Post things you like about yourself!
(Don't say "nothing," that is not allowed!!)
I try really hard to be nice to everyone
I love my friends and family
I'm excellent at petting dogs
My powerlevel is higher than everyone I know IRL
At my best I had a 28 inches waist and 40 inches hips, and I used to love that lmao
Now I am literally a 32 waist chan with 44 inches hips, >feelsbadman.jpg but at least I am working on losing it again.
>very kind>patient>artistic talent>won a few small awards because of said talent>enjoy the work I do despite it not paying much>self taught myself a few things that are said to be hard to learn without help/a teacher
I genuinely try to be a good person even when people are rude or mean to me on purpose. This may be a weakness sometimes depending on the situation, but most of the time I think it shows strength and that I have a good heart.>>6014
You sound cute as fuck, anon
I get along very well with cats.
I am pretty good at baking stuff, even if it's just from a box mix. My friends and family always say that the baked goods I make taste extra good.
I like that I enjoy my own company.
That's about it.
>I am extremely, sometimes overwhelmingly empathetic
> genuinely see the good in almost everyone/ am nice to everyone
> have a very broad range of interests/ taste
> i have good hair naturally and have finally grown it out/ embraced the curls
> usually learn new things/ adapt to changes easily and quickly
> hourglass body type
> naturally long nails/ slender fingers
> impeccable talent for finding gems while thrifting
> really good at bullshitting academic papers/ making it seem like i'm smarter than i am and know what i'm talking about
> good natural sense for comedy/ humor
i'm honestly surprised i made a list this long, i'm sure the self-hate list would be WAYYY longer but hey this is an accomplishment. thanks for making this OP!
Oh, a rare indulgence…
>I'm not helpless
>I push people to do their best
>my hobby is my fulltime job
>it pays well and I am a company co-owner
>I picked a kind and loving guy rather than some moneybag or airheaded chad
>in the past I did shitty things, I acknowledge that and changed my attitude, not because I was caught, but because I finally understood love.
>generally very big on love
>In a very good relationship with my family
>finally over my "hardcore" phase
Normally I'd compensate for the bragging by shit-talking myself afterwards, but I'm over feeling guilty for being happy.
wow that's legit my old and new measurements.
as for the topic.
>kind>empathetic (too empathetic according to my therapist)>strong willed, and strong in general>loving
this thread makes me happy! everyone sounds really sweet and kind~
Wow, what are the odds lol Are you 5'9 too by any chances?
sorry for OTness
you sound so ~*wise*~, anon! i don't know how else to describe you (sorry) but you seem really sweet and like you've got your head screwed on right.
>i like that i've grown up and changed from who i was before. i was a terrible person and i did a lot of things i wish i could take back but i'm happy i can own up to them now and i've apologized to those i've hurt and learned from all of my mistakes.>being vegan for 4 years makes me feel good for the environment, animals and my health. it also shows that i /can/ discipline myself and stay passionate about something.>very nurturing person~ i love taking care of animals, family and friends.>excellent at housework! i love feeling like a good mom or wife>i'm happy with my interests/what i like even though it can be tough looking for new friends online and irl who like the same things >petite asian 4'11 30-22-30 with smol feet 4.5 >pale skin even though i wish to be a bit paler>round brown eyes for azn>perky c-cup boobs>and lastly i like that i was able to list down things i actually like about myself~!
it feels nice but really weird so i might post in the things that make you angry about yourself thread to balance it out
>laidback and patient
>love to make people laugh
>people trust me enough to open up and spill all their bottled-up feelings and problems to me
Aha, I already a list of things in the self-hate thread so I'm surprised I don't hate myself as much as I thought I did when I was typing this up. Thanks for the cute thread OP~ All of you sound lovely <3
I'm really good at my job. I like the shape of my legs and think they're erotic. I'm creative. I've been very selfish my whole life and I'm actively working to fix that and do better in my relationships.
This going to be a hard one, but I like it!
I probably need to do this, anyway.
>I take good care of my s/o
>I have a high level of empathy and I do my best to always be kind
>I am super polite
>My face is ok
>my body is ok
>I don't have to style my hair because I like the way it sits naturally
>I have big boobs for my size and sometimes I like them
>I am a big reader, and I like to learn a lot from books
>My ex shattered me and my heart into a million pieces but I learnt so much from it and became a better, stronger person through it all
Thank you, OP <3
I'm kind to animals and I managed to be nice enough to attract the boyfriend of my dreams.
That's it, though.
I feel like you could probably add 'modest' to your list <3
I believe I have a ~pure heart~. I'm not even joking.
Oops, I forgot to attach the gif. Ta daaa.
