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Anonymous 10/11/20 (Sun) 10:00:37 PM 65317
Matchmaking is a fucking cringe
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 12:26:59 AM 65324
Skrzetuski is my fictional crush ngl. I need to rewatch the movie in my free time, thanks anon for the reminder.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 01:42:39 AM 65343
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>I'm a jobless, uneducated shit, i didn't finnish my school and lost my job 3 months ago due to the crisis, >and he is quite wealthy because he works as an engineer.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 01:50:16 AM 65346
>>65317 Where exactly do you live anon?
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 01:55:53 AM 65348
>>65317 You should both pretend to be in a manga and fake date so your parents leave you alone.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 01:58:03 AM 65350
>>65348 B-but if they do that they might actually fall in love! And there may be a bitchy rich girl rival also vying for his attention…
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 02:00:28 AM 65351
>>65348 This. And report the funny shenanigans here. It will be like a cliche romcom but for CC.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 07:39:25 AM 65372
>>65317 It's some old world shit practices pre-internet or hella older than that.
Your mum is basically trying to get you married the old fashioned way which sucks and is not even effective, quick or consistent. I respect the ovaries of your mom for having the guts to try to "help" you out and she probably doesnt realize she made everything more unconfortable.
Anyway is the guy cute at least? If not you should look elsewhere definitely who cares about career as long as the moid is consistent in providing, doesn't have to be super rich just one that can make you happy in every way. Money matters but there is such thing as enough, all of the other "Stats" must be balanced as well.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:20:45 AM 65389
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>>65343 thats right, after all
>>65346 Podkarpacie, pic rel
>>65372 >is the guy cute at least? He is quite cute, the problem is not how he looks but that we don't really know each other and all this situation is created by our mothers
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:30:01 AM 65391
>>65389 Get his Discord or something, no reason to not try and get to know him if he didn't seem completely repulsed by you.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:50:32 AM 65394
>>65391 I don't really need discord as we live in the same village, I could try to meet him to >explain him my mother's behaviour and try to make him like me more, especialy since back in school times he wasn't mean and unlike many other kids he didn't mock me for my father being a buisnessman
smuggler However, I already had 2 boyfriends and both of the relationships were total disaster, I'm probably to shy with my emotions.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:57:13 AM 65395
>>65394 >tfw no smuggler dad In any case, don't be afraid of trying to foster something good from a situation like this.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 09:13:46 AM 65398
>>65395 I think it's worth trying but he might be too confused the yesterday situation.
Also having a smuggler dad is awesome until he gets caught which happened when I was 7. 4 years later he died in prison hospital due to heart problems. My mum is a retired teacher. I also have an uncle (dad's brother) who was always nice to me and his son who is my only friend. My older sister works as a doctor in Warsaw, she always despised me and since she become a doctor she is even more haughty. I meet her only during christmas. After all, this family is quite strange to say the least.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 09:15:48 AM 65399
>>65398 Nah, sounds like a normal family.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 09:26:45 AM 65402
>>65400 Thanks. He was a smuggler but also a good man
>>65399 Well, at leased my parents didn't beat me when I was child.
I will try to meet him today and tell you what happened
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 02:33:53 PM 65439
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UPDATE
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 02:35:28 PM 65440
>>65439 That sounds nice. It's fine to pursue being friends with him even if it doesn't go anywhere romantically, you both sound kind of lonely.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 02:47:58 PM 65441
>>65439 This is so cute but makes me so anxious because what if he falls off?
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 03:33:26 PM 65447
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>>65440 Yeah, I'm quite lonely and he never was very sociable as well. He works online from his house and I don't really have anything to do now, I hervested my field in the summer, but now the harvest is over and I won't probably find new job soon cause there is no job for people with my
lack of education so I spent last few weeks watching movies and drinking before the screen which is definetely not the way of life I'd like to continue.
>>65441 I don't even want to think aboit it
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 03:52:16 PM 65450
>>65439 OP, you don't seem dumb. It sounds like you were better at humanities. Your English seems to be of a very high level. Have you thought about going to college (place between university and high school) and getting some qualifications? You could be an English teacher, translator or proof-reader.
