that type of thing

Anonymous 65041

>>65028
Essentially, I knew a few people already who I knew would be into it. Guy friends, ex roommates, etc. Real dudebro types, but who are still fine with seeing other dudes naked or accidentally touching dicks. Also using apps like 3nder. And I just sort of advertised that I was down to give it a go. Eventually, two guys were keen, and after some drinks and weed we were good to go. The third guy was actually a last minute addition, messaged and showed up on the night. Before him it was just DP.

More related to the thread topic, this is not a way to meet good men. If you're keen to fuck, then go for it, but not a great way to meet 'the one', or any romantic guy. Just coomers.

Anonymous 65459

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In the current age, good men wouldn't be outside interacting with the general population.

Anonymous 65460

>>65457
wat

Anonymous 65471

>>65459
How do I lure them out of their rooms?

Anonymous 65472

>>65471
Dont go for whatever run off the mill moid, let those choke in loneliness, they wont try in life and die out if nobody shows them interest anyway.
Go for racoons.

Anonymous 65527

>>65501
lol no
Nice try.

apolitical men are the best.

Anonymous 65535

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Anonymous 66173

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>>65527
>>63995
That sounds like something Tomoko would do ngl.

Anonymous 66175

>>45189
How does one exactly go about this in a casual manner? I'm always afraid of coming off desperate or creepy. Has anyone tried this, and has it worked out?

Anonymous 66176

>>66175
You need a good pretext for that.
>Hey nerd, where's this book at?
>This library smells like old people, amrite?
>Does this institution have hentai mango dohinshee?

Anonymous 66177

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Why is getting a bf so hard? Where do I even meet guys? I read stories here about NEET girls with extensive dating history and whatnot, meanwhile I have a part-time job n I attend uni, but still no bf.
The only male interaction I have is simping over some e-boy who hates my guts.

Anonymous 66178

>>66176
also, do men find it weird when women approach them first?

Anonymous 66180

>>66178
Nah, I think it's the same for both genders it's not creepy unless you're ugly, or you are too random.
Just don't spill spaghetti, don't look at the floor while saying 10 words per second.
Don't start showering him with random questions, take it slow.

Anonymous 66182

>>66177
What do you study at uni

Anonymous 66218

>>66178
>do men find it weird when women approach them first?
Only if he is a prick who aint worth your time anyway. Approaching first is a must in this day & age where moids are just retarded.

Anonymous 66441

>>44486
where my niece (we're the same age) found her amazing husband

Anonymous 66442

>>44955
>>45862
>>62830
This series made me smile.

Anonymous 66443

>>63990
>>64211
A lot of more traditional churches has singles groups specifically for meeting potential spouses. there is a mix of married people there, too, so it isn't a meat market, it is a real chance to meet people.
My roomie went to the Catholic one, Youventutim (SP?) for 6 months before COVID and said it was fun and that those 6 months resulted in 6 marriages

Anonymous 66445

Can't believe anons are actually recommending the church, religious men are the most hypocritical of all

Anonymous 66452

>>66445
Of my friends the only ones with decent guys married church guys

Anonymous 66466

>>66452
Maybe it depends on the area, I live in an overwhelmingly catholic country and every dude that's super into going to church is a weirdo.
My ex was the "church on sunday, confess my sins every once in a while" type of guy, he had a terabyte porn collection and still did all the sex stuff before marriage but then was in constant fear of going to hell kek
He'd tell me how he cried to the priest and would explain what he jerked off to in detail, religious men are wack. At least he was honest with me but that's because I wasn't judgmental due to being raised as a filthy atheist. That changed now and I don't date coomers, but I lose respect when it comes to dudes that don't jerk off because god tells them to.
Plus they're usually nationalistic misogynists but I'm aware the nationalistic part varies from country to country.

Anonymous 67509

gestos-caballeroso…

Where are the good men? Do gentlemen still exist?

Anonymous 67511

>>67492
Most people in the gym are coping.

Anonymous 67728

>>67511
That statement in itself is a cope. Don't get mad that people actually care about their bodies while you sit on your ass all day.

Anonymous 67731

>>67728
>moid goes to the gym
>gets his ass kicked by another person that actually learned fighting techniques or that has a weapon and hows the basics on how to use it.

Boohoo. Besides /fit/ is full of misogynists, basically /r9k/ 2.0 and they deserve to kill themselves.