>Good at DDR and Civilization
>Pass for female to strangers in public when presenting female
>My partner thinks I'm cute and funny
>Instructors have praised me for my essays and research papers
>Succeeded at losing and keeping off 20 lbs
>Made serious progress regarding social anxiety. 4 years ago, I spoke to about 4 people outside my house and had immense fear of talking to strangers or authority figures. Nowadays, I have many friends and acquaintances and can do alright with strangers.
Mod's note: added ban message for clarification.(YOU CANT SIT WITH US)
Tall, come to terms with my personality and flaws, including my comedically crazy mind and train of thought. And I'm happy I really enjoy being polite and as kind as possible to people, it's kind of sad how rude people can be nowadays.
>>7476>>Pass for female to strangers in public when presenting female
Big eyes, sweet voice and kindness
I never give up, I'm a giving person.
I was proved once again yesterday and I like to be fair and reasonable even when the thing I want/am against is being given to me. I need to feel I'm being fair to the other people involved otherwise it's a no-no. Personally i don't think I know how many people like me, so go me…?
I'm kind to outsiders and the unfortunate. I never judge people whoa re doing really bad in life.
I like that I'm never late. I think I've been late to something like twice in my life. Most of the time I'm even early. This is really the only positive thing I can say about myself, and I think the reason I find this important and worth liking about myself is because I hate when people are late. I just feel like it's not that hard to be on time. I of course understand if you're late every once in a while, I mean shit happens, but some people I work with are CHRONICALLY late to fucking everything. I especially get irritated when a customer shows up late to my job and expects me to be able to take care of them right away at the expense of the other customers that were on time. You have ONE fucking job: show up on time and I will be able to help you on time and get you out of your appointment on time so you can be on your way.
My therapist asked this question and I said "I try my best to be nice." Seems like such a lame non-answer but I do.>>86274
I try to be a good person and I have really big tits>>6015
You sound sweet anon
I'm really respectful with people and I have no motivation to be malicious or mean to anyone for any reason. I guess it's easy to be like that when you're a schizo hikikomori with no interest in socializing or developing relationships, but I still find it a good trait 'cause people who are nice and patient for no reason always make me happy.
It's funny how we all list niceness/politeness because we have nothing else going for us and really that niceness is partly just a coping mechanism for feeling so unpleasant and nervous around other people.
Talk for yourself, I just didn't wanna suck my own ass and sound like a narcissist.
yeah i know what you mean. i don't have a malicious agenda because i don't care for people. i don't feel the need to exploit my relations with others, unlike some other people who just use each other to get ahead by faking niceness
I'm really good at rhythm games lol I guess that's it.
If your niceness/politeness is a fucking cope I feel bad for you. You're probably a doormat if that's what you're projecting.
I really should see myself in a positive light more often.
>nice, generous, and empathic towards others (like sharing snacks or giving tissues)>making and seeing people happy (drew pictures for friends of their favorite characters back in high school)>artistic talent (drawing and crafting)>open-minded>clean/organize when neccessary and feel good about it>somewhat eco-friendly (recycle aluminum cans, glass, and plastic bottles and keep unwanted materials for arts and crafts)>happy about my interests and the things I got into (anime/manga, cartoons, video games, music, art, cute stuff, etc.)>good at SSBU (main Isabelle)
I have been given my directive and time to act on it. I can ask for no more.
I like that I am motherly
I like that I am determined
I like that I am perceptive
you seem like such a sweetheart and a good friend nonnie, love yourself
I'm actually very nice and quite clever and I'm sick of being made to feel otherwise. Putting myself first sometimes doesn't make me selfish and not being interested in pursuing a full on career as fast as I can doesn't make me stupid.
I'm a nice person, I take care of my friends, I'm academic when it suits me, and I know that I want to avoid being trapped in a career. Theres nothing wrong with these things
I like that I can be someone people come to for advice even if it's not what they want to hear.
I like that I can keep getting up after being knocked down.
moon bunny fuentes…
This might be a bit hard for me, but I will do my best.>I now see how beautiful my body really is and how amazing it is to have a functioning body>I have an hourglass figure and I am proud that I finally learned how to dress my body up without feeling frumpy>I have a diverse taste in the music that I love>I love trying new hobbies, and because of that I have a lot of random skills on my belt>I have improved so much as an artist, if a younger version of me saw my art, she would think It was professional>I love learning about the arts and it's something that I never want to stop learning>I am actually very in touch with my emotions and I happy cry alot>I do my best to help my disabled family members and I am learning to be more patient and compassionate every day>I have become alot more self aware rather than self conscious>I am doing better at managing my own loneliness and instead filling it with more positivity and God> Even though I am naturally blunt and oblivious, I do my best to be more understanding of others
I have to admit I have alot of flaws that bother me as a person, and sometimes I feels like I am not getting any better and I will always stay stagnant. I have been trying to find more positives of myself and this post helped me realized more of my positives. I hope that I can think about these throughout my day, so I can be positive towards others but also myself. Thank you OP!
