/neetgen/ - NEET General Anonymous 55098
How do you guys convince your parents to pay for your stuff? i had a taste of the neet life during quarantine and i don't want to go back…
I miss drawing ;-; I don't know why but I lost all motivation to participate in any of hobbies which sucks because i just want to be good at something, anything.
If only i could find a wife and gay marriage was accepted in my country anon…
That's what some male NEETs unironically think female NEETs should do.
They don't seem to understand that there's a big difference between someone who dreams of being a traditional stay-at-home mother with two kids and a working husband versus someone who "wants" to lead a NEET life with no responsibilities and gets told to just get married.
Some NEETs who are healthy and able end up this way because they want to avoid and run away from real life due to mental illnesses or bad life experiences and faliures. Looking for a husband would be too much work, too much real life.>>55108
Depends on what you mean by stuff. Food and tampons? Or gaming consoles and art supplies?
I'm not a NEET but I had a roommate who was mostly a NEET for 3+ years (she had 2 jobs she quit after a few months since it was too stressful), she had rich parents who funded her lifestyle because she was "working on her mental health". To rely on parents funding your NEET life you just have to get lucky and have ones with a certain personality type.
I mean food, rent and power. It's so alien to me because my parents made me work and study since young, even when i was suicidal because of it, and i still am to this day. Spending these few days at home has been heaven for me, i wish i could just focus on resting and getting better and not on controlling my panic atacks while on the clock.
Sorry for the vent friend, not what you asked for.>>55211
Hmm i see. Good for her, it's nice to have this backup.
>and has a good job
If they had good jobs, they'd have bought themselves gfs already.
Leeching off of people who aren't my immediate family is reprehensible in my eyes. I wouldn't do it.>>55226
i'm currently a neet. a broke neet. it sucks.
i was a half-neet but, after how shitty this semester went, i'm taking a break from school.
currently trying to figure out how to write a resume when i have 0 job experience, an unfinished cs degree (i can't do much more than solve c++ toy problems atm), and abysmal social skills.
if i'm lucky, i'll get one of these online jobs i'm drooling at.
like right now my realest goal is just to save up enough for a new laptop/desktop/etc. and ~70 for my meds. thinking $1200 monthly until the end of this year would be damn nice
cross your fingers for me cc x
>>55104>wake up at 4pm>check websites on my phone first >get up and go on the computer to browse the internet more>after a few hours cook a large meal which will be the main meal of the day>clean and watch a few episodes of tv>at 1-2am my brain is too tired of screens so i read 50-100 pages of a book>watch youtube or more tv after until sleep at 6am>>55119
Me too, I've been trying to pick up some new ones to replace browsing the internet but I give up after a few days. Maybe start off forcing yourself to do it for 10 minutes each day and see how it goes.>>55210
Exactly, many of the people who end up like this have mental issues that won't work out in relationships.
having an existential crisis about leeching off of my bf/living in his house.. his roommates almost never notice my presence but i am a parasite…
>wake up around noon
>go on my phone until my back starts hurting and i am forced to stretch
>play video game, browse internet
>listen to podcasts or music
>sometimes write or play instruments badly
>watch movies/anime until my bf comes home
>then watch him play games or watch tv together until we pass out
If they hardly notice you, how are you a parasite?
currently unemployed and not enrolled in school this summer semester so ive been a parasite for my brothers the whole time.
>wake up around 9am
>get ready in bathroom
>cook breakfast and clean kitchen
>be on my phone and cuddle dog for the next few hours
>play video games
>use phone and read stuff before bed
my sister-in-law is weird as hell though, she got mad i used some of her cheese to cook and my brother was so fed up with her petty complaints about me that he filled the fridge with $70 worth of cheese.
to summarize the last part, my SIL has been annoyed by me being a NEET in their house even though my brothers don't care. I understand her its irritating but she also is the type to hide HER toaster or cups I use often.
That's a normal thing for your brothers to do, to host you if you're in university without a summer job. You should maybe try to find some petty work to do anyways though.
i was a neet for almost a year until just recently
this was my routine:
>wake up at noon
>read a book
>browse imageboards and messages
>watch tv (anime/movie)
ngl it was great and i miss it but earning money feels nice too because I get to buy things for myself without relying on my mom.
ive been job hunting but so far have been rejected by a couple of places, but i'm still applying left and right.
do you help out with cooking for others and cleaning bathrooms and shared areas?
dodgerpill? dodger’s definitely not a neet.
i do, i actually clean the entire house while everyone is at work. its the least i could do while i have all this freetime
Anyone else here with an addiction to mindless internet browsing and reading comment sections due to being a NEET? I want to get over it but it's too difficult.