Anonymous 67744

>>67719
Go away moid.

Anonymous 68025

If you draw or have other artistic hobbies, try art related online communities. I've met quite a few guys that were really cool to talk with on deviantArt(inb4 >deviantArt, there's not only sonicfags and ponyfuckers there.) Plus you can usually judge their character somewhat from their art, if someone's drawing fetish inflation anime porn you can be pretty sure he's not relationshit material lol.
I didn't get a relationship out of it but I talked to quite a few guys who seemed lovely that I'd have loved to meet IRL if they weren't on the other side if the planet. Those that had pictures on their profiles or shared them didn't look bad either. I don't look for relationships there either, usually just ask for art tips or about some common interest like some show or something and the conversation just goes from there. It feels kinda relaxed like running into someone cool you just like to talk to IRL. At least from my experience, dunno how representative that is, maybe I was just lucky

Anonymous 68031

>>63201
you are using imageboard right now, don't be a hypocrite

Anonymous 68034

>>68031
using an imageboard =/= dating men from imageboards

Anonymous 68038

>>68034
I mean yeah, it just means that statistically speaking you're the same type or "quality" as those people you would be dating. And I kind of agree, people on imageboards tend to have more issues than the ones who aren't in these places, but telling someone not to date people from an imageboard on an imageboard… cmon how can you not see the irony? Its like an obese person telling another obese person not to date obese people.

Anonymous 68041

>>68038
>I mean yeah, it just means that statistically speaking you're the same type or "quality" as those people you would be dating.
You have a fundamental misunderstanding of this entire issue. It doesn't mean that at all, in any sense, especially not "statistically". You're legit either retarded or possess a penis. Pretending that male imageboard users are anywhere near as innocuous as the fairly mild mannered female weebs that visit CC is straight up apologia and completely detached from reality.

Anonymous 68043

>>68041
>mild mannered
posts racoon bf in you're path

Anonymous 68044

>>68041
>mild mannered
>in the same post where you call me retarded
Irony aside, have you seen like…. any post talking about men in here? Dont be delusional, we are to men what /r9k/ incels are to us.

Anonymous 68047

>>68044
Oh yes, anon, we're just like the board that eggs on people on to kill themselves and laughs at photos of dead "roasties". Being realistic about how unfaithful, dishonest, and dangerous men is is not the same as what they do on r9k. Men are a proven statistical danger to women, this is a literal fact. We aren't the ones committing upwards of 80% of violent crimes and higher for homicide and rape. American men aren't the ones being murdered at a rate of 3 men a day by the women they were or are the most intimate and vulnerable with. That's women. Women recognizing that fact is not the same as men being angry and resentful because they aren't able to fuck us on command. And the majority of us on here aren't pornsick. That in and of itself is a huge differentiation. Pornsick people are not desirable partners.

Anonymous 68326

>>67744
Where is he wrong tho.
It's become an outright meme that you can't treat women properly without being a "nice" guy.
I.E. petulant 30IQ rage when denied coochie.
Not only that but everything in society encourages abject selfishness to the point of absurd.

Anonymous 68460

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>>45015
Can confirm that men browse that website. And they are exactly the type of men that someone making a thread like this would be fit for.

Anonymous 68461

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Anonymous 68534

>>68461
I know at least four couples where neither one has eyebrows.

Anonymous 68693

on wizchan.org

Anonymous 68709

>>68693
They don’t want women posting on there though

Anonymous 69204

gnfos.com

Anonymous 69258

>>68047
I can't tell if this is ironic joke or not. Is this an altered copypasta from /r9k/?

Anonymous 70201

>>69258
from what i can tell some wizard runs it and he shuts the site down every other day because he hates everyone and everything on it

Anonymous 70203

>>46570
ylilauta /int/

Anonymous 70697

>>45189
You underestimate how dense guys are. 99% of the time they won't pick up shit. Don't waste your time being so subtle, it doesn't work.

Anonymous 70699

Go to the beach or something and stare at them nonstop

Anonymous 76203

>>63201
This fact cuts both ways, hence why you should go outside. People have problems anyway but if you're inexplicably trying to meet men on 4chan you're not advancing beyond at least one struggle you have (social) anyway.

Please do yourself a favor and just be personable in real life. You never know who's out there. Just look at the internet and realize there are tons of guys who are just as lonely as you, and you will make one of their day if you just be patient and don't rush this shit by trying to settle on that godforsaken website.