Regarding the guy, maybe just get to know each other? He doesn't seem terrible and at the very least you will both have someone to hang out with. Make it clear to him you want to get to know each other a bit before deciding to properly date so he doesn't get the wrong idea.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 04:40:55 PM 65461
>>65450 I'm 25 years old and the train called "Education" has already departed, leaving me on a platform. I will be happy if I find a job allowing me to make some money because right now money from sale of grain and my mum's pension is all we have and I will never ask my sister for help
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:03:19 PM 65463
>>65461 Why has it gone? I started a second bachelors online at 29. Plenty of people retrain in their 30s and start a new career.
Have you thought about teaching or translating online? This page has good advice about becoming a translator without qualifications:
https://healthyfreelancers.com/how-to-become-a-translator-without-a-degree Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:19:52 PM 65464
>>65461 Have you thought about streaming? I'm not saying it's a serious "career", but just for now. I dropped out of college because of my mental illness and to be honest I don't plan to go back, I don't even want to be around people anymore. I want to try streaming video games and sell my art (until I find a job, and then maybe do both). Many young people started streaming because of corona.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:29:29 PM 65466
>>65463 I must say, that looks promising. Being a translator would be nice and I would't have to ruin my health working physically. Learning forgein languages was always quite easy for me, I can also speak Russian and German but not as well as English. Perhaps I still have some time.
>>65464 Nah, I didn't play video games for years now
except witcher 3 and I don't really enjoy them so streams wouldn't be interesting.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 05:47:37 PM 65469
>>65461 Anon, people start university at 25 and older, what's stopping you?
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:06:36 PM 65476
>>65469 I didn't finnish school so I can't go to university. Also, that would mean leaving my mother alone with the farm she can't handle on her own because of spine problems and I don't think that my sister would help her then.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:28:36 PM 65478
>>65476 You should make some plans for your own future. You should at least finish school somehow. Helping your mother out is a valid argument. She should help you too with stuff then. But you really should start attending evening school. Do you have a drivers licence? Get one too.
Stay realistic. Dreams are ok, but plans have to be realistic.
Protip: Ask him for help.
One m it's never to latet
You have
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:34:24 PM 65481
>>65317 >>65439 Alright everyone, taking bets now. How long until we see OP back in the thread again saying
>Update 3. Ok so we decided to try going out. He's actually a really great guy but I still hate matchmaking this one just happened to kind of work out by coincidence. >Update 4. He proposed to me! I've never been so happy, I still don't have a job but he says he doesn't care and will support me. Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:35:22 PM 65482
>>65478 For most things its never to late
You need to get things done
What did you do all these years?
Start working out at least
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:37:14 PM 65483
>>65476 Oh fug you cannot do high school online?
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 06:41:20 PM 65485
>>65481 10 bucks against it
She is just not presentable right now. I'm sorry.
Also he needs to move out first.
I'm sure this is his no1 priority rn. Until that nothing will happen. His mom is too controlling and mean.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 07:06:48 PM 65489
>>65485 >I'm sure this is his no1 priority rn doesn't work like that in eastern europe, especially in rural areas
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 07:17:20 PM 65492
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>>65478 Yes, I have a driver licence, but it's not very useful because I don't have a car. Finnishing school would be awesome but it's difficult to even sign up for clesses with all that covid19 stuff.
>>65482 >What did you do all these years? I did a lot of things. I was a barmaid for few months, than I worked in Sweden as a cleaner in a hotel for two years. Than I came back to Poland and worked in a shop for 3 years, until it got bankrupt, and then I worked in a factory of bottle labels until i was fired 3 months ago.
>>65485 >She is just not presentable right now Sad but true
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:05:28 PM 65495
>>65492 So you have been abroad. That's good.
Yes rn everything is closed down.
Hone your German skills.
Sell stuff on ebay. Get rid of things. Clean your place. clean your house. Paint some rooms.
Can you fix a place ad rent it out?
Buy a fiat polski, it must be very cheap.
Work on your ambition ffs!
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 08:11:01 PM 65497
>>65492 But absolutely focus on finishing school. You really sound like a sensible person. You can do it.