All of you are so productive; drawing, learning languages, playing instruments or at least finishing a couple of TV episodes every day.
More than half of my day is filled with reading posts and comments on forums about relationships, dating and "life topics". What do men think about X, why do people think that Y, is it true that Z and so on and so forth. When I read news, I only skim the top third of the article and immediately scroll down to read other people's opinions. Sometimes I participate in discussions and waste the whole day refreshing and waiting for replies. I can't even concentrate on other things anymore.
The experiences of other people greatly interest me because I'm not really living life now. Doing this makes me feel as if I wasn't missing out on everything. Talking to strangers on the internet (excl. obvious trolls) makes me feel better because the only people I interact with irl are my family. The few friends I have moved away right after high school and we talk infrequently.
Before I know it, another day is over. Nothing finished, nothing done. Wake up, rinse and repeat. Pls help.
I'm in the same situation. I found myself browsing lolcow for the same reason even though I don't particularily care for the people posted there. A reason for me is simply boredom.
Currently I'm getting pressured into getting a driver's license. I think it's useful as I will have to work together with someone else. In other words, it won't be as easy to slack off as I have to practise the actual driving. Maybe getting some sort of goal like that would help you as well? A goal that involves doing something with someone else so you both can check on each other and do the task.
Hope everyone else in this thread is also doing well.
Same here. I stopped being active in my creative hobbies to refresh the same boring sites every day and daydream about the projects I could be doing if I didn't live in a small isolated town.
Now I obsessively read lolcow, ONTD, and Reddit comments and don't do much else at all.
Only when I'm incredibly stressed and coping.
This happens to me too. I have no interest in dating irl but I somehow end up reading forums and threads about relationships and things like divorce. Also I constantly just google random thoughts that come into my head to see if other people have anything to say about it. I wish I could spend my time researching things I'm actually interested in but I guess that would require more mental effort to engage with it and doing this almost replaces a social life as you mentioned. All I can say is try to recognize when you're doing it and gather the strength to get off the computer and do something else.
I haven't been outside in 2 years and I don't think I'm going to get better anytime soon. I wish I had a shut in friend who's in the same boat to share feels with. Exchange music, anime/mangas, tv shows/movies or talk about and share opinions about everything really. I think internet's toxicity is getting to me and I don't know what to do.
how old are you anon? what do you like?
I wish we had more women here and we could set up a little club. Or you wouldn’t have to wait a whole week for someone to respond. I effectively live as a NEET because I have all the money I need and my “job” (it’s nothing like conventional work) has no rigid schedule most of the time and leaves me with the “freedom” to do nothing at all the rest of the time.
I am only 20 years old and wasting my life alone. My mother and father have been dead for three and four years, respectively. I have nothing but online interactions. Nobody cares about me or anything I do; moids only because they want to fuck me, and other women already have friend groups and have little in common with a lonely loser like me. I wish we could all be close to one another in real life and none of us would have to be lonely. Without moids, without toxicity, only love and support. >>57065
I used to do this all the time. Try Adderall, it’s completely possible that you have ADHD. Part of the reason I did this was that I’m autistic (so I’d look up little things and insignificant events to try and learn literally every scrap of knowledge I could about them), but that doesn’t really cause this for many people.
>>55284>Exactly, many of the people who end up like this have mental issues that won't work out in relationships.
i was in a relationship for 7 years and my ex was a half neet and so was i. we both worked <20 hours a week bc we're both autists and wanted to play vidya more than we wanted extra money
after covid hit my city i lost my job and now i'm on neetbux. never getting off them i'm fully embracing the femcel lifestyle
>>67284>my “job” (it’s nothing like conventional work) has no rigid schedule most of the time and leaves me with the “freedom” to do nothing at all the rest of the time.
What is your job? I made a post here >>>/feels/46015 and that kind of job sounds like it would actually fix my whole life. I have minimal needs and could live comfortably on only like 500 euro a month, but every single employer wants 40 hour/week wageslaves. I tried a couple of those jobs, all varying trades, but they drain the soul out of my body and make me suicidal. I'm desperate for options
It's similar to full-time crypto trading, but not really. It helps to have money that you've been saving up and can invest, like from an inheritance.