Ugh I’ve been avoiding this thread.
Ok well I like my hair and my skin. Also I like the fact I’m smart enough to understand most things.
>>6014>I'm pretty smart (I'm interviewing for a tenure track job and my thesis is distinctly terfy, so that's pretty cool and I'm very nervous!)>I'm reasonably funny >I can confidently say I'm not a pick-me>I'm vegan
I am smarter and better than everyone else around me but also worse at the same time. Often I sit and ponder how the brains of the masses work, is it like my brain but if I was sleep deprived with perpetual brainfog? I bet I can't even imagine because even in that state I am still smarter and more intelligent.
FYI I am looking for tips on how to simulate the braindeadedness of the masses. Its the one thing I CAN'T comprehend, processing things THAT slowly and inefficiently.
ask me how i know you're still in middle school.
>pavlov reflex the post
Normies are indeed animals.
Otherwise they wouldn't be so religiously obssesed normality and conformity.
>>173397>Normies are indeed animals.
I bet you are so different though, you are the epitome of original thought and independence. God, people like you are insufferable.
i like you nona and i agree. people feel threatened by the fact they are not special and some notice
you two should get married and write some ayn rand tier drivel about exceptional individuals while actually believing that you belong in that group
You do that. Don't forget to take these twice a day when reality hits.
I am >>173385
and was joking but it is indeed hilarious how people get triggered when confronted with the fact that some people are exceptional and others aren't. Eternally assblasted they don't fall in that camp so they brand anyone who is capable of recognizing their exceptionality (without even knowing a damn thing about them) as arrogant and and try and prove them otherwise, despite not actually knowing anything about them.
No one gets this upset about anyone claiming to be anything else which is how you can tell its just seething deep rooted jealousy. >love urself :)
<nooo not like that
hmm only if theyre small tablets i have a hard time swallowing the big ones
Most people who refer to themselves as exceptional are coping with their mediocre existence.
this is exactly what i think. i wish there was still a friend finder thread so we could talk
My first post in this convo, but don't you think it's also a knee-jerk cringe reaction to such a difficult to prove claim? I mean, to claim to be exceptional is…well, an exceptional claim. How do you back it up? Saying "I know I am exceptional because I FEEL exceptional" makes you seem a bit delusional since exceptional people are by definition rare and not the norm. What exactly makes you exceptional? Do you have any solid proof?
If I claimed to be a one-in-a-million beauty everyone would tell me to post a pic or shut up, for example.
NTA but nothing about that post could be attributed to Pavlovian conditioning. Congratulations on revealing yourself to be a midwit who uses terms they don't understand.
nta and your point is valid, but i do think people get annoyed over someone pointing out most people are average because they feel insecure about being so. if someone was at peace with their condition, they wouldn't lose their shit over someone claiming theyre of above average intelligence, looks and whatever else. they would either not believe it and move on, or be like huh so it's like that, but not go umm noa actually ur stupid n uggo and not actually special u brat lolll
actually that was a pretty bright response to the post. people post that stupid seething normie pic as the standard response to everyone who thinks theyre not average lol
>>173421>If I claimed to be a one-in-a-million beauty everyone would tell me to post a pic or shut up, for example
Also because they are jealous. Its also an outrageous claim to be the dumbest person on earth or a deformed troll, but if someone posted "I have a severe deformity" people wouldn't start seething and demanding proof, if anything a few curious people would ask for pics but that is it.
Its also because special people are trained to believe they are normal and told that if they indulge their exceptionality they are "arrogant" because normies fear the change exceptional people bring and ate obsessed with normalcy so they do their best to squash the exceptional. >>173424>>173426
it really wasn't a bright response and it would be a stretch to try and apply pavlovian conditioning to normies posting that meme. There is kind of a connection but not really and it was definitely shoehorned in there to sound smart.
>>173437>"I have a severe deformity" people wouldn't start seething and demanding proof
Sure, because why would anyone lie about that? Those are not symmetrical claims, there are different motivations involved. The heart of the matter really is that it is more likely that someone claiming to be exceptional is lying about it than telling the truth, because exceptional people are rare. Being exceptional elicits admiration and yes, jealousy, from mediocre people. So it only makes sense that they wouldn't want to throw those around to a fellow mediocre random larping for ego-inflation.
>>173440>Those are not symmetrical claims, there are different motivations involved.