Anonymous 76251

>>46671
Oh this explain why /pol/ meets are full of mutts

Anonymous 76661

I think it's important to have an actual social life. Most of my Discord friends were actual friends or friends of friends first, and one of 'em moved nearby from out of state. Some of those friends have friends of the opposite sex. That can … lead to things.
On the other hand, I've chatted with people on 4chan's LGBT board offsite and there were some weirdos, and I've been the weirdo, too. Nothing actually crazy, but nothing good comes of it, tbh. Scored some femboy lewds for the social clout.
Or just install Tindr like everyone else.
>>70697
Often very true, but sometimes they play dense because it's easier and less likely to hurt feelings than a hard "no". But I fucking swear, it's like they either lead with dick pics and expect sex that night, or they casually shoot the shit at best (or outright ignore you) and nothing goes anywhere.

Anonymous 76670

>>76661
>find local Tridentine latin mass, weirder times the better!
>show up
>wait for mass to end
>pick one of the 2-5 bachelors you think looks best
>compliment suit/hair
Congratulations, you've got a fiance.
Worst case scenario, you make friends with sweet old church ladies who make you some scarves and recommend their grandsons.

Anonymous 76875

games, men like to play video games

Anonymous 76883

>>76875
Ugly, unhinged, unhygienic, unstable ones. Sometimes one gets lucky ngl tho.

Anonymous 77171

>>44116
you won't meet men in a yoga class lol

Anonymous 77172

>>77171
In my university town the yoga classes were about 50% male, 50% female.

Anonymous 77247

>>76883
Literally all young moids play video games these days

Anonymous 77251

>>76670
those guys cant get their strokes right though

Anonymous 77253

>>77247
Yes but I'm not 17 anymore.

Anonymous 77254

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>>77253
H-haha yeah who play video games well into their twenties like seriously

Anonymous 77261

>>44158
> There's heaps of good and attractive men on 4chan
doubt.jpg lol

Anonymous 77264

>>77254
scrotes play video games even into their 30s

Anonymous 77273

>>77254
You never saw the viral gma on youtube playing Animal Crossing?

Anonymous 77293

>>77254
Thy now have video games on their smart phones too

Anonymous 77473

>>76883
>Ugly, unhinged, unhygienic, unstable ones.
dumbest take in the last 7 days on this site

Anonymous 78054

>>76670
Last time I was at church the only guy under 25 and over 16 was the weird edgelord from my old highschool. He stopped wearing leather jackets all the time and came out gay a few years later. Shame, he was kinda cute, in an angry sort of way.
Then again, my area got rid of the latin masses ages ago and the priests wear pink or green robes on occasion. I haven't been back since my dad died.

Anonymous 78065

idk the only men who talk to me r internet men. weirdo internet men who fetishize mentally ill girls

Anonymous 78078

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Gun ranges. In Europe especially, they're like 98% male.

Anonymous 78111

>>78065
Where do you meet these men?

Anonymous 78112

>>78054
There's definitely been a resurgence in younger people going to the Latin masses over the past few years. Even if it's out of the way, I'd suggest trying to find one in a 30-minute radius.

Anonymous 78124

>>78111
i either meet them on twitter or discord. mostly twitter, but u can find them on discord too. if they find out ur a sad girl , they r mostly likely going to dm u. its mostly the anime guys tho btw

Anonymous 78484

>>63224
>those posting their pics on an anonymous imageboard are likely to be the crazy ones.
can confirm

Anonymous 78493

>>78078
Men her age. Not Boomers.

Anonymous 78511

>>78493
Oh, I'm sorry. Try the local laser tag arena, zoomette.

Anonymous 78515

>>44178
She probably means heterosexual men

Anonymous 78541

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>>44178
I'm dead, plus the boys over there are extremely insecure

Anonymous 79196

Where do you meet women

Anonymous 79197

>>79196
the library sometimes

Anonymous 79199

>>79197
How do you attract men in the library? Previous attempts at occasionally starring have not lead me to success.

Anonymous 79202

>>79199
you gotta just go for it
worst case they ignore you and you move on with your life knowing that at least you tried
if youre not confident you just gotta fake it til you make it

Anonymous 79205

Ask your friends to fuck their boyfriends. They’ll say yes.

Anonymous 79500

Videogames, specifically communities around videogames.