It's not really as hands-off as it seems, it's just that I have enough saved up to where if I don't really feel like doing anything, I don't and just chill wasting my time. I can't bring myself to do it if I don't feel like it.
neet life can get pretty depressing sometimes…i could work but my boyfriend says i don’t need to and he’d rather me focus on things i like! which im grateful for, albeit the bouts of depression from all the free time. however i plan to maybe begin classes in spring online so ill be semi-neet but at least doing something! it does give me time to exercise and do crafts/work on music and art to perhaps sell….ahh i dont know i think as im getting used to it again it is not so bad!
I've been NEETing for months but now I'm looking for work. I don't mind working but I can only do it part-time and I have no education so I'm just working low paying jobs. I'm lucky to live in a country with all the welfare. I was a total NEET for years after dropping out of school and I still have no social life and don't go outside much. I'm pretty much schizoid at this point from decade of isolated life.
I don't recommend anyone becoming a NEET just out of laziness or aimlessness. But I know that if you are mentally ill it's hard to live a normal life. I regret throwing away my whole life, I'm 30 and it feels like it's too late to change anything at this point. I used to think that I didn't care about being alone and broke, but the older I get the more I realize how much I've missed out on life. I can't even stand to read about people with friends, families and normal life because it stings so much so I stick to really unrealistic fiction.
Being a housewife sucks lol.
But my life isn't a total trainwreck, I would be OK if I didnt live in a hotzone. Fuck corona.
I'm waiting for my boyfriend and I to move together, so I can neet off of him. I want to be his stay-home wife so badly. I don't mind cooking and cleaning a little, but the outside world seems a bit too much to me. I'm a sperg and a social recluse and I feel unable to work or do anything but be with him. I don't know why am I this way.
How did you get a boyfriend despite being a self-described sperg and social recluse? Did you start out as friends? Fellow recluse here, but without bf nor friends.
He and I went together to the same middle school, became friends by chance, stopped talking when we started high school and fell in love when I texted him a few months ago to check on him (I was very lonely, and so was he.)
I hate this image so goddamn much. You can't be a fucking neet if you fucking work.
god i agree its dumb, it's literally just being lazy outside of work
that's the joke. also being a neet is not a badge of honor. imagine being proud of being a leech.
There's been a lot of "elite neet" characters in manga lately.
i guess i consider myself an neet but i really wanna get a job to support my habits im not talking like wageslave stuff but i wish i could like work for someone as a assistant online or irl just me and them :( idk how to find a job like that but i do want something like that and all i want is a female friend that is similar to me which is hard im so picky idk what to even do im so anxious and im soso worried everything is too much im extremely sad and i just feel like venting sry
i'm currently a NEET right now, i think. i don't have a job and i stay at home all day, it's officially been a year since i became one. i start college in the fall after taking a gap year
i got a apprenticeship interview on friday wish me luck
Does it become harder to learn after long-term neeting and ALSO was it fun to have that much freedom with your time? :)
I think I've found my golden mean now. I started a job a few weeks ago. Work from home, 4-6 hours a day taking inbound calls and reading information from an internal wiki. Ideally I would not be taking calls but doing online chat instead, but I'd get too distracted tbh (I used to do that in an office and still got too distracted). At least I can work on my social skills a little. Calls come in maybe once per half hour and take 2-3 minutes each, so whenever I fuck up I tell myself that I can start fresh with the next random stranger. And I have lots of downtime to do internet shit.
So in a way I still consider myself a NEET because I barely work and it's from the comfort of my own bed and it's not a living wage, and I still don't ever leave the house unless it's to get food.
The dream, how'd you find a job like that?
I saw an opening for a hotline providing covid vaccine information, so I uploaded my CV on a whim and they called me the next day. Interviewing was very informal and I didn't have to show up in person or even do a video call. I'm lucky because everything I've done so far was very heavy on empathetic communication and that's what they were looking for the most. It's going to end in 6 months but according to the other employees it's common to switch to a different project within the company, so I might stay there if it stays this nice. My callers are super nice so far, even when they're frustrated, and I had my first antivax conspiracy theorist yesterday, so that was fun and entertaining. Having a pretty good time so far
Finally made it out of NEET-dom, bros. I lost my job because of Corona schedule complications a couple months ago and just started my new one that pays even better than the last. It was so scary, this month was the last month I could pay rent and I've already lost 8lbs(128-120lbs) because I had to cut my food spending. I was so anxious and scared but the only good things that came out of it were me learning Live2D and I started voice chatting with my uni friends again. I don't have any friends in the town I'm in, so they're the only people I talk to around my age and the only time I'm really social anymore. Sorry to blog so much, but I'm so damn happy right now, I'm going to try to reconnect with some of my other female friends I haven't spoken to in ages.>>73866
I hope you did well, fren!
i'm curious if any neets actually dream of being a housewife? and no i'm not a moid, just a lesbian with a soulless corporate job and an empty apartment who kind of wants a cute nerdy neet wife who cooks for me
tfw no gf
i qualified for disability somehow thanks to my friend who works at a health insurance place for students (???), 1.5k every 2 weeks, wtf. all for >le depression. the lady who was helping me sign up for health insurance in december and the disability told me not to get diagnosed with adhd for some reason…idk it was weird. but holy shit. neetbux soon. life is meaningful again now that i can become a comfy NEET again
Wtf. I’m mad that I have a job and you make more than me.. where are you from? Are you American?