Anonymous 10/12/20 (Mon) 09:01:40 PM 65505
>>65476 Try a distance bachelors:
https://www.bachelorsportal.com/search/#q=lv-bachelor|mh-online Some universities have "access" courses for people without the right qualifications. The Open University in the UK takes literally anyone and asks for no qualifications.
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 01:48:11 PM 65582
ANOTHER UPDATE
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 06:59:23 PM 65600
>>65582 inb4 body of a girl found in the woods
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 07:34:36 PM 65606
>>65582 inb4 the mothers had it right all along
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 08:54:25 PM 65608
>>65600 she's in eastern poland. No body would be found. Bisons would eat it
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 10:06:11 PM 65610
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>>65600 I always carry gas and a knife so I'm not afraid of anything
Anonymous 10/13/20 (Tue) 11:04:43 PM 65611
>>65606 As I said, it's not romantic at all We have similar characters and get on well with each other. To be honest I found myself thinking about hin a lot today but it's probably because now when I'm unemployed he's the only man from outside my family I can talk to and he's clever and openminded so talking to him is nice
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 12:02:35 AM 65615
>>65611 This almost feels like a joke or a larp at this point with how blatantly you're falling into everyone's predictions.
It's like some kind of propaganda story you're just making up to convince people arranged matchmaking can be a good thing.
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 12:28:33 AM 65616
>>65317 >podkarpacie yeah, you do live in a shithole alright lol.
Now I feel bad for laughing, sorry
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 01:04:25 AM 65620
>>65615 Of course arranged marriages are bad and I'm not marrying anybody in any time soon. I'm just happy cause I made a friend, although circumstances were cringy as fuck. I was lonely for most of my life so now I might be quite excited but that's all.
Do not arrange marriages off your daughters Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 01:11:43 AM 65622
>>65620 Why are arranged marriages bad?
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 05:13:39 AM 65637
>>65622 Why would you restrict someone from finding someone they like and might even love? A lot of the times arrange marriages are selfish of the parents because they often do it for self-centered reasons. Such as money and stature.
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 05:51:33 AM 65641
>>65638
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 06:05:46 AM 65645
>>65638
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 06:06:38 AM 65646
Yeah the way this is going you'll be married in six months 🍳
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 06:09:06 AM 65647
I’m cognizant of the fact that arranged marriages are a cover for child grooming, sexism, exploitation, and other variants of quasireligious human trafficking in parts of the world
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 09:19:51 AM 65660
>>65648 It's technically possible but the rules don't allow it.
Anonymous 10/14/20 (Wed) 10:38:16 PM 65694
>>65611 What do you not like about him? Why is he not a potential partner for you?
Anonymous 10/15/20 (Thu) 12:27:59 PM 65717
>>65694 I don't want any partner cause all my previous romantic relationships ended in disaster and dishonor
Anonymous 10/16/20 (Fri) 01:45:04 PM 65763
>>65717 Were any of those relationships arranged by your mother?
Anonymous 10/16/20 (Fri) 01:49:07 PM 65764
>>65763 No, she probably wanted me to find somebody by myself but she lost hope now.
Anonymous 10/16/20 (Fri) 02:03:49 PM 65766
>>65764 Don't read your own insecurities into here, talk to her. Ask her why she chose him, and why he might be different from your other relationships.
Anonymous 10/16/20 (Fri) 02:33:11 PM 65767
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>>65766 My previous partners were assholes, my first bf seduced me, fucked me and left me. The second one cheated on me and was very proud of it, told my secrets to everybody and almost raped me once. Nonetheless I was with him for almost 2 years because I feared lonoliness.
I know he would be totally different, and my mother knows that too but it's hard to enter a relationship with all those memories and he really deserves someone better than me - being 25 yo uneducated neet says a lot about me.
Anonymous 10/16/20 (Fri) 09:05:35 PM 65793
>>65317 Seems like a funny and cute situation.