IMO best way to go about things is to only reveal you're female after you've been friends for a few weeks, casually revealing this maybe in VC. This is a good way to filter out weirdos who might otherwise not show their real self in front of a woman.

Anonymous 79502

>>79500
This, don't lie and say you're a guy but just don't bring it up until you've established a casual, friendly basis.

Anonymous 79522

>>79500
Why would you try to find a boyfriend in a vg community?

Anonymous 79527

Most men are self-conscious as fuck and don't expect women to like them, which is why they're almost always utterly fucking baffled anytime a female shows any interest. Don't be quick to show interest and dont go out looking for a bf.

You want a boyfriend? Talk to guys who like the same sorts of things you do. Make friends. If there's a guy who'd be good for you, you'll probably realize it after some time. Going out with the goal of getting a bf doesn't work because you'll either rush things or judge too harshly on shit that barely matters. It's a lot easier to fall for someone you actually enjoy being around and trust to not be scummy.

As for how to actually find them, just fucking talk to people in your circles, whether it's games, music, literature, whatever. It's really not a big deal and there are tons of guys out there who aren't desperate losers; Just ignore the ones who are and talk to the normal ones.

Anonymous 79528

>>79500
Some guys will do the opposite though, where they seem fine when they think you're a dude but then flip into being total creeps the second they find out you're a girl

Anonymous 79532

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>>79528
Well, YMMV. At any rate you'll know more about the guy.

Anonymous 80240

hell

Anonymous 80464

>>80240
LMAO hell? Damn. I didn't think I'd have to die just to get a decent date.

Anonymous 80577

Honestly? The best guys are all taken.
That's not a joke. Whatever is happening to men these days I don't know but the difference between a fit guy pushing 40 and a 25 lefty citykid these days is night and day.
The younger one looks older.

But I'm going to blow your mind:
It doesn't matter.
Why? Because the best ones want more and so do their wives/girlfriends.

Also they care more about weight than anything.
I'm 5ft 9 with teeth like a horse, acne and no tits or ass but 123lbs.
Don't be fat and nothing else matters.
He fucks me harder than her and sneaks off to fuck me 2x a day at least while she's at work.
I think she's hot anyway, and I don't mind sharing. I would never find a guy like him in a million years solo, but because I'm open to being their 3rd wheel they treat me like God's gift.
Their kids are all grown enough that they're not annoying at all, quiet and just spend all day on discord with their friends playing games, and they're sweet to me and seem genuinely interested in what I'm up to since I'm a bit younger and more hip than their parents, plus I've been slowly getting them into anime. Their kids love that.

Maybe you get used up a few times until you find a couple like them but you will if you're into it.
It's like a fucking cheat code to a upper middle-class or upper class lifestyle.
We've got a fucking maid and groundskeeper and he's working in software development in some kind of upper posistion with tons of disposable income. I cost them maybe 100$ a month in extra food so they're fucking loving it and all I've gotta do is keep my pussy waxed and enjoy more sex than I've ever had in my life.
To be honest he was my second ever.
I found them on Facebook by just clicking on random local "you might know" until one came up that had posted about "polyamory " beforehand. Turns out he's actually a genuinely amazing person and so is his wife.