They're on 2 ends of extremes, and it was to show the difference in people's reactions to claims on ends of extremes, disapproving that its a "proof" issue when people claim to be exceptional and that it is 100% a jealousy issue which you admitted.
I have a 22 in waist :p
I work hard. Like really fucking hard. One part in order to compensate for having been called "spoiled", "useless", and "ungrateful" my whole life and another so that I was able to get myself away of a life doomed to hikineetdom. If there's any redeeming trait I have at all, I've realized it's that I refuse to leave any stone unturned. I'm not very bright but I get shit done.
That's really a great quality, nona. I admire you. Keep up the good work.
NOOO WHY IS THIS CAT ABUSING THIS CHILD
How do you gain this mentality? I really need it. I don’t want to be a neet but I feel like that’s the path I’m heading towards
it was being edgy on the internet
im smarter than people around me
kind of true not lying too average iq in my country is 88
this site has a thing for seething whenever someone mentions they're smart
Thanks nona. It's the only way I've managed to survive this far in a notoriously hard major that oftens feels like you need to be pretty smart to do well in. >>173516
It's cliched, but I just found a goal I was autistically determined enough to work towards. In my case, thsat was Japanese because I really want to become fluent in it. Eventually that ended up increasing my discipline in other things as well. To be honest, I also had some life events happen. My grandma died and my mom moved out of the country to care for her, leaving me with pretty much no family around here to rely on. So that scared me into action. When you're alone and realize there's no one around to help you with anything anymore, that's a strong incentive in and of itself.
The only thing I can appreciate about myself is my body. I've always found training for sports a lot easier than everyone around me, staying fit requires less effort than with others and I've never needed to diet to maintain the figure I like.
This question always makes me cry, but I guess I sometimes like my art skill.
And I like that I still didn’t fuck up my friendship with that one precious person. A true miracle.
I'm mostly chill and good natured, but that backfires on me a lot. (A lot of people tend to try to get over on me and use me for their own ends
don't let the world wear you down, stay good despite it all
I'm more well read than 95% of the population. It's pretty useless but I think it's kewl.
It's very real, Anon.
i like listening to DSBM and thats probably my favourite thing about me
Which bands/projects do you like nona? I have been listening to Sadness (maybe not very BM but definitely DS).
ive been listening to:
NONE, leviathan, livelover, apati, amesoeurs, BSoD, make a change kill yourself
i got into xasthur about early 2019 and loved it since
Maybe it doesn't mean much to most other people but my favorite (and only skillset I have really) is knitting and I love being able to reverse engineer patterns, understand how something was made at a glance and coming up with ways to do stuff I wouldn't have thought of before.
I have a pretty great memory, especially with dates I was fascinated with calender dates. I can remember dates I met people and days important things happened, I used to feel like my brain was a timeline. I can take a class and not take notes and recall most of the material for the test to get an A without ever studying. I always mog people who study a lot despite not studying a word and not completing most of the work for the class.
I am passionate about whatever I'm doing, the problem is its usually only 1 thing consuming my life at a time. For a while it was writing and I'd write in a diary 3 ish hours a day. Then it was reading briefly and I'd read large texts in a short amount of time.
I think that's it…
Wow I love Lifelover, Xasthur and Amesoeurs, I'll check out the others nona! You sound cool.
I can construct good ideas and arguments on the fly with little information because of my mastery of basic principles of logic and logical fallacies. At times I've been able to construct arguments that end up being shortened and simplified versions of accepted academic theories without even knowing they exist. I can also reconstruct historical events "accurately" with little information.
Reverse engineering knitting patterns seems super complex and cool. I'm jealous of people like you with excellent memory. Can you easily visualize things in your mind's eye as well?
- I have a good relationship with my parents.
- Not the smartest but works hard and does well in academics
- Not depressed anymore
I don't judge people for not being successful(e.g. if you don't have friends or work), not mentally ill, not into extremist views(which I think are all are harmful), good relationship with family and significant one.
I don't understand how people can say "all extremist views are bad and unhealthy". Do people who say this realize that 100-200 years ago a lot of things acceptable today would have been "extremist"?
I'm not like that either but its such a dumb blanket statement. I don't think its actually intellectually driven but people just hate changes to norm.
>i’m cute :)
>i’m quick to cut people off because i respect myself
>i can write pretty decently
>i’m very resilient
>i don’t take no for an answer when it comes to my goals and aspirations
>i speak clearly and i am very articulate
>men call me a bitch
She didn’t say all extremist views are bad, extremist.
You sound like someone who would unironically describe themself as a girlboss.
Can you even read?>not into extremist views(which I think are all are harmful)