I wish my mom did this with some of her friend's sons. She would know better than me, so I wouldn't date assholes like I do now.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 12:33:17 AM 65803
Never met anyone online from the same area I'm from, I moved to the states when I was young all I remember is that south eastern Poland is a boring shithole.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 12:54:56 AM 65804
>>65767 >being 25 yo uneducated neet says a lot about me Not really, but the importance you give to formal education does portray you as very immature
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 01:30:12 AM 65805
>>65804 Considering getting a job that pays a living wage is difficult without a degree it isn't crazy to see people focus on it.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 06:38:30 AM 65834
It's not good anons. We were arranged to go to forest to pick some magical mushrooms. Than we planned to go to my house and eat them. I wanted the house to be warm during that, so I started to light the fireplace. I was cutting the wood and a piece of wood broke off and hurt my leg quite badly. I cleansed and dressed it and took some painkillers but it still hurts as fuck while walking.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 06:47:18 AM 65835
>>65834 Have him nurse you back to health. Perfect manga volume 2. ポーランドの母の見合い！
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 07:03:29 AM 65838
>>65835 When I called him and told him what happened he told that he would come and help me but I definitely don't want him to see me in such a pitiful condition
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 07:50:35 AM 65841
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>>65834 >>65835 That's a good closing scene for volume 2, him and you in front of the fire. Be careful though, in volume 3 your rival will appear, so prepare for misunderstandings.
Oh I wish that happened to me.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 08:16:46 AM 65843
>>65841 I just hope the scar won't be terrible, I don't my legs to be repulsive
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 04:54:06 PM 65878
>>65841 What would you do if you were OP?
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 11:21:26 PM 65909
I fucked up again. I should have agreed when he proposed to help me but I looked really bad and I tought my mother will help me. She planned to visit my sister and come back in Monday, but I assumed that her another daughter injuring her leg and staining half of the house with blood is enough for her to change plans. I was wrong. Birthday of my sister's husband is more important. Now I'm alone, and I can't stay in bed cause I must eat but every step is so painful. Moreover he surely feels rejected, because of my foolish pride. Fuck. All I wanted was some magical mushrooms and comfy time with him during my mother's absence. I'm a hopeless idiot. Sorry for this complaining, I really had to tell it to somebody.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 11:49:06 PM 65910
>>65909 Text him and explain the situation and ask if he is still able to help you a bit. How he reacts (comes right over vs makes an excuse) will give you an indication of whether he is worth your time or not.
Anonymous 10/17/20 (Sat) 11:54:48 PM 65913
>>65910 It's 01:53 AM in Poland now so I won't text him now, but I will surely do it in the morning
Anonymous 10/18/20 (Sun) 11:23:47 AM 65950
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OK, I texted him and he came to help me. I took on my longest skirt for him not to see my leg. He served me my breakfast, gave me painkillers and helped me with going to toilet. It didn't hurt as much as yesterday thanks to painkillers or companionship or both of them. Now he's gone to his house to cook dinner, he promised share it with me too. I feel quite guilty for using him but I have no other choice.
Anonymous 10/18/20 (Sun) 11:33:53 AM 65952
This thread is just so beautifully romantic.
Anonymous 10/18/20 (Sun) 11:39:53 AM 65953
>>65952 It's probably all made up, but honestly I am loving it.
Anonymous 10/19/20 (Mon) 03:49:10 PM 66117
>>65953 Yeah, my guess is that this thread is actually being run by a moid poster.
A polish moid whose mom tried to match make him with his childhood friend he hasn't talked to for years but because he's a fucking sperg he spilled all his spaghetti and now larps on here about her perspective if the initial date had gone better.
That's my headcanon at least.
Anonymous 10/19/20 (Mon) 04:23:07 PM 66118
>>66117 Girl: I'm a jobless, uneducated shit, i didn't finnish my school and lost my job 3 months ago due to the crisis,
Boy: He is quite wealthy because he works as an engineer, he always was clever, he is quite cute
Anonymous 10/19/20 (Mon) 07:06:39 PM 66122
>>66118 >>66117 Sounds perfectly in line with most of the relationships the posters on this site having.
Anonymous 10/19/20 (Mon) 07:24:37 PM 66124
>>66117 Same. I stopped believing this thread was real after OP responded with the most retarded fantasy ass fake shit ever.
Pics or didnt happen.
Anonymous 10/20/20 (Tue) 09:51:29 AM 66174
Yo OP, post a pic of your injured leg.