Anonymous 80578

>>80577
this reads like it was written by a horny troid

Anonymous 80579

>>80577
what the fuck is this larp lmfao get the fuck out you degenerate coomer

Anonymous 80581

>>80578
I was Fed up and I've given up before this. To tell you the truth I wasn't really specifically looking for this but it clicked that maybe there was another kind of desperate. These couples looking for "a unicorn" truly are, there's nobody out there so when I casually left posts on a mutual group people started to dm me.
I was just literally punishing myself by looking at old highschool friends get married and have kids and cars and a fucking life before I was going to delete Facebook but it sucked me in. I hadn't really used the site in years except to message my burnout brother and make sure he was still alive.
I was getting jealous of the girls who ended up single mothers even because at least some guy loved them enough to become a father with them.
I've never had that. Ever. I was always too tall, too pasty with gross acne, loose skin, no muscle tone (I still have none), and glasses. Thick ones. My nose is probably too big and I have an overbite. My nails get gross and yellow, and I don't know why. My hair gets greasy after one day, lays flat on my head and is dull brown. I even tried "no poo" and got fucking alopecia for my trouble. Never again. No haircuts work, my head is shaped weird.
I tried social everything. Sports, cars, games, drinking until I thought I was becoming an alcoholic, tattoos, edgy piercings to distract from my uggo face and bad skin just to have the guts to approach guys.
I was always the friend my "friends" would try to set up with the overweight or persistant underachieving guys who wouldn't leave them alone after making it clear they were not interested. They all got married and never talk to me at all unless I message them first. Too busy with babies and their husband's friends and social life. because I'm homely, probably manic and depressed, and wasted my early 20's being a wasted 4 days a week angry welfare loser renting rooms from student housing.
I've tried to distance myself from all of them and these people are almost old enough to be my parents so my past isn't a factor.
I might be a little selfish now that I got something that feels like a dream, but I would NEVER do anything to push her away from him because I know I'm the one getting dumped to save their marriage.
So I've just become super submissive.
I get fired from every job I take anyway because I would get so worn out from even normal or below average looking people treating me like I don't exist or a literal mule for their labor. Oh, Sarah will take the third shift. Fuck you.
I think I can at least do this one thing if it means I can live comfortably with a handsome man and his wife for a few years.
It's been since before covid started and I'm sure lockdown has helped since it's this weird "zombie apocalypse" situation and they joke about "saving me from the walkers" because I sperged out from reading cvg and nearly noped back to my grandmother across the country but they convinced me to stay.
Probably because other girls got spooked after the first time they messed around. They mentioned being with one other girl before (who left them for a mutual friend) and she says that it left a bad taste in their mouth.

Anonymous 80584

>>80579
I knew I was too fucking autistic and wordy to get advice or tell my story here. I'm just going to phonepost myself into depression anyway, no wonder I've only lurked.
You're all way more fucking normie than you think.
I did something that made me happy during this fucked virus shit and it's not the same things you all spout.
Church is literally insane. Those people are crazy and the priests are literally closet xhild rapists and there's no magic sky man.
I swear to fuck there's no actual girls(female) here is there? You're the ones who sound disgenuine: I've never once had a friend who ever sounded like some of you.
Even the few and far between somewhat unsuccessful or mental issue friends that I met who I know use image boards (or because I showed them) never sounded like cc.
I truly don't know what this place is.

Anonymous 80586

>>80579
You know what I'll just fucking go then, but if I had some way to fucking bet you every last dime I had I would bet that you could get a message from a couple or 10 on 3nder or Facebook or some shit that's at least a 7/10 with a house and a job.
I'm not going to sit here crying because I thought I could vent to someone but since it's so fucking taboo I can't even share the one time I've ever been happy or in love with anyone else.
I thought maybe, just maybe here would be OK. Whatever.

Anonymous 80588

We get some real crazies here

Anonymous 80590

>>80588
Yeah I probably am.
So what. I'm too ugly to be a manic pixie dream girl.
I look like trailer trash even with loads of makeup applied by someone who knows what they're doing.
But they don't seem to care? They say they love my body and I get a kiss goodnight and they tell me they love me.
It's almost been a year during this pandemic and I still wake up surprised when he's down there making coffee every day and she's already gone by the time I wake up. I still usually stay in bed playing catgame for a hour every morning before I drag my ass out of bed after they leave it. He only sleeps for like 6 hours.
He says it's because he's getting older but he has more energy than every single person I've met nearly half his age. His generation is all like that. I've met his friends.
I'll die alone with 20 cats otherwise or drink myself to death or become something worse.
I feel normal here.
Maybe some of you could like that too. There's somehow a million couples out there like this but like nobody as desperate as me willing to give up Disney prince delusion.
I thought you wanted to find handsome attractive successful men?
Like I said they're all taken by 25. The real ones anyway.
They all went to good universities and married their hot neighbors and pumped out kids by 30.
And now that they're done with that and they have money and time they're bored and want excitement.
She's just really based and probably becoming a lipstick lesbian, I dunno.
She pays more attention to me than him these days because we tend to gang up on him? He complains about being overruled all the time but you can tell he actually loves it anyway. Plus she likes putting me in all her clothes from highschool lol.
I'm having fun now anyway, maybe I'll get dumped and I'm always worried I'm just a sex toy to them but after a year I don't know.
I still get all weird and self conscious and go into denial and they always drag me out of it and baby me.
Then I get worried they'll fucking hate my doubts and fears and get sick of assuring me they want me to stay with them so I just go with it.