Damn, sis, you must've gotten some string pulled because they never give disability for just depression unless you have the absolute worst case of it, assuming you live in the US. An ADHD diagnosis might negate your disability because it would require a different treatment plan, I'm not sure, though. Getting money from the government is complicated.
honestly i'd love to be the housewife of an accomplished woman with an office job that sounds rather cute
American, I live in the south, its more money ive ever made in a job as well>>74496
Turns out my friend's boss at the insurance place that helped me with my disability and health insurance this year knows her way around the system really well…my official diagnosis is just depression and anxiety but i think she just milked it rly well. my main issue is ADHD and im seeing a specialist next month for that, but im concerned having an official diagnosis will fugg me up with health insurance plans. it's way too complicated for its own good. i just wanna be functional and be covered health insurance wise
there are so many job opportunities, I mean not good ones, but still - a job.
and I have no willpower to apply to any.
I guess I am afraid to lose my free time, and what for:
normally it's about 300$ for fulltime shitjob here
I mean, technically you can find something better, even with close to no experience - being an active person, with lots of networking and stuff, but I am somehow afraid to even step there, I feel I just don't belong, all this is so alien to me, I just want to be chill and minimize all possible stress in my life
idk, I know I can do something - I have no mental or physical disabilities, I am not really sociophobic - but I am not doing it, isn't that dumb
I've been a NEET for… 1 year and some change now. I sort of despise myself because I feel like a lazy piece of shit, but at the same time… I don't want to work either. What I want most of all is to go back to school, but then I guess I'd have to work afterwards. I'd like to go to school for the rest of my life, because I enjoy learning and that's about it.
God I'm such a leech. >>74424
that sounds really nice actually. I'd like to cook and clean. Iron shirts, all that jazz.
NEET and hikikomori for nearly a decade.
-I get NEETbux and am exempted from having to find work because mental issues but not yet disability despite doctors signing me off for it however I am getting some special social services and soon will be able to get a cleaner come and people help me with daily functioning
-I reached the point where I honestly hope I never work but extra money would be nie despite not ever needing to spend any
I like the NEET life but hate it as well I do wish I could enjoy what normals enjoy and have worked in the past. I think eventually you just accept you are who you are limitations and all and once you quit fighting against yourself you feel at peace in a way even if still suicidal. Once anhedonia strikes hard and you no longer have hobbies and no mental energy to read anything other than manga you are sort of fucked and spend your time online not really doing anything.
Holy shit… Ten years? Mind if I ask how you managed that?
>>75285>Holy shit… Ten years? Mind if I ask how you managed that?
Ok a little confused by what you mean I am happy to answer questions though but I am unsure what you are asking? I managed it because I am unable to work I do not think I am that bad but doubt I could work however my psychologist and psychiatrists say in writing I am severely mentally ill.
I just feel normal except miserable and prone to getting strange thoughts and all that but I guess I am lucky? I wish I was normal and able to work plus enjoy it and living a regular life but nothing is worth doing.
Im feelin greasy, gals. I havent baffed in quite a while. Anyone else have shit hygiene?>>73844
i shower frequently but ive had bloody sheets and floors for months
how do you make enough money to be neet?
Lived 7 years using parents' pensions to fund my loser lifestyle, before finding a few temp jobs.
god i want to be a neet gf who cooks and cleans and supplies endless kisses to my cute lesbian gf
im currently neet but just got hired for a little part time job and im extremely nervous and want to quit and leech off my bf not because im lazy but because im so anxious and i dont drive and worry i wont be able to find ubers…its hard to in my area. but i want to give him gifts and be financially okay again. and then i think about the fact that i struggle to work fulltime…i dont know what to do can i apply for disability
I'm nearly at four years of NEEThood and I'm starting to think it's not for me.
what are you going to do…
how to escape the neetvortex
I wish I can earn enough money from art commissions so I can stay at home. I want to be a NEET. The only jobs i can get is in customer service and I hate people.