Anonymous 80598

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>>80590
Disagree. The best guys are not all taken. My little brother is 28 (29 this month) and has a doctorate. He's an oddball but in a lovely goofy way. Slightly chub but powerful and strong, He has biceps like tree trunks and a rock solid chest but a nice soft little belly. Also if big dick energy is a thing, he has it in spades. When he morphed into a teenager he suddenly became cool and it just stuck that way for him.

As his depressed loser burnout sister he ends up taking care of my a lot and he's my best friend. He's very caring, very giving and relentlessly nice. I've paid close attention to the women he's dated in the past and have been as unbiased as possible in my analysis of why the relationship failed. out of the last 5 he dated.

Debbie cheated on him
Sarah was far too posessive and controlling
Chloe was short tempered, mean spirited and impossibly selfish
Imogen cheated on him with her ex
Kate was super weird and kept trying to force him into being a vegan and would get visibly upset at BBQs, especially if you refused her nut loaf (that tasted like burnt rubber and sadness).

He hangs out mostly at work. but also at the gym, but the point of my post I guess is that even when they're not taken, they're out of your reach. I swear if our kids wouldn't come out with a whole heap of defects I'd have dehumanized myself and milked every ounce out of him a long time ago. There's nothing worse than forbidden fruit. He's perfect for me, but he's not for me.

Anonymous 80609

>>80598
>not all men are bad! like my brother, who I want to fuck
I love this board.

Anonymous 80610

>>80598
One generation of incest isn't all that likely to produce defects, yeah the chance is increased compared to a normal couple but it's still pretty low. The problem is if it repeats for generations. I can't really care about relatives fucking when it's completely legal for people to pass on their horrific genetic diseases. Have you ever read about people with the Huntington's Disease gene getting pregnant on purpose, knowing that they? Their kids have a 50/50 chance of dying young from a horrific degenerative disease but it is completely legal for them to reproduce. It makes you want to die inside a little bit.

I'm not saying you should fuck your brother btw that's still probably a bad idea, but slightly higher chance of defective babies isn't the best reason.

Anonymous 80612

>>80610
stop giving her ideas please

Anonymous 80616

>>80612
Not that anon but it's important that sister anon confronts her feelings, otherwise she'll never be happy. They could also just adopt.

Anonymous 80619

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Anonymous 80622

>>80612
I don't support incest I just think the genetics worry is a weak excuse to be against it until society starts openly embracing eugenics

Anonymous 80625

>>80610
Much appreciated, but if the chance of deformity or disease goes up in any respect it's just not worth the risk. To do so would be the same mentality as those with horrible diseases that they pass on knowing it will destroy their kids lives.

>>80612
Believe me I've toyed with the scenario enough times in my head that there's likely nothing you can think of that I have not thought of. it's what happens after that which puts me off. I can't lose my best friend just because I want to ride him until we're both black and blue and I look like a twinkie someone blew the cream out of.

Anonymous 80638

>>80625
>Much appreciated, but if the chance of deformity or disease goes up in any respect it's just not worth the risk. To do so would be the same mentality as those with horrible diseases that they pass on knowing it will destroy their kids lives.
In that case, you just need to prove the two of them have no deleterious diseases, recessive or otherwise, and there's no problem.

The only rational argument against incest is based in eugenics, anything else is just social construction.

Anonymous 80639

>>80590
Anon I don't think you're a moid but you've got terminal insecurities and internalized misogyny. Knocking up a woman doesn't mean they "loved her enough to do so", that's just one of the 3585 things in your posts that scream about your lack of life experience which makes me feel sad for you falling for the unicorn bullshit to get validation. You don't have to do this. I've been there. Being alone is better. Don't sell yourself short.

Anonymous 80640

>>80598
Nothing stops you from dating your brother, the only legal barrier is that you won't be allowed to marry. Defects do not crop up over one generation, and unless either of you have severe diseases, the chance of passing anything is minimal.

Anonymous 80642

>>80639
>Being alone is better
so true
living alone and single has been some of the best and happiest years of my life

Anonymous 80644

>>80590
He's cheating on his wife with you. Why do you keep insisting he's such a wonderful guy?

Anonymous 80663

>>80644
It's a polyamorous thing. I don't agree with it personally but he isn't cheating and they both have sex with her.

Anonymous 80783

>>80598
Honey I know your pain so fully you're making me want to day drink at 6 in the morning. My brother is a gigachad. Always amazing to me growing up, we're talking about a brother who:-

- beat up my bullies
- cuddled me and stroked my hair when I was sad
- shared his desserts and candy with me
- always included me in games
- always helped me with homework
- took care of me when I was sick
- defended my decisions to our parents
- hung out with me when I had no friends

Plus he smells amazing, is athletic and fixes cars which is pretty manly. I always used to tease him that I was going to marry him when we grew up and he always played along, it crushed me when I realized it was never going to happen. I'm so autistic that my mom had to literally come into my room after a family party, sit me down and ask me to stop saying it in front of people because it's gross and weird coming from an 11 year old and it was never going to happen. 10 years later and I still cringe about how much I cried. It's not fair that 99.999% of men are irredeemable pieces of dog shit and the one golden example of a man in your life is literally taboo.

I've had the hots for him forever too. I walked in on him masturbating once and I froze, not because I was in shock or anything, but because my heart was pounding through my chest and all I wanted to do was throw my dress off and doink him until it hurt. I know it's gross and I don't care. I have a naked picture of him I stole from his laptop when I was 18 and he was in college and I rub off to it to this day. I'll probably do it now.

Anonymous 80791

>>80783
>>80598
>sudden incest
You're all trolling and practising brocon fanfics on this board, r-right?

Anonymous 80792

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Anonymous 80793

there is nothing wrong with incest

Anonymous 80799

>>80793
Normal people don't want to fuck their siblings

Anonymous 80801

>>80791
>>80598 here. 'fraid not. I'm 100% serious.
>>80799
The Westermarck effect is complete bullshit.

Anonymous 80803

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Anonymous 80805

>>80801
What's the age difference between you and your brother?

Anonymous 80808

>>80805
4 years and change.
>>80783
Glad I'm not the only one. life really is just a long joke with us as the punch line.

Anonymous 80811

>>80783
sooo hot holy shit
wish i had a chad brother who was sweet to me

Anonymous 80846

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>>80793
What happened to this thread?

Anonymous 80853

Incest is gross. I have 2 brothers. One is a kind, lovely man who has a law degree, doesn't watch porn (he talks about his beliefs with me, that's how I know), is friendly, conventionally handsome, etc.

The other brother molested me as a child, is also conventionally handsome, is a souless dirtbag. People would often tell me how hot he was as a kid and it made me want to punch them in the face. People are under the impression he is like the eldest brother, but he's really not. He talks shit about women behind closed doors, but no one would know that unless you were family. If any of you girls were molested or approached by your otherwise "gigachad" brothers as kids, you'd have very different opinions of them. It's disgusting. I was forced by my family to hang around this brother, be driven to college by him, etc. because they wanted to force me to basically forgive him and befriend him. The worst part about incest isn't much genetics. It's how it screws around with your family dynamics, your perception of boundaries, etc.

I want to believe some trolling moids are writing these accounts because they want to drag girls on this site to their levels. Or it's girls who were indoctrinated by r9k and /b/ to think this is all normal.

Anonymous 80855

>>80853
Oops I forgot to finish my first point.

As much as I admire and respect my eldest brother, I'd never want to date or fuck him no matter how shitty other men are. I respect him too much for that and i want hint to be happy and have his own life.

Not to mention that it IS possible to find men who are quality. You have to put effort into yourself and not settle for less. My boyfriend is finishing up college, cooks and cleans for me, is kind, generous, and loving, isn't corrupted by porn/4chan/etc, has productive hobbies, will do anything I ask of him and extra (like once I commented that there's no light in our closet and not only did he purchase lights for it that he rigged up but he also bought organizers and reconfigured things in the closet to give me more clothing space because he knows how much I like clothes, but I never even asked for anything to be changed in the first place), isn't degenerate sexually but is able to fulfill my sex drive (2-3x a day), cares about his family members and my family members, my mental health, the list goes on. He is kind of similar to my eldest brother now that I think about it, but of course, my brother wouldn't be intimate with me mentally (and physically, duh) the way my boyfriend knows me. He also has improved over the course in our relationship at dealing with conflict.

But if you're into incest, that's a tall order imo to expect another man to be "good" to you in that same way, or to not see his own sisters in a specific way.

Anonymous 80864

>>80846
I'm amazed to this day that people still fail to understand what the Oedipus Complex is. I guess it comes with having never read the tale of Oedipus.

Anonymous 80865

>>80793
Theres something with you faggot.

Anonymous 80870

>>80853
Confusing consensual incest with incestual rape is probably running into an issue. You don't have to love your brother, but there's no reason they can't want to love or fuck their brothers. If it's consensual, there is literally nothing wrong with incest unless you're a eugenicist.

Anonymous 80871

>>80855
If you found out one day that your boyfriend is actually your long lost brother, would you still stay in a relationship with him?

Anonymous 80872

>>80783
>all I wanted to do was throw my dress off and doink him until it hurt
so why didn't you?

Anonymous 80879

>>80870
Certainly if it's not consensual it's worse. But consensual incest, assuming you both grew up and knew each other as siblings, is still going to have other repercussions that are not purely genetic in nature (which I mentioned). Not to mention power dynamics will nearly always be present in some way, shape, or form in "consensual" incest relationships. If a kid sister turns 18 and starts to fuck her incel 21 year old brother, it's extremely tricky territory to protect the potential power dynamic of her brother being an elder sibling. That fact alone contributes to the consideration of whether that is "consensual". I mean, consider how molesters within families where the kids are both underage operate - they don't always know they're molesting, but they're profiting off the power dynamics their younger siblings is subjected to by being their younger sibling.

Idc if it's a long-lost situation or something, though note those are generally fetishized scenarios by outside parties and they rarely occur in real life. In the cases that does occur, though, I think they shouldn't breed preferably, but by all means, get married, have a life together. Do you.

>>80871
I'd still date him because we did not grow up in the same family.

Anonymous 80880

>>80879
>Not to mention power dynamics will nearly always be present in some way, shape, or form in "consensual" incest relationships.
This is so vaguge, power dynamics exist in literally any human relationship that has ever existed, what is the level of "power" that has to exist for the concept of "consent" to be thrown out the window? I thought the entire point of consent as a concept is individuals can own their bodies and make decisions for themselves. If you believe in "power dynamics" you can't mutually believe in consent at the same time.

Anonymous 80903

>>80879
Would you date your brother if he wasn't your brother?

Anonymous 80911

>>80903
This is such a silly, false question because you would never know your brother to the extent you do if he wasn't your brother. Assuming this isn't just some shitty moid LARP, anon would probably think her brother was an asshole like everyone else and never have the opportunity to know him in-depth.

Anonymous 80933

>>80598
can you tell him to come fuck me

Anonymous 81032

>>80903
No. He is a devout christian and I am atheist. Barring that and the fact he physically disgusts me despite the fact I am aware he is conventionally attractive to others, I would. But it grosses me out to think about because I know him as my brother. I have no interest in him.

Anonymous 81035

>>80880
>If you believe in "power dynamics" you can't mutually believe in consent at the same time.
Let me demonstrate. If a daughter decides to get into a relationship with her father (who raised her since she was a baby) once she turns 18, how likely is it that that relationship is going to be fair and equal when she has acted in the parent/child relationship power dynamic for so long? She is at considerable risk that her father will treat her in an unequal way because of this dynamic. Even if her father treated her lovingly in the relationship, the dynamic still remains, likely has unhealthy results, and can easily, easily be abused. Consider why 13 year olds in school having relationships with their teachers is considered unsafe, even if the teacher really does have an interest in the person they're in a relationship with.

With most siblings, it's not an equal relationship. Most sibling relationships have order instilled in them (elder vs. younger) and look at each other, depending on this order, usually. They also might have special roles assigned to each other from a young age. The point is, if they grew up with each other, the potential for inequality in the relationship, as well as abuse, is huge. Ask people who are molested by siblings - it's often not a clear cut "someone didn't want it". The sibling's relationship to each other was utilized for access that usually wouldn't be granted. The same would apply to a potential relationship once a person's 18.

I mean, consider how that would impact certain scenarios - you could groom relationship partners for yourself and legally nothing could stop you as long as long as they hit a certain age. Obviously, this isn't the main situation I'm thinking of in my above responses, but it's an opened up possibility.

I think of it similar to the legal age of consent isn't technically necessary in that I'm sure there have been positive relationships of 12 year olds with 20 year olds, etc. But, the age of consent provides a certain protection to its victims.

Anonymous 81074

>>80783
So… the femcels are afterski responsible for the incest shit on pornhub huh?

Anonymous 81088

>>80577
Yeah, that sounds like a great way to end up old and alone.

I think I'll pass.

Anonymous 81204

find on campus, message him on instagram. is it that hard for you?



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